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One offs or regular
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"Prefer regulars. Building up on what excites the other person. Finding out new pleasures all add to the enjoyment."
Yes with regulars theres that greater anticipation with out the nerves and proberly more daring x |
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Regular meets are so much better.
We find once you build a connection, all parties are open to expanding the boundaries and you don’t have the worry of being let down by time wasters etc.
We are trying to build a small circle of fun friends again, after most we knew have either moved away or left the scene. |
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"Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x"
Definitely regular |
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"Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x"
Very true I've been meeting with a regular guy I met more than two years ago on fab much better than one offs . |
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We would be happy with either at the moment lol bit I would defo say regular. I love the idea of teasing each other all week before a meet then letting it all go when we finally get in bed together   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s different for couples and singles
Singles who moan about not finding a another single regular are not searching for swingers more like a FB or partner in effect a relationship, and that’s not swinging really, it’s dating. Maybe that apples to some of the posters above? If it does, maybe ask yourself why you are searching on a swinging site, which ranges from fantasists via club socialites to hard core players but very few people looking for relationships
We have no problem finding regular couples and singles although some have flown a little bit close to wanting to be exclusive etc, again that’s not swinging..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x"
Clubs one off
But i like regular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I don’t think you control that really. If they are fun, they become regulars. Else they become a notch on the bed post. You don’t have to pick one approach. This is fab |
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over a year ago
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One offs fill the excitement gap. The unknown. Regular is good too though as you get to know how those people ‘tic’ sexually.
Enjoyed both to be honest. |
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One offs. Not interested in repeat meets anymore. Have found it comes with too much baggage, particularly with singles. Only interested in fucking, don't want to be involved with drama and find one offs are better for this. |
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over a year ago
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The sex gets better with someone you know well in my experience. So regular for single guys.
If I meet a couple nowadays I rather not play regularly. I have done in the past.
One offs have their place and let's face it when you try someone out they might not be what you're looking for |
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I love the variety of one offs but I'm always reasonably nervous on first meets so I also like when people want to meet again. It's also a confidence booster to know they liked you hehe. I usually find thought that the people interested in return meets are the people I didn't enjoy playing with much, and the ones I did enjoy playing with don't want to meet again. Annoying!
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Both in different ways. I have a regular, which is fantastic as both a sexual relationship and friendship, but still like the thrill and anticipation of a one off meet. Which he knows about and encourages.
Who doesn't like to have their cake and eat it too....  |
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Repeat meets with friends are what I prefer, as the fun gets better the more you get to know someone, plus you rarely get let down. Occasional one-off club meets can be fun, but nowhere near as reliable  |
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I've done both and there is the risk and excitement in one-offs but the sex is sooooo much better with someone regular who you can trust and push boundaries with |
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"I've done both and there is the risk and excitement in one-offs but the sex is sooooo much better with someone regular who you can trust and push boundaries with "
That pretty much sums it up really , a spontaneous meet , one off is exciting and a quick release , which may leaf to regular fun and a new fab friend. Regular more meaning g ful passionate longer lasting lust and bigger things to cum haha x |
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Prefer NSA but I can see the appeal of having regular fun but due to having commitments and a life outside fab I'd prefer to keep things NSA."
Yeah this is where I am. Very few special people get that regular can remain NSA. As soon as they show signs of becoming complicated they are no longer regular. |
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Prefer NSA but I can see the appeal of having regular fun but due to having commitments and a life outside fab I'd prefer to keep things NSA.
Yeah this is where I am. Very few special people get that regular can remain NSA. As soon as they show signs of becoming complicated they are no longer regular. "
That's the emotion thing we all have them I guess , ive found if your honest and up front that seems to be dealt with, but do totally get that. Easier with couples as you are aware there together and understand that its just swinging and fun x |
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Prefer NSA but I can see the appeal of having regular fun but due to having commitments and a life outside fab I'd prefer to keep things NSA.
Yeah this is where I am. Very few special people get that regular can remain NSA. As soon as they show signs of becoming complicated they are no longer regular.
That's the emotion thing we all have them I guess , ive found if your honest and up front that seems to be dealt with, but do totally get that. Easier with couples as you are aware there together and understand that its just swinging and fun x "
Yes. I'm part of a couple but still the odd one seems to think they can control the situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has to be regular for me fab may be a 'sex site's but one offs don't appeal to me"
Build the chemistry and the excitement on a journey of exploration of each other's bodies mmm now that's fab for me. Mr |
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I’m a repeater! Hate one hook ups, not satisfied in the least! Love my ever growing circle of swinging friends!
As for the post about singles here not being swingers, you’ve got it wrong. This is a lifestyle choice, and I choose to be a single female in this scene (so much more fun), I attend many parties where I have lots of friends who I play with with, both singles and couples.
I’m a true swinger, I can be who I want, without the judgement (sadly I feel you’re judgemental towards singles, and for that reason I wouldn’t meet you).
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We prefer to meet for regular fun. The more comfortable we get with who we meet, the more relaxed we become. Which means we’re
more likely to explore our boundaries more.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every one off has the potential to be a regular fuck buddy. "
This is so true, I guess until you try once you won’t know if you want it to be regular..... but as someone else said, like finding rocking horse shit |
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Regular fun is definitely better. We have been lucky enough to play with couples for a second time and whilst the first time is great, the second is far better. We think you can experiment a little more on the second round too.
We once had a double session with a couple at a club and again the second time was better as everyone was more relaxed x |
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"Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x"
Mix of both..ive had ladies ive met a few times and been joined by folks for group fun as one off which has turned out awsome |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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What we're ideally looking for is a few regulars. We have a couple of couples which are going that way. People we can get on with and have a good time as well!!
We tend to leave our one off encounters for parties and clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular for me, the sex gets better and better and I like to develop a friendship with them...
Althou I do wear my heart on my sleeve so to speak and been burnt more than once with the feelings shit...so think it might be time to try the one offs for a while. |
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