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Will I ever meet a couple !
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
"Been looking awhile and whilst I have taste I’m just not getting the hang of getting someone’s ( couple or single attention)
Someboooooooooody help! "
Nope, not without some public photos to give someone an idea of whether you are attractive to them. You are already in a pool of thousands of guys vying for the attention of ladies and couples. You have to stand our from the crowd if you want to have any chance at all. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I haven't answered a single message for weeks! Reason? Their profiles have been total shite, no public pics, as if I am really going to respond and ask.....get a grip on reality, most people would not want to meet you in the first place, add in your self imposed barriers then you really don't stand a chance do you? |
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"Most look at the profile first...
If you were part of a couple with hundreds of men to choose from, would you chose you based on your profile?
Maybe try clubs.
Nita"
This was my first though, I started off in clubs |
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Ok, I'm assuming that you want profile advice.
Firstly, without any public photos at all, yet insisting on needing to see face pics, you quite frankly haven't got a snowballs chance in Hell.
Secondly, stop moaning. Say what you ars looking for and what you can offer.
Humour is always good, as is being unique in some way.
Men far outnumber couples and women, so you need to stand out from the crowd.
Nita |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I'm not as choosy as most. But your profile has too many negatives and rules.
You need to come across as a happy chap not a miserable bugger.
Why do you expect anyone to send you a face pic before you send one?? And you are demanding that.
Sorry to be harsh but that's what I see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People have already given you some great advice in this thread but you haven't as yet acted on any of it.
I've was going to try and give advice but I'd be saying a lot of what's already been said.
If your profile text is truly how you feel and is an accurate reflection of you then don't change it.
KJ x
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"I'm not as choosy as most. But your profile has too many negatives and rules.
You need to come across as a happy chap not a miserable bugger.
Why do you expect anyone to send you a face pic before you send one?? And you are demanding that.
Sorry to be harsh but that's what I see. "
Men aren't in a position of power here.
You can ask for anything you like. But realistically as a man, you're not likely to get far with demands. |
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As above, you are one of a thousand profiles we may come across in the next week, so how do we sift through, first of all we have the simple stuff, age location height build etc ( that’s my basic stuff) then we are down to say 200 profiles so you get 5/10 seconds to stand out, some photos, not fussed about cock pics or faces just general build shape etc and a quick look at profile text, I know this is very general but sadly it’s pretty much how it goes. You might get 15 seconds for us to look and think let’s re read this profile and have a proper look.... stand out, be fun have some pictures |
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