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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message 
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest "
The worst are the ones that have the filter on and still have it in the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm straight but don't mind men messaging me. I'm here to make friends of both sexes as well as find a lover. I also find it flattering that someone wants to suck my cock, even if they are make, I'll take any compliment that comes my way. |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest "
some men protest too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention. "
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason |
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"I'm straight but don't mind men messaging me. I'm here to make friends of both sexes as well as find a lover. I also find it flattering that someone wants to suck my cock, even if they are make, I'll take any compliment that comes my way. "
Love your attitude  |
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention. "
It`s just sad blokes feeling sorry for themselves, Because nobody ever looks at their profile & they have to wink themselves to check it`s still working. |
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason"
Err, not really. Women deal with unwanted sexual attention every day. Blocking them makes them go away, makes our inboxes more manageable. Women usually do it without the tantrum, because we know how to deal with it. Men should learn. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention. "
That's why I chose that title for this thread. Some of them are written with such an air of toxic masculinity, it's as if they're terrified of anybody thinking they might be the tiniest bit gay  |
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
That's why I chose that title for this thread. Some of them are written with such an air of toxic masculinity, it's as if they're terrified of anybody thinking they might be the tiniest bit gay "
I remember seeing a cartoon years ago. Guy blatantly staring at a woman’s arse. She looks at him funny, he gets pissed off at her.
Different guy staring at the first guy's arse. He gets pissed off with him.
Happens all the time.
If it's a compliment when guys give women unwanted attention, why isn't it a compliment when guys do it to each other? |
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Just to agree with what several people have said. I've had *so* many messages and winks from guys who say either in profile text that they're not looking to meet guys, or have the filter on. I've met a few as well... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm A live and let live Person. If somebody wants to look at me and give me compliments on my bits who am I to stop them I'm straight but I have friends from all walks of life. I know what this site if for if I had a problem with other males I think i'd be questioning why I'm on here in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It caught me off guard at first to be fair. I got a lot of guys asking for meets, it’s backed off ff now and I don’t get any. Like somebody else said I don’t mind chat, helping each other out etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it interesting when i go to reply to a wink or a message i get the warning that the person is not seeking a tv. If so why wink or message?
I know some are curious or shy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
That's why I chose that title for this thread. Some of them are written with such an air of toxic masculinity, it's as if they're terrified of anybody thinking they might be the tiniest bit gay
I remember seeing a cartoon years ago. Guy blatantly staring at a woman’s arse. She looks at him funny, he gets pissed off at her.
Different guy staring at the first guy's arse. He gets pissed off with him.
Happens all the time.
If it's a compliment when guys give women unwanted attention, why isn't it a compliment when guys do it to each other? "
They're worries they'll catch the ghey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason"
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason"
It's not for the same reason. I didn't block men because I didn't want to meet men, I blocked men because I sick of rude, entitled and lazy messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason
It's not for the same reason. I didn't block men because I didn't want to meet men, I blocked men because I sick of rude, entitled and lazy messages. "
Spot. Fucking. On |
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I don't want to filter all men out in case someone has something interesting to say, at the same time it is quite annoying being hit on the whole time when you have made it obvious that you are not looking to meet with men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want to filter all men out in case someone has something interesting to say, at the same time it is quite annoying being hit on the whole time when you have made it obvious that you are not looking to meet with men. "
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason
It's not for the same reason. I didn't block men because I didn't want to meet men, I blocked men because I sick of rude, entitled and lazy messages. "
Yup. I'm not threatened by men (or people I'm not interested in) hitting on me. I haven't been since I was young enough that it was wildly inappropriate on their parts. It's just annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a couple of funny messages from men. One messaged me and when I told him I was straight, he said..
"it's fine I always have sex with straight men"
Really lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want to filter all men out in case someone has something interesting to say, at the same time it is quite annoying being hit on the whole time when you have made it obvious that you are not looking to meet with men. "
That's no different than saying "I only want to meet men over 6ft"for example and someone 5ft messages and says," I know you won't meet short men but"...
In an ideal world people would read profiles and respect preferences but thats not the case so as the OP says its easier to just block and contact the people you are interested in and fit their criteria. It would save a lot of hassle and frustration all round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a couple of funny messages from men. One messaged me and when I told him I was straight, he said..
"it's fine I always have sex with straight men"
Really lol "
I had that exact same message, and then he was confused when I replied with "Clearly you don't" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason
Err, not really. Women deal with unwanted sexual attention every day. Blocking them makes them go away, makes our inboxes more manageable. Women usually do it without the tantrum, because we know how to deal with it. Men should learn. "
Cracking generalisation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason
Err, not really. Women deal with unwanted sexual attention every day. Blocking them makes them go away, makes our inboxes more manageable. Women usually do it without the tantrum, because we know how to deal with it. Men should learn.
Cracking generalisation. "
I don't think you will find it is!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I feel like this thread has veered dangerously off-topic... It wasn't meant to be a generalisation, just my own bewilderment at how many people genuinely don't know the filters exist and then write these whiney statuses. |
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"I feel like this thread has veered dangerously off-topic... It wasn't meant to be a generalisation, just my own bewilderment at how many people genuinely don't know the filters exist and then write these whiney statuses. "
I think the issues go hand in hand to be honest. How dare people not cater to me even though I do nothing to make my own life easier? |
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"It also seems a bit homophobic and sensitive? Oh no, someone call the police, I'm getting unwanted sexual attention.
No more so than women blocking men for the same reason
Err, not really. Women deal with unwanted sexual attention every day. Blocking them makes them go away, makes our inboxes more manageable. Women usually do it without the tantrum, because we know how to deal with it. Men should learn.
Cracking generalisation.
I don't think you will find it is!
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It's incredibly common. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you "
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then. "
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a couple of funny messages from men. One messaged me and when I told him I was straight, he said..
"it's fine I always have sex with straight men"
Really lol
I had that exact same message, and then he was confused when I replied with "Clearly you don't" "
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value. "
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got my filters on that dont stop them fabbing your pics 
Why would that be an issue?
Because im not seeking guys attention "
So would you ask all your male followers to stop liking your Instagram posts then? |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up. "
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got my filters on that dont stop them fabbing your pics
Why would that be an issue?
Because im not seeking guys attention "
A certain female might not be seeking your attention but it doesn't prevent you from fabbing her pics |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got my filters on that dont stop them fabbing your pics
Why would that be an issue?
Because im not seeking guys attention
A certain female might not be seeking your attention but it doesn't prevent you from fabbing her pics"
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected "
You think everything is man bashing though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected "
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE. "
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men? "
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men? "
Read it.
The OP was using that as an example.
She reiterates further "people".
It being all about men is your interpretation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you. "
Or in fact, even if I weren't gay and just looked at women's profiles in general because that's what I'd decided to do with my time. Covering all bases here. Now please stop killing my thread. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you. "
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you.
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud. "
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
Read it.
The OP was using that as an example.
She reiterates further "people".
It being all about men is your interpretation."
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you.
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud.
Oh it was, was it ? Sorry, I totally forgot you were in my head at the time I wrote it and knew exactly what my intentions were. Did I consult you beforehand by any chance about the man-hating thread I was about to create? "
You wrote the title of the thread and used the example you used, not me.
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you.
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud.
Oh it was, was it ? Sorry, I totally forgot you were in my head at the time I wrote it and knew exactly what my intentions were. Did I consult you beforehand by any chance about the man-hating thread I was about to create?
You wrote the title of the thread and used the example you used, not me.
"
Because. It's. Based. On. My. Experiences.
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over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you.
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud.
Oh it was, was it ? Sorry, I totally forgot you were in my head at the time I wrote it and knew exactly what my intentions were. Did I consult you beforehand by any chance about the man-hating thread I was about to create?
You wrote the title of the thread and used the example you used, not me.
Because. It's. Based. On. My. Experiences.
Oh my god I have a headache now. "
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you.
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud.
Oh it was, was it ? Sorry, I totally forgot you were in my head at the time I wrote it and knew exactly what my intentions were. Did I consult you beforehand by any chance about the man-hating thread I was about to create?
You wrote the title of the thread and used the example you used, not me.
Because. It's. Based. On. My. Experiences.
Oh my god I have a headache now.
I rested my case about three messages ago - suggest you do the same "
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you.
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud.
Oh it was, was it ? Sorry, I totally forgot you were in my head at the time I wrote it and knew exactly what my intentions were. Did I consult you beforehand by any chance about the man-hating thread I was about to create?
You wrote the title of the thread and used the example you used, not me.
Because. It's. Based. On. My. Experiences.
Oh my god I have a headache now.
I rested my case about three messages ago - suggest you do the same "
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest "
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you.
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud.
Oh it was, was it ? Sorry, I totally forgot you were in my head at the time I wrote it and knew exactly what my intentions were. Did I consult you beforehand by any chance about the man-hating thread I was about to create?
You wrote the title of the thread and used the example you used, not me.
Because. It's. Based. On. My. Experiences.
Oh my god I have a headache now. "
I think you had better give up!! No wonder you have headache!! I would too, if I had bang my head against the wall like you've had to!! |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
Anyway youre straight. what are you doing looking at other womens profiles and judging them for?"
You say you're straight. What are you doing sticking your cock in other men's mouths?
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
Anyway youre straight. what are you doing looking at other womens profiles and judging them for?
You say you're straight. What are you doing sticking your cock in other men's mouths?
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Fab straight |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"A thread which finds a new way to bash men.
Yep, that's exactly what this is. Gold star for you
At least you’re honest about it - silver star for you
Take it I should start up a new thread bashing all men for not understanding sarcasm then.
I understand it perfectly but I chose to take your comment at face value.
Well then that's your problem.
My thread is not bashing men, it's bashing PEOPLE who exhibit a specific behaviour. It just so happens that I've only seen it happen on the male profiles because I'm that way inclined, hence, unsurprisingly, I don't search for women.
If you are a man who does the thing I mentioned in my OP, then yes this is bashing you. If you are a woman who does the thing then this is also probably one for you. If you are either a man or a woman who does NOT do the thing, then you can go about your day safely in the knowledge that no one has started up a thread in your honour.
I do hope that clears things up.
Gee thanks - your opening post seemed to be aimed at men, but I stand corrected
Please tell me where I've even slightly mentioned that it's only men who do this in my OP.
PLEASE.
Just by the by, you entitled this thread “NO MEN PLZ IM STR8” - so how could this thread apply to anyone other than men?
I've already explained this but if you want to go round in circles, fine - if I were gay and saw this on female profiles the title would read "NO WOMEN PLZ IM STR8". If you don't understand this concept there's nothing more I can do for you.
You didn’t put that though - you put what you put as the title of the thread. As a result, some of the usual suspects laid into men for being homophobic etc.
So I understand your post-hoc rationalisation of all this but your original point was aimed at men who don’t like to receive stuff from other men and all the implications that come with that.
There I will rest my case, m’lud.
Oh it was, was it ? Sorry, I totally forgot you were in my head at the time I wrote it and knew exactly what my intentions were. Did I consult you beforehand by any chance about the man-hating thread I was about to create?
You wrote the title of the thread and used the example you used, not me.
Because. It's. Based. On. My. Experiences.
Oh my god I have a headache now.
I rested my case about three messages ago - suggest you do the same
You're still going..."
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"I got my filters on that dont stop them fabbing your pics
Why would that be an issue?
Because im not seeking guys attention
So would you ask all your male followers to stop liking your Instagram posts then? "
If i had instagram ( i dont ) .. i wouldn't be posting these type of pics on there .. not saying guys cant cos i cant stop them .. but i’d prefer not as i dont get that excited if its guys .. |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
Anyway youre straight. what are you doing looking at other womens profiles and judging them for?
You say you're straight. What are you doing sticking your cock in other men's mouths?
"
Sex is sex. I dont find men attractive, id never go out with a guy nor date one. Therefore i dont class myself as bi. A Blow job is just a bow job after all - likei said a mouth is just a mouth afterall - and men give better head in my experience. Too much labelling on here.. Its just called being open minded. |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
Anyway youre straight. what are you doing looking at other womens profiles and judging them for?
You say you're straight. What are you doing sticking your cock in other men's mouths?
Sex is sex. I dont find men attractive, id never go out with a guy nor date one. Therefore i dont class myself as bi. A Blow job is just a bow job after all - likei said a mouth is just a mouth afterall - and men give better head in my experience. Too much labelling on here.. Its just called being open minded."
you fail to see the irony |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
Anyway youre straight. what are you doing looking at other womens profiles and judging them for?
You say you're straight. What are you doing sticking your cock in other men's mouths?
Sex is sex. I dont find men attractive, id never go out with a guy nor date one. Therefore i dont class myself as bi. A Blow job is just a bow job after all - likei said a mouth is just a mouth afterall - and men give better head in my experience. Too much labelling on here.. Its just called being open minded."
And before you know it a cock is just a cock and an arse is just an arse |
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"Next ill be being accused of being gay for liking a vibrator in the bum "
No it’s not attached to a man, I knew I was bi once I started experimenting with ladies and I enjoyed oral with them |
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99% of messages I get on here are from straight men , is it any wonder we get confused , it's ok for straight men to email gay men but not the other way around , how do we know who is a real straight man or a fab straight man |
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"99% of messages I get on here are from straight men , is it any wonder we get confused , it's ok for straight men to email gay men but not the other way around , how do we know who is a real straight man or a fab straight man "
Fab life would be much easier if people were honest on their profile, what’s the harm in ticking bi-curious or bi |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
Anyway youre straight. what are you doing looking at other womens profiles and judging them for?
You say you're straight. What are you doing sticking your cock in other men's mouths?
Sex is sex. I dont find men attractive, id never go out with a guy nor date one. Therefore i dont class myself as bi. A Blow job is just a bow job after all - likei said a mouth is just a mouth afterall - and men give better head in my experience. Too much labelling on here.. Its just called being open minded.
you fail to see the irony"
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
Anyway youre straight. what are you doing looking at other womens profiles and judging them for?
You say you're straight. What are you doing sticking your cock in other men's mouths?
Sex is sex. I dont find men attractive, id never go out with a guy nor date one. Therefore i dont class myself as bi. A Blow job is just a bow job after all - likei said a mouth is just a mouth afterall - and men give better head in my experience. Too much labelling on here.. Its just called being open minded.
And before you know it a cock is just a cock and an arse is just an arse "
At 34 i know where i am bud |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Every time I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest "
Not everyone is techy Greek like you  well where they feel the heat when they discovered the fire I am sure their arse was on fire  |
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I have never seen so much denial in my life about homosexual inclinations as on this site. Endless shagging of men in wigs, or endless claims that they only like playing with a cock but don't fancy men, or endless claims that sex is sex. I am surprised at the numbers of closet men or those in blind denial. This site is dripping in bisexual and gay men, just grow some damn balls and face up to what you are. You are fooling no one but yourselves |
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"I have never seen so much denial in my life about homosexual inclinations as on this site. Endless shagging of men in wigs, or endless claims that they only like playing with a cock but don't fancy men, or endless claims that sex is sex. I am surprised at the numbers of closet men or those in blind denial. This site is dripping in bisexual and gay men, just grow some damn balls and face up to what you are. You are fooling no one but yourselves "
Bullshit. Far too much stigma on here. People are what they are. We're in the 21st century mate. Apparently girls can be boys and boys can be girls now a days if they want to be. Nothing to do with denial, get over it. |
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"I have never seen so much denial in my life about homosexual inclinations as on this site. Endless shagging of men in wigs, or endless claims that they only like playing with a cock but don't fancy men, or endless claims that sex is sex. I am surprised at the numbers of closet men or those in blind denial. This site is dripping in bisexual and gay men, just grow some damn balls and face up to what you are. You are fooling no one but yourselves
Bullshit. Far too much stigma on here. People are what they are. We're in the 21st century mate. Apparently girls can be boys and boys can be girls now a days if they want to be. Nothing to do with denial, get over it."
Stigma? This is nothing compared to what I faced when I came out in 1996 aged only 16, took a hell of a lot of balls back then. You have it easy now, no excuses really. Seen a lot over the last 23 years and trust me genuine straight men do not keep sucking cocks. You are on the bisexual spectrum at least |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
The worst are the ones that have the filter on and still have it in the profile"
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest "
I mention in my profile that I’m straight but I allow men to contact me.
I get a lot of messages asking me for advice so I choose not to have the filter on. But some....ok most messages, are from “straight” guys looking for a suck. So I politely tell them I’m straight and to read my profile.
In fact, I get so many that I coined he term “fab straight v straight straight” |
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over a year ago
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest "
The only guys that have that as their status are the ones that secretly message men |
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"So bored of seeing statuses along the lines of "please stop messaging me men, I only like women". Why is it that so many people can't notice the fact that you can put filters on?? Everytime I tell someone with that sort of status about it they act as if I've just discovered fire... I get people being lazy when it comes to reading profiles etc but come on, it's literally plastered all over the site and at the bottom of every message
Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my chest
The only guys that have that as their status are the ones that secretly message men"
I must be the exception to the rule |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never seen so much denial in my life about homosexual inclinations as on this site. Endless shagging of men in wigs, or endless claims that they only like playing with a cock but don't fancy men, or endless claims that sex is sex. I am surprised at the numbers of closet men or those in blind denial. This site is dripping in bisexual and gay men, just grow some damn balls and face up to what you are. You are fooling no one but yourselves
Bullshit. Far too much stigma on here. People are what they are. We're in the 21st century mate. Apparently girls can be boys and boys can be girls now a days if they want to be. Nothing to do with denial, get over it.
Stigma? This is nothing compared to what I faced when I came out in 1996 aged only 16, took a hell of a lot of balls back then. You have it easy now, no excuses really. Seen a lot over the last 23 years and trust me genuine straight men do not keep sucking cocks. You are on the bisexual spectrum at least "
I appreciate your past but for fucks sake it seems everyone one here is very narrow minded. Definitely not on the 'bi' scene as you caall it, everyone needs to chill the fuck out and have some fun. If youd read my previous posts youd understand my frame of mind, i never said i suck cock. I thought this forumm was fullof open minded un judgmental people up or similar stuff... Seems othrwise from the reactions here. |
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By *akboyMan
over a year ago
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"99% of messages I get on here are from straight men , is it any wonder we get confused , it's ok for straight men to email gay men but not the other way around , how do we know who is a real straight man or a fab straight man
Fab life would be much easier if people were honest on their profile, what’s the harm in ticking bi-curious or bi "
Writing bicurious/bi tends to put off couples/girls imo, so it does make sense to just put straight, but alot of guys on here are definitely in denial over their curious side even on a discreet site like this. I only find "No guys" on a profile weird when they're the ones in your messages lol, denial culture is very strongg |
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"99% of messages I get on here are from straight men , is it any wonder we get confused , it's ok for straight men to email gay men but not the other way around , how do we know who is a real straight man or a fab straight man
Fab life would be much easier if people were honest on their profile, what’s the harm in ticking bi-curious or bi
Writing bicurious/bi tends to put off couples/girls imo, so it does make sense to just put straight, but alot of guys on here are definitely in denial over their curious side even on a discreet site like this. I only find "No guys" on a profile weird when they're the ones in your messages lol, denial culture is very strongg "
So because it puts someone off it makes sense well I’d rather put someone off than meet someone by lying, to get the best out this site be honest surely meets will be more fun if you're more suited! I think thats just an excuse, most aren’t put off by it............... I’m not but I am put off by liars blocking any that obviously is |
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