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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
Hi guys & girls any pointer I keep getting more turned on at the thought of bdsm I think I just need to push my own boundaries more giving & taking
But I'm a little hesitant I know I can go to a club or is there any better idea's you have
Feel free to pm me if you like cheers phill |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
Germany / Manchester |
First thing, what part within BDSM interests you?
It's okay to be hesitant but with some thorough research into a particular area, you'll begin to feel more comfortable.
From our experience, the fetish community is very welcoming and we certainly have more meets in the fet lifestyle. That isn't to say the swingers lifestyle isn't.
You will find local meets in your area known as 'Munches' so it can be a great idea to start attending them.
It is trial and error and eventualy, you'll find your feet.
When we first got into the practice of rope bondage and discipline (role play) we sort training courses and workshops. That way, we had a better understanding.
From there we met many people some who are friends and a few we travel on holiday with. It's a great lifestyle and one that can supplement swinging.
If you have any questions PM me. M |
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I used to live in Leicester so not that far from you and honestly I lived the east Midlands scene. My favourite munchs were the Nottingham ones. Sadly a lot of the club's I went to back then don't exist anymore but I'm sure some locals could recommend new ones to you. BBB is also worth a visit not just for the market but the demos and the afterparty is a great first time event as it's a bit tamer due to having a no genital nudity rule. It was my first play event and I loved it when though I just watched and socialised. |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"First thing, what part within BDSM interests you?
It's okay to be hesitant but with some thorough research into a particular area, you'll begin to feel more comfortable.
From our experience, the fetish community is very welcoming and we certainly have more meets in the fet lifestyle. That isn't to say the swingers lifestyle isn't.
You will find local meets in your area known as 'Munches' so it can be a great idea to start attending them.
It is trial and error and eventualy, you'll find your feet.
When we first got into the practice of rope bondage and discipline (role play) we sort training courses and workshops. That way, we had a better understanding.
From there we met many people some who are friends and a few we travel on holiday with. It's a great lifestyle and one that can supplement swinging.
If you have any questions PM me. M"
Thank you I'll look in to munches near me & see what comes up all the best phill  |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"I used to live in Leicester so not that far from you and honestly I lived the east Midlands scene. My favourite munchs were the Nottingham ones. Sadly a lot of the club's I went to back then don't exist anymore but I'm sure some locals could recommend new ones to you. BBB is also worth a visit not just for the market but the demos and the afterparty is a great first time event as it's a bit tamer due to having a no genital nudity rule. It was my first play event and I loved it when though I just watched and socialised."
Thankyou for your reply look into bbb as well seems there is a hole new world I haven't explored yet |
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"I used to live in Leicester so not that far from you and honestly I lived the east Midlands scene. My favourite munchs were the Nottingham ones. Sadly a lot of the club's I went to back then don't exist anymore but I'm sure some locals could recommend new ones to you. BBB is also worth a visit not just for the market but the demos and the afterparty is a great first time event as it's a bit tamer due to having a no genital nudity rule. It was my first play event and I loved it when though I just watched and socialised.
Thankyou for your reply look into bbb as well seems there is a hole new world I haven't explored yet "
There is a popular fetish social media site that's name rhymes with betlife. You may have already heard of it but if not all the munches and kink events are listed on there! |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"I used to live in Leicester so not that far from you and honestly I lived the east Midlands scene. My favourite munchs were the Nottingham ones. Sadly a lot of the club's I went to back then don't exist anymore but I'm sure some locals could recommend new ones to you. BBB is also worth a visit not just for the market but the demos and the afterparty is a great first time event as it's a bit tamer due to having a no genital nudity rule. It was my first play event and I loved it when though I just watched and socialised.
Thankyou for your reply look into bbb as well seems there is a hole new world I haven't explored yet
There is a popular fetish social media site that's name rhymes with betlife. You may have already heard of it but if not all the munches and kink events are listed on there! "
Thanks I've just came across this when searching munches, you think you've done most things then another door opens |
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"I used to live in Leicester so not that far from you and honestly I lived the east Midlands scene. My favourite munchs were the Nottingham ones. Sadly a lot of the club's I went to back then don't exist anymore but I'm sure some locals could recommend new ones to you. BBB is also worth a visit not just for the market but the demos and the afterparty is a great first time event as it's a bit tamer due to having a no genital nudity rule. It was my first play event and I loved it when though I just watched and socialised.
Thankyou for your reply look into bbb as well seems there is a hole new world I haven't explored yet
There is a popular fetish social media site that's name rhymes with betlife. You may have already heard of it but if not all the munches and kink events are listed on there!
Thanks I've just came across this when searching munches, you think you've done most things then another door opens "
Welcome to the wonderful world of kink! Careful you don't trip over a chain, slip in the mess the sploshers left behind or get electrocuted by a rogue violet wand! |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"I used to live in Leicester so not that far from you and honestly I lived the east Midlands scene. My favourite munchs were the Nottingham ones. Sadly a lot of the club's I went to back then don't exist anymore but I'm sure some locals could recommend new ones to you. BBB is also worth a visit not just for the market but the demos and the afterparty is a great first time event as it's a bit tamer due to having a no genital nudity rule. It was my first play event and I loved it when though I just watched and socialised.
Thankyou for your reply look into bbb as well seems there is a hole new world I haven't explored yet
There is a popular fetish social media site that's name rhymes with betlife. You may have already heard of it but if not all the munches and kink events are listed on there!
Thanks I've just came across this when searching munches, you think you've done most things then another door opens
Welcome to the wonderful world of kink! Careful you don't trip over a chain, slip in the mess the sploshers left behind or get electrocuted by a rogue violet wand!"
I think I may just enjoy all that  |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish) |
Everyone has covered the main topics, take things slowly, don't rush into anything and munches and clubs are a great way to dip your toes into the scene and talk to experienced players.
BDSM covers a huge swathe of activities and it can be amazing exploring your own needs and desires.
Have fun and welcome to Kinkland. |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"Get a couple of non fiction books I like Screw The Roses Send Me The Thorns. You can get a sense of the direction you want to move in and some of the pitfalls. "
I'll have a read I'm off on hols soon, some light reading next to the pool |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"Everyone has covered the main topics, take things slowly, don't rush into anything and munches and clubs are a great way to dip your toes into the scene and talk to experienced players.
BDSM covers a huge swathe of activities and it can be amazing exploring your own needs and desires.
Have fun and welcome to Kinkland."
Think I'm going to enjoy kinkland |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Phil.
I think to start with BDSM I would suggest you to attend munches which are organised group socials and also events in clubs .
Fetish and kink events in clubs is opportunity to socialise and meet likeminded people .
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