I had a weird one 2weeks ago been speaking to a lady for while finally met and I was invited to hers
So get there chatting and that in living room breaking the ice and her phone rings
It her daughter but her phone only works on speaker so I hear the call lady going can’t talk for long got a fella over from fab
Can’t believe how open she was with daughter daughter giggled said have fun and said good bye
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My mum knows, I'm quite open with her, I don't share details as I wouldn't want to make D uncomfortable but I love having that open relationship with her. My dad knows to a degree that I have never had a 'normal sexlife' so to say |
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"I had a weird one 2weeks ago been speaking to a lady for while finally met and I was invited to hers
So get there chatting and that in living room breaking the ice and her phone rings
It her daughter but her phone only works on speaker so I hear the call lady going can’t talk for long got a fella over from fab
Can’t believe how open she was with daughter daughter giggled said have fun and said good bye
Who else shares fab with family "
Not everyone sees sex as a taboo subject, I think it's too bad more people aren't honest about it.
When my son and fiance were visiting, my future son in law asked if I'd met my partner on a swinging site. I didn't answer directly (son and I are still getting over past issues) but I'm sure they know.
My sister and pretty much all of my friends know I'm here, and how I met my partner.
Shame is a thing of the past. If people don't accept what I do in my private life, I move on from them.
(That said, I don't go to the local pub and announce my private life. Privacy is different than shame in secrecy). |
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If my ex hub hadn't thought I had been brainwashed or coerced into being on here then my mother and friends would not have known. It was also stated as reason for divorce on our divorce petition.   |
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Never understand why people assume because some actually like to keep their private life "private" they're ashamed.
Don't share the frequency and consistency of my stools either or my bank balances. Some things are simply private! |
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"Never understand why people assume because some actually like to keep their private life "private" they're ashamed.
Don't share the frequency and consistency of my stools either or my bank balances. Some things are simply private!"
Ah, you weren't raised catholic??
Or maybe I'm over complicating it. But I grew up with secrets, and they were of the shameful kind. So, I see privacy and secrecy as two completely different things. Privacy is keeping things to yourself. Secrecy is hiding something you're ashamed of. I guess I am, once again, simply making things more difficult than they really are. |
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"Never understand why people assume because some actually like to keep their private life "private" they're ashamed.
Don't share the frequency and consistency of my stools either or my bank balances. Some things are simply private!
Ah, you weren't raised catholic??
Or maybe I'm over complicating it. But I grew up with secrets, and they were of the shameful kind. So, I see privacy and secrecy as two completely different things. Privacy is keeping things to yourself. Secrecy is hiding something you're ashamed of. I guess I am, once again, simply making things more difficult than they really are."
No I wasn't raised Catholic: worse, Seventh Day Adventist. Everything is a sin and no confessional.
My sister knows when and who I'm meeting and the name of the site and user name. She knows I'm not playing connect 4. The salacious detail she doesn't need to know.
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"Never understand why people assume because some actually like to keep their private life "private" they're ashamed.
Don't share the frequency and consistency of my stools either or my bank balances. Some things are simply private!
Ah, you weren't raised catholic??
Or maybe I'm over complicating it. But I grew up with secrets, and they were of the shameful kind. So, I see privacy and secrecy as two completely different things. Privacy is keeping things to yourself. Secrecy is hiding something you're ashamed of. I guess I am, once again, simply making things more difficult than they really are.
No I wasn't raised Catholic: worse, Seventh Day Adventist. Everything is a sin and no confessional.
My sister knows when and who I'm meeting and the name of the site and user name. She knows I'm not playing connect 4. The salacious detail she doesn't need to know.
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I so agree. Sharing details is not my thing at all.
And great that you have someone who knows when/where you're going. Always good to have safety measures in place. |
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My dad knows.
He made a random comment about one of his neighbours being a swinger & was seeing "some young thing" (I had to blush as he was actually talking about me). So I just came out with that I've been on here for years.
His reply was just hope you're being safe. |
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