Hello we are looking to go to the gatehouse on Saturday but haven't been to a club before. We are quite shy people and have only ever had a couple of meets with men and never had any with a couple or another woman so quite nervous. Has anyone got any advise or will anyone be there Saturday.
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over a year ago
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Relax,it's not as scary as you think
Just treat it as any other night out,talk to people like you would in a normal pub or club and don't be afraid to say no.Most people are quite friendly and welcoming at clubs,especially if you're new.And you are absolutely under no obligation to join in or do anything else unless you want to.
Enjoy,clubs are great fun |
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I'm going to be popping my club cherry Sunday too. The way I see it is go along and not expectxanythinv except off each other. Anything more is a bonus but at least you get the experience.
I'm nervous about it too but you don't grow as a person unless you do things outside your comfort zone. Have fun and report back on how you got on! |
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"Thanks for the advise. I think once we are there and in thewood we will be fine it's just walking through the door for the first time will be nerve wracking"
Walking into any new club is always nerve wracking as you never really know what to expect so your first visit to any club will be.
Walk through the door, get a drink, take a seat and then talk to people. You'll soon find yourselves settling down and enjoying it. Have fun, hope its all what you want it to be. |
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"Only been to a club once and that was gatehouse. I finally plucked up the courage but nobody was there
Lol! I thought I was the only one who picked 'quiet nights' in clubs   "
A guy arrived while i was getting back in my car and i told him it was empty but on second thought i should have asked if he was bi and we could have had a bit of fun lol |
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My (mr) first club experience was at chams on a busy Saturday night with a girlfriend and we was both shitting it to be polite, within a hour we was perfectly fine and everyone was welcoming the staff were great and and we got out at 2am totally drained and buzzing! Then after that life changed forever |
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"My (mr) first club experience was at chams on a busy Saturday night with a girlfriend and we was both shitting it to be polite, within a hour we was perfectly fine and everyone was welcoming the staff were great and and we got out at 2am totally drained and buzzing! Then after that life changed forever "
Thanks I'm hoping that's what it will be like for us |
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