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So why people hide their verifications
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said |
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over a year ago
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I like to keep the people I’ve met private. I don’t like receiving them anyway but if I do, it’s between me and that person. I’m not a fan of overly sexual ones. They can put me off a guy. |
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It uses a persons real name.
It’s tacky and over explicit.
You don’t want people knowing you met that person.
The sender has left the site, so the veri is deleted but it remains on the count.
The people leaving you a veri get harassed by your stalker.
People contact you saying you should meet them because you’ve met X and they’re better looking than X.
Because you want to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It uses a persons real name.
It’s tacky and over explicit.
You don’t want people knowing you met that person.
The sender has left the site, so the veri is deleted but it remains on the count.
The people leaving you a veri get harassed by your stalker.
People contact you saying you should meet them because you’ve met X and they’re better looking than X.
Because you want to.
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Ahh I see - I've heard conflicting advice as to show or hide x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many reasons.
For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters. "
Selfish you don't want other women's to have reliable fun, since you have met and proven 
Logically why I want to hide, I met someone, it was just social, it's giving wrong impression to viwer/reader and people will think it was more then social so I can be trusted. But anyway it's personal choice=preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said"
This for me....
Plus why read that "I can suck like a pro".... When you could find out yourself.... It's like a plot spoiler 
(obviously the above only applies when I do get back to meeting lol  ) |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I hide mine because its no one else's business who I have met and I don't need people contacting the guys I met either trying to get info. That happens quite often in here. Once someone is veried that is all that should really matter. And like a poster said I'd want someone to meet me because I of who I am not my veris. Not that mine are explicit anyhow. |
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I like to read verifications, and will not met anyone without them unless they are in a club...we are a cuckolding couple and I like to know if we arrange to met someone they have good experience as a bull. We have been fooled by a couple of wannabes and they have been a total let down. Will not have my time wasted again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to read verifications, and will not met anyone without them unless they are in a club...we are a cuckolding couple and I like to know if we arrange to met someone they have good experience as a bull. We have been fooled by a couple of wannabes and they have been a total let down. Will not have my time wasted again. "
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I like to show a few but recently had a bonkers gf of a previous meet messaging all my friends whose verifications I displayed. No one needs that sort of aggro. I can understand that people don't display them. |
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"I like to read verifications, and will not met anyone without them unless they are in a club...we are a cuckolding couple and I like to know if we arrange to met someone they have good experience as a bull. We have been fooled by a couple of wannabes and they have been a total let down. Will not have my time wasted again. "
Completely agree as time is very precious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are actually I think one person left the site
We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them
Are hidden "
I met this couple at op4f, although we didn’t play (due to my partner being shy) I can confirm this couples are 100% genuine. So weather all there veris are displayed or not, trust me they are fully genuine. Yang is a gorgeous Chinese lady with a sexy body shah is polite and friendly |
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"I like to show a few but recently had a bonkers gf of a previous meet messaging all my friends whose verifications I displayed. No one needs that sort of aggro. I can understand that people don't display them."
ive had something very similar lately.. so had hidden them. Now slowly putting them all back up
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"I like to keep the people I’ve met private. I don’t like receiving them anyway but if I do, it’s between me and that person. I’m not a fan of overly sexual ones. They can put me off a guy. "
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Absolutely this .... it’s not trip advisor for me th green ticks is all that’s necessary |
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"We are actually I think one person left the site
We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them
Are hidden
I met this couple at op4f, although we didn’t play (due to my partner being shy) I can confirm this couples are 100% genuine. So weather all there veris are displayed or not, trust me they are fully genuine. Yang is a gorgeous Chinese lady with a sexy body shah is polite and friendly "
I’m not questioning how genuine they are, I’ve no doubt they are.. But they are missing 3 veris from 2 people and wondering why everyone else’s isn’t shown. If I was to question everyone else’s I’d make sure all mine was shown and explain if missing.. |
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"We are actually I think one person left the site
We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them
Are hidden
I met this couple at op4f, although we didn’t play (due to my partner being shy) I can confirm this couples are 100% genuine. So weather all there veris are displayed or not, trust me they are fully genuine. Yang is a gorgeous Chinese lady with a sexy body shah is polite and friendly
I’m not questioning how genuine they are, I’ve no doubt they are.. But they are missing 3 veris from 2 people and wondering why everyone else’s isn’t shown. If I was to question everyone else’s I’d make sure all mine was shown and explain if missing.. "
how do you know they are missing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to keep the people I’ve met private. I don’t like receiving them anyway but if I do, it’s between me and that person. I’m not a fan of overly sexual ones. They can put me off a guy. .
Absolutely this .... it’s not trip advisor for me th green ticks is all that’s necessary"
I agree it isn’t trip advisor. For me green ticks are the most important too!!
You look amazing it’s a shame I’m out of your age range |
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Well for me two reasons. It tends to invite messages to those that have verified me with a
“you’ve met him and he is a) gopping b) riddled with stis c) a crap shag; my mate told me, so you MUST meet me”
Or it invites lies from people I may have upset, turned down or had a relationship with in the past. No one needs my drama (even if I am not the cause of it) so I tend not to show. They are available on request. |
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"We are actually I think one person left the site
We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them
Are hidden
I met this couple at op4f, although we didn’t play (due to my partner being shy) I can confirm this couples are 100% genuine. So weather all there veris are displayed or not, trust me they are fully genuine. Yang is a gorgeous Chinese lady with a sexy body shah is polite and friendly
I’m not questioning how genuine they are, I’ve no doubt they are.. But they are missing 3 veris from 2 people and wondering why everyone else’s isn’t shown. If I was to question everyone else’s I’d make sure all mine was shown and explain if missing.. how do you know they are missing?"
9 veris by 7 people shown and
11 veris by 9 people on summary
I meant 2 veris from 2 people missing not 3 veris.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are actually I think one person left the site
We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them
Are hidden
I met this couple at op4f, although we didn’t play (due to my partner being shy) I can confirm this couples are 100% genuine. So weather all there veris are displayed or not, trust me they are fully genuine. Yang is a gorgeous Chinese lady with a sexy body shah is polite and friendly
I’m not questioning how genuine they are, I’ve no doubt they are.. But they are missing 3 veris from 2 people and wondering why everyone else’s isn’t shown. If I was to question everyone else’s I’d make sure all mine was shown and explain if missing.. how do you know they are missing?
9 veris by 7 people shown and
11 veris by 9 people on summary
I meant 2 veris from 2 people missing not 3 veris.. "
When people who verified you, leave the site ....these verifications are deleted. That would explain the two missing |
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"We are actually I think one person left the site
We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them
Are hidden
I met this couple at op4f, although we didn’t play (due to my partner being shy) I can confirm this couples are 100% genuine. So weather all there veris are displayed or not, trust me they are fully genuine. Yang is a gorgeous Chinese lady with a sexy body shah is polite and friendly
I’m not questioning how genuine they are, I’ve no doubt they are.. But they are missing 3 veris from 2 people and wondering why everyone else’s isn’t shown. If I was to question everyone else’s I’d make sure all mine was shown and explain if missing.. how do you know they are missing?
9 veris by 7 people shown and
11 veris by 9 people on summary
I meant 2 veris from 2 people missing not 3 veris..
When people who verified you, leave the site ....these verifications are deleted. That would explain the two missing "
this. I have loads missing as people have left fab |
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"We are actually I think one person left the site
We are happy for any one to contact any person we met to confirm how we are also it’s put us off if there is no verification or all of them
Are hidden
I met this couple at op4f, although we didn’t play (due to my partner being shy) I can confirm this couples are 100% genuine. So weather all there veris are displayed or not, trust me they are fully genuine. Yang is a gorgeous Chinese lady with a sexy body shah is polite and friendly
I’m not questioning how genuine they are, I’ve no doubt they are.. But they are missing 3 veris from 2 people and wondering why everyone else’s isn’t shown. If I was to question everyone else’s I’d make sure all mine was shown and explain if missing.. how do you know they are missing?
9 veris by 7 people shown and
11 veris by 9 people on summary
I meant 2 veris from 2 people missing not 3 veris..
When people who verified you, leave the site ....these verifications are deleted. That would explain the two missing this. I have loads missing as people have left fab "
I know that and OP knows that and that reason is good enough for their profile but yet want to question everyone else? |
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"I like to show a few but recently had a bonkers gf of a previous meet messaging all my friends whose verifications I displayed. No one needs that sort of aggro. I can understand that people don't display them."
Had this too, though she wasn't their gf (had never actually met them) and I wasn't displaying my veri's, so she'd just searched through fab trying to track down profiles I'd left a Veri on  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Many reasons.
For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters.
How do they do that?"
If they're filtered out for being too young/old/whatever, they message my verifications asking them to pass on messages to me. So it's a pain in the arse for all involved really, simpler to keep them hidden. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funnily we don’t tend to get much drama nowadays over verifications, having taken a back seat from the local club scene where the drama is plentiful, petty, narrow minded and full of lies.
Single ladies tend to attract the most drama over verifications, from petty jealousy to complete lies, hence why lots of single ladies hide there verifications |
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I show certain veris to show that im real.
the ones that are hidden is no one elses business who ive met up with.
plus like many other sites out there
Theres always people saying wont meet you, Because youve met them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I show certain veris to show that im real.
the ones that are hidden is no one elses business who ive met up with.
plus like many other sites out there
Theres always people saying wont meet you, Because youve met them. Very true
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Don't want you knowing our business cos it's none of yours.
Don't want others knowing we're actively playing. Pushy and demanding to play messages are cut down considerably.
Had messages asking about guys cocks and their performance. None of your business what we did or how the meet went.
"You met them/him/her so we don't want to meet you as we don't like them." Again, none of your concerns who we meet, it's our journey and we play when and with who suits us.
Waay too many reasons why we don't show veris. Bottom line, it's our concern and we run our profile to suit us regardless of how much sense it makes to others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It uses a persons real name.
It’s tacky and over explicit.
You don’t want people knowing you met that person.
The sender has left the site, so the veri is deleted but it remains on the count.
The people leaving you a veri get harassed by your stalker.
People contact you saying you should meet them because you’ve met X and they’re better looking than X.
Because you want to.
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This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've no need to let everyone know who I've met. I'm a private person. I don't need to explain myself to anyone. I've no desire to communicate with anyone who is bothered by this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.
I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here  "
Yep and some of us manage to do it discreetly and don't feel the need to shout out to everyone. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"It uses a persons real name.
It’s tacky and over explicit.
You don’t want people knowing you met that person.
The sender has left the site, so the veri is deleted but it remains on the count.
The people leaving you a veri get harassed by your stalker.
People contact you saying you should meet them because you’ve met X and they’re better looking than X.
Because you want to.
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All good reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.
I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here "
what's not to get? It's a pretty straightforward reason.
Why do you feel the need to know who I've had sex with? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we meet a couple more than once and they give us a second verification then we will publish that one and hide the first. People have all kinds of reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.
I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here "
Still non of your business. Not all of us is here to fuck around. If I do meet someone, I want it to be something special kept between us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t generally meet people who hide there verifications, what are they hiding? Playing with bareback/unsafe sex players? One offs because they are not great to play with? Basically we don’t care who anyone has played with as long as it’s safe (no guarantee of course) and you can get a good idea how nice people really are by repeat verifications.
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I hide mine because I’m a private person and out of respect for the people I’ve met ..
I’m choosey who I meet and chat to ..
If someone I’m chatting to asks as a security measure then just like a face pic I’d gladly show .. |
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"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.
I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here
Still non of your business. Not all of us is here to fuck around. If I do meet someone, I want it to be something special kept between us. "
Just a question not sure why people are so defensive and childish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.
I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here
Still non of your business. Not all of us is here to fuck around. If I do meet someone, I want it to be something special kept between us.
Just a question not sure why people are so defensive and childish "
And we have repeatedly said the same thing only to be questioned as to why again. |
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"Because I don't want you knowing who I've fucked.
I don’t get it, this whole site is about people fucking other people, that’s why we’re here
Still non of your business. Not all of us is here to fuck around. If I do meet someone, I want it to be something special kept between us.
Just a question not sure why people are so defensive and childish "
Show all of your veris then, you’re missing 2.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people like to see veris to see what sort of people that person or couple are meeting, and if heavy swingers or not, the risk factor is a lot on the type of meets you have, weather they been with people who take risks or safe people and how many they go out meeting in a weekly basis or just light swingers, it then gives you the option weather you want to risk meeting that person or not, that is what veris are there for. To show you are not fake and to see if they meet the same category people you would, each to there own but thats why I think they should be on show. Def not to contact peoples veris thats wrong and weird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i never used to until i found a few people out using my veri's to play silly mind game's even had one guy contact all on my list to warn all others to back off as i was his  id never even met the guy so i hide them now to stop the silly games being played |
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"Many reasons.
For me it's mostly so that people don't contact the men who've verified me to get around filters.
How do they do that?
If they're filtered out for being too young/old/whatever, they message my verifications asking them to pass on messages to me. So it's a pain in the arse for all involved really, simpler to keep them hidden. "
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Because I've had aggro from past partners not liking others who've also left verifications or prospective partners being put off by verifiers after viewing their profile after mine.
I ended up starting with a clean slate, with the exception of a couple whom I've known for years. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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I don't show mine because
1. It's my choice
2. Who I met, when I met them and what we did is my business not yours
3. It's my choice
4. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations ABOUT me with the men and women I've slept with
5. It's my choice
6. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations WITH me about the men and women I've slept with
7. It's my choice |
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"I don't show mine because
1. It's my choice
2. Who I met, when I met them and what we did is my business not yours
3. It's my choice
4. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations ABOUT me with the men and women I've slept with
5. It's my choice
6. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations WITH me about the men and women I've slept with
7. It's my choice"
THIS! |
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"I don't show mine because
1. It's my choice
2. Who I met, when I met them and what we did is my business not yours
3. It's my choice
4. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations ABOUT me with the men and women I've slept with
5. It's my choice
6. I don't like people having unsolicited conversations WITH me about the men and women I've slept with
7. It's my choice
THIS!"
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"To stop the shit stirring.
This mainly & jealousy.
Mad considering its supposed to by a site for swinging & peeps should really be more open minded.
S"
It is mad but 100% accurate about the jealousy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met 3 couples since new profile, none would do verifications. Some think theres a stigma around having too many and some think the whole reason for being here is to he secretive |
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"Met 3 couples since new profile, none would do verifications. Some think theres a stigma around having too many and some think the whole reason for being here is to he secretive "
We've been turned down by people who've said " you have too many veris". So it's not percevied, it's fact! We only show a handful of recents.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Met 3 couples since new profile, none would do verifications. Some think theres a stigma around having too many and some think the whole reason for being here is to he secretive
We've been turned down by people who've said " you have too many veris". So it's not percevied, it's fact! We only show a handful of recents.
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We’d rather know if people are narrow minded and judgemental so we can avoid them! Hence we show ours xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said"
This Op. Veris just mean to me you turned up. Except some folk don't give them. I don't read them and switch off when it says how the Fuck was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not everyone wants to kiss and tell others want to respect others discretion and privacy too x"
Again this Op. My sex life will always be private. A verification should be we met and yes they are who they say they are not a description of how his Cock was or how the fanny hung |
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"I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said
This Op. Veris just mean to me you turned up. Except some folk don't give them. I don't read them and switch off when it says how the Fuck was. "
The reason I started this thread was their is couple who wanted to meet in pictures they looked ok but they have 6 verification all hidden
That what did not make sense why they need to hide every single one that why I asked the question as usual people on fab who suppose be liberated and open minded lol what can I say some things never change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many people will hide for different reasons.
I nearly hid mine and my partners veris (most of my older ones are from when my profile was a single fem profile)
However I can see the issues some have, I have had it myself.
People asking to meet and when I politely decline due to age etc they comment about how some of my veri's are from people who have met me but are well out of my range. (not every meet means you fucked them).
Or you get the crazy stalker who will message them asking for details etc.
all down to personal preference |
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"Met 3 couples since new profile, none would do verifications. Some think theres a stigma around having too many and some think the whole reason for being here is to he secretive
We've been turned down by people who've said " you have too many veris". So it's not percevied, it's fact! We only show a handful of recents.
We’d rather know if people are narrow minded and judgemental so we can avoid them! Hence we show ours xx"
Oh, hadnt thought of that. I'll throw this idea past M. And maybe reveiw. |
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"I guess it's a preference. I think like many, I'd like to think people would want to meet based on my profile, pics and chat rather than what others have said
This Op. Veris just mean to me you turned up. Except some folk don't give them. I don't read them and switch off when it says how the Fuck was.
The reason I started this thread was their is couple who wanted to meet in pictures they looked ok but they have 6 verification all hidden
That what did not make sense why they need to hide every single one that why I asked the question as usual people on fab who suppose be liberated and open minded lol what can I say some things never change "
You’ve got 100 different answers without asking who you should’ve asked and without saying why you haven’t got all yours shown, then again it’s your own choice not to show if you don’t want to..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does not make sense
Having looked at your profile hypocrite comes to mind.
And how is that we have not hidden any thing
It’s boring now
All your veris aren’t shown, what are you hiding? "
Maybe the people have left fab or blocked them. That would explain it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same as above witch doctor.
My verifications are my business. What happens in bed between me and a guy, is our personal business.
Anyway, what I enjoy with one man, I may dislike with the next.
If I feel I was left a verfi that was too much in detail, I'll hide it. I dislike graphic verifications. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Depends, some of ours are repeat meet verifications, some people have left the site so their verifications are lost on us. A few profiles have subsequently been block so those are lost as well. Finally the we have chose not to display some of our verifications from over 5 years ago as they are really old now and we have much later verifications.
There does that answer your question? |
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"Does not make sense
Having looked at your profile hypocrite comes to mind.
And how is that we have not hidden any thing
It’s boring now
All your veris aren’t shown, what are you hiding?
Maybe the people have left fab or blocked them. That would explain it."
Possibly, so why question everyone else’s? |
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By *n080971Man
over a year ago
Billericay |
I hide mine as I prefer to meet a few people often, many of whom become friends. A lot of guys on here will take a veri given to another guy as a green light that the woman in question may be looking for more and hound her with messages. This has happened to a lady I have met. I do not wish to subject friends to this. |
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"I hide mine as I prefer to meet a few people often, many of whom become friends. A lot of guys on here will take a veri given to another guy as a green light that the woman in question may be looking for more and hound her with messages. This has happened to a lady I have met. I do not wish to subject friends to this."
100% agree , have had messages asking about the someone, which is a bit creepy , I just say message and say hi to them , also it’s nice to let someone make there own opinion of you first then when they ask to see them, then show for a few hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hide mine as I prefer to meet a few people often, many of whom become friends. A lot of guys on here will take a veri given to another guy as a green light that the woman in question may be looking for more and hound her with messages. This has happened to a lady I have met. I do not wish to subject friends to this."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does not make sense "
They're ashamed of them maybe or they've got one from a certain person or the woman I mean women they're chatting to would get jealous or the exact opposite the men would or they are secretive or they just don't want to  |
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I have hidden a verification, due to the guy doing exactly what we agreed he would not do.
We agreed to safe sex, that included not cumming in my mouth.
He then mentioned about how much of a slut I was, I took his load in my mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my verifications displayed, but after getting a new one yesterday I found I got quite a few messages in my inbox, so have decided to hide all 3 of them now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We recently stopped displaying them, because people we had said we were not interested in, were messaging our friends, asking for advice on how to meet us, or, trying to persuade our friends, to persuade us! |
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"I’ve recently hid all mine and now I get loads of messages from accounts accusing me of being a fake account haha
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Most of mine are hidden. Apparently I have too many, so my summary is always hidden.
Ultimately all I need is a green tick to say I have some.
Hiding them is better than having all the drama llamas moaning and whining.
Also it stops people following the veri trail and messaging people I've met with "well you met him, why won't you meet me?" messages.
Ultimately, my profile, I'll run it my way.
If people make negative assumptions and judgements about me based on my verifications, I didn't want to meet them anyway. |
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