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Met a girl on this site think she is the one
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"Thanks for comments but i know she is my girl folk meet on pof or tinder we met on fab no big deal "
You need to stop saying 'my girl', you dont appear to be an item yet and it's also possessive sounding. As I said, if the feelings you're saying are reciprocated then all well and good, but if they're not, I know if I was in her shoes, I'd be running a mile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for comments but i know she is my girl folk meet on pof or tinder we met on fab no big deal "
They are dating site.. this is a swingers site.. bit of a difference
Are yous going to be swingers? Would you be happy watching her fuck another guy? |
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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago
North Coast |
"Thanks for comments but i know she is my girl folk meet on pof or tinder we met on fab no big deal
They are dating site.. this is a swingers site.. bit of a difference
Are yous going to be swingers? Would you be happy watching her fuck another guy?"
Does she know you’re an item? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Why the silly comments i only posted because im happy meeting her tonight again "
Hope it works out for you.
I think the reason people are commenting stuff is because you may not have worded it the best way, it does kind of sound like you've met her a few times, talked to her alot and just decided she's yours without her input.
I honestly do hope it works out for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if she sees this and doesnt feel the same then you've just completely scared her off. Things like this should be internalised"
That's a learned behaviour! I definitely internalize these things like you said but I think it's so lovely when people feel able and comfortable to communicate their happiness and love  |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"Have a great time, take it easy and don’t be clingy, she may not feel the same, as said before this is a swinger site not a dating site."
This site can be anything you want it to be.
For many it’s a place to form relationships.
It’s actually rather lovely to hear when 2 people hook up and connections are made, and its nobody’s business if or how they continue to use this site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x"
I disagree although obviously everyone uses the site differently. I think if you meet someone on here who is into the same things you are and there's a connection why shouldn't it become something more?! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x
I disagree although obviously everyone uses the site differently. I think if you meet someone on here who is into the same things you are and there's a connection why shouldn't it become something more?!"
Exactly this, We had a meet & now have a girlfriend. Infrequent as she travels some distance to stay for a few days but pretty much what we were originally looking for when we joined a couple of years back.
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So long as you both communicate, are open about your feelings and goals, and want the same thing (which may or may not include sexual monogamy going forward) then I don’t think anyone should dismiss Fab as a place to meet a life partner.
If swinging is something that’s important in a committed relationship then I think Fab is preferable to the mainstream dating sites.
And despite what Obiwan says, emotions are largely uncontrollable in my opinion. It’s how you act on them which counts.
I get what’s made you post here. You’re excited about your feelings and you want to share. It’s a lovely moment. I hope it works out for you. |
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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago
North Coast |
"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x
I disagree although obviously everyone uses the site differently. I think if you meet someone on here who is into the same things you are and there's a connection why shouldn't it become something more?!
Exactly this, We had a meet & now have a girlfriend. Infrequent as she travels some distance to stay for a few days but pretty much what we were originally looking for when we joined a couple of years back.
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Is she ‘the one’? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's great, OP, things like that do happen on here. I met my soulmate here, when I least expected. Just one piece of advice: make sure you are both on the same page regarding what you want and how you'd like to proceed. Communication is key in any relationship. And good luck, enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think she is the one we 1st met over a month ago weve fallen for each other "
I hope it works out for you both!
However I do think it’s best to keep it to yourself for now, incase she sees this and doesn’t like it, or she may well love it.  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x
I disagree although obviously everyone uses the site differently. I think if you meet someone on here who is into the same things you are and there's a connection why shouldn't it become something more?!
Exactly this, We had a meet & now have a girlfriend. Infrequent as she travels some distance to stay for a few days but pretty much what we were originally looking for when we joined a couple of years back.
S
Is she ‘the one’?"
Early days yet but she's here for four days next visit & all that we wanted per the profile we have, as well as her being happy with the more mundane stuff of life that still needs to continue.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's good for you m8 .remember that this is more a shagging site rather than a dating site x my theory is that you should never let your feelings bother you on here x it's really just a game x"
A game?
Dude unless you're a rock with zero about ya then unfortunately (or fortunately like us - we met via fab) feelings can slap ya up the face.
There's more to feelings than falling for someone, there are friendships to be formed where you genuinely care for one another too.
I think your post is quite ruthless and cold. That saddens me a little, people are people not pawns in a game.
Good luck OP, I hope all works out and you remain on cloud 9
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