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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So my girlfriend and I have been together for a while now, our sex is always great and she always leaves me satisfied.
I’ve always had a fantasy to watch her with another guy or group of guys, I’ve never mentioned it as I’m not sure how she would take it.
Has anyone got any ideas |
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"So my girlfriend and I have been together for a while now, our sex is always great and she always leaves me satisfied.
I’ve always had a fantasy to watch her with another guy or group of guys, I’ve never mentioned it as I’m not sure how she would take it.
Has anyone got any ideas "
Yea pop her round my house one evening then take yourself off to cinema. Pick her up about mid nite . |
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"Maybe start by sharing a few pics of her with someone who complements her "
Eh, maybe talk to her about it first? I think she’d be pretty f’ing pissed off if she found her boyfriend had been sending out pictures of her to arrange a gangbang that she’s the centre of with no idea it’s happening! |
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By *rmbtsTV/TS
over a year ago
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When playing watch porn with a view to being watched and maybe guy fondly plays at side of car wanking then she opens windows and she gets touch and gauge her reactions and see maybe in pillow talk if it’s negative you know where you stand if she turned on and best sex you had then maybe pillow talk playing and talking dirty mention something about it then you can ask her your really turned on by it is that something you want to happen but be sensitive and talk
Just a maybe idea to get to talk about a difficult situation you would like but knowing your partner well you would know if this is a good idea or not but talk def
Watching porn together will give you ideas of what she maybe into
I d love my wife to have extra, in pillow talk and watching porn we got off being watched
After a while when we dropped a bit of sex drive she was less active I wrote her a letter which I do sometimes when I have something to say and get my point across and say what I want to say read it a few times then sometimes tweak, this way i don’t get tied up with my thoughts and it doesn’t come out properly basically I reminisced the good time s very high sex drive, said where we where at and watching porn noticed that she was so turned on at being watched, would she like this to happen would she like extra
Then told her about me not being jealous and she could have extra if she wants it what I would get out of it ie she would be more happy if she satisfied and that positive satisfaction she would bring into our relationship but her choice and if she wanted to talk about it she could do after reading it twice that’s on her own
Because the focus was about reminiscing and focused on improving our relationship she was offended and she knows I’ve swung with my x
But once u open the box no going back for me now never needs to be rediscussed but alway open for her so if we out and she wanted more or in car park she can open windows or more and go as far as she wants
But be careful with your choices no going back if she takes u up on it then you decided it’s not for u her getting extra she might not want to stop once the boundaries moved
Hope it helps remember sex is only one part of your relationship and you can blow it apart if approached wrong
I was nervous when I gave her permission to get extra but because the focus was on us improving and mainly about good times and improving them she was not offended and we talked later with a drink about it all
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Have mentioned you have done this before or are in this scene.
Have a real conversation with her. Be Honest, she might not be please that you have an account live on here already.
Try role play, and watching porn together. Play drinking games.
I think finding out more about your partners like dislikes, kinks
Can be more fun than what you want to get out of it.
It's more about the journey then final destination.
Have fun finding out though
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