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Do people read profiles these days?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I 1st joined I was naive about this place, what to expect etc however through experience I’ve learned what I like and don’t like hence my profile bio ( don’t all rush to read it now). Done may think it’s long winded, a bit direct however I think it helps keep the messages to the more genuine guys. Where she going with this I hear you ask?
Well my favourite line to guys who have clearly not read my profile and send the “ meet now” type message is to reply
“ I can’t as I’m busy teaching adults to read English” some believe this is actually true and try and converse with me until they realise I’m mocking them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do some don't I always do but as the chap above says men are the ones least likley to read a profile as they are in that much of a rush to paste a message and move onto the next profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some do some don't I always do but as the chap above says men are the ones least likley to read a profile as they are in that much of a rush to paste a message and move onto the next profile. "
Seem to be they see a pic they like then straight to message. |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"When I 1st joined I was naive about this place, what to expect etc however through experience I’ve learned what I like and don’t like hence my profile bio ( don’t all rush to read it now). Done may think it’s long winded, a bit direct however I think it helps keep the messages to the more genuine guys. Where she going with this I hear you ask?
Well my favourite line to guys who have clearly not read my profile and send the “ meet now” type message is to reply
“ I can’t as I’m busy teaching adults to read English” some believe this is actually true and try and converse with me until they realise I’m mocking them.
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You actually take time to mock them? Lucky them..
The only time they get from me is 5 second window when I block and delete.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I love to find a guy who tries to have a decent profile, unfortunately that is very few who actually bother!
Mine? If it ever gets read, it's becomes completely ignored, so I would say maybe 5% read and respects it, judging by who repeatedly look but never message, it does piss you off to start with, but then you just learn to ignore, you can't beat ignorance  |
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I get fed up as i know when they message they HAVENT read all our profile ,as they talk to me as the hubby even though it says they will chat to me ,also they talk about hubby watching them fuck me ,hubby is bi and does not sit and watch ive put all the info in profile but still i have to ask them to go read it,most crap themselves when they read hubby is bi,dont see them for dust ,but its time wasting for everyone ,READING isnt too much to ask ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get fed up as i know when they message they HAVENT read all our profile ,as they talk to me as the hubby even though it says they will chat to me ,also they talk about hubby watching them fuck me ,hubby is bi and does not sit and watch ive put all the info in profile but still i have to ask them to go read it,most crap themselves when they read hubby is bi,dont see them for dust ,but its time wasting for everyone ,READING isnt too much to ask ?"
I totally agree that’s why I’ve now put a header request in the middle of my profile. Been called a sneaky bitch once or twice but helps me find the ones who actually shown an interest in me rather than just my pics x |
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By *hangerMan
over a year ago
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Loads of people seem to find it difficult to read. Maybe it is a lack of education, or just maybe pure laziness!
Equally it may be the "want it now" syndrome that is part of the modern world. Consequently a pic is attractive so the person in the pic must want me, so I will message them.
The fact that the person being contacted has put in their profile that the enquirer is a type in whom they are not interested is totally missed!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site is full of single profiles of people cheating on wives and husbands and people are shocked that most dont read profiles.
A lot of people dont care what is written in a profile they only want sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have noticed a rise in statuses exclaiming the pure frustration of someone not reading a profile, I don't really understand why it's so hard to actually read, and understand a little something about the person you intend to message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read them because it gives me an idea of whether I would get on with that person, so the more text to better for me.
Also, it makes to easier to write a decent message. So I just don't get why others don't read them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get a lot of messages off people who clearly have not read my profile it drives me mad, especially no face pictures in first message"
I also say in my profile that I only social and meet in clubs, but yet they still ask if I'll meet for a coffee or a hotel...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think women read profiles more than men, I've had quite a few compliment me on my profile.
I enjoy a good profile though, I think personality is important and it's your perfect opportunity to get yours accross |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havent read the OP profile but mine is fairly longwinded and extremely direct - I dont fuck about!!!! And, NO it doesn't get read. Only today I've been messaged by most of my NO list Grrrrr......... |
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"We always read the profile first, then look at pictures etc. No point getting excited over a sexy picture if neither party ticks the boxes. "
Can you stop talking sense please it doesn't fit in lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men can't even read the first line of our profile to be honest but we do wind them up a little lol
So what type of single men do you prefer  
Educated ones that can read lol"
I just read the header X surely thats a come and get me plea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havent read the OP profile but mine is fairly longwinded and extremely direct - I dont fuck about!!!! And, NO it doesn't get read. Only today I've been messaged by most of my NO list Grrrrr........."
Having a 4 week old profile you'll have an avalanche of messages with the prettiest cock pictures you that are bound to make you weak at the knees |
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"Most men can't even read the first line of our profile to be honest but we do wind them up a little lol
So what type of single men do you prefer
Educated ones that can read lol
I just read the header X surely thats a come and get me plea "
Oh an educated man lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havent read the OP profile but mine is fairly longwinded and extremely direct - I dont fuck about!!!! And, NO it doesn't get read. Only today I've been messaged by most of my NO list Grrrrr.........
Having a 4 week old profile you'll have an avalanche of messages with the prettiest cock pictures you that are bound to make you weak at the knees "
A 4 week old profile you havent read as it tells you why it's only 4 weeks old... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havent read the OP profile but mine is fairly longwinded and extremely direct - I dont fuck about!!!! And, NO it doesn't get read. Only today I've been messaged by most of my NO list Grrrrr.........
Having a 4 week old profile you'll have an avalanche of messages with the prettiest cock pictures you that are bound to make you weak at the knees
A 4 week old profile you havent read as it tells you why it's only 4 weeks old..."
So sorry just appreciated the irony mustn't jump....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never sent a message before reading the whole profile and that’s the truth. Plenty of women don’t read them either, I’ve had plenty of obvious cut and paste messages from women. For some reason it’s only us men who get the bad name. |
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"I have never sent a message before reading the whole profile and that’s the truth. Plenty of women don’t read them either, I’ve had plenty of obvious cut and paste messages from women. For some reason it’s only us men who get the bad name. "
I've never said it was just men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never sent a message before reading the whole profile and that’s the truth. Plenty of women don’t read them either, I’ve had plenty of obvious cut and paste messages from women. For some reason it’s only us men who get the bad name.
I've never said it was just men. "
I’ve never said you did flower  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do read profiles. However many profiles are terrible. They're either very very brief, or just a long list of wants. Yes you should list your wants or requirements, but tell us about yourself! What do *you* offer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As said above - no, most don’t.
I delete without opening as there’s no photo. It’s an easy way to filter out though so don’t mind.
I always read profiles - what’s the point of them otherwise!?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People dont bother reading and just chance it. We always read through the profiles.
No point wasting everyone's time if we are after different things, plus its bloody annoying when you her messages from people who clearly haven't taken the time to have a read through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few different profiles and I had one that said "Bollox"
Same messages, same men, same old same old.
Very few people away from the forums care what you have to say.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I 1st joined I was naive about this place, what to expect etc however through experience I’ve learned what I like and don’t like hence my profile bio ( don’t all rush to read it now). Done may think it’s long winded, a bit direct however I think it helps keep the messages to the more genuine guys. Where she going with this I hear you ask?
Well my favourite line to guys who have clearly not read my profile and send the “ meet now” type message is to reply
“ I can’t as I’m busy teaching adults to read English” some believe this is actually true and try and converse with me until they realise I’m mocking them.
Discuss
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to kill a mockingbird great book |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always read them.....if there's not much effort put in....I always wonder if the person is lazy elsewhere....  "
lol of course you do, that's the stock answer many women here give |
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"There are a few of us who read a profile.
Shame about the few who spoil it for the rest. "
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I ALWAYS read the profile, otherwise I would be wasting my time as well as theirs with incongruous messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many don't. It's a great filter: straight in the bin. "
this  i use it as a filter too id rather guy show there true self and if thats not reading my profile then thats me not meeting them |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
It's those who say life is too short or it's too boring etc.
Dude, if you can't be bothered to read a few minutes worth of text then I would hazard a guess you'll be selfish, unthoughtful and inept in bed.
If you can't read the text how on earth will you read my body language
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