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Why is it I attract gay men and not women?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"
could be the arse pic  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I presume you're referring to the fact that your "Looked At Me" reflects mostly men looking at you (can't be men messaging you as you have them filtered)?
If so, then it might be no or "Fab straight" guys checking to see if you're listed as bi, or could simply be other guys just checking your profile for ideas etc, which is something I do often.
Also bear in mind most women and couples look in stealth mode, so you'd never know they had looked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i get it all the time more of my pics are fabbed from other guys than women even though it clearly states im straight. like others said take it as a compliment guys just look (perv) about more |
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"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lolcould be the arse pic "
Aye this!!! |
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"i get it all the time more of my pics are fabbed from other guys than women even though it clearly states im straight. like others said take it as a compliment guys just look (perv) about more "
Lol same here. Today a "straight" guy fabbed some of my pics. doesn't bother me though I take it as a compliment. |
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"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"
You are well fit...(female J )  |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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"Nothing you’re doing wrong chap...it’s just the way it is on fab...lots of “straight” men just perving over pics..take it as a compliment "
Exactly this
I thought the same for a long time most of my pictures where being fabed by guys now it's great that other guys like my pics, just got to find the women that like them to now 
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"i seem to have to same , 13 views so far today , All men , varying from straight to bi etc , i even get winks from them .
Does get frustrating, . "
A view doesn't mean anything could be somebody local seeing you and wondering if they recognise you, somebody seeing the'competition' or somebody looking for ideas to improve their profile, it's messages you need to consider most |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"
Get to a club! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Take it as a compliment. Might not be the results you want but it's an ego boost.
Bottom line is gay men are still men. They are just as pervy as the rest of us..
Most women (not all) will have theirs sweet to not be listed as viewed.
Also there are men that will check out the competition. Or ideas for profile layouts etc.
So all of the above being mixed with the fact that men far outnumber the women it will seem even more this way. |
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"Just remember there are at least 10 men here for every woman. Take it as a compliment and don't get frustrated.
You are way out. There are about 60 men to every woman. "
At least 60 Probably even more than that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"
The arse pic is obviously more inviting to men than women  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"i seem to have to same , 13 views so far today , All men , varying from straight to bi etc , i even get winks from them .
Does get frustrating, . "
Why's it frustrating? It doesn't impact you in any way other than seeing you have a wink and they don't match what you're looking for 
As I said further up, the vast majority of ladies and couples look in stealth mode and you'd never know they looked - plus, just because someone looked at you doesn't mean a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol
You are well fit...(female J ) "
Yep I think you’re fit too..and Iv perved your pics..I just do it in stealth mode  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"
Ok just looked at your profile. In fairness you look a little too preened, like a lot of gay men can be. Your hairstyle and lack of body hair is not very masculine, but these days seems common in straight lads. I have short hair, stubble and hairy chest, seem to get a lot of female attention, maybe a lot of ladies still like a masculine look? |
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