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Has a cuckolds wife/partner ever left them for the bull?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I saw a thread about a cuckold couple thinking of moving the bull into there home and it had me thinking about the sheer level of trust a cuck must need to have.
In terms of fab users has a cuckolds wife/partner ever left them for the bull?
Has anyone heard of this happening?
Are there threads about it unfolding / happening to someone?
Has it happened to you or someone you know directly?
KJ x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've chatted to a number people privately since posting this thread who have been victims of this happening to them. All so far had allowed their partner to go off and play with the guy alone and things went south from there. 2 of the guys were in a very loving, super secure relationship and genuinely never expected their wife to run off with the bull / play mate male.
I'm guessing the lack of public responses shows that anyone who's had this done to them may find it hard to share publicly which is totally understandable. I guess for those whose wife does go off to play with guys on her own it's a case of not wanting to know this type of end result can happen and this thread might me a reminder of that possibility.
A slightly different angle but I've also chatted with a guy whose wife played solo with a bull for about a year then the bull unexpectedly called an abrupt end to the arrangement which lead to the wife been utterly devastated. It then meant it was her cuck / husband who was the one who had to console her and pick up the pieces.
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"I remember a poster on another thread who was a black guy and had been told by a couple he met regularly that they only meet black guys because the wife would 'never run away with one'!  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a cuckold couple is about both just as a swinging couple if done right but as in all walks of life some people alway run off with others thats not a cuckold couples problem thats a human being problem .... just look at the amount of normal swingers that split... i have never once considered leaving my hubs never would neither some of us are just super happy the way we are ... |
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I admit that I don't understand the extreme cuckold dynamic but I don't need to so it's fine. However I think there's probably quite a risk on the situations where the bull actually moves in to the house. It seems to an uninitiated observer that the relationship between husband and wife then becomes secondary to that of the wife and bull. As I say though it's not my business or concern |
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over a year ago
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i dont know of one cuckold couple who allow themselve to get emotionally that close to a bull ?? a bull to me is extra cock and fun nothing else just like swinging but done in a different way .... as said there will be those who split ... all the cuckold couples i know are long term marriage's most started of swinging for many years first it took us 22 yrs of swinging to get to the cuckold stage and still as strong as ever. |
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One guy we met regularly asked my wife to leave me and move in with him, sending messages of his undying love and saying they can move to his penthouse in New York .. she loved his cock but lime she said if she ever met him in a club she wouldnt even talk to thr fat twat ,, she told him to fuck off .. |
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We have a long term bull - 6 years and are probably looking at him moving in . He spends a lot of weekends with us . Everything has been good - we have rules . He always sleeps with her when staying . She loves him , I’m confident we will be strong . She is incredibly turned on at the thought - as am I. He has said he would like the idea . |
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"We have a long term bull - 6 years and are probably looking at him moving in . He spends a lot of weekends with us . Everything has been good - we have rules . He always sleeps with her when staying . She loves him , I’m confident we will be strong . She is incredibly turned on at the thought - as am I. He has said he would like the idea . "
Is it possible to love two people from a relationship perspective?
Have you anticipated the outcome if you become obsoleted and how you'll deal with that? |
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"We have a long term bull - 6 years and are probably looking at him moving in . He spends a lot of weekends with us . Everything has been good - we have rules . He always sleeps with her when staying . She loves him , I’m confident we will be strong . She is incredibly turned on at the thought - as am I. He has said he would like the idea .
Is it possible to love two people from a relationship perspective?
Have you anticipated the outcome if you become obsoleted and how you'll deal with that?"
Have to agree with this. Whilst I understand the fantasy element there comes a point where it goes way beyond that. There will come a point that it stops becoming a turn on and then what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I saw a thread about a cuckold couple thinking of moving the bull into there home and it had me thinking about the sheer level of trust a cuck must need to have.
In terms of fab users has a cuckolds wife/partner ever left them for the bull?
Has anyone heard of this happening?
Are there threads about it unfolding / happening to someone?
Has it happened to you or someone you know directly?
KJ x"
The whole cuck dynamic us riddled with this. Anybody who thinks being essentially humiliated by another man in front of his wife won't lead to disaster is a total idiot |
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I really don’t think this is a problem in only the swinging world . I’m sure a lot of men and women run off everyday with other people and in real life and its called an affair sometimes spontaneous and sometimes planned . But if someone is willing to run off with them .then that partner is not worthy of being with them anyway and probably would have a much better life without them. Tho only thing that would kill me would be the lies .shagging around I can live with liars I can’t xx |
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I will post this because I’m 100% positive this couple are not on here anymore..
I met a couple a few times and the male was really pushing it .. I always felt the female was happy but definitely not as into it as him ..
After a few meets the female started to privately text me ..
I won’t give any more details out ..
But I say to all couples to just be careful.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don’t think this is a problem in only the swinging world . I’m sure a lot of men and women run off everyday with other people and in real life and its called an affair sometimes spontaneous and sometimes planned . But if someone is willing to run off with them .then that partner is not worthy of being with them anyway and probably would have a much better life without them. Tho only thing that would kill me would be the lies .shagging around I can live with liars I can’t xx "
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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I've mostly found real cuckold couples to be in super strong relationships hence why they're wholly comfy in doing what they do.
No doubt some so called bulls might try to tempt a wife away or even have done. In my opinion that goes to show that he wasn't a 'bull' in the first place and just a male marketing as one whilst being game on to shit on someone's relationship. That stuff comes full circle tho.
The trust & respect the couple give you on all fronts, you return back to them on all fronts. The whole situation needs to be reciprocal and exciting. If its not then someone's going to get uncomfy, unsure and thats when it's probably time to call it a day.
I've been in a situations when a cucks wife's interest in me got too much and concerning. As i do this for the mutual fun and wow factor not to walk away with someone's parther I called it a day in the interests of all 3 of us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don’t think this is a problem in only the swinging world . I’m sure a lot of men and women run off everyday with other people and in real life and its called an affair sometimes spontaneous and sometimes planned . But if someone is willing to run off with them .then that partner is not worthy of being with them anyway and probably would have a much better life without them. Tho only thing that would kill me would be the lies
.shagging around I can live with liars I can’t xx
This is different . Yes people have affairs for a variety of reasons and a different thread is needed for that discussion. Until you have been in this position none of us will know how this would affect us however I know a few instances where this has not ended well but don’t know if any where it has . Human feelings and emotions will always play a part in this whether that’s sooner or later.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've mostly found real cuckold couples to be in super strong relationships hence why they're wholly comfy in doing what they do.
No doubt some so called bulls might try to tempt a wife away or even have done. In my opinion that goes to show that he wasn't a 'bull' in the first place and just a male marketing as one whilst being game on to shit on someone's relationship. That stuff comes full circle tho.
The trust & respect the couple give you on all fronts, you return back to them on all fronts. The whole situation needs to be reciprocal and exciting. If its not then someone's going to get uncomfy, unsure and thats when it's probably time to call it a day.
I've been in a situations when a cucks wife's interest in me got too much and concerning. As i do this for the mutual fun and wow factor not to walk away with someone's parther I called it a day in the interests of all 3 of us "
Such strong relationships the man gives his wife over to 'better' men to satisfy her sex drive and his inner feeling humiliated. |
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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago
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we not a cuck couple but regular players if you meet the same couples every week or so could always lead to break ups .[we know 3 couples from fab [chams]that split .to us its just a game of sex fun with and where it happens .i [k]get mad offers from guys to leave my other half they not getting that would never happen .its just a game |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will post this because I’m 100% positive this couple are not on here anymore..
I met a couple a few times and the male was really pushing it .. I always felt the female was happy but definitely not as into it as him ..
After a few meets the female started to privately text me ..
I won’t give any more details out ..
But I say to all couples to just be careful.."
there are alot of people in this lifestyle who maybe should not be but there are also many many solid as a rock couples too ..temptation is everywhere in life not just swinging or cuckold and cuckold is no different to swinging when it comes to temptation and those who can't handle it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we not a cuck couple but regular players if you meet the same couples every week or so could always lead to break ups .[we know 3 couples from fab [chams]that split .to us its just a game of sex fun with and where it happens .i [k]get mad offers from guys to leave my other half they not getting that would never happen .its just a game "
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"We haven’t do far / it works really well - watching her enjoying him is amazing- we are very strong as a couple - she just needs “real men” sexually "
That's all good but problems may arise when she starts to rely on the man you've invited into your home emotionally. But best wishes to you for it to work out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well said Jen
"I will post this because I’m 100% positive this couple are not on here anymore..
I met a couple a few times and the male was really pushing it .. I always felt the female was happy but definitely not as into it as him ..
After a few meets the female started to privately text me ..
I won’t give any more details out ..
But I say to all couples to just be careful..
there are alot of people in this lifestyle who maybe should not be but there are also many many solid as a rock couples too ..temptation is everywhere in life not just swinging or cuckold and cuckold is no different to swinging when it comes to temptation and those who can't handle it"
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"I wonder if a cuck has ever run off with a bull?
..well the dish ran away with the spoon
I had a go at writing a poem based on that but gave up looking for a word to rhyme with cuckold. "
Now there's a Trivial Pursuits challenge! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have a long term bull - 6 years and are probably looking at him moving in . He spends a lot of weekends with us . Everything has been good - we have rules . He always sleeps with her when staying . She loves him , I’m confident we will be strong . She is incredibly turned on at the thought - as am I. He has said he would like the idea . "
Thanks for posting.
You say your partner loves her bull that you plan to move in. I thought the bull is meant to be seen by the woman as a toy, just a cock I.e only a plaything?
If its gone way beyond that as far as love then has your situation become something different? More like a 3 way relationship, Polly set up or like when a guy has two wives?
KJ x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its a risk with the scene as awhole not cuckolding ..
if the relationship is weak then there is a chance if its strong then there's no chance
stop tarring cuckold relationships as weak cause i and many other can assure you they are not if anything a real cuckold relationship is stronger than ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if a cuck has ever run off with a bull?
hahahahahahahaha now there's a thought lol oi sissy get back here"
picks up sissy in the dog cage and drives off with him in the boot |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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I think that if you have someone regular (whether in a cuck dynamic or not) emotions can develop, but there is a massive difference between having fun sexy times with someone and living with someone.
A full-time relationship based purely on passion soon blows itself out and if it is based on something a lot deeper than just passion, then maybe it will endure and was the right choice for those involved.
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"I wonder if a cuck has ever run off with a bull? "
Fun you said that I knew a lady the hubby run off with one of the wife’s men friend not sure of their sexual dynamic but he has been invited in the past before the run off fiasco. |
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For us the Bull is there to take the lady sexually to another level not achieved ever with Cuck. We have been together 37 years and during this time our sex life has been amazing but the men that are able to take me to the next level and beyond are something cuck could not match. Chuck wants to give me everything and so he revels in another man fulfilling his wife sexually. This said I have never had the desire to run away with a lover.........Yet lol xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve heard of this happening in reverse a few times. A man moves in his mistress.
Usually ends with the wife being murdered or “running away” without a trace.
Doesn’t sound like a good idea to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a long term relationship with a couple. Initially there was a cuckold element to this - mainly driven by the wife I have to say.
Over time this became more mfm threesome fun, with a number of elements and scenarios. There was never a thought in anyone’s head that this would harm their marriage or end up with me moving in or running off with her. We are still good friends despite them emigrating and we meet up on holidays etc.
I guess everyone is different - perhaps best to explore all the possibilities before embarking !!! |
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When I saw a single male swinging I met one couple a few times. The she started to message me privately saying that she wanted to meet alone.
My response was that I would have to speak to her husband about it.
But she was telling me no it's ok it's his fantasy for us to meet alone.
I never went through with it because it sounded shady.
Few days later I got an abusive message from the husband asking why I wanted to meet her on her own! Wtf!!
She obviously told him it was my idea!
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Only happened once. hubby at work and that day one of our closest bull was within the area for bissiness so he invited me in to his place ofcourse with hubbys permition. hubby was so turned on when i went home dripping. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I saw a thread about a cuckold couple thinking of moving the bull into there home and it had me thinking about the sheer level of trust a cuck must need to have.
In terms of fab users has a cuckolds wife/partner ever left them for the bull?
Has anyone heard of this happening?
Are there threads about it unfolding / happening to someone?
Has it happened to you or someone you know directly?
KJ x"
Sandra has had a fuck buddy for over 30 years, although their meetings have become almost non existent now, he is only ever a phone call/message away. He has told Sandra many times over the years that he loves her, but he has always been told, right from the start that she didn't want anything from their relationship but fun sex. I have asked her if the temptation for something more has ever been there, and she assured me it hasn't, adding that the sex with him is fantastic, but he is not a man she would want to share her life with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I heard about a bull on here persuading a girl to leave her cuckold partner. I guess its a risk but people change relationships all the time.
Its quite extreme but I wonder if some cuckolds secretly hope to lose their girlfriends to a bull. |
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Too many stereotypes being accepted as fact. There are no perfect definitions of cuck couples and bulls. As in all other aspects of life, everyone is different. Probably the one and only thing my experience as a bull would support.
There is a danger of those getting involved becoming confused or ignoring the boundaries. Usually when the importance of talking and being honest is ignored. Usually the result of young, inexperienced couples and pushy cuck husbands forcing their unsure wives into meeting and fucking a bull. I now usually avoid young couples and always demand to confirm the wives commitment without her hubby breathing down her neck . |
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By *MaleMan
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"When I saw a single male swinging I met one couple a few times. The she started to message me privately saying that she wanted to meet alone.
My response was that I would have to speak to her husband about it.
But she was telling me no it's ok it's his fantasy for us to meet alone.
I never went through with it because it sounded shady.
Few days later I got an abusive message from the husband asking why I wanted to meet her on her own! Wtf!!
She obviously told him it was my idea!
Sparxy"
Taring others their sh1t whenever they're sussed out is standard life practice for most snides & sneaks. I've seen more of that in normal life than on the swing/cuckold scene tbf |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Too many stereotypes being accepted as fact. There are no perfect definitions of cuck couples and bulls. As in all other aspects of life, everyone is different. Probably the one and only thing my experience as a bull would support.
There is a danger of those getting involved becoming confused or ignoring the boundaries. Usually when the importance of talking and being honest is ignored. Usually the result of young, inexperienced couples and pushy cuck husbands forcing their unsure wives into meeting and fucking a bull. I now usually avoid young couples and always demand to confirm the wives commitment without her hubby breathing down her neck ."
Sad to think there's wives / women out there who are been emotionally black mailed, guilt tripped or pushed into sleeping with someone else / a stranger purely to please their husband / boyfriend / partner / cuck  |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
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Always a risk......
I have been the hot wifes other for over 3 years now....their relationship is super strong and they are very much in love.....
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Im very aware if dynamics were to change, then i would exit as only the right thing for me to do as been a privilege to have been allowed to share some of the most intense and sexually explosives experiences ever
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know of a couple who were on here.. she used to play alone a lot and she left the husband for a play friend. She was pregnant with the fab guy's child at the time.
Sje never went back to her husband |
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"I remember a poster on another thread who was a black guy and had been told by a couple he met regularly that they only meet black guys because the wife would 'never run away with one'! "
They probably know better. Could you please repeat this in the "racism" thread? People who look for racism everywhere will probably find it here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are also a lot of wannabes who really are only playing nice to meet couples, desperately acting out whatever role they think the couple wants then attempting to sway her to be with him. More sly weasel than bull... |
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"Sad to think there's wives / women out there who are been emotionally black mailed, guilt tripped or pushed into sleeping with someone else / a stranger purely to please their husband / boyfriend / partner / cuck
 again this is not a cuckold only problem there are 1000s of relationships where the male or female abuse the other half into doing stuff stop making it sound like its cuckold relationships that are always doomed its like everything in life there will be those 100% happy and those who are not and then the zillions in between.. me and hubs have been in this scene 25 ish years now we know loads who are very happy balance people who still enjoy swinging/cuckolding... we have seen loads of disaster's too people who thought it would repair there marriage and people who thought they could just grab a lifestyle of the shelf and yes those who bully there partners into it too.
pisses me off when someone attacks a scene saying it has more problem than other's when it does not life has its risk in all areas you could walk into a pub and end up having an afair ?? what then oh lets slag all pubs off ??? people will always run off with people for what ever reason weather its swinging going to bingo or walking the dog
just because we dont agree with how other's live there life does not mean its wrong or will do more wrong than others"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sad to think there's wives / women out there who are been emotionally black mailed, guilt tripped or pushed into sleeping with someone else / a stranger purely to please their husband / boyfriend / partner / cuck
again this is not a cuckold only problem there are 1000s of relationships where the male or female abuse the other half into doing stuff stop making it sound like its cuckold relationships that are always doomed its like everything in life there will be those 100% happy and those who are not and then the zillions in between.. me and hubs have been in this scene 25 ish years now we know loads who are very happy balance people who still enjoy swinging/cuckolding... we have seen loads of disaster's too people who thought it would repair there marriage and people who thought they could just grab a lifestyle of the shelf and yes those who bully there partners into it too.
pisses me off when someone attacks a scene saying it has more problem than other's when it does not life has its risk in all areas you could walk into a pub and end up having an afair ?? what then oh lets slag all pubs off ??? people will always run off with people for what ever reason weather its swinging going to bingo or walking the dog
just because we dont agree with how other's live there life does not mean its wrong or will do more wrong than others"
I agree 100% that anyone pushed into doing anything sexual that they aren't 100% up for is wrong and its certainly not related to just one scene.
If you reread my post that you quoted it said "please their husband / boyfriend / partner / cuck" not just "cuck".
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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I feel you're all also missing the fact that there are many many couples who love very happily in polyamourous situations.
Also if you don't understand humiliation, then you'll never understand how it's an essential need and desire of a person, but it doesn't mean that it's all humiliation all the time. A relationship has to be on firm footing and then it's only specific topics at specific times. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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I think that it goes to show that swinging in all its aspects is a very fine line hat can get out of hand very easily. I think feelings will always come into it at some point in any relationship. |
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Quite some time ago I played with a wife on and off for about three years - all my visits to her were 1-on-1, with her husband (who arranged them) not present...
....at one quite early meet, she blurted out "I love you", and not at a particularly intense moment - I laughed it off, and she never said it to me again...
....a few months after things had run their course and I'd stopped seeing her, I saw her husband online in a chatroom, and said 'hello'...
....and learned that she'd left him for my 'replacement' - I wondered if he'd got an "I love you" from her like I had...
....it didn't last, however, and I heard she'd gone back to her husband after a couple of months - she/they are still active, so they obviously worked things out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that it goes to show that swinging in all its aspects is a very fine line hat can get out of hand very easily. I think feelings will always come into it at some point in any relationship. "
as in normal life not just swinging the problem being mainly is there a chunk of wannabe swingers who think this will fix the problems they already have .. it wont because your already in a relationship thats falling apart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As I stated to you guys the other day in private what I went through as a cuck to my ex and her falling for ‘the other guy’ I have mentioned it on the forums previously but over time the embarrassment crept
In. I’ll take your advice and open up about it.
It was a difficult time for me, I didn’t think I’d ever overcome it, and it was still a betrayal yet I blamed myself.
Anyhow I believe I am over it and exploring a new side of cuckolding with someone who understands that communication is key |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As I stated to you guys the other day in private what I went through as a cuck to my ex and her falling for ‘the other guy’ I have mentioned it on the forums previously but over time the embarrassment crept
In. I’ll take your advice and open up about it.
It was a difficult time for me, I didn’t think I’d ever overcome it, and it was still a betrayal yet I blamed myself.
Anyhow I believe I am over it and exploring a new side of cuckolding with someone who understands that communication is key "
As I said in PM buddy sorry to hear what you went through. You have nothing to feel embarrassed about either, great news your now over it and have found fun with someone else.
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I am married and allowed to play. Hubby does not play. Yes he’s had insecurities that I may run away with my bulls but I wouldn’t. And yes he has often had to console me when my long term bulls have hurt me and ended it all of a sudden. But he always says, hold out another one will be out there for you. He’s great and understanding that I need this. |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
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"I am married and allowed to play. Hubby does not play. Yes he’s had insecurities that I may run away with my bulls but I wouldn’t. And yes he has often had to console me when my long term bulls have hurt me and ended it all of a sudden. But he always says, hold out another one will be out there for you. He’s great and understanding that I need this."
This is the kind of woman I need
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"I am married and allowed to play. Hubby does not play. Yes he’s had insecurities that I may run away with my bulls but I wouldn’t. And yes he has often had to console me when my long term bulls have hurt me and ended it all of a sudden. But he always says, hold out another one will be out there for you. He’s great and understanding that I need this."
the day there are insecurities in our cuckold marriage is the day we give in ...cuckolding should never be one sided cuckolding is about both every single time if cuck no longer gets excited about me meeting other's then there is no point but then i never get attached to anyone i meet .. regular yes attached nah thats asking for trouble ..each to there own tho |
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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago
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Well said
"I am married and allowed to play. Hubby does not play. Yes he’s had insecurities that I may run away with my bulls but I wouldn’t. And yes he has often had to console me when my long term bulls have hurt me and ended it all of a sudden. But he always says, hold out another one will be out there for you. He’s great and understanding that I need this.
the day there are insecurities in our cuckold marriage is the day we give in ...cuckolding should never be one sided cuckolding is about both every single time if cuck no longer gets excited about me meeting other's then there is no point but then i never get attached to anyone i meet .. regular yes attached nah thats asking for trouble ..each to there own tho "
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"I am married and allowed to play. Hubby does not play. Yes he’s had insecurities that I may run away with my bulls but I wouldn’t. And yes he has often had to console me when my long term bulls have hurt me and ended it all of a sudden. But he always says, hold out another one will be out there for you. He’s great and understanding that I need this."
I can relate to this, I think it’s normal as a cuck to be insecure, as long as you keep up the communication between the two, insecurities can play a part too. I remember my ex being gutted for weeks that her bull found a gf and stopped playing. I don’t think you can beat having a connection that strong with a bull. Only when it becomes too strong would it impact which in my case it did. Thankfully she’s since split up with the other bull she left me for and we are friends |
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over a year ago
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there is nothing normal about a cuck being insecure ?? hence why you,ve split up ?? people dont become cuckold couples as a means to find the next relationship ? couples become cuckold to fulfill a desire within the relationship .
as i said many many times cuckold is about both not one to be a cuckold couple you have to be a super strong loving trusting couple in the first place or it just wont work every cuckold couple i know work on excitement not insecurities.
i know of no couples in swinging or cuckold who play to cause doubt its about fun fun and more fun |
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"Too many stereotypes being accepted as fact. There are no perfect definitions of cuck couples and bulls. As in all other aspects of life, everyone is different. Probably the one and only thing my experience as a bull would support.
There is a danger of those getting involved becoming confused or ignoring the boundaries. Usually when the importance of talking and being honest is ignored. Usually the result of young, inexperienced couples and pushy cuck husbands forcing their unsure wives into meeting and fucking a bull. I now usually avoid young couples and always demand to confirm the wives commitment without her hubby breathing down her neck .
Sad to think there's wives / women out there who are been emotionally black mailed, guilt tripped or pushed into sleeping with someone else / a stranger purely to please their husband / boyfriend / partner / cuck "
It happens all the time. |
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"Too many stereotypes being accepted as fact. There are no perfect definitions of cuck couples and bulls. As in all other aspects of life, everyone is different. Probably the one and only thing my experience as a bull would support.
There is a danger of those getting involved becoming confused or ignoring the boundaries. Usually when the importance of talking and being honest is ignored. Usually the result of young, inexperienced couples and pushy cuck husbands forcing their unsure wives into meeting and fucking a bull. I now usually avoid young couples and always demand to confirm the wives commitment without her hubby breathing down her neck .
Sad to think there's wives / women out there who are been emotionally black mailed, guilt tripped or pushed into sleeping with someone else / a stranger purely to please their husband / boyfriend / partner / cuck
It happens all the time."
if it happens all the time why are there so many very happy couples doing it ? it may happen to some (and thats too many) but i think you'll find the majority are just happy couples getting on with things from both sides of the relationships. |
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My wife and I decided the only way forward was for her to find an exclusive man friend with benefits.
We were lucky to find a divorced mature guy who ticked all the boxes. Masculine alpha male type, discreet and trustworthy. He gets a thrill out of fucking a married woman and my wife is a much happier woman, all round.
It is true they have evolved into lovers but I still find the relationship they have very erotic (from a Cuckold perspective)
We are quite open with each other and solid in our traditional relationships.
Her running off with him is unlikely in my opinion but a risk a Cuckold must accept. |
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"My wife and I decided the only way forward was for her to find an exclusive man friend with benefits.
We were lucky to find a divorced mature guy who ticked all the boxes. Masculine alpha male type, discreet and trustworthy. He gets a thrill out of fucking a married woman and my wife is a much happier woman, all round.
It is true they have evolved into lovers but I still find the relationship they have very erotic (from a Cuckold perspective)
We are quite open with each other and solid in our traditional relationships.
Her running off with him is unlikely in my opinion but a risk a Cuckold must accept. "
''a risk a Cuckold must accept''
and on that note i give in lol wow just wow
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Not into cuckold we have meets but as the male I feel just as included in the fun. I would hate the thought of my wife falling in love with someone we meet. |
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Lots of interesting replies to this emotive subject.
While we don't consider ourselves a cuckold couple, we understand the dynamics of all situations.
There are as many convolutions of the hotwife/cuckold/swinging life as there are stars in the sky. And no two are alike.
We lurk on a couple of forums that address these issues thoroughly and there are always widely differing opinions.
As was mentioned earlier, the main thing people overlook is that the cuckold life HAS to be a three way thing. Once one party doesn't get off on it, then it's time to stop.
And therein lies the biggest problem.
As cuckolding often has a high element of emotional involvement from the female, it becomes more difficult to realise when things have run their course and it's time to call it a day.
We only know of two couples who regularly swapped with their neighbours (not into cuckolding) where the lifestyle was to blame for their divorce. They ended up marrying the other partner, whilst still living next door to each other.
Totally bizzare for them and the other neighbours..!!
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"Lots of interesting replies to this emotive subject.
While we don't consider ourselves a cuckold couple, we understand the dynamics of all situations.
There are as many convolutions of the hotwife/cuckold/swinging life as there are stars in the sky. And no two are alike.
We lurk on a couple of forums that address these issues thoroughly and there are always widely differing opinions.
As was mentioned earlier, the main thing people overlook is that the cuckold life HAS to be a three way thing. Once one party doesn't get off on it, then it's time to stop.
And therein lies the biggest problem.
As cuckolding often has a high element of emotional involvement from the female, it becomes more difficult to realise when things have run their course and it's time to call it a day.
We only know of two couples who regularly swapped with their neighbours (not into cuckolding) where the lifestyle was to blame for their divorce. They ended up marrying the other partner, whilst still living next door to each other.
Totally bizzare for them and the other neighbours..!!
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sorry but ill disagree with the it HAS to be a 3 way thing thats not true other guys come and go they have no part of the relationship apart from a bit of sex here n there so the number one thing is its a 2 way thing between the cuckold couple ...
most bull we know dont want no hassle they just wanna come have fun then say goodbye till next time pretty much the same as normal swinging in many ways most couples swinging or cuckold want emotion's and clingy stuff left out ..now i know some single women see that differently as do some single man but couples dont we have our happy lives we dont want others to disrupt that ...unless your poly but thats a different thing again
maybe im just wrong maybe all the cuckold couple ive got to know over the last 2 years are wrong too maybe there is a big group of cuckold couples out there that want emotional ties with the 3rd person ???? |
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"Lots of interesting replies to this emotive subject.
While we don't consider ourselves a cuckold couple, we understand the dynamics of all situations.
There are as many convolutions of the hotwife/cuckold/swinging life as there are stars in the sky. And no two are alike.
We lurk on a couple of forums that address these issues thoroughly and there are always widely differing opinions.
As was mentioned earlier, the main thing people overlook is that the cuckold life HAS to be a three way thing. Once one party doesn't get off on it, then it's time to stop.
And therein lies the biggest problem.
As cuckolding often has a high element of emotional involvement from the female, it becomes more difficult to realise when things have run their course and it's time to call it a day.
We only know of two couples who regularly swapped with their neighbours (not into cuckolding) where the lifestyle was to blame for their divorce. They ended up marrying the other partner, whilst still living next door to each other.
Totally bizzare for them and the other neighbours..!!
sorry but ill disagree with the it HAS to be a 3 way thing thats not true other guys come and go they have no part of the relationship apart from a bit of sex here n there so the number one thing is its a 2 way thing between the cuckold couple ...
most bull we know dont want no hassle they just wanna come have fun then say goodbye till next time pretty much the same as normal swinging in many ways most couples swinging or cuckold want emotion's and clingy stuff left out ..now i know some single women see that differently as do some single man but couples dont we have our happy lives we dont want others to disrupt that ...unless your poly but thats a different thing again
maybe im just wrong maybe all the cuckold couple ive got to know over the last 2 years are wrong too maybe there is a big group of cuckold couples out there that want emotional ties with the 3rd person ???? "
I understand what you are saying. I've spoken to fair few people into cuckolding now and there are many who see the bull essentially as nothing more than a living human shaped sex toy. All the emotional context, love etc is reserved for purely between the couple. Now as a couple who are best described as Stag and Vixen I personally totally get this. Me and my wife swing purely to experience things not psychically possible with just 2 people and to us anyone joining us for sex are to us nothing more than a living breathing sex toy to be enjoyed nothing more.
The flip side to this is there are cuckold relationships where there are strong feelings between the wife / woman and the bull usually (and in my opinion naively) encouraged from the beginning. All of the examples of women running off with the bull were set up like this prior to that happening.
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"Lots of interesting replies to this emotive subject.
While we don't consider ourselves a cuckold couple, we understand the dynamics of all situations.
There are as many convolutions of the hotwife/cuckold/swinging life as there are stars in the sky. And no two are alike.
We lurk on a couple of forums that address these issues thoroughly and there are always widely differing opinions.
As was mentioned earlier, the main thing people overlook is that the cuckold life HAS to be a three way thing. Once one party doesn't get off on it, then it's time to stop.
And therein lies the biggest problem.
As cuckolding often has a high element of emotional involvement from the female, it becomes more difficult to realise when things have run their course and it's time to call it a day.
We only know of two couples who regularly swapped with their neighbours (not into cuckolding) where the lifestyle was to blame for their divorce. They ended up marrying the other partner, whilst still living next door to each other.
Totally bizzare for them and the other neighbours..!!
sorry but ill disagree with the it HAS to be a 3 way thing thats not true other guys come and go they have no part of the relationship apart from a bit of sex here n there so the number one thing is its a 2 way thing between the cuckold couple ...
most bull we know dont want no hassle they just wanna come have fun then say goodbye till next time pretty much the same as normal swinging in many ways most couples swinging or cuckold want emotion's and clingy stuff left out ..now i know some single women see that differently as do some single man but couples dont we have our happy lives we dont want others to disrupt that ...unless your poly but thats a different thing again
maybe im just wrong maybe all the cuckold couple ive got to know over the last 2 years are wrong too maybe there is a big group of cuckold couples out there that want emotional ties with the 3rd person ????
I understand what you are saying. I've spoken to fair few people into cuckolding now and there are many who see the bull essentially as nothing more than a living human shaped sex toy. All the emotional context, love etc is reserved for purely between the couple. Now as a couple who are best described as Stag and Vixen I personally totally get this. Me and my wife swing purely to experience things not psychically possible with just 2 people and to us anyone joining us for sex are to us nothing more than a living breathing sex toy to be enjoyed nothing more.
The flip side to this is there are cuckold relationships where there are strong feelings between the wife / woman and the bull usually (and in my opinion naively) encouraged from the beginning. All of the examples of women running off with the bull were set up like this prior to that happening.
KJ x"
oh i agree 100% hence all the messages on here from guys saying when they were cuck's in there marriage before it broke up like thats what they expected oh a its ok because they are great friends now and looking for another cuckold relationship with someone else ... that to me is not a real reflextion on the scene and us true couples who have great relationships thats like getting married and saying hey lets go swinging its ok if you run off i can get just married again lol |
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I have been invited to ‘move in’ with a couple part time, I declined as it didht work logistically, but I thought it was a horny idea.
I once also had a wife off of here turn up at my work with her suitcases having left hubby and the kids!
Needless to say she was told to go home and she carried on with her marriage. I think she just got a bit carried away, it’s not a regular thing but I think feelings can get mixed up |
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"Too many stereotypes being accepted as fact. There are no perfect definitions of cuck couples and bulls. As in all other aspects of life, everyone is different. Probably the one and only thing my experience as a bull would support.
There is a danger of those getting involved becoming confused or ignoring the boundaries. Usually when the importance of talking and being honest is ignored. Usually the result of young, inexperienced couples and pushy cuck husbands forcing their unsure wives into meeting and fucking a bull. I now usually avoid young couples and always demand to confirm the wives commitment without her hubby breathing down her neck .
Sad to think there's wives / women out there who are been emotionally black mailed, guilt tripped or pushed into sleeping with someone else / a stranger purely to please their husband / boyfriend / partner / cuck
It happens all the time.
if it happens all the time why are there so many very happy couples doing it ? it may happen to some (and thats too many) but i think you'll find the majority are just happy couples getting on with things from both sides of the relationships."
There's always a lot of people on threads like these getting irate about what's been said. It's usually guilt and worry about their own relationships.
Happy couples don't need to convince anyone else that they're happy. They just are. |
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"Too many stereotypes being accepted as fact. There are no perfect definitions of cuck couples and bulls. As in all other aspects of life, everyone is different. Probably the one and only thing my experience as a bull would support.
There is a danger of those getting involved becoming confused or ignoring the boundaries. Usually when the importance of talking and being honest is ignored. Usually the result of young, inexperienced couples and pushy cuck husbands forcing their unsure wives into meeting and fucking a bull. I now usually avoid young couples and always demand to confirm the wives commitment without her hubby breathing down her neck .
Sad to think there's wives / women out there who are been emotionally black mailed, guilt tripped or pushed into sleeping with someone else / a stranger purely to please their husband / boyfriend / partner / cuck
It happens all the time.
if it happens all the time why are there so many very happy couples doing it ? it may happen to some (and thats too many) but i think you'll find the majority are just happy couples getting on with things from both sides of the relationships.
There's always a lot of people on threads like these getting irate about what's been said. It's usually guilt and worry about their own relationships.
Happy couples don't need to convince anyone else that they're happy. They just are. "
guess thats aimed at me lol |
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"think theres too many jackanory self ego stories being told ... the old oh yeah his mrs wanted me but i said no type "
It does make me wonder how of the guys we met, they were like this?! My ex was just generally flirty, and probably came across more full on than she actually was. A lot of guys misunderstood this over time, with the exception of the guy I mentioned above but they’ve since split up so karma lol |
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This is a very interesting thread and as other people have said relationships end for a variety of reasons. For me the concept should start as pillow talk and something intimate. If the fantasy of introducing another man into your sex life is both mentally and physically erotic then you have the basis to explore. If on the other hand the male partner pressures the female because it’s ‘his fantasy’ and in normal relationship terms doesn’t treat her with respect and makes her feel desired then you are on dangerous ground. To me the whole point in introducing another man is the sex she has with him is just that it’s sex. The sex the couple has is making love, it’s passionate, intense, because the reclaim sex is what makes that bond stronger between the couple. If the husband doesn’t make the wife feel loved, desired, wanted and treats her as a good many men like shit. Then when a nice bloke comes along and seduces her mind and body (and is most probably a narcissist) who derives a thrill out of trying to take her away from hubby then again a neglected wife, pressed into fucking other men is most likely going to question ‘what am I doing with my husband/partner when this other guy treats me so well!
It’s only an opinion, not saying anyone on this site or indeed thread doesn’t or didn’t treat their partner well! |
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"This is a very interesting thread and as other people have said relationships end for a variety of reasons. For me the concept should start as pillow talk and something intimate. If the fantasy of introducing another man into your sex life is both mentally and physically erotic then you have the basis to explore. If on the other hand the male partner pressures the female because it’s ‘his fantasy’ and in normal relationship terms doesn’t treat her with respect and makes her feel desired then you are on dangerous ground. To me the whole point in introducing another man is the sex she has with him is just that it’s sex. The sex the couple has is making love, it’s passionate, intense, because the reclaim sex is what makes that bond stronger between the couple. If the husband doesn’t make the wife feel loved, desired, wanted and treats her as a good many men like shit. Then when a nice bloke comes along and seduces her mind and body (and is most probably a narcissist) who derives a thrill out of trying to take her away from hubby then again a neglected wife, pressed into fucking other men is most likely going to question ‘what am I doing with my husband/partner when this other guy treats me so well!
It’s only an opinion, not saying anyone on this site or indeed thread doesn’t or didn’t treat their partner well! "
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We are very close to meeting a bull for this firs time with a possibility of making it regular event. I as the male find the while part of seeing my wife play as the turn on but as we have talked about this alot I also understand the turn on part for her is more knowing I like seeing it but she just has the added part of the sex. |
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"A couple i uesed to meet nearly ended up leaving each other. The husband was not a fan of the tattoo i made his ewife get"
must make you feel quite proud eh |
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"My wife and I decided the only way forward was for her to find an exclusive man friend with benefits.
We were lucky to find a divorced mature guy who ticked all the boxes. Masculine alpha male type, discreet and trustworthy. He gets a thrill out of fucking a married woman and my wife is a much happier woman, all round.
It is true they have evolved into lovers but I still find the relationship they have very erotic (from a Cuckold perspective)
We are quite open with each other and solid in our traditional relationships.
Her running off with him is unlikely in my opinion but a risk a Cuckold must accept. "
I would love a relationship like this - to be the boyfriend of a married lady with her husbands blessing... |
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I hope this less common than people are making out.
She has been fucking an employee of ours for a while now, they are currently working away and have been in the same bedroom every night.
It’s stupid I know, but I just keep encouraging it, even when I think it’s a bad idea.  |
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"I wonder if a cuck has ever run off with a bull?
..well the dish ran away with the spoon
I had a go at writing a poem based on that but gave up looking for a word to rhyme with cuckold. "
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We are not a cuck relationship and dont play alone ,but we both are open with each other ,but most important we know the difference between the fun we have on here and our "normal "life ,no one we have met would make me leave as the thrill of the dynamic would not be there ,if i went with him it would just be a vanillia life again ,thats not why we are here ,the thrill of meets is a good ,short fantasy nothing else ,simples |
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"I wonder if a cuck has ever run off with a bull?
..well the dish ran away with the spoon
I had a go at writing a poem based on that but gave up looking for a word to rhyme with cuckold. "
Behold the consequences unfold when we are told the tale of the old cuckold.
As the camera rolled their souls were sold, a heartbroken cuckold that cannot be consoled.
A shortlived fantasy, they thought they'd struck gold but sooner than later it began to get old
The final bell tolled for the discarded cuckold, her love had gone cold for her man, leopold.
The vows they would promise to forever uphold, were quickly forgotten by his beloved betrothed.
Her heart hard as stone and blacker than coal, she fell for the man they brought into their home.
So cuckold please be told, that you cannot control, that she wants a man with a much bigger pole..
Keep your head low, know your role, do whatever you're told. And do not say no or you may end up alone.
Or maybe the story gets completely transposed if the bull took a liking to the cuckolds tight hole.
And she makes him fuck it to show who is boss, not realising that she is orchestrating the loss
Of a man that once loved her, but now, he loves cocks...
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There is always a risk with being a cuck. Usually a cuck is not very well endowed (like me) and not able to repeat (like me)
I have actually lost a wife to a bull about 10 yrs ago.
The bull was 9 inches whereas I am 4 and could cum 4 or 5 times. He was much younger and loaded.
The risk was obvious.
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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago
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i get guys saying to me all the time "leave that old guy "ect .just not see them again .[we age gap couple]they not understand my man is my man .we just play a game of sex on here .fun that we are in control of ,as i think all real couples on here will agree with |
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I was bull to a cuckold couple a few years ago and the relationship went on for a year. The reason it ended was that hotwife wanted to leave cuck for me & wanted a relationship - which is not for me. The reason I enjoy cuckold relationships so much is that I enjoy single life, love fucking sexy hotwifes & then sending them home with/to cuck so I can resume single life. |
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Speaking as someone who has played the role of a Bull on occasion when looking for a cuckold couples one of the most important elements I looking is evidence that the couple is rock solid as a unit.
I would never want to play a role in the separation of a loving couple. It may sound a bit weird but one of the things I most enjoy when I meet a couple is the look of love between then that I sometimes catch when I'm fucking someones wife. I find it immensely pleasurable on all kinds of levels.
If I ever sense something wrong in a couples relationship when getting to know them I always back away.........fast!! |
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"i get guys saying to me all the time "leave that old guy "ect .just not see them again .[we age gap couple]they not understand my man is my man .we just play a game of sex on here .fun that we are in control of ,as i think all real couples on here will agree with "
I agree 100%with you
I am happily married and play with hubbys permission i have a fwb in the same situation.
We both have the same mindset and would probably feel offended if the other tried to change our situation.
Trust.
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"I was bull to a cuckold couple a few years ago and the relationship went on for a year. The reason it ended was that hotwife wanted to leave cuck for me & wanted a relationship - which is not for me. The reason I enjoy cuckold relationships so much is that I enjoy single life, love fucking sexy hotwifes & then sending them home with/to cuck so I can resume single life. "
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