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Justification of me being a swinger
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So, this is more of a rant, and a chance to talk to the audience of the singletons on this site!
Lately I’m finding there have been a few couples that seam to believe that just because I’m a single person, means I’m not a swinger!
So a little of me.
I’ve been swinging since I was 19 (admittedly I wasn’t aware it was swinging). I had several MFFs and a small handful of men and women who I’d meet and have sex with. Then I stumbled across FAB. I started going to clubs, parties and socials, even went to Cap A’dge As a single female!
For a small brief time I was a couple on this site, and yes it was fun, but I wouldn’t have judged anyone for being either being a couple or a single person.
I like that I can be a swinger and experience so many things that a vanilla single person wouldn’t.
I feel it’s time we end this thinking that swinging is a couples only thing. We should bound together and get rid of the old ways, and open up to the new way of swinging is a lifestyle for everyone to enjoy, regardless of relationship status!
Please, without this turning into a battle match, I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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Thought I would solve this once and for all, as I agree totally Op. So I googled definition of a swinger. Answer;
swinger
/'sw???/
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noun
1.
INFORMAL
a lively and fashionable person who goes to a lot of social events.
"one of the oldest swingers in town"
2.
INFORMAL
a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.
"a twilight world of swingers and wife-swapping
'A person' singular  |
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over a year ago
The South |
"Thought I would solve this once and for all, as I agree totally Op. So I googled definition of a swinger. Answer;
swinger
/'sw???/
Learn to pronounce
noun
1.
INFORMAL
a lively and fashionable person who goes to a lot of social events.
"one of the oldest swingers in town"
2.
INFORMAL
a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.
"a twilight world of swingers and wife-swapping
'A person' singular "
Case closed M'lud.
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I feel it’s time we end this thinking that swinging is a couples only thing. We should bound together and get rid of the old ways, and open up to the new way of swinging is a lifestyle for everyone to enjoy, regardless of relationship status!
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That sounds like a great idea and how on the face of it, swinging should be. However swingers are humans and the very common traits of envy, jealousy, competition and gossiping mean that in our experience swingers as a group are the least inclusive people we know. Individually of course it's different and individuals are who you should concentrate on. |
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There’s been a few posts about this lately. There’s some who think that but they aren’t the sort for you. Plenty of couples want singles and don’t want singles put off by those that don’t welcome them. You belong, don’t worry what they say. X |
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swinging is a label for a lifestyle thats so open to many aspects that it should not be labeled in the first place.
if you are involved in the lifestyle you are by definition a swinger no matter who you are.
thats always been our take
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"swinging is a label for a lifestyle thats so open to many aspects that it should not be labeled in the first place.
if you are involved in the lifestyle you are by definition a swinger no matter who you are.
thats always been our take
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I like this.  |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"swinging is a label for a lifestyle thats so open to many aspects that it should not be labeled in the first place.
if you are involved in the lifestyle you are by definition a swinger no matter who you are.
thats always been our take
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over a year ago
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OP - you just be yourself, ignore the critics and revel in their jealousy
"life is for living, as we are a long time dead"
with that in mind , have fun and be happy
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