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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people have hangouts for a lot of reasons and they don’t have to like themselves, some are more modest naturally despite being in this lifestyle. Some don’t want to be ridiculed or fear it based on past experiences. One answer doesn’t fit all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be bad about my body but now I am pretty much at a stage where I think "Here I am, take it or leave it." Hence my fully nude photo with all my bumbs on show.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Upbringing. Societal pressures and expectations. Comments from the past. It varies so much doesn't it?
I know I have a slightly skewed view of my appearance. Almost rwo years ago I was nearly 6 stones heavier than I am now, in my mind I'm still that size. Add in some not particularly nice comments and it sort of sticks with you. Fat isn't good and not attractive yadda yadda.
This weekend past I had a mini epiphany. I'm going to stop covering up and stop being so hard on myself. No one's going to think I'm suddenly a size 10 because I pop a cardi on but I can be an attractive size 18 and be confident in myself. That's sexy - that confidence that who you are is more than good enough and people will find your body attractive. |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"Some people have hangouts for a lot of reasons and they don’t have to like themselves, some are more modest naturally despite being in this lifestyle. Some don’t want to be ridiculed or fear it based on past experiences. One answer doesn’t fit all. "
Its a shame anyone should feel like that though - we should be able to let it all hang out - big or small.
Oh to live in an ideal world..... |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"Upbringing. Societal pressures and expectations. Comments from the past. It varies so much doesn't it?
I know I have a slightly skewed view of my appearance. Almost rwo years ago I was nearly 6 stones heavier than I am now, in my mind I'm still that size. Add in some not particularly nice comments and it sort of sticks with you. Fat isn't good and not attractive yadda yadda.
This weekend past I had a mini epiphany. I'm going to stop covering up and stop being so hard on myself. No one's going to think I'm suddenly a size 10 because I pop a cardi on but I can be an attractive size 18 and be confident in myself. That's sexy - that confidence that who you are is more than good enough and people will find your body attractive. "
Bloody love hearing that Meli- you are a stunning lady (and you looked great at weekend!!!!)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love when i go to a club with hubs and its full of confident women of all shapes and size's they are the best clubs confident women of all sizes so sexy so hot and the best environment for clubs
wish the not so confident women would go because they will see no one gives a stuff what size you are yes there are preference's in play but from what i see the women with curves do very well indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I for 1 don't really enjoy seeing folks bits hang out.
As I'm sure folk don't like seeing mine either.
Time and a place for everything.
Yes be body confident but don't kid yourself on either. |
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I find it hard but it’s getting easier the more I show off my body the better I’m feeling about it. But it’s taken years to get here. I hated the way I looked for a long time still do at times.
Molly
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"i love when i go to a club with hubs and its full of confident women of all shapes and size's they are the best clubs confident women of all sizes so sexy so hot and the best environment for clubs
wish the not so confident women would go because they will see no one gives a stuff what size you are yes there are preference's in play but from what i see the women with curves do very well indeed "
 100% this!!
I am in complete agreement 
I host a curvy night for ladies of ALL sizes to flaunt their curves and feel liberated watching ladies doing just that with no bitchiness. I love all club nights but it's as if some ladies need the curvy nights to strut their stuff!?
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It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!! |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"I for 1 don't really enjoy seeing folks bits hang out.
As I'm sure folk don't like seeing mine either.
Time and a place for everything.
Yes be body confident but don't kid yourself on either."
I'm not talking about anyone being inappropriately dressed in the street. No matter your size I'd find a bikini in Tesco all wrong  |
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I agree with Meli. I often do.
I think it's hard to find the confidence from within. I've been between a size 8 and a size 24, and the dress size is irrelevant to my confidence levels. I finally realised that I'm good enough as I am at a size 16/18. And at a very different 14, it's been interesting to see how opinions of me have changed. As if my body is about other people. It's not. It's about me. It's mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This weekend past I had a mini epiphany. I'm going to stop covering up and stop being so hard on myself. No one's going to think I'm suddenly a size 10 because I pop a cardi on "
It took me years to realise this!
I'm now the biggest I've ever been and I'm not sure if it's an age thing - but I gives less fucks now about covering it all up.
Wearing a cardi really doesn't make anyone look slimmer - it just makes fatties like me uncomfortably hot in the summer 
I wish I had felt like this 20yrs ago  |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"All that matters is what you think about yourself, everyone else’s view is irrelevant; unless it’s positive. "
Wish some peeps could change their own visions of themselves though - we all put ourselves down for what is often the wrong reasons |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
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This weekend past I had a mini epiphany. I'm going to stop covering up and stop being so hard on myself. No one's going to think I'm suddenly a size 10 because I pop a cardi on
It took me years to realise this!
I'm now the biggest I've ever been and I'm not sure if it's an age thing - but I gives less fucks now about covering it all up.
Wearing a cardi really doesn't make anyone look slimmer - it just makes fatties like me uncomfortably hot in the summer
I wish I had felt like this 20yrs ago "
Good lass!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All that matters is what you think about yourself, everyone else’s view is irrelevant; unless it’s positive.
Wish some peeps could change their own visions of themselves though - we all put ourselves down for what is often the wrong reasons "
Well sometimes it takes something to happen to change peoples views about themselves, to build the confidence and not to care what people think. Keeping yourself happy is the main thing in life and keep the ones you love happy too x |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!! "
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!  |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"I agree with Meli. I often do.
I think it's hard to find the confidence from within. I've been between a size 8 and a size 24, and the dress size is irrelevant to my confidence levels. I finally realised that I'm good enough as I am at a size 16/18. And at a very different 14, it's been interesting to see how opinions of me have changed. As if my body is about other people. It's not. It's about me. It's mine. "
Soooo right. Its yours - all yours and do with it what makes YOU happy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Self esteem and life experiences an effect how we feel, for women having children can sometimes change us, maybe unhealthy relationships, media, false Hollywood glamour, many factors. Iv been 7 stone and 20 stone and hated myself at both, sexy and confidence is an attitude not a dress size. Being comfy in ur own skin is liberating not needing approval from others and loving and accepting yourself as you are as a person not an image is the beginning. If you are beautiful in the inside as a person I think this oozes out of a person and makes them attractive regardless. Self love is Essential and sadly not everyone has it  |
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!! "
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......  |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"Self esteem and life experiences an effect how we feel, for women having children can sometimes change us, maybe unhealthy relationships, media, false Hollywood glamour, many factors. Iv been 7 stone and 20 stone and hated myself at both, sexy and confidence is an attitude not a dress size. Being comfy in ur own skin is liberating not needing approval from others and loving and accepting yourself as you are as a person not an image is the beginning. If you are beautiful in the inside as a person I think this oozes out of a person and makes them attractive regardless. Self love is Essential and sadly not everyone has it "
I wish I had a wand that as well as giving orgasms dished out oodles of self esteem..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday....... "
Did Someone mention DOXY |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY "
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!! "
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished   |
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished "
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As far as I'm concerned, curvylicious lushness go straight to the front of my que. If I had a que that is 
You know where you need to visit right!?
Only if you promise me plenty of curvylicious lushness willing to let me give all my attention to
Can't make promises like that..... there will be delicious ladies, its upto you to convince them they need lavishing with your attention "
Haha. Of course, I'll happily try and convince them. Hopefully, I'll succeed. Be fun trying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
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If your doing the pleasing we will be doing the attending |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
If your doing the pleasing we will be doing the attending "
see you Saturday? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
If your doing the pleasing we will be doing the attending
see you Saturday? "
We’re busy in vanilla world but definitely have to sort something x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never been comfortable in my body...... I’m just a good actress. "
Absolutely nothing wrong with your body. Once are relaxed about that, sex will be so much better |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Before I joined fab I had never been with anyone over a size 12. Being here has expanded my horizons and made me more open minded. Some of the sexiest women i've met are curvier. The confidence some of them have give even me pause! |
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
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i used to hate my curves and thought i was way to fat for any man to find me desirable at all but going to clubs has made me more confident and i love dressing down into my lingerie now. i have so much more confidence. I’m now at the point where i’m happy and i am who i am. take me or leave me!
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
If your doing the pleasing we will be doing the attending
see you Saturday? We’re busy in vanilla world but definitely have to sort something x"
Upcoming dates on our profile |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve never been comfortable in my body...... I’m just a good actress.
You are a bloody good actress lady! You look gorgeous too - your many admirers can vouch for this "
Ha!! Thank you...... what admirers??
Love you hanky x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i used to hate my curves and thought i was way to fat for any man to find me desirable at all but going to clubs has made me more confident and i love dressing down into my lingerie now. i have so much more confidence. I’m now at the point where i’m happy and i am who i am. take me or leave me!
That’s the best way to do it and clubs are a great way to meet people who are on the same page and non judgemental x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
If your doing the pleasing we will be doing the attending
see you Saturday? We’re busy in vanilla world but definitely have to sort something x
Upcoming dates on our profile "
will keep a eye on them x |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"Before I joined fab I had never been with anyone over a size 12. Being here has expanded my horizons and made me more open minded. Some of the sexiest women i've met are curvier. The confidence some of them have give even me pause! "
Open minded is good!!!
And so are curves |
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I've always been confident, despite not being what society classes as slim....heck, I even dance on stage in my underwear.
Saying that though, I can understand why some women have hangups due to negative comments...I just have the mindset that nobody is attractive to everyone regardless of their physical appearance |
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My hesitation at this stage is not wanting to take the stage from others. I still have my hangups etc, but I probably get more general societal recognition for my body being attractive. (it comes with its own issues, but lifting is something I do voluntarily)
I know I used to feel less than compared to smaller ladies, and I don't want to do that to anyone else. Particularly not at a curvy event. |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"i used to hate my curves and thought i was way to fat for any man to find me desirable at all but going to clubs has made me more confident and i love dressing down into my lingerie now. i have so much more confidence. I’m now at the point where i’m happy and i am who i am. take me or leave me!
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Exactly. I wish more women who have never been to a club would make the effort to try one so they'd maybe love themselves a little more too..... |
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
newcastle under lyme |
"i used to hate my curves and thought i was way to fat for any man to find me desirable at all but going to clubs has made me more confident and i love dressing down into my lingerie now. i have so much more confidence. I’m now at the point where i’m happy and i am who i am. take me or leave me!
Exactly. I wish more women who have never been to a club would make the effort to try one so they'd maybe love themselves a little more too..... "
I think it’s a great confidence booster |
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"My hesitation at this stage is not wanting to take the stage from others. I still have my hangups etc, but I probably get more general societal recognition for my body being attractive. (it comes with its own issues, but lifting is something I do voluntarily)
I know I used to feel less than compared to smaller ladies, and I don't want to do that to anyone else. Particularly not at a curvy event. "
Honestly talking as a bigger woman I completely understand where you are coming from. I think as long as there's respect curve nights can be for everyone.
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
If your doing the pleasing we will be doing the attending "
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I would like to add. From a man's point of view. Can't speak for everyone, but most men genuinely love curves. You may think (rightly so) we say we love curvy women in order to get laid. Just remember, some of us actually mean it, without the desire to meet x |
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
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"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type. "
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now. |
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"My hesitation at this stage is not wanting to take the stage from others. I still have my hangups etc, but I probably get more general societal recognition for my body being attractive. (it comes with its own issues, but lifting is something I do voluntarily)
I know I used to feel less than compared to smaller ladies, and I don't want to do that to anyone else. Particularly not at a curvy event.
Honestly talking as a bigger woman I completely understand where you are coming from. I think as long as there's respect curve nights can be for everyone.
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I certainly hope so |
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
If your doing the pleasing we will be doing the attending .
Lmao definitely up for that will bring the strap on "
WOOOHOOOOO!! Xmas come/cum early |
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
If your doing the pleasing we will be doing the attending .
Lmao definitely up for that will bring the strap on WOOOHOOOOO!! Xmas come/cum early "
Wrong icon!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now."
Flaunting the curves was mentioned and from that people assume the larger lady as curvy is how many prefer to be described. So I think it was a fair assumption that this thread was aimed towards the more curvey, given the language used and the responses tbh |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now.
Flaunting the curves was mentioned and from that people assume the larger lady as curvy is how many prefer to be described. So I think it was a fair assumption that this thread was aimed towards the more curvey, given the language used and the responses tbh"
That's the point of the thread. Curves come in ALL sizes and we should ALL be proud and have the confidence to flaunt them no matter their size. |
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
newcastle under lyme |
"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now.
Flaunting the curves was mentioned and from that people assume the larger lady as curvy is how many prefer to be described. So I think it was a fair assumption that this thread was aimed towards the more curvey, given the language used and the responses tbh"
i was just speaking from my own personal thoughts about how i felt about my body, sorry if caused offence |
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"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now.
Flaunting the curves was mentioned and from that people assume the larger lady as curvy is how many prefer to be described. So I think it was a fair assumption that this thread was aimed towards the more curvey, given the language used and the responses tbh
i was just speaking from my own personal thoughts about how i felt about my body, sorry if caused offence "
Chill. No offence I'm just commenting on the language used is all. |
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
newcastle under lyme |
"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now.
Flaunting the curves was mentioned and from that people assume the larger lady as curvy is how many prefer to be described. So I think it was a fair assumption that this thread was aimed towards the more curvey, given the language used and the responses tbh
i was just speaking from my own personal thoughts about how i felt about my body, sorry if caused offence
Chill. No offence I'm just commenting on the language used is all. "
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now."
You shouldn't hide you are sexy AF! |
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"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now.
Flaunting the curves was mentioned and from that people assume the larger lady as curvy is how many prefer to be described. So I think it was a fair assumption that this thread was aimed towards the more curvey, given the language used and the responses tbh
That's the point of the thread. Curves come in ALL sizes and we should ALL be proud and have the confidence to flaunt them no matter their size. "
I get that and agree. But ask anyone on here what a curvy woman looks like and very few would mention someone who's slim.
Just thought it worth mentioning is all. Please continue to celebrate the different body shapes/ sizes. X
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
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"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now.
You shouldn't hide you are sexy AF!"
Aww thankyou xx |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"Erm last I heard body confidence issues aren't limited to one body type.
I agree. when i was a lot smaller i hid under baggy clothes to then have my children and become a bigger girl and still hide until now.
Flaunting the curves was mentioned and from that people assume the larger lady as curvy is how many prefer to be described. So I think it was a fair assumption that this thread was aimed towards the more curvey, given the language used and the responses tbh
That's the point of the thread. Curves come in ALL sizes and we should ALL be proud and have the confidence to flaunt them no matter their size.
I get that and agree. But ask anyone on here what a curvy woman looks like and very few would mention someone who's slim.
Just thought it worth mentioning is all. Please continue to celebrate the different body shapes/ sizes. X
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Goes back to the point of the thread and preconceived ideas I guess!?
We have had ladies who attend our flaubt parties from size 0 thru to around a size 30, and all are welcome with no judgments |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"My hesitation at this stage is not wanting to take the stage from others. I still have my hangups etc, but I probably get more general societal recognition for my body being attractive. (it comes with its own issues, but lifting is something I do voluntarily)
I know I used to feel less than compared to smaller ladies, and I don't want to do that to anyone else. Particularly not at a curvy event.
Honestly talking as a bigger woman I completely understand where you are coming from. I think as long as there's respect curve nights can be for everyone.
I certainly hope so "
Most certainly so - proven at pur parties  |
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I agree with points mentioned earlier in the thread.. childhood experiences, comments made by others, societal expectations.
My issues aren’t as much around what other people think - I’ve had compliments, I just don’t believe them - they’re based on my own ideas of what’s attractive and not, and I don’t match up to my own standards |
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Before i had kids i used to be super skinny. Not easy adjusting to now being a fatty along with the stretch marks, cellulite not everyone is comfortable in their own skin. I sure as hell am not. But with my bf he makes me feel sexy cause he doesn't care about all my imperfections. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I agree with points mentioned earlier in the thread.. childhood experiences, comments made by others, societal expectations.
My issues aren’t as much around what other people think - I’ve had compliments, I just don’t believe them - they’re based on my own ideas of what’s attractive and not, and I don’t match up to my own standards"
You look great girl..... |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Before i had kids i used to be super skinny. Not easy adjusting to now being a fatty along with the stretch marks, cellulite not everyone is comfortable in their own skin. I sure as hell am not. But with my bf he makes me feel sexy cause he doesn't care about all my imperfections."
They are imperfections to you but not him..... He has the right idea! Xx |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't do nude pics though I do embrace my body by showing myself in lingerie"
I don't do nude either - I'm not saying we should all strip off, just saying we should be happier in our own skins x |
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin? "
I’ve never met anyone that’s 100% happy with themselves , I’m not myself but just do the best with what I’ve got
Lots of us come from abusive , damaging relationships that maybe have knocked our confidence
It’s about rebuilding and sticking 2 fingers up
I love the fact I look better now than my previous life and love the fact my ex looks worse haha |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin?
I’ve never met anyone that’s 100% happy with themselves , I’m not myself but just do the best with what I’ve got
Lots of us come from abusive , damaging relationships that maybe have knocked our confidence
It’s about rebuilding and sticking 2 fingers up
I love the fact I look better now than my previous life and love the fact my ex looks worse haha "
I agree that nobody is probably 100% happy, but it's about shaking what your momma gave ya and having the confidence to do it x |
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin?
I’ve never met anyone that’s 100% happy with themselves , I’m not myself but just do the best with what I’ve got
Lots of us come from abusive , damaging relationships that maybe have knocked our confidence
It’s about rebuilding and sticking 2 fingers up
I love the fact I look better now than my previous life and love the fact my ex looks worse haha
I agree that nobody is probably 100% happy, but it's about shaking what your momma gave ya and having the confidence to do it x"
Absolutely !!! Have to be honest fab is a great platform for giving confidence |
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Won’t lie kind of hated my body before going to a club and having to dress down! Then after seeing everyone else, alllllll shapes and sizes I started to “like” my body again, still don’t love it but like is better than nothing Gemma |
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I know this is ladies thing but in been twice to club, sometime I have felt uneasy in my skin sometimes ,but been working hard body wise now with my little gym ,set up at home but always looking to improve my mental and physical health. Don't like that I am pale but not that desperate enough for spray tan lol |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"Won’t lie kind of hated my body before going to a club and having to dress down! Then after seeing everyone else, alllllll shapes and sizes I started to “like” my body again, still don’t love it but like is better than nothing Gemma "
Its a great confidence boost for sure |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"I know this is ladies thing but in been twice to club, sometime I have felt uneasy in my skin sometimes ,but been working hard body wise now with my little gym ,set up at home but always looking to improve my mental and physical health. Don't like that I am pale but not that desperate enough for spray tan lol"
Nooooo you'd look a numpty with a spray tan - Strictly come Shagnar! |
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
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I have one too recently bought about 5 attachment , I’f I ever find myself at an event I’ll bring mine too x could get interesting |
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"I know this is ladies thing but in been twice to club, sometime I have felt uneasy in my skin sometimes ,but been working hard body wise now with my little gym ,set up at home but always looking to improve my mental and physical health. Don't like that I am pale but not that desperate enough for spray tan lol
Nooooo you'd look a numpty with a spray tan - Strictly come Shagnar! "
what I mean not that desprate lol anyway rather go on club semi skimmed white the bright red burnt or umpalumpee orange |
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"It took me a long time to realise it about myself but its true every woman has a sexiness about them.
I have been exceptionally lucky and blessed the past almost 3 years in this life style and found yes I have curves and yes others actually like them.
I was massively bullied when younger and even had some women in the lifestyle be a little abrasive. But the way I look at it I love my wobbly bits and know lots of others who do.
Personally I think all women in every shape and size are beautiful!!
You are stunning lady.....
I would
Oh, hang on..... I HAVE!!
Lmao yes and well that was a very steamy and wet evening.
My only real comment to that is the doxy is coming out saturday.......
Did Someone mention DOXY
Yes and she's a demon with it!! Had me virtually hanging off the ceiling last time she 'attacked' me with it!!!
Very intense I still feel the vibration half an hour after it’s finished
Well if you ever find yourself at a club night I'm at always have it with me.
What can I say I'm a pleaser
I have one too recently bought about 5 attachment , I’f I ever find myself at an event I’ll bring mine too x could get interesting "
just read this chat escalated quickly lol |
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My ex used to put my body down after having children and after we split up I had very low confidence about my body and was single and didn’t have sex with anyone for 2 years. Then I met a younger guy on Tinder and he gave me so much confidence about myself and my body. I still have a few hangups but I’m nowhere near as bad |
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"My ex used to put my body down after having children and after we split up I had very low confidence about my body and was single and didn’t have sex with anyone for 2 years. Then I met a younger guy on Tinder and he gave me so much confidence about myself and my body. I still have a few hangups but I’m nowhere near as bad "
look at your pics I have to say wit woo |
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin? "
I used to be, then I wasn't, then I was and now I'm not.... Working on being happy in my own skin again,I'm a work in progress. |
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I've always been a big girl and years of bullying both mentally and physically has really stuck with me.
I absolutely hate my stomach being seen/touched. The thought of it makes me feel sick.
I have a couple of curvy friends that I've met at clubs and they always look amazing both dressed up and dressed down. They ooze confidence and I admire them so much.
I've recently joined the gym in the hope that I can lose some of my weight and hopefully start to love myself a little xx |
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"I've always been a big girl and years of bullying both mentally and physically has really stuck with me.
I absolutely hate my stomach being seen/touched. The thought of it makes me feel sick.
I have a couple of curvy friends that I've met at clubs and they always look amazing both dressed up and dressed down. They ooze confidence and I admire them so much.
I've recently joined the gym in the hope that I can lose some of my weight and hopefully start to love myself a little xx"
You're lovely. I hope you can see that in time. |
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"My ex used to put my body down after having children and after we split up I had very low confidence about my body and was single and didn’t have sex with anyone for 2 years. Then I met a younger guy on Tinder and he gave me so much confidence about myself and my body. I still have a few hangups but I’m nowhere near as bad look at your pics I have to say wit woo "
Thank you |
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"My ex used to put my body down after having children and after we split up I had very low confidence about my body and was single and didn’t have sex with anyone for 2 years. Then I met a younger guy on Tinder and he gave me so much confidence about myself and my body. I still have a few hangups but I’m nowhere near as bad "
I had an ex like that ... 23 years of put downs
Then I left him |
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"I've always been a big girl and years of bullying both mentally and physically has really stuck with me.
I absolutely hate my stomach being seen/touched. The thought of it makes me feel sick.
I have a couple of curvy friends that I've met at clubs and they always look amazing both dressed up and dressed down. They ooze confidence and I admire them so much.
I've recently joined the gym in the hope that I can lose some of my weight and hopefully start to love myself a little xx
You're lovely. I hope you can see that in time. "
Thank you sweet xx |
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"My ex used to put my body down after having children and after we split up I had very low confidence about my body and was single and didn’t have sex with anyone for 2 years. Then I met a younger guy on Tinder and he gave me so much confidence about myself and my body. I still have a few hangups but I’m nowhere near as bad
I had an ex like that ... 23 years of put downs
Then I left him "
Yeah 22 years for me and I did the same. Best thing I ever did |
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"Upbringing. Societal pressures and expectations. Comments from the past. It varies so much doesn't it?
I know I have a slightly skewed view of my appearance. Almost rwo years ago I was nearly 6 stones heavier than I am now, in my mind I'm still that size. Add in some not particularly nice comments and it sort of sticks with you. Fat isn't good and not attractive yadda yadda.
This weekend past I had a mini epiphany. I'm going to stop covering up and stop being so hard on myself. No one's going to think I'm suddenly a size 10 because I pop a cardi on but I can be an attractive size 18 and be confident in myself. That's sexy - that confidence that who you are is more than good enough and people will find your body attractive. "
Well said ... |
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"Upbringing. Societal pressures and expectations. Comments from the past. It varies so much doesn't it?
I know I have a slightly skewed view of my appearance. Almost rwo years ago I was nearly 6 stones heavier than I am now, in my mind I'm still that size. Add in some not particularly nice comments and it sort of sticks with you. Fat isn't good and not attractive yadda yadda.
This weekend past I had a mini epiphany. I'm going to stop covering up and stop being so hard on myself. No one's going to think I'm suddenly a size 10 because I pop a cardi on but I can be an attractive size 18 and be confident in myself. That's sexy - that confidence that who you are is more than good enough and people will find your body attractive.
Well said ..."
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin?
I used to be, then I wasn't, then I was and now I'm not.... Working on being happy in my own skin again,I'm a work in progress. "
Progress is progress is progress just keep going and when u feel like it’s impossible..., spell it out . IM possible , PMA even if u have to fake it till u make it u will get there xxxxx |
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over a year ago
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"I've always been a big girl and years of bullying both mentally and physically has really stuck with me.
I absolutely hate my stomach being seen/touched. The thought of it makes me feel sick.
I have a couple of curvy friends that I've met at clubs and they always look amazing both dressed up and dressed down. They ooze confidence and I admire them so much.
I've recently joined the gym in the hope that I can lose some of my weight and hopefully start to love myself a little xx"
You are already stunning girl!! If you don't love yourself, others will |
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"I've always been a big girl and years of bullying both mentally and physically has really stuck with me.
I absolutely hate my stomach being seen/touched. The thought of it makes me feel sick.
I have a couple of curvy friends that I've met at clubs and they always look amazing both dressed up and dressed down. They ooze confidence and I admire them so much.
I've recently joined the gym in the hope that I can lose some of my weight and hopefully start to love myself a little xx
You are already stunning girl!! If you don't love yourself, others will "
Much love Hanky xx |
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin?
I used to be, then I wasn't, then I was and now I'm not.... Working on being happy in my own skin again,I'm a work in progress.
Progress is progress is progress just keep going and when u feel like it’s impossible..., spell it out . IM possible , PMA even if u have to fake it till u make it u will get there xxxxx "
Oh I definitely know how to fake it! I have good days and bad days. Most people wouldn't know unless I mentioned it, I'm always seen as the confident got my shit together type.
I make a lot of clothing for the curvier woman, I know how to make them feel confident and sexy. I just need to take my own advice and truly believe I'm that sexy biach! |
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin? "
I need to be more comfortable in my skin. X |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin?
I used to be, then I wasn't, then I was and now I'm not.... Working on being happy in my own skin again,I'm a work in progress.
Progress is progress is progress just keep going and when u feel like it’s impossible..., spell it out . IM possible , PMA even if u have to fake it till u make it u will get there xxxxx
Oh I definitely know how to fake it! I have good days and bad days. Most people wouldn't know unless I mentioned it, I'm always seen as the confident got my shit together type.
I make a lot of clothing for the curvier woman, I know how to make them feel confident and sexy. I just need to take my own advice and truly believe I'm that sexy biach! "
Its easy to preach and not follow your own teachings for many reasons.....
I admit I'm not always the confident soul I portray. There is a percentage of bluff always |
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By *launt Thy Curves OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025 |
"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin?
I need to be more comfortable in my skin. X"
You are a beautiful lady inside and out - one of the few Hanky misses |
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By *agenta400Woman
over a year ago
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin? "
Because outside of kink I am pilloried by society and media for being big. |
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin?
I used to be, then I wasn't, then I was and now I'm not.... Working on being happy in my own skin again,I'm a work in progress.
Progress is progress is progress just keep going and when u feel like it’s impossible..., spell it out . IM possible , PMA even if u have to fake it till u make it u will get there xxxxx
Oh I definitely know how to fake it! I have good days and bad days. Most people wouldn't know unless I mentioned it, I'm always seen as the confident got my shit together type.
I make a lot of clothing for the curvier woman, I know how to make them feel confident and sexy. I just need to take my own advice and truly believe I'm that sexy biach!
Its easy to preach and not follow your own teachings for many reasons.....
I admit I'm not always the confident soul I portray. There is a percentage of bluff always "
I think a lot of us bluff |
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"I used to be bad about my body but now I am pretty much at a stage where I think "Here I am, take it or leave it." Hence my fully nude photo with all my bumbs on show. "
I'd take it that's for sure, your body is sexy as! |
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For those with it in mind (and I'm not saying it has to be anyone's goal, it wasn't mine!)... I find it easier to lose weight now I accept myself.
I'm not saying pretend to accept yourself to make weight loss easier. I'm saying, accept yourself (no I know it's not that easy). Weight loss may be a side effect. And it doesn't matter if it's not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with points mentioned earlier in the thread.. childhood experiences, comments made by others, societal expectations.
My issues aren’t as much around what other people think - I’ve had compliments, I just don’t believe them - they’re based on my own ideas of what’s attractive and not, and I don’t match up to my own standards
You look great girl..... "
Ha! Well thank you, that’s kind x
Looking great yourself x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good to see a positive thread.
Personally I think the biggest judgement of bodies comes from the fellow females
I’m a size 10, and have body hang-ups: think most of use do, but the point being it’s not limited to a size. Best sights in clubs are people just being happy naked no matter what their size. This took a while to get used to but I find it liberating now and have meet so many brave and beautiful woman.
On the other hand, negative comments have been from other females who feel they have the right to comment on my body in a negative light, normally through snide comments. Tackle our own insecurities is a challenge but we need to stick together, stand tall and embrace the curves - all of them |
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I have a love hate relationship with my curves, hate the saggy splodginess, yes thats a word lol, I wouldnt ever be naked in a club, but love exactly how curvy I am, my waist is a hell of a lot smaller than my hips, and even though I have an arse the size of a small country its very firm, wish I could say the same for my boobs lol |
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By *unny!Woman
over a year ago
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I think, regardless of our size, we all have parts of our body that we are less fond of.
I’ve learned to accentuate the parts that I like more. Yes I’m not keen on my short, chubby legs or my my jelly belly so I avoid anything too short and generally cover my lower stomach.
HOWEVER, I love my tits so they’re often on display! I like the way my waist goes in so I dress to suit my body shape. I think my eyes are the sexiest thing about me so I use them!
I guess I’ve realised that sex appeal is much more than taking your clothes off, regardless of your shape and size. Self-awareness is probably the most powerful thing for me; I know I’m not slim but I know what’s sexy about me and I build on that. We need to spend more time loving the bits that we like rather than having our confidence lowered by focusing on the bits we don’t like. xx
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I think, regardless of our size, we all have parts of our body that we are less fond of.
I’ve learned to accentuate the parts that I like more. Yes I’m not keen on my short, chubby legs or my my jelly belly so I avoid anything too short and generally cover my lower stomach.
HOWEVER, I love my tits so they’re often on display! I like the way my waist goes in so I dress to suit my body shape. I think my eyes are the sexiest thing about me so I use them!
I guess I’ve realised that sex appeal is much more than taking your clothes off, regardless of your shape and size. Self-awareness is probably the most powerful thing for me; I know I’m not slim but I know what’s sexy about me and I build on that. We need to spend more time loving the bits that we like rather than having our confidence lowered by focusing on the bits we don’t like. xx
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Damn right girl.
And OH THOSE EYES..... They just exude sex!! I was giving you water from a bottle the other night and you kept eye contact - think my friend behind me got hard in seconds |
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"What makes some ladies uncomfortable to flaunt their curves and show off their bodies?
We are all beautiful in different ways no matter our size and anyone who ridicules is surely just a small minded idiot?
I understand that it's horses for courses, people have preferences which is fine, but why is it some aren't happy in their own skin?
I need to be more comfortable in my skin. X
You are a beautiful lady inside and out - one of the few Hanky misses "
Miss you too... xx |
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"Fab has allowed me to own my curves .. they are part of my erotic appeal "
This exactly! I didnt have a part love affair with my curves before fab and clubs, knowing that men, quite a lot of men find my curves attractive is rather empowering |
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"Fab has allowed me to own my curves .. they are part of my erotic appeal
This exactly! I didnt have a part love affair with my curves before fab and clubs, knowing that men, quite a lot of men find my curves attractive is rather empowering "
I really wish I could have this kind of epiphany, I’m
definitely my own worst enemy! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Fab has allowed me to own my curves .. they are part of my erotic appeal
This exactly! I didnt have a part love affair with my curves before fab and clubs, knowing that men, quite a lot of men find my curves attractive is rather empowering
I really wish I could have this kind of epiphany, I’m
definitely my own worst enemy!"
I honestly think a club would help and not just saying that cause I do events at SX x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has allowed me to own my curves .. they are part of my erotic appeal
This exactly! I didnt have a part love affair with my curves before fab and clubs, knowing that men, quite a lot of men find my curves attractive is rather empowering
I really wish I could have this kind of epiphany, I’m
definitely my own worst enemy!
I honestly think a club would help and not just saying that cause I do events at SX x"
Honestly, I couldn’t do it for a variety of reasons, but I completely get what you’re saying x |
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"I think, regardless of our size, we all have parts of our body that we are less fond of.
I’ve learned to accentuate the parts that I like more. Yes I’m not keen on my short, chubby legs or my my jelly belly so I avoid anything too short and generally cover my lower stomach.
HOWEVER, I love my tits so they’re often on display! I like the way my waist goes in so I dress to suit my body shape. I think my eyes are the sexiest thing about me so I use them!
I guess I’ve realised that sex appeal is much more than taking your clothes off, regardless of your shape and size. Self-awareness is probably the most powerful thing for me; I know I’m not slim but I know what’s sexy about me and I build on that. We need to spend more time loving the bits that we like rather than having our confidence lowered by focusing on the bits we don’t like. xx
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Completely agree, and this is what I do for women everyday.
I know what parts of me I like and how to dress my body, but I'm still a work in progress.
This has been a struggle from puberty, my culture celebrates curves but I don't fit onto the European standard or my cultures standard of beauty.
All I can do is work on it daily and make sure my daughter grows up with only positive body comments within the home. As I know she'll get enough negative in the outside world. |
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"I don't really like mine, and if I don't like it, I cant imagine anyone else is going to."
This is me to a tee. I feel about as far from 'sexy' as you can get and can't accept that anyone could possibly fancy me.
I'm not curvy or a BBW... I'm grossly overweight and come with scars, stretch marks, veins etc - not attractive at all. However, I cover up and accept that, personality wise, I can sometimes attract men.
Body wise? Nah - I f*cked up big style and ruined it decades ago |
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I have scars, stretchmarks, cellulite, the works. We all do. It's the marks life leaves on us.
But, let me repeat, *we all do*. Every single one of us. And yet we all have things to offer, we're all beautiful in our own way to the people around us.
I wish everyone on this thread the gift of self acceptance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a real shame this kind of discussion goes on in this day and age.
Maybe one day, society will cease to create such insecurities.
Much respect to you all x |
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