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Wife happy for MMF but not MFMF?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Anyone in the situation where a couple are happy with a MMF but wifey not keen on a MFMF as she doesn’t want her man with another women? I know it sounds double standards but many men are happy with a MMF as it fulfils their fantasy?

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

Personally not come across it but everyone has their own preferences and limits.

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By *udewhennudeMan over a year ago

newport

In my experience it’s usually the guy is happy to share his wife, but has little interest in other women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each person has their own likes and dislikes that's life. Very few couples have exactly the same likes or fantasies. Mr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone in the situation where a couple are happy with a MMF but wifey not keen on a MFMF as she doesn’t want her man with another women? I know it sounds double standards but many men are happy with a MMF as it fulfils their fantasy?"
some women want it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience it’s usually the guy is happy to share his wife, but has little interest in other women."

I get very excited by sharing and MissJ LOVES two guys in bed but we don't want to push it too much further than that when together. We are both interested in fuck buddies who we see separately though.

There are always exceptions of course.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I want the man but don’t want his wife, everyone likes what they like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want the man but don’t want his wife, everyone likes what they like

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exactly and you look gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

MFMF is amazing.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve noticed quite a lot of couples with this preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MFMF is amazing.....

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what about mfmff or mfmfmff?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MFMF is amazing.....

what about mfmff or mfmfmff?

MFMF plus one extra M...perfect scenario

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are plenty of couples out there with strange dynamics this scenario where happy to play MMF is common and derived from an element of jealousy from the female of the couple or insecurity with regards to another women joining in, it’s not swinging and those couples are best avoided x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MFMF is amazing.....

what about mfmff or mfmfmff?

MFMF plus one extra M...perfect scenario

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I rather like mmfff but can be persuaded to join a fmfmf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmf for us or just mf but a different m

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By *arc and KamaCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

We like both options but more often we play mmf or mmmf or mmmmf.

The problem with mfmf scenario is that usually woman wants to play with woman. In our case it is not really working as we want a proper swap and not girl on girl.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

MMMFF is very good ,done that few times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MMMFF is very good ,done that few times "

We are hoping to try it one day

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

You should lovely combination

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have a strange dynamic. At the moment we are only meeting for ffm or ff. She is allowed to meet fems on her own but he isnt.she isnt interested in another male in any capacity. This is the dynamic she enjoys. What works for some doesnt work for others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We like both options but more often we play mmf or mmmf or mmmmf.

The problem with mfmf scenario is that usually woman wants to play with woman. In our case it is not really working as we want a proper swap and not girl on girl."

Can’t you do both in a MFMF scenario?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

"There are plenty of couples out there with strange dynamics this scenario where happy to play MMF is common and derived from an element of jealousy from the female of the couple or insecurity with regards to another women joining in, it’s not swinging and those couples are best avoided x"

That’s a sweeping generalisation.

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By *arc and KamaCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

Can’t you do both in a MFMF scenario? "

We can but the other couple expectations are to play with a couple where F is bi and will play with F rather than M.

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By *inkyKittyWoman over a year ago

Swindon

I hope to find a fella who likes to be shared and me to be shared lol

Can’t be all one sided

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

I don't it's double standard per se. We are not all the same. Some people struggle with jealousy more than others which is ok, as long as your ok with it?

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By *inkyKittyWoman over a year ago

Swindon

Not really the place to be jealous!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Everyone has their own way to play. Just because someone else's dynamic isn't the same as yours doesn't make it strange or mean there's jealousy involved.

Mrs TMN x

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"In my experience it’s usually the guy is happy to share his wife, but has little interest in other women."

Yes very common

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We participate in both MFM and MFMF.

We have a few single guys we invite as and when we fancy it, and couples we meet. Not an issue for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s a sweeping generalisation. "

Sorry I meant to add in our experience......

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By *orticiaWoman over a year ago

Wirral

I love seeing my bf with another woman - the trouble with MFMF is that there is an expectation of girl on girl play & that’s not my thing. In an MMF situation, it’s pretty rare for the guys to hook up too!

Everyone is different in what they want & why they want it ... that’s the beauty of swinging!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or could be seen as hypocrisy...

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By *asmartsCouple over a year ago

sheffield

I thought the same!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Or could be seen as hypocrisy..."

Only if someone is unhappy with the situation. If they're both happy, then great! Each to their own.

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

If everyone is happy with the situation then what’s the issue

There are no set rules as to what swinging is

Different strokes for different folks

If less time was spent enjoying it rather than dissecting it wouldn’t everyone be happy ?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

"If everyone is happy with the situation then what’s the issue

There are no set rules as to what swinging is

Different strokes for different folks

If less time was spent enjoying it rather than dissecting it wouldn’t everyone be happy ? "

God forbid! Cracking on with your own business and leaving others to theirs??

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"If everyone is happy with the situation then what’s the issue

There are no set rules as to what swinging is

Different strokes for different folks

If less time was spent enjoying it rather than dissecting it wouldn’t everyone be happy ?

God forbid! Cracking on with your own business and leaving others to theirs??

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

Yeah, suits me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes!

Mine not happy with me and other women.

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"If everyone is happy with the situation then what’s the issue

There are no set rules as to what swinging is

Different strokes for different folks

If less time was spent enjoying it rather than dissecting it wouldn’t everyone be happy ?

God forbid! Cracking on with your own business and leaving others to theirs??

Hahaha that should have read more time enjoying it ... fingers typing quicker than brain is working

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

It’s how we role.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

"If everyone is happy with the situation then what’s the issue

There are no set rules as to what swinging is

Different strokes for different folks

If less time was spent enjoying it rather than dissecting it wouldn’t everyone be happy ?

God forbid! Cracking on with your own business and leaving others to theirs??

Hahaha that should have read more time enjoying it ... fingers typing quicker than brain is working "

Haha I read it how you meant it!

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"If everyone is happy with the situation then what’s the issue

There are no set rules as to what swinging is

Different strokes for different folks

If less time was spent enjoying it rather than dissecting it wouldn’t everyone be happy ?

God forbid! Cracking on with your own business and leaving others to theirs??

Hahaha that should have read more time enjoying it ... fingers typing quicker than brain is working

Haha I read it how you meant it!"

Great minds eh ? Hope you are well ... I must pay a trip to HWC again

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By *ittlemiss1985Woman over a year ago

Lansing

" I love seeing my bf with another woman - the trouble with MFMF is that there is an expectation of girl on girl play & that’s not my thing. In an MMF situation, it’s pretty rare for the guys to hook up too!"

That's what keeps me from mfmf, I don't like being pressured into doing something. Not that I wouldn't say no to girl on girl play, but only if I wanted to do it instead of it being expected.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

"If everyone is happy with the situation then what’s the issue

There are no set rules as to what swinging is

Different strokes for different folks

If less time was spent enjoying it rather than dissecting it wouldn’t everyone be happy ?

God forbid! Cracking on with your own business and leaving others to theirs??

Hahaha that should have read more time enjoying it ... fingers typing quicker than brain is working

Haha I read it how you meant it!

Great minds eh ? Hope you are well ... I must pay a trip to HWC again

Definitely be good to see you.