We're okay with it, as long as it's well written, especially if there's lots of detail. Any text speak or horrendous grammar though and they can get in the bin.

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Hate it, massive turn off

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By *exyCouple999Couple over a year ago

South Bucks

"Instant delete from us. Obviously appeals to men but women less so. "

Mr here. Doesn't appeal to me at all

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By *hloevtTV/TS over a year ago

norwich

I like it as long as some imagination is used, and it gives me something to read xxx

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By *ndy0001Man over a year ago

leeds

I don't mind what people send me, if I don't like it I delete.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

What are these private messages you speak of ?

I think my profile obviously has a glitch which blocks pm's from women and couples desperate to meet up

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By *ugardadcleanerMan over a year ago

cirencester

at least it too the point. no worries for both us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think it's pointless as a first message because you have no personality behind it.this and it shows they didn't read our profile.i usually say try starting again and this time imagine we wasnt on fab but in the street ! Lol x

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

A message is a message better than no messages at all ,

me thinks ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolute turn off and instant delete. Need my mind stimulated slowly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not against it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never reply to that style message

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

I usually delete although I’ll occasionally reply with a yawn.

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By *w79Man over a year ago

Stalbridge

I love it.

Especially when they tell me what they are going to do to me.

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'll delete straight away..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for me sorry, if the mind isn't stimulated it's boring! Straight delete

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m getting fed up with messages off ladies like “I wanna tear your clothes off...” “I could suck you dry....” “fill me with your hot cum...”

It’s insulting and very very rude

Now it’s Friday night maybe I’ll turn a blind eye and reply to a few!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If only all didn't see this and realise that x rated first messages are not what women want they may Do a bit better.

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Instant delete from us. Obviously appeals to men but women less so.

Not necessarily. I (he) control our profile and find it a real turn off, delete.

How could anyone be obscene to you two? Shakes head!! "

Thank you. Xx

Loads tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Instant delete and block. If a guy is too thick to flirt, charm, tease etc in text, he's probably the same in real life. This is a swingers site. Not a meat market.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for me but we all like different stuff which is the best thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't get many, but those we do get generally just cause us to laugh/tut/sigh before deleting and blocking.

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By *adet OP Man over a year ago

South of Ipswich

"Not for me but we all like different stuff which is the best thing. "

Yep, each to their own I guess. As with all things in life. Think I must like assertiveness

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