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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So as the above title reads we have a lovely young man coming round tomorrow to play with the Mrs
We are both understandably nervous but also equally exited
Any tips on how to control your nerves on a first meet would be welcome.. what was yours like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm assuming here you are having him come to your home and it isn't a fuck and go?
If so, start it off as a social - have a drink and a chat and relax that way. Then when you are both ready suggest going to the bedroom. You all want to be friends and comfortable with each other before you get involved after all, so set him at ease too.
As for my first time, much as the above - went round and chatted for a while before it turned to kissing and then the sex itself. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"So as the above title reads we have a lovely young man coming round tomorrow to play with the Mrs
We are both understandably nervous but also equally exited
Any tips on how to control your nerves on a first meet would be welcome.. what was yours like? "
. I think the best way to feel relaxed is a couple of hours before he comes round have a nice soak in the bath followed by a glass wine by the time he comes you round hopefully you will feel fresh and relaxed ready to have s pleasant evening.I hope all goes well for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had our first play in a club but have since moved onto hotel meets, they are always a little nervous early on, I normally ask Mr to nip to the toilet when the guest arrives, normally by the time he comes back we are more comfortable and kissing and engaged
Mr will then watch and join in if asked, he does like to watch and take pics and vids for later use.
I do like there to be a couple of rounds, so after round one, I'll clean up and change outfit, Mr and guest will have a chat and a drink and then will all socialise until we are ready to go again
Relax, enjoy and take it slow. |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
First time is nervous as should be, makes one feel young again  The nerves are part of it but as soon as the kissing starts or clothes off then all nerves fade and then the excitement kicks in and next you'll be thinking why didn't we try this sooner. Enjoy and don't forget to tell us how it went. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice and kind comments and we hope all goes well and let you know all the juicy details  "
if there is alcohol involved just dont get too d*unk..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just treat it as a social. If things aren't clicking you won't want to take things further. If they are clicking then the nerves should have given way to rampant lust ... problem solved.  |
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"Don't worry ......he will probably cancel in the morning .! Or disappear off fab altogether.
Good luck !"
On a serious I have to agree with you - that’s what’s happened to us twice over in this week. |
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"So as the above title reads we have a lovely young man coming round tomorrow to play with the Mrs
We are both understandably nervous but also equally exited
Any tips on how to control your nerves on a first meet would be welcome.. what was yours like? "
Wishing you all the very best and hope you have a wonderful times. One word of advise, if your booking a hotel ask him if he is coming 100% to avoid disappointment if not playing at hotel, then wish you all the best. Have fun |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
"have a Plan B in case of a no show then you can relax ...perhaps plan to go to a local club...then the night will still be a good one either way.."
Our first meet was a no show but ended up meeting that night with another! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and K had our first meet this week so we absolutely know how you are feeling (C was particularly nervous). We were fortunate to meet someone who was experienced and incredibly polite and easygoing.
Just take a deep breath and think about the fun that you are going to have, we sat and had a light chat first before going to the bedroom but that was a great icebreaker for us. Xxx |
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"So as the above title reads we have a lovely young man coming round tomorrow to play with the Mrs
We are both understandably nervous but also equally exited
Any tips on how to control your nerves on a first meet would be welcome.. what was yours like? "
He’ll be nervous too so all chill laugh and then have fun if it works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With my first meet with my fella we made it clear it was our first time, the guy was gracious and let me lead the night.
I would suggest the same, just be honest and don't put pressure on yourselves, remember to have fun!
I actually enjoy the nervous excitement! Embrace it!  |
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