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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Very easy topic but what's everyone's thoughts on someone asking you to meet without seeing any pictures especially face ??"
For a private meet - no chance.
If we were going to be at the same party or club then not really a issue. As we are going to be there anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im a single working mum, i dont have time to go meeting people i dont like, i know theres always a chance of not liking someone even if you have seen and spoken to them but i like to keep that chance minimal |
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we had someone ask to meet but wouldnt give face pics beccause of thier jobs.
but its ok to have naked fun with strangers as teh job then doesnt matter?? (turned out he was a handyman and she was a nurse, hardly a world famous couple...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we had someone ask to meet but wouldnt give face pics beccause of thier jobs.
but its ok to have naked fun with strangers as teh job then doesnt matter?? (turned out he was a handyman and she was a nurse, hardly a world famous couple...)"
Not world famous but a nurse can be reported for bringing the profession into disrepute and struck off the nursing register. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we had someone ask to meet but wouldnt give face pics beccause of thier jobs.
but its ok to have naked fun with strangers as teh job then doesnt matter?? (turned out he was a handyman and she was a nurse, hardly a world famous couple...)
Not world famous but a nurse can be reported for bringing the profession into disrepute and struck off the nursing register. "
 sad but very true |
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"we had someone ask to meet but wouldnt give face pics beccause of thier jobs.
but its ok to have naked fun with strangers as teh job then doesnt matter?? (turned out he was a handyman and she was a nurse, hardly a world famous couple...)
Not world famous but a nurse can be reported for bringing the profession into disrepute and struck off the nursing register. "
i appreciate that, but how would you know they were a nurse and where and who to report it to or whatever... |
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"seeing pics of me...no problem if they want to 
In cock slut mode i have...all they need then is a hard cock, kev is more picky though 
LOL You write almost exactly what I am thinking so often, although my hubby is not called kev   "
He is a fussy bugger at times... |
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"we had someone ask to meet but wouldnt give face pics beccause of thier jobs.
but its ok to have naked fun with strangers as teh job then doesnt matter?? (turned out he was a handyman and she was a nurse, hardly a world famous couple...)
Not world famous but a nurse can be reported for bringing the profession into disrepute and struck off the nursing register.
i appreciate that, but how would you know they were a nurse and where and who to report it to or whatever..."
True story Sir told me...he used to be on a dogging site ran by a lovely couple one of whom was in the army...an officer. They had lots of pics of them having fun all over the country...someone decided to report them...why who knows, who,again unknown,they were just a twunt who led to the guy being forced out of the military, loosing his house, his pension, everything.
Thing is there are people out there who will report , and thats just life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if someone uses the old job as an excuse not to show a face pic prior to a meet then they really are wasting everyones time its a shame really
why on earth would you meet someone if they are not even slightly attractive to you, doesnt make sense to me but hey thats just my opinion
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd stay well away. My personal experience has shown me that people on here that don't or won't send a face pic soon disappear off the radar. You won't do yourself any favors having no idea whether you'll have form of attraction to them either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very easy topic but what's everyone's thoughts on someone asking you to meet without seeing any pictures especially face ??"
I may do a social meet if it didn't involve travelling far but nothing more and i would have to have had interesting conversations before hand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very easy topic but what's everyone's thoughts on someone asking you to meet without seeing any pictures especially face ??"
..without face pics..done that a few times..turned out fine mostly...only once did one of these meets turn out disappointing, and it weren't because of the absence of a face pic.
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True story Sir told me...he used to be on a dogging site ran by a lovely couple one of whom was in the army...an officer. They had lots of pics of them having fun all over the country...someone decided to report them...why who knows, who,again unknown,they were just a twunt who led to the guy being forced out of the military, loosing his house, his pension, everything.
Thing is there are people out there who will report , and thats just life."
Can understand some people not giving out pics if in certain professions....
But I have to ask them...WHY risk your career for this???
If your job is THAT important....why risk it by being on a site like this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have pics with faces in private gallery and only send allow friends to see and have a few with faces hidden public. We would not lose our jobs but could experience judgement (especially female half of couple unfortunately) and we also have 5 kids. As swingers we always are 100 percent discreet and expect the same. Also having encountered more than a few time wasters on site we don not reply to anyone without pics on profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand the need to keep face pics in a private gallery allowing only friends to see, however not showing face pics prior to a meet is a defo no no for us.
Then again we have seen face pics and then met and in all honesty there has been no resemblance to the pics that were obviously taken 20yrs prior lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would not meet without seeing a pic first, we already can not meet as much as we would like to due to other commitments and so why waste the time we can meet with people that we are not attracted to? |
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