I don't know how long your profile has remained, as it is currently, but you've been a member for 6 months or so - and there's not a verification from someone you've met, I think. This hints that perhaps you could change your profile, if its current form hasn't resulted in great success.
Firstly, you're marketing yourself:
as with marketing, having the right product and having an appropriate market for it is key to success. Selling ice to the poles doesn't work, but it can go down a treat in the tropics. If you fit the bill, then you need to work out how to sell yourself to that market segment: it won't be everybody, as someone else pointed out above. If you leave those people cold that you ma. weren't interested in / b. suitable for anyway, then it doesn't matter. But you do need to leave the right people feeling the right things about you.
If you leave your target market cold, then it's an issue, and you'll likely not do well.
So, if you've got a clear picture of who you want to meet, and you're certain that they want/need you too, then ensure that the message you send out highlights how you fit the bill. Many swingers would prefer some experience in their partner, so specifying what experience you have would address that. Whilst you're being specific, be factually detailed about what you really want, yourself and ensure that you do stand out from the crowd, otherwise you'll be a 'Stepford' Single Man on here, rather than a Stepford Husband.
Photos: again, this is part of the product mix: show people what they want to see. This doesn't probably mean showing people your favourite pics, so out anything that doesn't fit the image that you're needing to show to others. Possibly get some photos done specifically for Fab, with good variety, reflecting you and what people ideally will want to see.
Keep improving your profile as you learn more, get feedback etc, and don't let it get stale. Be aware that some people might find you seemingly younger than they want, so avoid older pics, that might highlight how much younger you were, when they were taken.
Of course, you may be the right product, in the wrong market, in which case you've got some options left: product development, retargeting etc.
Good luck! Sophie |
Personally for me, way too young, I wouldn't even look at the distance or anything else, good luck anyway 