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Am I still classed as young to some of you ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone , just a little query I want to discuss . Would you classify meeting a man of 21 to young ? If so what is it that puts you off other than maturity or that turns you on . I won’t be offended to just fire away what it is that makes you feel uncomfortable with a younger man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, for me personally- I'm just not into men younger than me. I prefer men at least a few years older as a general rule.
I can't put my finger on what it is specifically, younger guys just aren't attractive to me. |
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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago
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Although we’re not looking for men, you’re too young for us even if you were a female or couple.
It’s not the age, as such. It’s more to do with likelihood of knowing (and sticking to) the etiquette of swinging. The younger a person is, the more likely they are to talk about things they shouldn’t, such as bragging to mates, pointing us out in public if we crossed paths or sharing photos etc. Not aimed at you specifically of course, it’s hypothetical and just our thoughts on this.
So for us, you’d be way below our lower limit sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, for me personally- I'm just not into men younger than me. I prefer men at least a few years older as a general rule.
I can't put my finger on what it is specifically, younger guys just aren't attractive to me."
No worries . If everyone liked the same thing it would be pretty boring I suppose  . Thanks for replying  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Although we’re not looking for men, you’re too young for us even if you were a female or couple.
It’s not the age, as such. It’s more to do with likelihood of knowing (and sticking to) the etiquette of swinging. The younger a person is, the more likely they are to talk about things they shouldn’t, such as bragging to mates, pointing us out in public if we crossed paths or sharing photos etc. Not aimed at you specifically of course, it’s hypothetical and just our thoughts on this.
So for us, you’d be way below our lower limit sorry. "
I completely understand this , I wouldn’t want the same happening to me . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most swingers are in their 40s and wouldn't fuck someone of their kids age so that's where the issue will be.
Also, you might be shit in bed due to lack of experience.
Try and find a cougar and cub night at a club and you'll be good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone , just a little query I want to discuss . Would you classify meeting a man of 21 to young ? If so what is it that puts you off other than maturity or that turns you on . I won’t be offended to just fire away what it is that makes you feel uncomfortable with a younger man "
Yes to many on fab you will be too young
But look on the bright side, you will get older, us oldies will never be younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A younger guy is extremely unlikely to have the experience and maturity to fit the dynamic with me and my husband. We wouldn't necessarily discount someone because of their age, but the younger guys we have chatted to have never got past the initial chatting stage. |
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I seem to click better with people around my own age ,that's why i would never meet someone half my age.
I like to get on with and be friends with those I meet,but wouldn't have much in common with someone much younger .
Miss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most swingers are in their 40s and wouldn't fuck someone of their kids age so that's where the issue will be.
Also, you might be shit in bed due to lack of experience.
Try and find a cougar and cub night at a club and you'll be good "
I got no problems with meets i was just wandering to some of the older lady’s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone , just a little query I want to discuss . Would you classify meeting a man of 21 to young ? If so what is it that puts you off other than maturity or that turns you on . I won’t be offended to just fire away what it is that makes you feel uncomfortable with a younger man
Yes to many on fab you will be too young
But look on the bright side, you will get older, us oldies will never be younger "
That’s very true ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I seem to click better with people around my own age ,that's why i would never meet someone half my age.
I like to get on with and be friends with those I meet,but wouldn't have much in common with someone much younger .
Miss"
That’s understandable. I can imagine it hard to get along with someone who hasn’t grown up yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A younger guy is extremely unlikely to have the experience and maturity to fit the dynamic with me and my husband. We wouldn't necessarily discount someone because of their age, but the younger guys we have chatted to have never got past the initial chatting stage. "
Yeah I know what you mean , sorry on behalf of guys my age who act like a nugget |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A younger guy is extremely unlikely to have the experience and maturity to fit the dynamic with me and my husband. We wouldn't necessarily discount someone because of their age, but the younger guys we have chatted to have never got past the initial chatting stage.
Yeah I know what you mean , sorry on behalf of guys my age who act like a nugget "
Nothing to apologise for. It's just an age/ experience thing. |
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For me it’s the connection- I’m sure a 21 year old can have just as good as sex than a forty odd year old, but I’d have more in common with someone nearer my age. Chat about stuff outside the sex act ... x |
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"Nice of you to come back to your thread and reply to people OP. Shows you have manners and maturity, well done.
Thank you very much "
Just to say, it works at the other end of the spectrum as well, in other words - much too old. But, the consolations are that there are cougars for the young upstarts, and young ladies looking for daddy's, or even granddaddy's at my end. |
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"Hello everyone , just a little query I want to discuss . Would you classify meeting a man of 21 to young ? If so what is it that puts you off other than maturity or that turns you on . I won’t be offended to just fire away what it is that makes you feel uncomfortable with a younger man "
Age is just a number, or so they say. It's true though that age and maturity do not necessarily go hand in hand and younger guys can be mature beyond their years. We would never solely base our focus on one aspect of a persons profile, and then judge them for it.
We understand when people say 'I have kids your age', and base that as a reason not to meet with guys like the OP. Everyone has their own preferences and their can be no arguing with them.
As a couple that only meet with younger guys we have learnt to look at the whole package; by which we mean the offer, the opportunity, the rest of the persons profile, their Fab presence etc. It's very easy to say "I'm mature", but then act very different elsewhere on the site.
Ultimately we each have our preferences, and whether you fit them or not you must accept them, even if one aspect of your profile means that not everyone is into you. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Different people are looking for different things, some just want fuck and go, and therefore you might suit them, but some like myself are looking for a bit more, so having someone more than 20 years younger than myself, I doubt we would have anything in common in which to speak about.
But I'm sure you will find some that will suit what you are looking for. |
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Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.
I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.
I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me."
Totally agree !
Wish people would stop judging me on my age before meeting lol
Where’s the logic behind that ? |
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"Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.
I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me.
Totally agree !
Wish people would stop judging me on my age before meeting lol
Where’s the logic behind that ?"
I can tell a lot by the way a message is written.
But everyone on this site is looking for something different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age is irrelevant! It's just a number. I like to meet socially first.
I have met some 40 year olds who were immature and some 30 year olds who were too mature..... it's all about the person not their age for me.
Totally agree !
Wish people would stop judging me on my age before meeting lol
Where’s the logic behind that ?
I can tell a lot by the way a message is written.
But everyone on this site is looking for something different."
I’m exactly the same and totally agree.
Also, I’m struggling to believe you're 49, you look inc_edible !!! |
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