I drive for a well known company and occasionally deliver to people who I feel I recognise from on here or who wear the ankle bracelet with the symbol to indicate they swing. Do you think a subtle hint such as have a Fab day would be something that they would pick up on or is it likely to be overlooked?
I wouldn’t want to be overtly obvious as it would be unprofessional and also they may not be interested.
Any ideas how to broach the subject with someone in such a situation please? |
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"After the first two comments I’m guessing I’m pretty naive and it’s best to always initiate contact on here! Thanks "
It's probably a bad idea to try to initiate anything like that while you're working OP. Best case scenario is you get a shag, worst case is you get fired and maybe a sexual harassment charge  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice. Should probably have posted this in the fantasy section AND left it there!!"
Yeah, alot of people keep swinging separate to their 'real' lives and wouldn't appreciate that nudge wink thing that you want to do. |
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"Thanks for the advice. Should probably have posted this in the fantasy section AND left it there!!
Yeah, alot of people keep swinging separate to their 'real' lives and wouldn't appreciate that nudge wink thing that you want to do. "
Have read elsewhere that just dropping the word "fabulous" into the conversation in a legitimate way has provoked the sort of response the delivery driver was looking for. But yes, the way is fraught with possible disaster. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Thanks for the advice. Should probably have posted this in the fantasy section AND left it there!!
Yeah, alot of people keep swinging separate to their 'real' lives and wouldn't appreciate that nudge wink thing that you want to do.
Have read elsewhere that just dropping the word "fabulous" into the conversation in a legitimate way has provoked the sort of response the delivery driver was looking for. But yes, the way is fraught with possible disaster."
Yeah, it could go either way. Too risky is far as I'm concerned |
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I would just favour being professional and doing your job. They may just want the parcel they've paid good money for hastle free. They may not want to be approached at home about that side of their personal life. They may feel uncomfortable knowing their delivery guy who comes to their home address knows. At the end of the day the fact you both on this site has little to with it. If you just deliver the package and give the same professional service you do everyone else, everyone's a winner. |
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"I would just favour being professional and doing your job. They may just want the parcel they've paid good money for hastle free. They may not want to be approached at home about that side of their personal life. They may feel uncomfortable knowing their delivery guy who comes to their home address knows. At the end of the day the fact you both on this site has little to with it. If you just deliver the package and give the same professional
service you do everyone else, everyone's a winner."
Thanks for all the advice. I will keep work 100% professional |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would just favour being professional and doing your job. They may just want the parcel they've paid good money for hastle free. They may not want to be approached at home about that side of their personal life. They may feel uncomfortable knowing their delivery guy who comes to their home address knows. At the end of the day the fact you both on this site has little to with it. If you just deliver the package and give the same professional service you do everyone else, everyone's a winner."
Spot on ignoring this will only get you reported and more than likley out of work.
If you are struggling here the answer is not harassing people on their doorstep. |
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"Omg please do this and report back as soon as you get out of prison  "
I’m all for punishing wrong doers but sending someone to prison for wishing them “ a fab day” sounds unusually harsh. |
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The other thing to consider just because someone may swing and there may clear signs that is the indication.... They still would have to fancy you, find you attractive..
Too many I think take the attitude on here it's an open invitation for someone to open their legs like an open door regardless of attraction... Then moan in the forums this site is shit.. Some need to grow up.. |
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