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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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some people love them others dont like them
only tried an mff and it was good fun but interested to try an mfm, i am straight but i suppose its just one of those things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have straight 3sums all the time..
Your there for the woman and to get pleasure and no one should ever make you feel that you have to have any contact you dont want.
Saying that.. depending on the 3sum there will be the accidental male contact here and there..but you have to just not freak.
I had a pair of guys that used to meet me and they would only do alternative ends.. wouldnt do DP.. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have straight 3sums all the time..
Your there for the woman and to get pleasure and no one should ever make you feel that you have to have any contact you dont want.
Saying that.. depending on the 3sum there will be the accidental male contact here and there..but you have to just not freak.
I had a pair of guys that used to meet me and they would only do alternative ends.. wouldnt do DP..
Cali "
i can understand why some guys wouldnt want to but at the end of the day if everyone is secure with their sexuality it shouldnt be a problem
one of the things i havnt had chance to do yet is get another guy and myself to dp a beautiful woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont really bother with mff one because its always to hard to sort out and two because Master actually prefers to see me with two guys lol
plus for me there is more fun to be had with mfm as I dont have to share with another woman.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We dont really bother with mff one because its always to hard to sort out and two because Master actually prefers to see me with two guys lol
plus for me there is more fun to be had with mfm as I dont have to share with another woman.
Cali "
why cant you be up north west lol
alot of women i know dont like the idea of an mmf at all for some reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why cant you be up north west lol
alot of women i know dont like the idea of an mmf at all for some reason"
mostly if they are couples you will often find from talking to them that its more often the guys dont want their women with other guys..(not all just saying a lot of women I have asked "well what about a mfm " and the reason they have given is hubby/partner wouldnt like it.. )
and I have come across very few that dont like the idea.. and I know loads up there lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why cant you be up north west lol
alot of women i know dont like the idea of an mmf at all for some reason
mostly if they are couples you will often find from talking to them that its more often the guys dont want their women with other guys..(not all just saying a lot of women I have asked "well what about a mfm " and the reason they have given is hubby/partner wouldnt like it.. )
and I have come across very few that dont like the idea.. and I know loads up there lol
Cali "
looks like i will have to look harder
its deffinatly something i would love to try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had several MFM's and got fed up listening to apologies from the other male so "him" tried his bi side and no more apologies now, would like an MMF or even more MFM's with the right people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have had several MFM's and got fed up listening to apologies from the other male so "him" tried his bi side and no more apologies now, would like an MMF or even more MFM's with the right people. "
I need to find the right people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had several MFM's and got fed up listening to apologies from the other male so "him" tried his bi side and no more apologies now, would like an MMF or even more MFM's with the right people. "
I am going to have to say.. apologies in what way.. as if you mean touching accidentally, in all the group or 3sums we have had I can never remember anyone apologising.. lol and I have only to my knowledge met straight guys.
Only once had a guy start to touch another guy and I just made it clear I didnt want that and no one else did it again.
TO OP, unless your really curious you dont need to be anything you dont want to be. Many men put bi to get meets but those looking for them soon them out.. But as someone that has only ever had two or more straight guys its about being confident in yourself.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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TO OP, unless your really curious you dont need to be anything you dont want to be. Many men put bi to get meets but those looking for them soon them out.. But as someone that has only ever had two or more straight guys its about being confident in yourself.
Cali "
I am confidant
Accidental touching doesnt bother me if it became more perpousfull i would simply say no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only do mmf and in 4 years there has never been any inappropriate touching going on ever
It winds me up that so many people that don't have an understanding of mmf or mfm whatever you want to call it seem to think that 2 guys in a room naked with a women means that some bi play will happen between the guys
The guys are'nt interested in each other,Its all about 2 men pleasuring the woman and her pleasuring 2 men,experienced guys that understand what an mmf/mfm is about will know this without having to be told and thank god they do!  
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have had several MFM's and got fed up listening to apologies from the other male so "him" tried his bi side and no more apologies now, would like an MMF or even more MFM's with the right people. "
whats the difference between MMF and MFM please? xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had several MFM's and got fed up listening to apologies from the other male so "him" tried his bi side and no more apologies now, would like an MMF or even more MFM's with the right people.
whats the difference between MMF and MFM please? xxx"
Well ive always called it an mmf but now some people think that it could mean that its bi play involved so to make it clear that theres no bi play they call it an mfm the female in the middle of 2 males
Normally sorted out with communication between who you're meeting anyway whatever you want to call it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have had several MFM's and got fed up listening to apologies from the other male so "him" tried his bi side and no more apologies now, would like an MMF or even more MFM's with the right people.
whats the difference between MMF and MFM please? xxx"
I'm glad you asked that, I am wondering too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well that's answered it for me, thank you. the positioning of the letters ne er occured to me.
We have lots of threesomes with 2 guys and we've never had inappropriate touching either. The guys have had close contact and sometimes there's been a stronger bond between the two guys ie, if I'm in the middle with one at each end, a spitroast scenario, the guys have looked at each other and communicated their pleasure. Its quite erotic I feel.
We have had ffm too, but this occured when we met a couple and the other guy was tired and wanted to watch, or at a party etc, or at a club when we get on well with a small group of people and play and watching can take place.
We don't try and organise a ffm via this site as I can't be bothered with the theatrics of some single ladies who expect us to meet a whole load of criteria, and I'm afraid I'm quite laid back and I don't play those games. So we get involved in ffm with women I know haven't fallen foul of the believe their own hype type  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well that's answered it for me, thank you. the positioning of the letters ne er occured to me.
We have lots of threesomes with 2 guys and we've never had inappropriate touching either. The guys have had close contact and sometimes there's been a stronger bond between the two guys ie, if I'm in the middle with one at each end, a spitroast scenario, the guys have looked at each other and communicated their pleasure. Its quite erotic I feel.
We have had ffm too, but this occured when we met a couple and the other guy was tired and wanted to watch, or at a party etc, or at a club when we get on well with a small group of people and play and watching can take place.
We don't try and organise a ffm via this site as I can't be bothered with the theatrics of some single ladies who expect us to meet a whole load of criteria, and I'm afraid I'm quite laid back and I don't play those games. So we get involved in ffm with women I know haven't fallen foul of the believe their own hype type "
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It is always best to set the ground rules first ... and then see how you go during the meeting.
Whilst the idea of a MFF is attractive - I'm not sure I could fully satisfy two women (naturally, I'd give it a go if the opportunity arose). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MMF FMM MFM
there is no dictation to what each one means...they are the SAME!
now how u wanna orchestrate what the pieces do is wwhat it ends up: ie where the M's play as a sexual pair to eachother.
as a straight guy ive been in a few MMF's that doesnt mean ive played bi cos i got the abbreviation wrong ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if you like MMMF
How do you abbreviate that to ensure the correct combination and stop anyone getting a shock they may not have been expecting?
One of the guys will either have a smile on his face or go running to the hills screaming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So why is there an MFM & MMF scenario?
MFM = two guy's one female, female centre of attention (piggy in the middle) no male contact with other male.
MMF = two guy's one female, male centre of attention (piggy in the middle), bi as male and female share the other male.
Otherwise how do you define two bi guy's with a female that joins them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you define what you want by talking to the people you're thinking of meeting and discussing it that way
Its never been a problem for us in the last 4 years of calling it an mmf,no-one has said well you should have said you wanted an mfm if you did'nt want bi play between the men
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So why is there an MFM & MMF scenario?
MFM = two guy's one female, female centre of attention (piggy in the middle) no male contact with other male.
MMF = two guy's one female, male centre of attention (piggy in the middle), bi as male and female share the other male.
Otherwise how do you define two bi guy's with a female that joins them? "
like ive said, if u met through an abbreviation on a meet and somehow got it wrong....whos to blame on that.
A bi meet would be DISCUSSED way before we say, lets mmf
I dont see where this is an issue really, lets just say its highly pedantic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over 20 years ago I saw a photo in a magazine (it was allowed then but on the top shelf) A woman was lying on her side while a male penetrated her from behind, while a male penetrated that male from behind. MMF nothing to do with how you arrange meets or have a chat, it is a sexual position,if its what you fancy thats how you put it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over 20 years ago I saw a photo in a magazine (it was allowed then but on the top shelf) A woman was lying on her side while a male penetrated her from behind, while a male penetrated that male from behind. MMF nothing to do with how you arrange meets or have a chat, it is a sexual position,if its what you fancy thats how you put it. "
ask a consensus of swingers in this day,not 20years ago...and see if MMF means bi-play...anyway ive bee in enough MMF's and know ive not needed to be in a position that involves my bum being used or me using his lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your sexual preferance was not up for debate, 20 years ago most of anything to do with sex was top shelf and bisexuals/gays/swinging frowned upon so move with the times, the world of sex has opened up and what happened 20 years ago and long before that still goes on today, there are without holding a census people out there interested in MMF, MFM, MFMF, C2C etc etc etc. There is not much new being done only with battery toys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there are any ladies or couples in the Guildford area, a (straight male) friend and myself can accommodate tonight/most of this week, get in touch "
Haha good advertising |
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I love MFM very much. I have done it a couple of times with Paul, and to be honest I was a bit worried that Paul was missing out, but he said that he loves to see me get spitroasted and really gets off on it.
We are straight and have had no problems with inappropriate touching from other men, Paul is confident in his sexually so being around another mans cock in that senario doesn't bother him in the slightest.
MMmmmm getting quite wet thinking about it!
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"I love MFM very much. I have done it a couple of times with Paul, and to be honest I was a bit worried that Paul was missing out, but he said that he loves to see me get spitroasted and really gets off on it.
We are straight and have had no problems with inappropriate touching from other men, Paul is confident in his sexually so being around another mans cock in that senario doesn't bother him in the slightest.
MMmmmm getting quite wet thinking about it!
Kazx"
better add an F to that MMmmmm...people might get worried
so an MMMMF or MMFMM or MFMMM or FMMMM..its getting difficult to work out which means what...or its just not really important which order the letters are... |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Well that's answered it for me, thank you. the positioning of the letters ne er occured to me.
We have lots of threesomes with 2 guys and we've never had inappropriate touching either. The guys have had close contact and sometimes there's been a stronger bond between the two guys ie, if I'm in the middle with one at each end, a spitroast scenario, the guys have looked at each other and communicated their pleasure. Its quite erotic I feel.
We have had ffm too, but this occured when we met a couple and the other guy was tired and wanted to watch, or at a party etc, or at a club when we get on well with a small group of people and play and watching can take place.
We don't try and organise a ffm via this site as I can't be bothered with the theatrics of some single ladies who expect us to meet a whole load of criteria, and I'm afraid I'm quite laid back and I don't play those games. So we get involved in ffm with women I know haven't fallen foul of the believe their own hype type "
Agrees with the above.
MMF and MFM are the same thing to me. What happens is surely up to the parties involved not how the letters are arranged.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are only into mfm meets as its all about the two men giving loads of attention to me. Hubby loves to see me enjoy the attentionand we have never had a problem with any male on male contact. |
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We have had MMF FFM threesomes and as stated above it's not down to how the letters get arranged, just how the people having fun are arranged
I'm straight but I know there will be times when the males involved will be in close proximity ie both having their cock sucked at the same time and some positions but I am secure enough in my sexuality to know I wouldn't want to do anything with the other bloke and we always play with other men that feel the same way.
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i have tried all permutations of threesomes and until recently my fave were the ones with two bi guys.
spit roasts always seemed to be about the men, about what they were doing to me instead of with me...
then i had one with two good fbs and it was a revelation! it was far more mutual than previous ones and was great fun!
but i won't be giving up my bi guy threesomes... and moresomes... |
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Ahh, threesomes :D
Only had the one MFF, but she was almost paralyzed d*unk, so it wasnt that fun :/
But MMF threesomes, done that enough times with Leon and a mate. Really fun! Both straight, both took different ends :P Tried DP but it was pretty awkward lmao! But would love to actually manage it some day |
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I've had a great time with a bi mmf threesome .. a straight mmf threesome ... although i think i prefer the bi one more.
I'd love to have a ffm threesome, the thought of one woman riding my cock and the other riding my face is such a turn on ... I live and hope! |
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Most of our meets are with single guys and we've never had any problems with Andy being straight. Always make it perfectly clear from our first message. Admittedly we have just had to remove a friend from our list as he's updated his profile to say he's openly bi, and we were getting some very weird messages thinking Andy was bi but keeping it quite!!! Found that very strange.  |
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