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over a year ago
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Will you ever stop the swinging lifestyle?
I was thinking to myself just know will I ever stop, I have before but the current always seems to suck me back in! Interested to know what you guys think, is it just a stage in your life or is it your lifestyle?
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"I don't think you ever lose the mind set, whether you can keep swinging in practice until the end of your life is another matter"
I was trying to think of a good way to put it and this it precisely. |
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"I don't think you ever lose the mind set, whether you can keep swinging in practice until the end of your life is another matter
I was trying to think of a good way to put it and this it precisely. "
It would be nice to have a circle of friends to kind of grow older with |
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I really don't think so. It's part of who I am and it's a freedom I'd never want to give up. I love it when we come across couples who are 60+. It shows me that Me and My Girl we do not need to be limited by age and are free to keep enjoying the scene whatever age. Oh and by the way (A complete eye opener for me) there are some really banging sexy people 60+. It really give me hope for a long and happy swinging future. |
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"If I found a man who was great company, gorgeous, and bloody marvellous in bed, I wouldn't need to look elsewhere. "
See I have that but I don’t see it as looking elsewhere I see it as adding to a great sex life. Oh and I’m greedy
Molly
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"If I found a man who was great company, gorgeous, and bloody marvellous in bed, I wouldn't need to look elsewhere.
See I have that but I don’t see it as looking elsewhere I see it as adding to a great sex life. Oh and I’m greedy
Molly
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So right now I would say no
Molly
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having had one break for over five years, we know we will not be at it for very long. Probably another four-five years, then, hang up our outfits....lol. |
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We have been swinging for well over thirty years. We totally separate the pleasure we get from sexual activity with others with a commitment and love we have for each other.
For us they are two entirely different scenarios.
When I watch G being serviced by 1/2/3 guys I get immense satisfaction with the visual spectacle and the sense of pride that this lady has devoted her life to me and me like wise.
We see no conflict as love and sex can either be the same thing or two entirely different things.We would venture to suggest that if you can't separate the two notions perhaps you should not be swinging as it could all end in tears.
G&A |
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"At 70 it's starting to get hard to find cpls to play with
I can see that age could be a problem but I hope I'm still doing my thing at 70...its not that far away x"
I don't know not saying there's loads but there are a fair few on the scene. It's great to see. Hope for us all. |
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"Most will stop in their sixties, definitely seventies. You'll start to look around and think "Am I now that dirty old wo/man I used to observe trying to get off with much younger people?"."
it doesn't have to be with much younger people and I don't think it makes you dirty because you want to express yourself at any age |
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"Most will stop in their sixties, definitely seventies. You'll start to look around and think "Am I now that dirty old wo/man I used to observe trying to get off with much younger people?"."
. I never look round and think that |
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You never know what might be just round the corner. Having discovered this we had SO much fun. But then something happened unexpectedly which had a domino effect and now no sex. At all.
And then you learn what's important. |
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