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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’ve been talking to a woman on here for a couple of weeks who wanted to take the chat off here to another format....no problem
What I will add is I’m not really sure what I want at the moment and make this clear from the start to people, just not feeling much fun at the moment.
Suddenly her “fella” messages me to create a group chat. No mention of a bloke on her profile, she is photo verified though. On the chat she didn’t talk either. So are they the same person and if so how did she get verified.
I called him out and said this wasn’t how I thought it was, I just thought a female only. He seemed to have all the answers
So have I been taken for a fool, and if I have I’m gutted as I thought I was more street wise than that |
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"So I’ve been talking to a woman on here for a couple of weeks who wanted to take the chat off here to another format....no problem
What I will add is I’m not really sure what I want at the moment and make this clear from the start to people, just not feeling much fun at the moment.
Suddenly her “fella” messages me to create a group chat. No mention of a bloke on her profile, she is photo verified though. On the chat she didn’t talk either. So are they the same person and if so how did she get verified.
I called him out and said this wasn’t how I thought it was, I just thought a female only. He seemed to have all the answers
So have I been taken for a fool, and if I have I’m gutted as I thought I was more street wise than that "
It sounds like it was a bloke, playing silly games.
Don't beat yourself up over it, some fakers are very plausible, up to a point.
A shame you were duped for a while, these idiots don't care how they fuck around with people's emotions. |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
Unfortunately there are a number of profiles on here where the main profile is run by someone else pretending to be someone even more else. Then there are those that have masters and will only be communicated with through the master. Either way they should have mentioned any of this to you in the beginning Best thing to do is get out of group chat and block and same with profile on here and possibly report profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile says "if you are playing with your partners permission I will need to speak to the partner". So weren't they just following your instructions ?"
Not when there’s been no mention of a partner before even when I asked and not for a 3sum |
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"Your profile says "if you are playing with your partners permission I will need to speak to the partner". So weren't they just following your instructions ?
Not when there’s been no mention of a partner before even when I asked and not for a 3sum"
Hi Sarah,
I have had a number of conversations with ‘couples’ where funnily enough the lady is never there or part of the discussion. I am always wary ... in fact probably too wary here, but think it probably pays to be.
Lovely pictures and profile btw xx
Rachel xx |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
We've had similar.
The goalposts have been moved and you were not given the whole picture before changing formats or from the profile or during your fab conversations. For us this is a false representation of that profile which we'd report and say why, then block. 100% not your fault,op, there's some sneaky feckers on here.  |
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Just dont let this experience put you off in any way. Just move on from it and start again chatting to new people. You will naturally just be more cautious next time and be more wary of similar people or conversations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You really don't know yet get back talking to the woman ask either for cam or kik cam or a telephone call to verify she exists and say you don't want contact with the guy....... Simples  |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire/Midlands |
I unusually find if they ask for sex chat, talk about the fun they’ve had with a male FAB user, produce a picture of a lady claiming to be them but it’s from across the room and not looking at the camera, or their profile text doesn’t match to the person they present themselves to be, it’s highly likely a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell me about it. I even sent a live picture to one then they just disappeared on kik. Ive also seen a couples photo on here being used by a single man on kik. Its so lame! |
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Something similar happened to us a couple of weeks ago, a very harsh lesson learned for us, but it does definitely play on your emotions and you are left wondering what happened and why. We are now much more careful who we speak too and unfortunately we are a little less trusting in people xx |
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Same thing happens to us a lot. Single female, becomes couple, becomes guy who needs to meet you alone to “check that you’re ok” before meeting the lady.
There’s also a male profile we’ve reported, numerous female profiles have verified him, and the lady’s in question don’t have any verifications except him. All of these “women” have messaged us first, asked for pictures and videos and who knows what from the start, and have not been able to send more than one picture of themselves, always too busy to video chat or verify in any way. And really sing this guys praises.
It’s infuriating. |
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True though
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