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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " Indeed,you very atractive.. but exposing these on the forum makes me think you looking to advertise yourself !and honestly for the way you look this makes me think you cheap, or you must be really pissed off with it but...Block the ones you don't like for whatever specific reasons you may have and that's that ! I mean no offence that's what I would do, my block list it's bloody crowded but hey ! Who cares ? lol | |||
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder One person may be stunning to one individual yet “ugly” to another " exactly | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. " Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " I get this all the time. And “OMG why are you single”. Really pisses me off | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge "Still doggedly missing the point to suit your own agenda I see. Implying that the only people fit for swinging are those too unattractive to make any connection away from a swinging site insults everybody. | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol" It’s an insult to all swingers, hardly something to ‘fall for’. | |||
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"You are attractive and we love that you are here. Problem solved "The only problem is with people thinking that the only thing left for anyone other than the ‘beautiful’ is a swinging site. It insults all of us. | |||
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"I’m rather to ugly or I’m too good for this site, has I’ve never been told either lol" Great bum though  | |||
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"I get told I could have any man I wanted. Even if I could, sometimes I want six in a session "I like that answer . Please tell me that's how you reply? | |||
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"I’m rather to ugly or I’m too good for this site, has I’ve never been told either lol Great bum though "Thank you x but yrs is far far greater | |||
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"You are attractive and we love that you are here. Problem solved
The only problem is with people thinking that the only thing left for anyone other than the ‘beautiful’ is a swinging site. It insults all of us."I can see the implication and it does, indeed, insult us all (see, sad face). I wonder if the people saying it actually understand what they are implying? Or are they just being extremely clumsy with their compliments?
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " ahhhh well what can you do  | |||
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"We have never been told that so we must be a Pair of old ugly munters. No wondered we struggle to get a meet. "Yeah you look terrible in those undies - I have to keep looking at you to check how bad you look | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " You do realise the serial players say this to everyone don’t you ? | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. You do realise the serial players say this to everyone don’t you ? " Well said,that's a true fact ! | |||
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder One person may be stunning to one individual yet “ugly” to another " Nope. There is definitely a shared idea on human beauty. By and large | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge
Still doggedly missing the point to suit your own agenda I see.
Implying that the only people fit for swinging are those too unattractive to make any connection away from a swinging site insults everybody."I personally think you believe that, and you take this wherever you want then ! If you being told by players you sexy and the light at the end of the tunnel for them, you , a nearly a 60 year old believe them ! Where's your experience though? Naive oh my lol | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge "Why are you making the post personal? If you don't see the point of a thread then it is v easy to ignore it. I totally get where you are coming from OP. Sad individuals trying to win u over, but insulting everyone on here. I've had the 'oh I wish my wife/gf was as hot as you' crap too. | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge
Still doggedly missing the point to suit your own agenda I see.
Implying that the only people fit for swinging are those too unattractive to make any connection away from a swinging site insults everybody.
I personally think you believe that, and you take this wherever you want then ! If you being told by players you sexy and the light at the end of the tunnel for them, you , a nearly a 60 year old believe them ! Where's your experience though? Naive oh my lol"Yet again another personal comment. | |||
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But seriously, that probably says more about the people sending that message than anything else  | |||
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"People chat sh*t on here, particularly if they want to get into your drawers "Opinions are shared, so OP just accept that there's another side to this not just what you see ! | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge
Still doggedly missing the point to suit your own agenda I see.
Implying that the only people fit for swinging are those too unattractive to make any connection away from a swinging site insults everybody.
I personally think you believe that, and you take this wherever you want then ! If you being told by players you sexy and the light at the end of the tunnel for them, you , a nearly a 60 year old believe them ! Where's your experience though? Naive oh my lol"Oh dear | |||
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"To be serious for a moment I do get fed up of being told this time and time and time again. . Life is so goddam hard when you're beautiful. " Frickin' tell me about it | |||
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"It isn't personal I don't think that loads of guys tell you that you are beautiful you should belive every word of it(players do this on a regular to get in your panties, FACT)or that only ugly people are swingers, swinger is a choice that doesn't care about look ages and shit ! I think you should stick with your own opinion and known advantages that you know you've got untill now, and usually if it's too good to be true IT AIN'T TRUE LOL Who else knows yourself better than you ay ? Everyone knows roughly how pretty or ugly they are and what sort of people and circles go with, the OP chooses to go with whatever the "cheeky fucker" Harry, Tom and Dick tells her and completly ignores her gut, then you got these victims here on forums, you lot are funny !!!" Yeh mate you just don't get it. | |||
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"It isn't personal I don't think that loads of guys tell you that you are beautiful you should belive every word of it(players do this on a regular to get in your panties, FACT)or that only ugly people are swingers, swinger is a choice that doesn't care about look ages and shit ! I think you should stick with your own opinion and known advantages that you know you've got untill now, and usually if it's too good to be true IT AIN'T TRUE LOL Who else knows yourself better than you ay ? Everyone knows roughly how pretty or ugly they are and what sort of people and circles go with, the OP chooses to go with whatever the "cheeky fucker" Harry, Tom and Dick tells her and completly ignores her gut, then you got these victims here on forums, you lot are funny !!! Yeh mate you just don't get it. "Yeah cool, look I'll give up ! In the end I don't really care what everyone does/thinks and how they manage their profiles on here, it's a free world ! I find it very funny though, you ppl are really serious ! sad you guys must be sad ! Bye, i'm out | |||
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"People chat sh*t on here, particularly if they want to get into your drawers
Opinions are shared, so OP just accept that there's another side to this not just what you see !"Now where is the 'repeatedly running into a glass door' emoji? | |||
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"Yes i get told this. My response is why r swingers meant to be ugly. They think is a compliment and is so not!" This attitude is prevalent on fab. You make my partner look shit. You're too good for fab. I think *insert body type of op of thread * are preferable to whatever is opposite. Not many women fall for it | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol" What do you mean another tatic chat up line  , noooo I've been falling for it!! Bugger that's my ego just been deflated | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge
Still doggedly missing the point to suit your own agenda I see.
Implying that the only people fit for swinging are those too unattractive to make any connection away from a swinging site insults everybody.
I personally think you believe that, and you take this wherever you want then ! If you being told by players you sexy and the light at the end of the tunnel for them, you , a nearly a 60 year old believe them ! Where's your experience though? Naive oh my lol"What’s up with you?!  | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol What do you mean another tatic chat up line , noooo I've been falling for it!! Bugger that's my ego just been deflated "Infact I'm going to remove ALL the mirrors in my house!! | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol It’s an insult to all swingers, hardly something to ‘fall for’." Don't 'fall for it' was a joke.. Wow so serious | |||
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"Putting up a thread about how 'attractive' you are will never bode well. There have been some stunning people (male and female) on here over the 8 years I've been swinging. Not all had personalities to match their looks. " Who has put a thread up saying how attractive they are? | |||
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"Putting up a thread about how 'attractive' you are will never bode well. There have been some stunning people (male and female) on here over the 8 years I've been swinging. Not all had personalities to match their looks. " She hasn’t... she’s pointing out the implications of their tired old line. Maybe read the thread? | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " Lol most women get told that by men or the ‘you could have anyone you want’ Means absolutely nothing to me because they say it to everyone to flatter the ego and get a foot in the door | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. Lol most women get told that by men or the ‘you could have anyone you want’ Means absolutely nothing to me because they say it to everyone to flatter the ego and get a foot in the door "Not sure its a foot they are looking to get in | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " Let me assure you, you’re not to attractive to be on here | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. Lol most women get told that by men or the ‘you could have anyone you want’ Means absolutely nothing to me because they say it to everyone to flatter the ego and get a foot in the door Not sure its a foot they are looking to get in "Oh I dunno, I've seen some pretty dodgy pictures in the past | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. Lol most women get told that by men or the ‘you could have anyone you want’ Means absolutely nothing to me because they say it to everyone to flatter the ego and get a foot in the door Not sure its a foot they are looking to get in
Oh I dunno, I've seen some pretty dodgy pictures in the past "Trust ! But they will still get told that haha | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. Lol most women get told that by men or the ‘you could have anyone you want’ Means absolutely nothing to me because they say it to everyone to flatter the ego and get a foot in the door Not sure its a foot they are looking to get in
Oh I dunno, I've seen some pretty dodgy pictures in the past that involve feet lol "(is what that should of said) | |||
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"I'm an ugly munter so I'm in the right place" I am not ugly, modest aswell, lol. | |||
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"It isn't personal I don't think that loads of guys tell you that you are beautiful you should belive every word of it(players do this on a regular to get in your panties, FACT)or that only ugly people are swingers, swinger is a choice that doesn't care about look ages and shit ! I think you should stick with your own opinion and known advantages that you know you've got untill now, and usually if it's too good to be true IT AIN'T TRUE LOL Who else knows yourself better than you ay ? Everyone knows roughly how pretty or ugly they are and what sort of people and circles go with, the OP chooses to go with whatever the "cheeky fucker" Harry, Tom and Dick tells her and completly ignores her gut, then you got these victims here on forums, you lot are funny !!! Yeh mate you just don't get it. "I have to disagree, I think he "gets it" just fine...and had the balls to say so. Think what he "gets" is that does the OP really think guys are saying that to her to insult every other swinger or just as a(bad) chat up line? I think it's pretty obvious it's the latter, right? Hope am not gonna get any flack for having an opinion too now.  | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol" Thank you, some people just cant stand a compliment either. Even if the guy were genuine, why would that annoy anyone? Somedays I think people wake up looking for something to be offended or annoyed about, but hey, to each his/her own | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol Thank you, some people just cant stand a compliment either. Even if the guy were genuine, why would that annoy anyone? Somedays I think people wake up looking for something to be offended or annoyed about, but hey, to each his/her own" But telling someone they are too attractive to be on here is a weird thing to say. I used to get on Pof that I was too beautiful to be single and on a dating app. Wtf, I was single because I hadn’t met a compatible person. Not because I can’t get a bf. | |||
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"Could someone just summarise the argument here please?!" I already have several times! | |||
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"Would a single male please post the same question, go on I dare you "Has any single man been told they are too attractive to be on Fab by a woman? It’s still an insult to all swingers. | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol Thank you, some people just cant stand a compliment either. Even if the guy were genuine, why would that annoy anyone? Somedays I think people wake up looking for something to be offended or annoyed about, but hey, to each his/her own" It’s an insult to all swingers, not a compliment. | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge
Why are you making the post personal? If you don't see the point of a thread then it is v easy to ignore it.
I totally get where you are coming from OP. Sad individuals trying to win u over, but insulting everyone on here. I've had the 'oh I wish my wife/gf was as hot as you' crap too. "Are you really hot? | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " How would anyone even know, you have no public face pics | |||
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"I'm assuming the reason I never get any messages/winks is because i'm too attractive? Ya that has to be it....... "You are attractive, maybe you're right | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge
Why are you making the post personal? If you don't see the point of a thread then it is v easy to ignore it.
I totally get where you are coming from OP. Sad individuals trying to win u over, but insulting everyone on here. I've had the 'oh I wish my wife/gf was as hot as you' crap too. Are you really hot? "Of course I am. They can tell from my pictures. | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. How would anyone even know, you have no public face pics " That's the whole point of the op. | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " I’ve had this a few times in the past few days, OP.
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol" Yeah they do! They say anything for attention! If no response then they are on to the next! | |||
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 . The worst ones are the "find similar" crowd. Who lied to you and told YOU that you were that good looking?
Be who you are, have all the fun you can possibly want and fuck the nay sayers. No one, absolutely NO ONE is too good looking for fabs or to ugly for fabs. Fat, slim, old, young, black, white, brown, whatever, there is going to be someone on fabs who finds you the most attractive, sexy, fuckable person about. So go find them and enjoy it | |||
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"This is not a direct answer to the OP but the judgemental dicks of fabs: A lot of people on here have the most enormous ego about their looks, physique, social status etc. Shame all that ego makes them the ugliest people on here . The worst ones are the "find similar" crowd. Who lied to you and told YOU that you were that good looking?
Be who you are, have all the fun you can possibly want and fuck the nay sayers. No one, absolutely NO ONE is too good looking for fabs or to ugly for fabs. Fat, slim, old, young, black, white, brown, whatever, there is going to be someone on fabs who finds you the most attractive, sexy, fuckable person about. So go find them and enjoy it "So right, so many actually take the attention they receive on fab as genuine and it goes straight to there heads...... | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol Yeah they do! They say anything for attention! If no response then they are on to the next! " Yep exactly and I just don't bother replying I just move along to the next message. It doesn't piss me off or annoy me it just makes me roll my eyes like this haha
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. Lol most women get told that by men or the ‘you could have anyone you want’ Means absolutely nothing to me because they say it to everyone to flatter the ego and get a foot in the door Not sure its a foot they are looking to get in "Pmsl that’s a great answer haha It’s true tho , we are all on here to meet people to whatever degree , we all put pics up hoping to attract people to meet and we all hope that someone out there on here finds us attractive enough It’s understanding the difference between compliments that are made to flatter our ego and messages that are curved out to every single other fabber Some can bat it off as a trier and some think they are actually the ONLY person they say it to It’s hard for men on here to find meets and if bigging up the person they are messaging works then you can’t blame them | |||
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"Waving frantically....look at me!!! One of those threads..." Who you?? | |||
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"Waving frantically....look at me!!! One of those threads... As if Topsy would or needs to "Thanks, it’s a shame that the actual point of my thread has been completely missed by most though. | |||
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"Waving frantically....look at me!!! One of those threads... As if Topsy would or needs to
Thanks, it’s a shame that the actual point of my thread has been completely missed by most though. "Way it goes! | |||
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"Just looked in the mirror and can confirm I’m a munter lol xxx " lol..... Awwww | |||
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"beauty is what you see, feel , touch and explore - body, mind, sensuality and erotic raw appeal - it is never arrogant (if it is it is not beautiful) " so true......... | |||
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder One person may be stunning to one individual yet “ugly” to another Nope. There is definitely a shared idea on human beauty. By and large" My friend looks like Sienna Miller...attractive right? She finds Johnny Vegas attractive..erm I most certainly don’t lol so yeah I think people have different ideas of attraction, you see it in every day life where you see couples and think what’s that hottie doing coupled up with him or vice versa of course | |||
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder One person may be stunning to one individual yet “ugly” to another Nope. There is definitely a shared idea on human beauty. By and large My friend looks like Sienna Miller...attractive right? She finds Johnny Vegas attractive..erm I most certainly don’t lol so yeah I think people have different ideas of attraction, you see it in every day life where you see couples and think what’s that hottie doing coupled up with him or vice versa of course " she's attracted to his personality not his look, personality can be beautiful too | |||
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder One person may be stunning to one individual yet “ugly” to another Nope. There is definitely a shared idea on human beauty. By and large My friend looks like Sienna Miller...attractive right? She finds Johnny Vegas attractive..erm I most certainly don’t lol so yeah I think people have different ideas of attraction, you see it in every day life where you see couples and think what’s that hottie doing coupled up with him or vice versa of course she's attracted to his personality not his look, personality can be beautiful too "No she finds him facially attractive, oh and you don’t know me I’m the biggest person on personality, a person can be extremely attractive to me in appearance but if their personality isn’t beautiful forget it the attractions gone so personality is a must. I just was pointing out that people’s view of attraction is different by the way that’s all lol nothing mentioned about personality | |||
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder One person may be stunning to one individual yet “ugly” to another Nope. There is definitely a shared idea on human beauty. By and large My friend looks like Sienna Miller...attractive right? She finds Johnny Vegas attractive..erm I most certainly don’t lol so yeah I think people have different ideas of attraction, you see it in every day life where you see couples and think what’s that hottie doing coupled up with him or vice versa of course she's attracted to his personality not his look, personality can be beautiful too
No she finds him facially attractive, oh and you don’t know me I’m the biggest person on personality, a person can be extremely attractive to me in appearance but if their personality isn’t beautiful forget it the attractions gone so personality is a must. I just was pointing out that people’s view of attraction is different by the way that’s all lol nothing mentioned about personality "I don't need any specifics to go off on a tangent | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have "I don't have a masserati or want one | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have I don't have a masserati or want one "poor mans Porsche apparently | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have "The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth. I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes. | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes."no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. | |||
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The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. "londoncouple2play she is beautiful | |||
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"It's just another tactic chat up line that some men use on here and probably say it to most women they message, don't fall for it lol" And like most chat up lines, there's little thought about if it's true, it just rolls off the tongue. I've been asked not a few times why am I still single as if something isn't right, there's got to be a catch. | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. "She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. ahhhh yes but does anyone?
Yes, frequently. "People ask to be complimented, really OK not something I've noticed, the Ops observation wasn't asked for I would say, it was given but in her opinion unwelcomed , why shouldn't beautiful people be here was her point and beautiful people are in abundance here, it was just a compliment that didn't sit well with her is all | |||
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Massively wrong, if you had read the thread, you’d know it but hey, assumptions are fun, right?"I have read it and it’s just my opinion if you don’t like what people are putting maybe think twice about posting | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
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Massively wrong, if you had read the thread, you’d know it but hey, assumptions are fun, right? I have read it and it’s just my opinion if you don’t like what people are putting maybe think twice about posting "You tend to hope people won't be rude or make assumptions...silly I know | |||
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"The point being (I thought I was clearer but obviously not) that some people think the only reason to be on a swingers website is because they are too unattractive to pull ‘out there’. That is insulting everybody who swings. You have no idea if I’m attractive or not, you’ve not seen my face or met me and I have no need to start a LAM thread or run my profile on the advice of someone else who has no idea about how I like to run my own profile. Oh right, sorry I did forgot to mention you LOOK attractive, although you could've work that out,not rocket science is it? I wouldn't dare to tell you how, I've told you what I would do, and actually stated that! I think you take things to personal, maybe you consider yourself a bit too important? Run your profile as you please, you must be looking for some kind of advice from people who experienced the same on here, that's why your post isn't it ? Otherwise you wouldn't post it here is it ? Or?... yeah maybe only for advertising that everyone tells you how hot you are? You know .. they view your profile,maybe fab pics, get a traffic flow on your profile, it can be lots .. I haven't got any sort of problem with tou lol,I just can't see thw reason for your post,I don't want to judge "Bloody hell, chill out ffs  | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. ahhhh yes but does anyone?
Yes, frequently. People ask to be complimented, really OK not something I've noticed, the Ops observation wasn't asked for I would say, it was given but in her opinion unwelcomed , why shouldn't beautiful people be here was her point and beautiful people are in abundance here, it was just a compliment that didn't sit well with her is all
You genuinely haven't noticed the threads asking in various ways to be complimented. Come on, you're not that naïve"that's just attention seeking I've already agreed that takes place, I kinda just see this as one big advertising agency and those that have the most success advertise well, asking for compliments as in the Ops situation is kind of different don't you think? | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. ahhhh yes but does anyone?
Yes, frequently. People ask to be complimented, really OK not something I've noticed, the Ops observation wasn't asked for I would say, it was given but in her opinion unwelcomed , why shouldn't beautiful people be here was her point and beautiful people are in abundance here, it was just a compliment that didn't sit well with her is all
You genuinely haven't noticed the threads asking in various ways to be complimented. Come on, you're not that naïvethat's just attention seeking I've already agreed that takes place, I kinda just see this as one big advertising agency and those that have the most success advertise well, asking for compliments as in the Ops situation is kind of different don't you think? "If you think this is about asking for compliments you misunderstand the point of the op. | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. ahhhh yes but does anyone?
Yes, frequently. People ask to be complimented, really OK not something I've noticed, the Ops observation wasn't asked for I would say, it was given but in her opinion unwelcomed , why shouldn't beautiful people be here was her point and beautiful people are in abundance here, it was just a compliment that didn't sit well with her is all
You genuinely haven't noticed the threads asking in various ways to be complimented. Come on, you're not that naïvethat's just attention seeking I've already agreed that takes place, I kinda just see this as one big advertising agency and those that have the most success advertise well, asking for compliments as in the Ops situation is kind of different don't you think?
If you think this is about asking for compliments you misunderstand the point of the op."I'm not misunderstanding though, somebody has complimented her by saying she's too beautiful too be here, she didn't appreciate this compliment, she didn't ask for it and it pisses her off getting it, I think I've grasped it don't you lol | |||
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"This post depicts why I left almost two years ago. The cynicism that creeps into most people on here and pervades fab as a whole. It restricts and even prevents what could often be beautiful outcomes. For me it's the single one thing as a sapiosexual that turns my switch off immediately with someone. Everyone assumes the worst without even thinking. Such negative vibes given off. It's sad." yes, this we are not all the same treat everyone as an individual, compliments are mostly genuine, that's a good thing right? | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. ahhhh yes but does anyone?
Yes, frequently. People ask to be complimented, really OK not something I've noticed, the Ops observation wasn't asked for I would say, it was given but in her opinion unwelcomed , why shouldn't beautiful people be here was her point and beautiful people are in abundance here, it was just a compliment that didn't sit well with her is all
You genuinely haven't noticed the threads asking in various ways to be complimented. Come on, you're not that naïvethat's just attention seeking I've already agreed that takes place, I kinda just see this as one big advertising agency and those that have the most success advertise well, asking for compliments as in the Ops situation is kind of different don't you think?
If you think this is about asking for compliments you misunderstand the point of the op.I'm not misunderstanding though, somebody has complimented her by saying she's too beautiful too be here, she didn't appreciate this compliment, she didn't ask for it and it pisses her off getting it, I think I've grasped it don't you lol "That "compliment" implies you're desperate if you're on site and unable to get sex elsewhere. That's why it's annoying. It's never nice for people to assume you'd be here because you need to be, over choosing to be. | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. ahhhh yes but does anyone?
Yes, frequently. People ask to be complimented, really OK not something I've noticed, the Ops observation wasn't asked for I would say, it was given but in her opinion unwelcomed , why shouldn't beautiful people be here was her point and beautiful people are in abundance here, it was just a compliment that didn't sit well with her is all
You genuinely haven't noticed the threads asking in various ways to be complimented. Come on, you're not that naïvethat's just attention seeking I've already agreed that takes place, I kinda just see this as one big advertising agency and those that have the most success advertise well, asking for compliments as in the Ops situation is kind of different don't you think?
If you think this is about asking for compliments you misunderstand the point of the op.I'm not misunderstanding though, somebody has complimented her by saying she's too beautiful too be here, she didn't appreciate this compliment, she didn't ask for it and it pisses her off getting it, I think I've grasped it don't you lol "Yes I think you have. Although that isn't what you said. Anyhow, you have a nice day. | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. ahhhh yes but does anyone?
Yes, frequently. People ask to be complimented, really OK not something I've noticed, the Ops observation wasn't asked for I would say, it was given but in her opinion unwelcomed , why shouldn't beautiful people be here was her point and beautiful people are in abundance here, it was just a compliment that didn't sit well with her is all
You genuinely haven't noticed the threads asking in various ways to be complimented. Come on, you're not that naïvethat's just attention seeking I've already agreed that takes place, I kinda just see this as one big advertising agency and those that have the most success advertise well, asking for compliments as in the Ops situation is kind of different don't you think?
If you think this is about asking for compliments you misunderstand the point of the op.I'm not misunderstanding though, somebody has complimented her by saying she's too beautiful too be here, she didn't appreciate this compliment, she didn't ask for it and it pisses her off getting it, I think I've grasped it don't you lol
That "compliment" implies you're desperate if you're on site and unable to get sex elsewhere. That's why it's annoying.
It's never nice for people to assume you'd be here because you need to be, over choosing to be."How are you desperate lol a compliment is given with good intentions here it is amplified but the person complimenting don't forget doesn't always know that, I know that you know that the Op knows that but perhaps the person that gave the compliment doesn't, perhaps it's the first time they said it, consider that, I know you can't but it could be the case as I said too much of something, a beautiful place, a creative job, an exercise regime will eventually get to you and the same applies to this, it was meant to be a positive in this case it ended up a negative, desperation nowhere to be seen | |||
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"I’m tending to think this was more of a look at me ain’t I in good shape for my age I could be wrong so shoot me down in flames if you want but as op has no face pics we can’t say pretty or not so pretty but as people have said in posts further up more to beauty than what ones mug is deemed pretty or plug ugly mind it makes a change from hung men asking what Is deemed as hung or people bragging about the big fancy cars they probably don’t have
The op is making the point that some men will try to flatter women on here by insulting all other women. It happens on fab a lot, just see the threads started by larger women which quickly garner comments such as 'only dogs like bones'. Believe me the woman who started this thread is one of the last to ask directly or indirectly for people to validate her attractiveness from previous posts she knows her own worth.
I think it's a real shame that as soon as a woman is perceived to have high self esteem people attempt to destroy it yet flock to women who have no confidence in themselves. It says an awful lot about motives and speaks volumes about attitudes.no I disagree, I think most would see anyone who starts a thread including me as attention seeking and let's face it not many threads are thought provoking. The Ops point I think is that of a compliment gone wrong as many do because of their overuse their are many beautiful women on this site and I imagine they get so much interest especially those that dare to show the face one in particular that captures my imagination the name of profile escapes me at the moment. Unfortunately the balance of men to women mean that women get far more compliments than is probably healthy and too much of anything good puts you off it eventually, we can't see the Op so we can't evaluate her beauty only those that have met her or had a picture sent to them can judge, beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
She isn't asking to have her beauty evaluated. ahhhh yes but does anyone?
Yes, frequently. People ask to be complimented, really OK not something I've noticed, the Ops observation wasn't asked for I would say, it was given but in her opinion unwelcomed , why shouldn't beautiful people be here was her point and beautiful people are in abundance here, it was just a compliment that didn't sit well with her is all
You genuinely haven't noticed the threads asking in various ways to be complimented. Come on, you're not that naïvethat's just attention seeking I've already agreed that takes place, I kinda just see this as one big advertising agency and those that have the most success advertise well, asking for compliments as in the Ops situation is kind of different don't you think?
If you think this is about asking for compliments you misunderstand the point of the op.I'm not misunderstanding though, somebody has complimented her by saying she's too beautiful too be here, she didn't appreciate this compliment, she didn't ask for it and it pisses her off getting it, I think I've grasped it don't you lol
That "compliment" implies you're desperate if you're on site and unable to get sex elsewhere. That's why it's annoying.
It's never nice for people to assume you'd be here because you need to be, over choosing to be.How are you desperate lol a compliment is given with good intentions here it is amplified but the person complimenting don't forget doesn't always know that, I know that you know that the Op knows that but perhaps the person that gave the compliment doesn't, perhaps it's the first time they said it, consider that, I know you can't but it could be the case as I said too much of something, a beautiful place, a creative job, an exercise regime will eventually get to you and the same applies to this, it was meant to be a positive in this case it ended up a negative, desperation nowhere to be seen "That's your interpretation though, why is the op not entitled to hers without being made out to be seeking attention? | |||
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"Not that anyone reads whole threads but here goes again... Stating that someone is too attractive to be here is saying that the only people who swing are ugly, sad folk who don’t get anything ‘out there’. It insults all of us. " A compliment is always lovely, but as you say, if it’s done in a way that actually comes across as insulting it isn’t worth it in the first place. Like you’re only worth complimenting if you’re aesthetically pleasing x It’s like the “you’re too gorgeous to be single” compliment xx | |||
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"You often see advice given to men to compliment someone you are messaging in the hope it will give you a favourable start. In my discussions with female swinger friends and playmates the compliments can be inane and often crass. Women on fab get complimented on appearance all the time even when they have no photos ! It just comes accross as the same old stuff. In this case the OP has picked up on a particular crass compliment. " The “you’re gorgeous” message on the blank avatar, it’s pointless! xx | |||
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"Not that anyone reads whole threads but here goes again... Stating that someone is too attractive to be here is saying that the only people who swing are ugly, sad folk who don’t get anything ‘out there’. It insults all of us. A compliment is always lovely, but as you say, if it’s done in a way that actually comes across as insulting it isn’t worth it in the first place. Like you’re only worth complimenting if you’re aesthetically pleasing x It’s like the “you’re too gorgeous to be single” compliment xx" | |||
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"Always getting asked why i do not have a boyfriend. Simple, i do not want one." But you need one!! Then you won’t be on here and that will prove how attractive you are!! Don’t stay on here, it negates your beauty, haha xx Oh wait! That doesn’t work, must mean Mr and myself are ugly! Although tbh, I do use him to get noticed, he’s gorgeous, punching above my weight and all that, but he’s the lure, and I’ll take advantage of that xx | |||
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"I’ve been asked this several times now and it really pisses me off. Only ugly munters should be here apparantly. " How do people know you are ??? You can’t see your face ?! Do they just mean your body is in great shape or are they saying it after they have seen your face ? | |||
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"Always getting asked why i do not have a boyfriend. Simple, i do not want one. But you need one!! Then you won’t be on here and that will prove how attractive you are!! Don’t stay on here, it negates your beauty, haha xx Oh wait! That doesn’t work, must mean Mr and myself are ugly! Although tbh, I do use him to get noticed, he’s gorgeous, punching above my weight and all that, but he’s the lure, and I’ll take advantage of that xx"How does he lure them in when we can't see him? Is he magic? | |||
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