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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
So after the fantastic time I had meeting some really nice people--both the ones I touched and the ones I didn't--I had a question for you couples. Have you been to a private party where there were bi-male-bi-female couples apart from straight-male-bi-female couples or even bi-male-straight-female couples? Do you think such a party would work well, perhaps with a "system" of coloured wristbands? Would you be OK knowing that one or two of your hosts were openly bisexual males? |
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At our first ever swinging party one of the couples were both bi, and he was quite open with the fact that he fancied me (Mart). I let him know I wasn't interested, and he was fine with that.
If people are honest, and don't just dive in willy nilly (pun intended lol) then it isn't an issue, its the ones who have a grope without asking that tend to spoil it. |
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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"At our first ever swinging party one of the couples were both bi, and he was quite open with the fact that he fancied me (Mart). I let him know I wasn't interested, and he was fine with that.
If people are honest, and don't just dive in willy nilly (pun intended lol) then it isn't an issue, its the ones who have a grope without asking that tend to spoil it. "
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"At our first ever swinging party one of the couples were both bi, and he was quite open with the fact that he fancied me (Mart). I let him know I wasn't interested, and he was fine with that.
If people are honest, and don't just dive in willy nilly (pun intended lol) then it isn't an issue, its the ones who have a grope without asking that tend to spoil it. "
It’s groping anyone without asking which is a problem. |
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If everyone is respectful and confident in their sexuality it shouldn’t be a problem. At clubs on busy nights there are almost certainly bi men there and people don’t necessarily know. I only found out as my occasional clubbing partner could get anyone to tell her just about anything! |
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It works. Providing all involved are comfortable with it. Just because some aspects are not your thing doesn't mean others cant enjoy. I'd be fine at such a party, I'm Bi freindly (men on men is not for me but I'm totally not phased by it happening around me). My partner is bi. I see the logic about arms bands, makes sense. The only problem I see with is some people don't like to be pigeonholed. But I think it would make the play flow better with less misunderstandings between strangers if people had bands on relating to their sexuality. Of course that doesn't mitigate the need for proper consent, just helps people see if they are barking up the right tree in the first place. |
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