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Is it just me that's never met anyone on here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm polite, I don't send unsolicited dick picks, I'd like to think I'm ok looking...I don't seem to ever get a reply though, unless it's to tell me that I'm a catfish......oh, and the men. So many, many, many men offer me blowjobs...where are all the talkative ladies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm polite, I don't send unsolicited dick picks, I'd like to think I'm ok looking...I don't seem to ever get a reply though, unless it's to tell me that I'm a catfish......oh, and the men. So many, many, many men offer me blowjobs...where are all the talkative ladies?"
You're not alone mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty of people haven’t met anyone.
There could be many reasons why someone isn’t interested in you.
If you don’t want men messaging you, change your message filters.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plenty of people haven’t met anyone.
There could be many reasons why someone isn’t interested in you.
If you don’t want men messaging you, change your message filters. "
There could indeed, it would just be nice to know why, you know? Maybe I'm being rude and just don't know it ?? |
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You’re not alone no, especially in the early days, for those that persevere and keep at it you will eventually get a meet and then being meet verified and with people saying you’re ok it becomes easier |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
there are avenues open to people...
there are enough social events up and down the country....
you live in the middle of a lot of different clubs.....
its a case of making use of all the different things out there.... do you? |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
"I'm polite, I don't send unsolicited dick picks, I'd like to think I'm ok looking...I don't seem to ever get a reply though, unless it's to tell me that I'm a catfish......oh, and the men. So many, many, many men offer me blowjobs...where are all the talkative ladies?"
Ive looked at your profile and it says you had a meet a month ago?
There are lots of tips about how to help your profile and approach on the forums. It is hard for men but good and effort go a long way x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah...turns out that was my friend from up the road...she already knew who I was but I diddnt know it was her (no pics) ?? still, we had fun so I can't complain! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.
It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm polite, I don't send unsolicited dick picks, I'd like to think I'm ok looking...I don't seem to ever get a reply though, unless it's to tell me that I'm a catfish......oh, and the men. So many, many, many men offer me blowjobs...where are all the talkative ladies?"
Meeting others 
Holly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.
It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want. "
Me too, especially the last paragraph. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you...."
Why would that stop women from wanting to chat with him? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you....
Why would that stop women from wanting to chat with him? "
I was wondering the same thing...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.
It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.
Me too, especially the last paragraph."
How is that confusing and contradictory!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.
It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.
Me too, especially the last paragraph.
How is that confusing and contradictory!?"
He's changed his profile write up. If you read what he originally had up, I'm sure you would agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.
It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.
Me too, especially the last paragraph.
How is that confusing and contradictory!?
He's changed his profile write up. If you read what he originally had up, I'm sure you would agree"
Oh, I gotcha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you messaged me, I would delete your message based on your profile write up.
It's confusing and contradictory. Almost like you don't even know what you want.
Me too, especially the last paragraph.
How is that confusing and contradictory!?
He's changed his profile write up. If you read what he originally had up, I'm sure you would agree"
Ofcourse I changed it, it's what people advised to do...in fairness though, I deleted one tiny bit and rewrote the rest (mostly) |
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I hardly ever get a meet on here - but every now and again, I do. A wonderful night in Greece with a married couple was one of the best nights I have ever had. Totally out of the blue.
So don't give up! Keep trying. There are way too many guys v women/couples on here, so you just have to keep going and be there in the right place at the right time.
It is easier to meet guys. I do from time to time. I've met some really pleasant guys as well. Not quite what I was after when I first joined here, but at least someone likes me  |
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"I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you....
Why would that stop women from wanting to chat with him?
I was wondering the same thing...
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Because you've changed it since I wrote that...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I mean that bit on the bottom of your profile pretty much stops anyone from bothering to talk to you....
Why would that stop women from wanting to chat with him?
I was wondering the same thing...
Because you've changed it since I wrote that......"
I did put that a few messages ago... |
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