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over a year ago
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"for my wife its personality.
for me its looks. am I shallow ?"
Depends what you’re looking for, if it’s purely physical then we all have our preferences, however if you have based all your relationships on look alone I think you’ve probably missed out somewhere along the line.
I personally don’t feel like I am really attracted to someone without connecting with their personality first. |
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We find looks are what we go for. They must have a decent personality too, but this is fantasy fulfilment for us, we fantasise about people we find hot. They could have a great personality but if we aren't attracted then nothing going to happen.
I don't think it's shallow tbh - and 95% of the interest our profile gets is NOT because people think the Mrs has a nice personality lol |
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It must to be both. Great personality without physical attraction can only give a friend material. Physical attraction with shite personality is just extremely off putting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Some great answers. I think if it's a one night thing, looks are more important. but longer term, they have to have a good personality to match.
my wife would go for charisma over looks every time.
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"Some great answers. I think if it's a one night thing, looks are more important. but longer term, they have to have a good personality to match.
my wife would go for charisma over looks every time.
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Has to be this.. when we find people on here its looks that are important, but sometimes ppl take bad photos, we've then seen them at clubs and ended up playing cause we love their personalities, and they actually aren't bad looking too. |
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It's both for me. But sexiness for me is more connected to personality. Sexiness is about attitude, openness, a bit of humour and spark.
I've slept with women that physically would tick every box but when it came down to it were seriously lacking in the other areas above and left everything feeling a little flat.
I find I can connect with a personality but less so with physical looks. And it's the connection that makes the sex.
And I also feel that sexy people look more attractive ultimately. It's all in the eye of the beholder as they say
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