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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I have a question for you. I like many I. Sure like use ' sex ' names. You know names you call the other person in bed or where ever you may be lol. A man I have met has had a nasty message saying I far to young for him and I shouldn't call him daddy I addressed him as daddy in a verification Now I eleven years over the age of consent hardly jail bait and he is not the oldest I have had a meet with by a long shot. I told him if me calling him daddy is an issue I will stop but he says he loves it. As no one else is involved and we both happy would it matter to you what others think. I ask as I seen a thread about the use of words such as slut etc lo sex and that had a varied responses. My feeling is if all parties are happy so be it and its agreed at the start. If anyone involved is upset it shouldn't be said. Thanks for reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stroll on sweetheart. x"
not to sure why you felt the need to answer the OP like that.. but I am guessing this is what she means..
to the OP.. most people on here are not going to understand the Daddy and Little dynamic.. I mean even within bdsm there are those that confuse it with incest related play.. so I can see why people would get offended..
However I agree that what you refer to your partner as shouldnt be any of anyone elses business.. but people will judge..
Just ignore it.. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what two (or even more lol !!) consenting adults do in privacy is up to them . aslong as both parties are happy does it matter what they call each other ?? "
I can see without understanding of this subject why it would upset some.. but there was a thread recently where I think eveshamgal ( sorry if it wasnt) asked about what was different to being a daddy dom to a normal dominant.. and there were some fantastic insights brought up from this.
A few centuries ago women would often refer to their husbands as Daddy as we now use dear, hun etc... it has become a little outgrown now but it was not seen as anything bad then.
I do perhaps think that the OP was looking for the shock factor but the fact is if you want to call your other half herbert or daddy that is your business... as long as its between two consenting adults.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stroll on sweetheart. x
not to sure why you felt the need to answer the OP like that"
..cause i felt like it..i ain't wavering in the face of anyones paranoia about this. Two consenting ADULTS, may address each other however they choose..on this one i'm with the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stroll on sweetheart. x
not to sure why you felt the need to answer the OP like that
..cause i felt like it..i ain't wavering in the face of anyones paranoia about this. Two consenting ADULTS, may address each other however they choose..on this one i'm with the OP "
Ah it makes sense now you have explained it,like Cali I read it as though you were telling her to sod off as you did'nt agree with her |
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"Hi I have a question for you. I like many I. Sure like use ' sex ' names. You know names you call the other person in bed or where ever you may be lol. A man I have met has had a nasty message saying I far to young for him and I shouldn't call him daddy I addressed him as daddy in a verification Now I eleven years over the age of consent hardly jail bait and he is not the oldest I have had a meet with by a long shot. I told him if me calling him daddy is an issue I will stop but he says he loves it. As no one else is involved and we both happy would it matter to you what others think. I ask as I seen a thread about the use of words such as slut etc lo sex and that had a varied responses. My feeling is if all parties are happy so be it and its agreed at the start. If anyone involved is upset it shouldn't be said. Thanks for reading "
many ppl enjoy ageplay,if u two do dont let other ppl stop you...i know of women older than their partners who call them daddy..it is about touching certain emotions and playing with them...
enjoy,have fun and ignore judgmental feckers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stroll on sweetheart. x
not to sure why you felt the need to answer the OP like that
..cause i felt like it..i ain't wavering in the face of anyones paranoia about this. Two consenting ADULTS, may address each other however they choose..on this one i'm with the OP
Ah it makes sense now you have explained it,like Cali I read it as though you were telling her to sod off as you did'nt agree with her"
I feel better now that it wasnt just me having a moment.. lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thank you for your replys. I do try and understand everyone's view in life even if I dont agree with it but I think my meet was a bit vexed by the message he got esp the bit saying I far to young. Believe me some days I feel anything but young when I see eighteen nineteen twenty year olds on here lol. I just see it as her own opinion take it as a compliment that she things I young. I have no wish to upset anyone or push my views onto anyone who sees the world different the world be boring if we all had the same does and donts won't it lol |
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To op I tried to send this in private but can't as You don't accept messages from women. But your name will upset many. There were some not very nice messages on this thread but to some they see it different.
My master is older, And nothing wrong with it but many see your name and jump to wrong conclusions.... I know what it stands for and know that either looking or found that being a little isn't to do with incest well rarely as with everything there are exceptions to the rule.
It would be a boring world if we were all the same... And have never got why someone else would need to contact a meet...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To op I tried to send this in private but can't as You don't accept messages from women. But your name will upset many. There were some not very nice messages on this thread but to some they see it different.
My master is older, And nothing wrong with it but many see your name and jump to wrong conclusions.... I know what it stands for and know that either looking or found that being a little isn't to do with incest well rarely as with everything there are exceptions to the rule.
It would be a boring world if we were all the same... And have never got why someone else would need to contact a meet...
Cali"
Thank you its not my intention to upset or offend far from it I will think about I name change to one that's less likely to offend. Thank you for pointing this out |
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I have encountered profile names.that put me right off the person before I even read a mail, a forum post or their profile.
Your name made me pause, I know some won't like it, but after consideration I concluded that it says something about the way you play and the dynamic you like/persue.
So only change it if that dynamic is.personal to one relationship and you don't wish to find it again. That way you won't be fielding messages/interest that you don't want.
But if it's who you are,.don't let.the judgemental get you down. If we can't be.ourselves on here where can we be?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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So true and I cant change name for seven days anyway as I have just changed it. From a mainstream name lol. I value all your comments it takes time to get a profile right and thank you for your input |
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