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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealous has no place in swinging it can turn a great meet into a terrible one in seconds,
You need to know boundaries before the start and try to stick to them  "
Indeed. It is why we stopped meeting couples. Far too complex for us, as there was usually someone felt left out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If ya gotten cum ya gotten cum lol anywhere anytime. "
We once played with a couple that the hubby got annoyed if he thought I (Rick) gave her an osgasm !! Just don't get it ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some couples put you off playing with couples but you cannot have the mindset that all couples are like that, it’s a case of finding who suits wether it be couples or singles and play because you want to not just because you can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jealous has no place in swinging it can turn a great meet into a terrible one in seconds,
You need to know boundaries before the start and try to stick to them
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It is amazing though, how many people who have contacted us, over the years, try to shift the boundaries even before a meet ! One guy tried to convince us that Sandra would definitely want to swallow his cum on a regular basis, even though we had explained she doesn't like cum in her mouth. We decided not to meet. |
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For us, the whole point of swapping is to cum with someone else. When we have home foursomes we always have the last fuck of the night with our own partners. Then, if we've been using condoms swapped, the ladies get creampies to finish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never bothered us.
In fact, for me, Bubbles, I love to see the other guy cum. In my humble opinion, it makes me feel ‘proud’, knowing she is able to make him climax, and, he finds her sexy enough. |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
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We’ve got very close friends who we play with, she begs to be filled with spunk both holes, my mrs loves to eat it out and share with her partner, and we’re going on holiday shortly all four of us. Uuuuummmmm x |
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We’ve never had an issue with any of the couples we’ve met. As a full swap couple we would look to cum (and make cum) with the partner we are entertaining during the swap.
Once the evening has finished we then fuck each other which is always super horny and we both cum really hard . . . . |
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"We’ve got very close friends who we play with, she begs to be filled with spunk both holes, my mrs loves to eat it out and share with her partner, and we’re going on holiday shortly all four of us. Uuuuummmmm x"
That sounds like a lot of fun  |
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"We’ve got very close friends who we play with, she begs to be filled with spunk both holes, my mrs loves to eat it out and share with her partner, and we’re going on holiday shortly all four of us. Uuuuummmmm x"
Oh wow! That sounds incredible. |
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"In a MFMF full swap situation, does the wife get jealous if hubby cums with the other lady? Should he hold back and save it for wifey?"
Ruby, doesn't mind where I cum as long as it's okay with the couple. Ruby won't swallow another man's cum, she does like a good cum shot on her tits though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Although we are only looking for our Frist bit of 3 or 4 sum fun I'm fairly sure it wouldn't bother me or my wife to cum with others after all there plenty more where that came from  for me I like to see her cum with the guy it means she enjoyed it and thats why we are here |
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"In a MFMF full swap situation, does the wife get jealous if hubby cums with the other lady? Should he hold back and save it for wifey?"
ive had this many times in 3sums and 4sums... so now i actually ask first.. as the upset female after isnt fun. Many women don't want their guy to cum with the other woman.
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I don't understand why, it seems rather odd to me. If anything I think the point of swinging would be to cum with the other person.
You are there to enjoy other people. Jealousy has no place in that situation or you shouldn't be doing it. One of the best things is to cum with the other person than your own partner, you can do that any day of the week.
If you are a soft swap only couple, then that's a boundary you feel comfortable within. If you are separate room only not because of jealousy but it simply makes you feel uncomfortable watching thus less enjoyable, that's another boundary. Even if you are a sex with own partner only in same room as another couple, that's a boundary.
But to have full swap with another couple but not allowed to orgasm really doesn't make sense to me at all. It almost seems to defeat the point of swinging in the first place? Surely it would be better to choose something like separate rooms instead?
I don't mean this in a nasty way but it sounds more like the person has insecurity issues and doesn't like the thought that their partner would have a better orgasm than with them.
The thing to remember is they probably will or at least enjoy it more. Not because that person or even the orgasm is better, but the fact that they are having it with someone different. Thats part of the enjoyment and arousal of it in the first place. And while they person might feel insecure, the same applies to the person they are giving an orgasm too |
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"I don't understand why, it seems rather odd to me. If anything I think the point of swinging would be to cum with the other person.
You are there to enjoy other people. Jealousy has no place in that situation or you shouldn't be doing it. One of the best things is to cum with the other person than your own partner, you can do that any day of the week.
If you are a soft swap only couple, then that's a boundary you feel comfortable within. If you are separate room only not because of jealousy but it simply makes you feel uncomfortable watching thus less enjoyable, that's another boundary. Even if you are a sex with own partner only in same room as another couple, that's a boundary.
But to have full swap with another couple but not allowed to orgasm really doesn't make sense to me at all. It almost seems to defeat the point of swinging in the first place? Surely it would be better to choose something like separate rooms instead?
I don't mean this in a nasty way but it sounds more like the person has insecurity issues and doesn't like the thought that their partner would have a better orgasm than with them.
The thing to remember is they probably will or at least enjoy it more. Not because that person or even the orgasm is better, but the fact that they are having it with someone different. Thats part of the enjoyment and arousal of it in the first place. And while they person might feel insecure, the same applies to the person they are giving an orgasm too"
Completely agree with this isn't it the point of the hole thing
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"I don't understand why, it seems rather odd to me. If anything I think the point of swinging would be to cum with the other person.
You are there to enjoy other people. Jealousy has no place in that situation or you shouldn't be doing it. One of the best things is to cum with the other person than your own partner, you can do that any day of the week.
If you are a soft swap only couple, then that's a boundary you feel comfortable within. If you are separate room only not because of jealousy but it simply makes you feel uncomfortable watching thus less enjoyable, that's another boundary. Even if you are a sex with own partner only in same room as another couple, that's a boundary.
But to have full swap with another couple but not allowed to orgasm really doesn't make sense to me at all. It almost seems to defeat the point of swinging in the first place? Surely it would be better to choose something like separate rooms instead?
I don't mean this in a nasty way but it sounds more like the person has insecurity issues and doesn't like the thought that their partner would have a better orgasm than with them.
The thing to remember is they probably will or at least enjoy it more. Not because that person or even the orgasm is better, but the fact that they are having it with someone different. Thats part of the enjoyment and arousal of it in the first place. And while they person might feel insecure, the same applies to the person they are giving an orgasm too"
Exactly this! |
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"I don't understand why, it seems rather odd to me. If anything I think the point of swinging would be to cum with the other person.
You are there to enjoy other people. Jealousy has no place in that situation or you shouldn't be doing it. One of the best things is to cum with the other person than your own partner, you can do that any day of the week.
If you are a soft swap only couple, then that's a boundary you feel comfortable within. If you are separate room only not because of jealousy but it simply makes you feel uncomfortable watching thus less enjoyable, that's another boundary. Even if you are a sex with own partner only in same room as another couple, that's a boundary.
But to have full swap with another couple but not allowed to orgasm really doesn't make sense to me at all. It almost seems to defeat the point of swinging in the first place? Surely it would be better to choose something like separate rooms instead?
I don't mean this in a nasty way but it sounds more like the person has insecurity issues and doesn't like the thought that their partner would have a better orgasm than with them.
The thing to remember is they probably will or at least enjoy it more. Not because that person or even the orgasm is better, but the fact that they are having it with someone different. Thats part of the enjoyment and arousal of it in the first place. And while they person might feel insecure, the same applies to the person they are giving an orgasm too"
Really well put, exactly our thoughts xx |
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