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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I get that.
But since they HAVE initially replied then a simple ‘no thanks’ is simply courteous?
It’s no stress, I’ll simply move on.
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Some people just find it hard to say no thanks after seeing a pic in fear of hurting your feelings. I know I find it particularly hard to say something. It’s why I prefer to see a face on profile or in first message. That way no awkwardness happens. |
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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago
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I agree it’s a little rude not to reply with a “no thanks”, if they had asked for a face picture. However, they may not have wanted to hurt your feelings and felt that a no reply was better than a no.
And as it’s said so many times on Fab “no one owes you a reply.” But after some dialogue has occurred I feel it’s common curtesy to at least say no thanks in a polite way.
Just my 2 cents anyway. Others may well think differently.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Realistically we think the person who messages first should send the first face pic, and not expect anything in return. It’s not a rule.... just the way the world often works. "
I always send a face pic when I message people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does come across as impolite to not get a reply.
However, we never worry if we get no reply.
Sometimes, as per site rules, and as we state, no reply = no interest.
We used to reply to messages, but, received the torrents of abuse and pleading. Probably why very few people respond to messages, not about ‘hurting feelings’.
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"I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do."
Nope I’m with you. A polite thanks for the pic but you’re not for us doesn’t harm anyone. Rather than wondering if they’re just gonna message later etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do."
Put on your profile “ DO NOT SEND A FACEPIC REQUEST WITHOUT SENDING ONE YOURSELF IN SAID REQUEST” |
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"I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do."
I think you might need to read your profile again. Unless you've changed it since you posted this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do.
I think you might need to read your profile again. Unless you've changed it since you posted this."
Opps lol |
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"I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do."
Congratulations you've been a victim of big Barrie.
An obese guy with a beard with food stuck in it is sat in his crusty y fronts in front of his cum splattered PC screen and unfortunately your photo has joined his wank bank
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"I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do.
Congratulations you've been a victim of big Barrie.
An obese guy with a beard with food stuck in it is sat in his crusty y fronts in front of his cum splattered PC screen and unfortunately your photo has joined his wank bank
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Hahahaha I always forget there are actually guys pretending to be couples and pic collectors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do."
This happens to me on a daily basis  . My loss I'm sure 
Each to their own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its not to say at least no thanks, but i find the most rude is after you sent pic they delete and block you "
Only a scary pic would have me doing that!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its not to say at least no thanks, but i find the most rude is after you sent pic they delete and block you "
This kinda made me laugh
I've had that a few times as well! Usually the male half of a couple. Good times. |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
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"I messaged a couple and they subsequently asked, albeit with just three words, for a face pic.
As always I obliged, despite the fact they had clearly not read my profile, “if you ask for a face pic, please send one of yourself with the request”
They viewed the pic, then go silent.
Now I know I’m no Brad Pitt, but surely a simple, ‘sorry, you’re not our type’ isn’t too much to expect?
It’s certainly what I would do."
Not really because you get the "but why not" followed by more begging messages as you are the only one to reply in their inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Realistically we think the person who messages first should send the first face pic, and not expect anything in return. It’s not a rule.... just the way the world often works. "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its not to say at least no thanks, but i find the most rude is after you sent pic they delete and block you "
He says in his profile if your not interested delete my message and block me.
So what's he complaing about??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Their attitude with just 3 words would have put me off and I wouldn't have sent them anything.
Yes it's rude of them not to reply. Lucky escape, they would be a nightmare meet. Entitled and rude. |
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