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Curvy 14-16....wife thinks shes not in demand
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I prefer curves to stick insects. Im curvy myself but I also used to be quite slim back in the dat.. I do admit when I was slimmer I got my attention then I do now. All down to personal preferances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a size 16. When i was meeting, i had no issues at all. A lot on here are of a more curvy stature. Tell her to look at the curvy threads. Hopefully that will put her mind at ease 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I prefer curves to stick insects. Im curvy myself but I also used to be quite slim back in the dat.. I do admit when I was slimmer I got my attention then I do now. All down to personal preferances. "
You don't need to insult some women to compliment other yaknow... 
Beauty is not defined by size. I find women of all shapes and sizes attractive. You'll never please everyone but you'll always please someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
100% agree with you pal! My favourite dress sizes on a girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I prefer curves to stick insects. Im curvy myself but I also used to be quite slim back in the dat.. I do admit when I was slimmer I got my attention then I do now. All down to personal preferances.
You don't need to insult some women to compliment other yaknow...
Beauty is not defined by size. I find women of all shapes and sizes attractive. You'll never please everyone but you'll always please someone "
Sorry, didn't mean to cause offence. I often think before I type but clearly not in this case lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also get your wife to read the forums there are loads of threads celebrating curvy women and not one in praise of slim women"
I often praise ALL women 
It's a shame all types can't be celebrated for sure! Makes me sad that the slimmer ladies of the forum don't feel represented or praised enough  |
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"Also get your wife to read the forums there are loads of threads celebrating curvy women and not one in praise of slim women
I often praise ALL women
It's a shame all types can't be celebrated for sure! Makes me sad that the slimmer ladies of the forum don't feel represented or praised enough "
Yes I've noticed that you do.
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
I am sure I will get called a white night in shining armour but so bet it.
I find women sexiest between size 14 and 18 so your your wife's size is sexy to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She has a great body. I'd much rather chase her around the bedroom, than a real skinny women with no hips, bum or tits!
Woman are supposed to have curves."
Insulting one type of woman to compliment another isn't cool.
Wish people would stop doing this!
Women are not supposed to be anything. They are what they are. Some larger, some smaller. Some curvy, some not so curvy. It's all ok. Every combination will appeal to some and not to others.
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"She has a great body. I'd much rather chase her around the bedroom, than a real skinny women with no hips, bum or tits!
Woman are supposed to have curves."
Women should be this, have this, do this.
Body shaming or what?!
Women should have the bodies they’ve got and other people should keep their criticisms to themselves as there is no right or wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love curvy/bbw lady’s. The mrs was the same when we started on here as she thought no one would like her but soon changed her mind and how many people fab her photos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best thing for her would be to tackle her low self esteem rather than to rely on a place where it can be difficult to accept compliments without wondering about their sincerity. It might not matter that 500 hundred strangers tell her that she is gorgeous because without her feeling it it'll not change her mind.
Perhaps Google other ways to help or look up self help classes local to you.
Because when she feels gorgeous and sexy herself without the need for compliments from strangers when prompted ... your wife will be beating them off with a stick!
Sending her a hug and a sympathetic kick up the arse xxx |
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"The best thing for her would be to tackle her low self esteem rather than to rely on a place where it can be difficult to accept compliments without wondering about their sincerity. It might not matter that 500 hundred strangers tell her that she is gorgeous because without her feeling it it'll not change her mind.
Perhaps Google other ways to help or look up self help classes local to you.
Because when she feels gorgeous and sexy herself without the need for compliments from strangers when prompted ... your wife will be beating them off with a stick!
Sending her a hug and a sympathetic kick up the arse xxx "
Really good advice this
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"The best thing for her would be to tackle her low self esteem rather than to rely on a place where it can be difficult to accept compliments without wondering about their sincerity. It might not matter that 500 hundred strangers tell her that she is gorgeous because without her feeling it it'll not change her mind.
Perhaps Google other ways to help or look up self help classes local to you.
Because when she feels gorgeous and sexy herself without the need for compliments from strangers when prompted ... your wife will be beating them off with a stick!
Sending her a hug and a sympathetic kick up the arse xxx "
Yes. Fab is incredibly fickle and can be damaging if it's believed.
You need to be confident in your worth in yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
OP tell tour wife that CURVES ROCK  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have a body image and I think most people are not 100% happy with their own. Media is partly to blame but self belief is important. If you don’t like what you have try to change it.....if you’re happy great
It’s your body and your view is most important |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
She's the same size as me. |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
Kidderminster |
"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
She looks sexy and we'd play with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
She looks sexy in those pictures and we both prefer a curvy woman. We are both also body conscious and worry that people wont like the way we look so it’s nice when you meet with people who appreciate you for the way you are. Hopefully the responses on this thread help her to appreciate she is a sexy woman x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?
She looks sexy in those pictures and we both prefer a curvy woman. We are both also body conscious and worry that people wont like the way we look so it’s nice when you meet with people who appreciate you for the way you are. Hopefully the responses on this thread help her to appreciate she is a sexy woman x"
This exactly |
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
Your wife has some great curves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After over a year and no verifications we’d imagine either the wife doesn’t know she is on here or she is very hesitant to meet, neither have anything to do with her size! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mr d knows how she feels my wife is of a smaller frame size 8/10 but I myself am of a bigger size large rugby player type . Tge couples we get messages from tend to be fit smaller framed people and we like the look of them but I think they wont want me I'm too fat ...
Prob a silly way to look at things but it happens ...
Op your wife is hot looking at her pics .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She’s gorgeous and you should tell her that every day!
I have been lucky enough to have met more than my fair share of women and I can tell you that its not the shape or size that matters....its the confidence and personality that makes all the difference
I am guessing this is quite a new adventure for you so get a few meets or club experiences under your belts and I am sure she and you will work it all out
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
She looks fit,fun and naughty to me |
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
We'd be more than happy to bump into you two in a club sometime xx |
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My wife is exactly the same.She is doing her best to lose weight.But like I said to her I love her the way she is and if people don't like the way we look then we are not right for them.
We are not into skinnies.Sorry no offence to skinnies just our preference. |
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
I call bullshit.. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?
I call bullshit.. "
What are you trying to imply here? A look at me thread or no wife or she has self confidence? |
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?
I call bullshit..
What are you trying to imply here? A look at me thread or no wife or she has self confidence? "
2 out 3 in some order..  |
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"My beautiful wife is paranoid that men women couples are not attracted to a nice curvy size 14-16 woman...I have reassured her this is not the case...are there any men or women on ere that agree with me?"
As a curvy 14/16 wife myself, I can assure her that men are attracted to this size and ladies smaller and larger. Sexy is sexy, whatever size you are
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are wanting meets etc...but confidence within my wife body wise is a issue...each to their own preferences but I have told her there are guys/couples etc out there that will be looking for a woman with her body shape n curves |
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I was a 10/12 for years even after having my daughter ,but i had no boobs ,but got on with it ,the past 2 or 3 years ive filled out and have boobsetc ,hubby loves it (he loved me before too ) and ive found most men love curves and boobs ,so ive came on here just at the right time ,she will be in big demand i promise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The good thing about liberated people is that they don't conform to the societal norms. People come in all shapes and sizes.
Theres beauty in everyone, you just gotta own it 
I've quoted it before and I'll quite again...
"If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other..." |
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"She has a great body. I'd much rather chase her around the bedroom, than a real skinny women with no hips, bum or tits!
Woman are supposed to have curves."
Yay don't I feel wonderful right now. Ta very much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She has a great body. I'd much rather chase her around the bedroom, than a real skinny women with no hips, bum or tits!
Woman are supposed to have curves.
Yay don't I feel wonderful right now. Ta very much."
Yup me too ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nice to read everone's comments..i have backed out of meeting some people after looking at the veri's from previous playmates after realising they are all slimmer than me. It made me question why they wanted to meet me.I kmow it's all to do with confidence but sometimes the self doubt creeps in..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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curves are lovely , alluring and sexy, and of course the person inside is who we all want to meet and please. We are all different and beautiful, reassure her not worry and enjoy the attention.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All this body shaming is bollocks....its about the person and their humanity, not just their physique!
Once you start engaging your brain with someone the sex just gets better and better.... I was taught that by the first person I met on here and its a rule everyone should live by |
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Personally I prefer curves to stick insects. Im curvy myself but I also used to be quite slim back in the dat.. I do admit when I was slimmer I got my attention then I do now. All down to personal preferances.
You don't need to insult some women to compliment other yaknow...
Absolutely admire your positivity and your honesty. Please can I take you out for a drink, that's if I'm not taken for a gent lol
Beauty is not defined by size. I find women of all shapes and sizes attractive. You'll never please everyone but you'll always please someone "
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
I'm a 14-16. Never bothered the people we have played with!! I know smaller people would probably prefer not play with us and probably don't message us. But it's no big deal everyone has preferences |
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