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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever had to do this to make a persn feel happy ? and could you do it or not ? Just some men cant make me cun ... but i am happy and never really faked a orgasm .   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do for the man's sake as sometimes no matter how good he is I just know I not gonna orgasm and its not his lack of talents sometimes it just ain't happening. Though I have been known to fake just to get it over with coz I want it over and its its kinder than saying actually this is not for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty is the best policy.
It's no good blowing smoke up someones arse, it's just going to give them the wrong signals if they catch on you are lying or pretending. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"can it be faked?? surely if a man was inside you and you faked an orgasm he'd not feel your pussy clamp harder round his cock and a sudden warmth "
you can if your wet from playing i am sure ... i gush and i think some think i cum ... its not the same thing . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i suppose with a man too -- pretending that he has cum (emptied ) but not been able to. "
Do you think men do it at times ? if have condom on and can run to loo and take off ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i suppose with a man too -- pretending that he has cum (emptied ) but not been able to. "
that would just piss me off. i would rather he said.. "its been great but i cant cum" or "sorry but this isn't working wanna do someting different or just chill out instead" than fake it for me.. whats the point if both parties arent getting fun and pleasure from it.. if your getting pleasure but cant orgasm its not the end of the world but dont fake it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes quite often.. my problem is It's rarely what they are doing... But the fact I get off more on mental than physical...
And of course they can't tell.. you just use it as an excuse to do pelvic floor exercises..
I Just have a bit of a control issue.. I love sex.. just struggle to let go. So I enjoy it but wouldn't want to hurt feelings... As it really is normally a case of not them but me. Ironically I can cum from a voice command from master. Which we do sometimes use in a meet...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i have to admit i have a few times got rather loud and acted over enthusiastic when im getting bored with someone to make them cum quicker "
yes i have too x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes quite often.. my problem is It's rarely what they are doing... But the fact I get off more on mental than physical...
And of course they can't tell.. you just use it as an excuse to do pelvic floor exercises..
I Just have a bit of a control issue.. I love sex.. just struggle to let go. So I enjoy it but wouldn't want to hurt feelings... As it really is normally a case of not them but me. Ironically I can cum from a voice command from master. Which we do sometimes use in a meet...
Cali "
WOWWW that must be very erotic just his voice ... your lucky to have had that as i have never cum just a mans voice , x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes quite often.. my problem is It's rarely what they are doing... But the fact I get off more on mental than physical...
And of course they can't tell.. you just use it as an excuse to do pelvic floor exercises..
I Just have a bit of a control issue.. I love sex.. just struggle to let go. So I enjoy it but wouldn't want to hurt feelings... As it really is normally a case of not them but me. Ironically I can cum from a voice command from master. Which we do sometimes use in a meet...
Cali WOWWW that must be very erotic just his voice ... your lucky to have had that as i have never cum just a mans voice , x"
It is very amazing but we are trying with some success to get me to respond a bit better. It's really odd to love it but not orgasm. And yet with master is multiple lol.
It's just I think as I said the fact I hate to give control... So with master I can just let go but with other men I struggle. So its often better for me to fake it, but I've been banned from doing it much.. as I am to learn to let go with others.
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"i suppose with a man too -- pretending that he has cum (emptied ) but not been able to. "
Have you never dry cum ... one when you orgasm but just don't have anything left inside your balls...you could always explain it that way... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take forever and I mean forever and very often I just know I not gonna and most of time its not coz of the man I with. I dont see not coming as a problem but some men see a lack of one as a fault on there part and that's when I fake if they accept I happy without one then I dont |
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"I take forever and I mean forever and very often I just know I not gonna and most of time its not coz of the man I with. I dont see not coming as a problem but some men see a lack of one as a fault on there part and that's when I fake if they accept I happy without one then I dont"
A lady I once met said beforehand not to worry if she didn't cum. She said no one had ever made her cum - only she could do it. She got very wet and everything, but let me finish when I needed to. I didn't see it as a 'challenge' to be 'the first' - it didn't detract from our afternoon's fun.
Would I have loved to make her cum? Yes I guess, but as long as she had a good time - what more could I ask? |
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I have faked it in the past, but since I started swinging I gave that up happily!
But some guys see it as a challenge, and I'm not a challenge, I'm a sexual woman who can take a long time to cum. If it's not going ti happen I'd rather just enjoy everything else, getting hung up on chasing a orgasm that isn't to be just gets frustrating and tiresome. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I(he) have faked cumming a few times whilst playing as i've found some women take it a little personally even though its not them. Its easy if you have a condom on as you take it off with your hand covering the end.
Thinking about it I would also say I do take making a woman orgasm as a challenge but not in the going at it hammer and tongues kind of way, but more of the learning what that specific partner enjoys most. After all the chase is half the fun and it doesn't all have to 'cum' in the first session. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i suppose with a man too -- pretending that he has cum (emptied ) but not been able to.
that would just piss me off. i would rather he said.. "its been great but i cant cum" or "sorry but this isn't working wanna do someting different or just chill out instead" than fake it for me.. whats the point if both parties arent getting fun and pleasure from it.. if your getting pleasure but cant orgasm its not the end of the world but dont fake it"
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not faked a orgasm since i was with my first boyfriend. Bits where killing cba so i "came" so he could. Wish i never bothered really cos for the rest of our relationship, he thought he was doing it for me so had to carry on the lie to spare his feelings, in a year i had one actual orgasm.....he must have known the difference.
Never do it now. I measure a good shag by my abilty to see, walk and sit with slight difficulty and the state of my hair and make up. If i look done in......im happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i suppose with a man too -- pretending that he has cum (emptied ) but not been able to.
Have you never dry cum ... one when you orgasm but just don't have anything left inside your balls...you could always explain it that way..."
My fb does that lots before he finally let's go and cums fully |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have to admit i have a few times got rather loud and acted over enthusiastic when im getting bored with someone to make them cum quicker yes i have too x"
And me, somedays it's just an elusive little bugger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I(he) have faked cumming a few times whilst playing as i've found some women take it a little personally even though its not them. Its easy if you have a condom on as you take it off with your hand covering the end.
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A guy meeting me couldnt get away with that.. lol I have to taste and see the cum.. as I would never let a guy waste his cum in a condom. Only had it happen once in a club. Since then I always make it crystal clear that cum is not to go in a condom.
And as I tell guys I want facials or mouthfuls they know that cumming is part of the meet 
I have had only 3 people that I have met that havent..
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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I think if a woman fakes orgasm she is just cheating herself i'd much rather a lady point me in right direction that turns her on most if I wasnt quite hittin the spot .....lets face it what works for 1 doesnt mean it works for all everyone is different   |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I think if a woman fakes orgasm she is just cheating herself i'd much rather a lady point me in right direction that turns her on most if I wasnt quite hittin the spot .....lets face it what works for 1 doesnt mean it works for all everyone is different "
Agrees....
I don't always find it easy to orgasm, can often take me while to get to that point.
But can't see the point of faking, would rather tell them what I do like.
If it still doesn't happen, then it's not really a big deal to me as long as I have had fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if a woman fakes orgasm she is just cheating herself i'd much rather a lady point me in right direction that turns her on most if I wasnt quite hittin the spot .....lets face it what works for 1 doesnt mean it works for all everyone is different
Agrees....
I don't always find it easy to orgasm, can often take me while to get to that point.
But can't see the point of faking, would rather tell them what I do like.
If it still doesn't happen, then it's not really a big deal to me as long as I have had fun.
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I like that answer, if im doing something a woman isnt enjoying so much i would much rather her say what she wants than lie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a meet where try as I might, I simply didn't cum. The sex was AMAZING! And her oral was sublime but no matter what, I wasn't going to cum. It wasn't a problem since we both had a lot of fun!
And as for a woman faking it, I wouldn't like that. I've been with women where they haven't orgasmed but as long as everyone has felt awesome and had fun then that's all that matters. I don't know why so much emphasis is placed on the orgasm. Especially in meets where it's obvious that after one cum, you're off! Hahahaha.
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surely the best sex is based on good communication and a mutual understanding of what each other wants and needs?
if you just lie to each other then its going to be shite anyway.
better to tell the other partner what you feel they could do to make it better for you and, who knows, they may well thank you and take it with them into future activities and be a better lover for others. |
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