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over a year ago
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"I have been known to, as it fit more with my circumstances at the time. I found it quite a turn on.
I have had an awakening though and this is no longer the case "
Shame, you're only 3 miles away! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pointless being with an attached guy because nothing will come of it, and if they can lie to their partner, they will lie to me - simples and I'm not!!!"
and i understand this is the attraction to many married women/couple on here ..ie nothing will become of it its a safety net for some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t say I’ve ever sought attached men, but when I first joined I wasn't opposed to the idea of meeting them. Now however, after some experience with attached men I wouldn’t meet any again. It’s often way too complicated and not worth the hassle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i no longer ask as you will never get a truthful answer ... those that say they wont meet married normally end up doing so with out knowing a thing about it .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i no longer ask as you will never get a truthful answer ... those that say they wont meet married normally end up doing so with out knowing a thing about it .. "
I’m quite upfront about it and it’s on the first few lines of my profile.
Been blocked a few times after chatting when they know even though it’s there in black and white. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i no longer ask as you will never get a truthful answer ... those that say they wont meet married normally end up doing so with out knowing a thing about it ..
I’m quite upfront about it and it’s on the first few lines of my profile.
Been blocked a few times after chatting when they know even though it’s there in black and white."
yep some are and good on them im not here to judge and id meet married guys as long as they know if it go's tits up and ends up on my doorstep its a case of me and with hubs backup saying we met on a swinger's site and the problem is yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet attached people. The reality is that they will lie sometimes and regardless of best intentions it will happen anyway. We have to justify it by thinking that it is their own problem in their relationship that makes them cheat and nothing to do with us. Selfish as it may seem, we are here for fun and have come to terms with the morality of going outside the marriage for that, if we took the time to ensure our partners had done the same we would never meet anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that a lot of guys that are on here saying that they are single are attached. I don't think that it would matter to a lot of girls on here. In saying that it probably turns some of them on and vice versa. After all we are all players on here so each to their own |
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over a year ago
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Couldn’t care less. We’re not here to fall in love, plenty of other places to do that. Just a distraction/fun/sex site to us. Probably would be marginally better if they were with someone, might save us from a Klingon lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Each to their own and all that jazz. I don’t hide the fact that I have a girlfriend. At least that way everyone can make their own decision as to whether or not its worth it. Although I’ve a feeling I’d get further along if I didn’t have that on my profile. |
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One thread said it all ... lies are lies ... them relationships go know where .. but who’s looking for a relationship on here ? But if o met a girl off here then I know what the score is and the truth is better cuz we can all live with the truth and then make our minds up ...? ... look forward to the reply |
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"Couldn’t care less. We’re not here to fall in love, plenty of other places to do that. Just a distraction/fun/sex site to us. Probably would be marginally better if they were with someone, might save us from a Klingon lol"
Agree agree and fuck I wish I was in yr pics x |
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"and i understand this is the attraction to many married women/couple on here ..ie nothing will become of it its a safety net for some "
 I know for a fact that was exactly the reason I was lucky enough to be chosen to play with at least two married women...  |
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"I’m quite upfront about it and it’s on the first few lines of my profile.
Been blocked a few times after chatting when they know even though it’s there in black and white."
Same here - it's quite clear on my profile, but then suddenly becomes an 'issue'...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both sometimes play seperately, but only with each others knowledge and consent. It's often easier to find 2 that match up rather than 3 or 4.
Or is this thread assuming attached people are all playing without their partners knowing and agreeing? |
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