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Playing with someone you don’t want to.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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With swinging you don’t have to play with someone you don’t want to. Yet in the forums there’s always someone moaning because they are hard done by with it. Have some respect for the person and what they want. Just because you want to doesn’t mean they want to. Read their looking for box for one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With swinging you don’t have to play with someone you don’t want to. Yet in the forums there’s always someone moaning because they are hard done by with it. Have some respect for the person and what they want. Just because you want to doesn’t mean they want to. Read their looking for box for one. "
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We met a guy last night he looked ok on his pictures but when met him just didn’t fancy him...this hasn't happened before. So I was honest & told I didn't think we were suitable for each other. We thanked him for coming & he left. You have to be honest... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everyone faces rejection on here. Last night alone a pretty lady in her 20s offered Mr some fun in the club but he said no. He just wanted some chill time on the tub for a while. She looked very disappointed. But that’s life. |
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Can’t fathom out why anyone would do anything sexual with someone if they didn’t want to? Taking one for the team tactic whilst playing as a couple is asking for trouble. All parties must be happy or no play whatsoever. We always want a social before any sexy stuff happens, just seems like a normal approach for us. If people aren’t happy with that, it’s their loss.
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Rejection is part and parcel of it, not everyone is everyone's cup of tea or even if they are they might only be interested in certain things on certain nights. You have to respect others and your own wishes. Personally if myself or my partner are both not comfortable then we don't play, if only one of us likes the other female then we don't play. We all have to have a attraction including the other party with us, if we feel she isnt really into one of us then just like before we don't play. |
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As we are a couple we BOTH have to be 100% happy with our meet ,i choose initially then hubby reads chat and looks at pics and if happy we have a meet as in person can be so different and so far we havent had to reject as neither of us would go ahead if the other wasnt totally happy ,i for one wouldnt "take one for the team " and hubby would hate me to do so ... |
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