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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gush squirt piss its all the same with a soaking bed and they dont tell you till its too late."
word of advice if you dont like women who gush stop finger thrusting and get your tongue in use and give her a proper orgasum 
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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"Gush squirt piss its all the same with a soaking bed and they dont tell you till its too late."
I gush but don't piss and always warn my meets that I might - if they haven't taken precautions it's not my fault!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course they don't tell you until its too late... its enjoyable. Would you be willing to stop yourself from ejaculating?  "
Its rude though every guy cums but you wear a rubber dont you. When they soak the bed they dont care women who wet beds should wear a female condom or tell you so you can choose not to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gush squirt piss its all the same with a soaking bed and they dont tell you till its too late.
I gush but don't piss and always warn my meets that I might - if they haven't taken precautions it's not my fault!!
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So if a guy pissed the bed afters it would not be his fault? I think it would be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"and ive lost times of the amount of guys who have cum in my mouth without asking if its ok or warning me they are about to cum
works both ways
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I would never without warning cos she might bite but soaking the bed ruins the mattress and isnt sexy at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course they don't tell you until its too late... its enjoyable. Would you be willing to stop yourself from ejaculating?
Its rude though every guy cums but you wear a rubber dont you. When they soak the bed they dont care women who wet beds should wear a female condom or tell you so you can choose not to meet."
you could always just ask
This thing is we all know how to make a woman gush, insert fingers and use rapid movement still she gushes, if you dont like women who gush keep your finger out her muff, its really not that hard to figure out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course they don't tell you until its too late... its enjoyable. Would you be willing to stop yourself from ejaculating?
Its rude though every guy cums but you wear a rubber dont you. When they soak the bed they dont care women who wet beds should wear a female condom or tell you so you can choose not to meet."
you could always just ask
This thing is we all know how to make a woman gush, insert fingers and use rapid movement still she gushes, if you dont like women who gush keep your finger out her muff, its really not that hard to figure out
Agreed! Common sense really |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lol get a waterproof cover or as the previous poster stated improve your oral skills and give her a proper orgasm! "
Never had a problem making a woman cum and scream the house down its that good but all this bed wetting is a bit turn off and not right. If i was so spit on your pillow when cumimg you woudnt be happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gush squirt piss its all the same with a soaking bed and they dont tell you till its too late.
I gush but don't piss and always warn my meets that I might - if they haven't taken precautions it's not my fault!!
So if a guy pissed the bed afters it would not be his fault? I think it would be."
but gushing isnt piss, you dont just lay there and think..oh i'll gush now, its a result of a sexual act your doing to the women, it cant be comapired to just pissing the bed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just tell people you may meet that you don't want to play with gushers or squirters.......or pissers  "
Told them i dont like it but got caught out twice now. Wont even give anyone a drink if it happens again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol get a waterproof cover or as the previous poster stated improve your oral skills and give her a proper orgasm!
Never had a problem making a woman cum and scream the house down its that good but all this bed wetting is a bit turn off and not right. If i was so spit on your pillow when cumimg you woudnt be happy."
i think your problem is your not _iewing it as a involuntary action, you keep comapiring it to pissing and now spitting which is all things that you choose to do, you dont choose to gush, if a guys playing with you and he hits the right spot it just happens you cant stop it, its not like thinking...oh i'll spit on the pillow now
honestly how old are you? dont you know all this already? you dont have much idea about the female body do you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The women should have told you before you actually got down to it.
or are you trying to brag ha ha 
But seriously id be a pit miffed lol "
Thats it its when you are not told. Ok if its her bed then her choice but it really gets annoying when its mine and said i dont like it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lol get a waterproof cover or as the previous poster stated improve your oral skills and give her a proper orgasm!
Never had a problem making a woman cum and scream the house down its that good but all this bed wetting is a bit turn off and not right. If i was so spit on your pillow when cumimg you woudnt be happy.
i think your problem is your not _iewing it as a involuntary action, you keep comapiring it to pissing and now spitting which is all things that you choose to do, you dont choose to gush, if a guys playing with you and he hits the right spot it just happens you cant stop it, its not like thinking...oh i'll spit on the pillow now
honestly how old are you? dont you know all this already? you dont have much idea about the female body do you?"
Well think what you like but i know about a womans body but thats not my beef its that you are lied to then end up with a soaking bed. Its not clever and it really annoys me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well think what you like but i know about a womans body but thats not my beef its that you are lied to then end up with a soaking bed. Its not clever and it really annoys me."
but if you know your way round a womans body you knwo what makes them gush so if you dont like it why do it?
seriously your not making any sence at all |
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I think there's a big point being missed here.......it can't be helped - as in, if you gush/squirt, it's not like you have a choice...it literally just happens, you can't hold it back in...plus...if it gets to a stage where your bed is soggy then you usually have had *some* prior warning at the start...It's easy, if you don't like it and she starts squirting/gushing, stop what you're doing.....Simples! (rocket science, it is not).... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can you not tell when your playing with a woman when shes about to gush, can you not read her body and tell the difference?
if so just stop what your doing when she looks like shes getting to the point before it happens
i really dont understand why you cant work this out for yourself
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well think what you like but i know about a womans body but thats not my beef its that you are lied to then end up with a soaking bed. Its not clever and it really annoys me.
but if you know your way round a womans body you knwo what makes them gush so if you dont like it why do it?
seriously your not making any sence at all"
I dont go out to make them do it you know i say its not my thing. I think its rude to go to someones house and soak the bed. If i went to yours and pissed on the carpet or bed you might not be happy if not told it happened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well think what you like but i know about a womans body but thats not my beef its that you are lied to then end up with a soaking bed. Its not clever and it really annoys me.
but if you know your way round a womans body you knwo what makes them gush so if you dont like it why do it?
seriously your not making any sence at all
I dont go out to make them do it you know i say its not my thing. I think its rude to go to someones house and soak the bed. If i went to yours and pissed on the carpet or bed you might not be happy if not told it happened. "
if you pissed on my carpet no course i wouldnt be happy, but if i was playing with a woman on the floor and she gushed on my carpet surely thats my fault for making her do it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well think what you like but i know about a womans body but thats not my beef its that you are lied to then end up with a soaking bed. Its not clever and it really annoys me.
but if you know your way round a womans body you knwo what makes them gush so if you dont like it why do it?
seriously your not making any sence at all
I dont go out to make them do it you know i say its not my thing. I think its rude to go to someones house and soak the bed. If i went to yours and pissed on the carpet or bed you might not be happy if not told it happened.
if you pissed on my carpet no course i wouldnt be happy, but if i was playing with a woman on the floor and she gushed on my carpet surely thats my fault for making her do it?
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Its not hard to understand you tell people if you cant control yourself then they can choose what to do or not. Its just rude not to say and even ruder to do it in someone elses bed and not warn them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or just stop meeting and find one
if you chose to have nsa your bound to find different women orgasm different
try reading some of the above posts
And thanks for some tips to the others
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you had a read of the OP's profile ?
Jane x  "
yep thats why i find it so hard to believe that he cant tell when a womans about to gush and stop, surely if he was that good he'd know? |
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word of advice if you dont like women who gush stop finger thrusting and get your tongue in use and give her a proper orgasum
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Saw a woman gush at a club last week and the only thing near her muff was the guy's tongue....and it was a proper orgasm...it was impressive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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troll or not
Fake veris ore not
(I don't know as I haven't looked)
But I agree with him. I wouldn't be impressed with it either. I made a pact with myself that I wouldn't post on gushing threads again cos its something that bothers me, and all this 'its an orgasm' stuff annoys me because its false and its not. But people are entitled to believe what they like. And I've lost my pact.
No I would not be impressed with soaking my bed. I'm not impressed with people doing it in public rooms and it going on me either, people should keep their own bodily fluids to the ones they're playing with. And people who involuntarily urinate and defecate should get themselves to a continence nurse.
But why this guy has shocked a lot of women I'm surprised at. Its not that hard to understand that some people do find it distaseful.
And before people start with the 'you can't stop it, its female ejaculation', then I will say that before swinging I had never heard of it, my friends have never heard of it, a lot of people having healthy sex lives are not doing it. Many women on this site don't do it. I've been having sex for many years now, I've never done it, never ever going to, and I have a whale of a time enjoying myself with mind blowing orgasms, so I'm not missing out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the OP that it's good etiquette to warn your host that you may gush or squirt so he can take precautions and protect bedding. It's not much fun spending a late saturday night after a meet laundering a quilt and bedlinen instead of chilling out! Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i realy dont no what you are all getting hot about,my wife is a gusher boy when she cums she cums,wet or what we cuddle up on the dry bit,,the answer is hotel matress protectors and if you are that way incliend keep clean sheets under the bed .Now on the other hand my x was also a gusher but also a bed wetter when she had a few drinks , we made this a fun thing and baught her the apropiat pants . Next ,lucky old me ,i once had a short term girl friend who accualy wet the bed randomaly she thought this the norm and would not consider any products that protected my materess ,two weeks on i got rid of her and the meteress, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can do it.. I can also control it... However it is an orgasm and I did it before I swung..
I've never done it in anyone elses bed either.. but then till recently I'd not orgasmed on meets.
It's not on my profile because to be fair other men can't do it to me... Because I refuse to lose control like that...
Also it would only be on my bed as I don't meet elsewhere.
I did do it at an adult cinema with my master as he was fisting me... One sure fire way for me to gush... But no one else can do that to me.
I however can't understand why a man couldn't simply say I don't want that... And I'm sure those that can wouldn't meet.. or control themselves...
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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago
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Most men would love the fact they can make a woman gush/squirt and here you are moaning about it !!! If your so bothered about your bed get a mattress protector or use a rubber sheet . You dont seem to be listening to what the ladies are telling you....IT IS NOT PISS WE PRODUCE WHEN WE SQIRT/CUM ! Grow up for goodness sake . K |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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1... it's your bed and it is up to you what takes place there, if you don't want squirters, make that clear before you meet up. Stand your ground if it is an issue.
2.. I think it is rude for people not to advise if they are heavy squirters, after all, it is someone else's bed. Why not invite the guy to bed you in yours. Many will ask for protection to be put down first and that is the right thing to do.
3.. I have read on here many threads on squirting and there has been mixed opinions about the piss content of the fluid.
4... I for one do not meet heavy squirters in my own bed as I have in the past and did not protect the mattress well enough and it was left heavily stained and it was yellow and piss like.
Sometimes, guys are so keen for meets that they do not make clear in advance in case it falls through...
Man up and make it clear your likes and dislikes. We are not performing seals.
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By *edriderCouple
over a year ago
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neither of us find gushing very attractive, sometimes it happens and cant be helped, its one of those things that either turns you on or off and if you really hate it state that on your profile, and invest in a waterproof mattress protector for your bed as cum and sweat are just as bad |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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What world do you live on? to call someone a schizophrenic is plain nasty. We are not talking other forums we are talking about abusing people and public bitching. The forum rules don't allow this. The chat rooms are never this bad."
You are right, the forums don't allow this. You are also right that it is unacceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why dont you just write on your profile something along the lines of no squiters or gushers please then if they are going to do it they wont reply to you - problem solved |
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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago
manchester |
A sheet of builders plastic on the bed and a bucket,tastefully marked "squirt stuff" placed in the corner and problem solved.
Just ask the lady to squat over the bucket if she feels the need to squirt.
Ive tried hay and sawdust on the sheet before,but they plays havoc with the washing machine. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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I kind of understand where the OP is coming from. But think, it could have been worded ALOT better.
If it bothers you that much,state clearly on your profile that you don't meet squirters/gushers or those into watersports.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To answer the original question, it does nothing for me, and does turn me off a little."
yes i know what you mean it really puts me off when a man ejaculates to!
Can anyone see the stupidity here, what if all these women said sorry it puts me off when you cum so yet can't do it. It's not urine it's female ejaculation, you know guys like yours! Why don't you Google it and read medical reports on it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To answer the original question, it does nothing for me, and does turn me off a little.
yes i know what you mean it really puts me off when a man ejaculates to!
Can anyone see the stupidity here, what if all these women said sorry it puts me off when you cum so yet can't do it. It's not urine it's female ejaculation, you know guys like yours! Why don't you Google it and read medical reports on it?"
Stupidity? I'm asked my opinion, I give it, I'm stupid? Just because my tastes are different to yours.. i'm stupid?
Did I say I thought it was urine? no
I'm sure there are women who don't like cum ... I'm not going to start crying about it if they tell me so ..
I don't like the look of it .. i'm sure others don't as well, deal with it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To answer the original question, it does nothing for me, and does turn me off a little.
yes i know what you mean it really puts me off when a man ejaculates to!
Can anyone see the stupidity here, what if all these women said sorry it puts me off when you cum so yet can't do it. It's not urine it's female ejaculation, you know guys like yours! Why don't you Google it and read medical reports on it?
Stupidity? I'm asked my opinion, I give it, I'm stupid? Just because my tastes are different to yours.. i'm stupid?
Did I say I thought it was urine? no
I'm sure there are women who don't like cum ... I'm not going to start crying about it if they tell me so ..
I don't like the look of it .. i'm sure others don't as well, deal with it
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ooh so miss read my comment! Reread it and you will see i was referring to the stupidity in my statement and the fact that some think it is urine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ooh so miss read my comment! Reread it and you will see i was referring to the stupidity in my statement and the fact that some think it is urine."
Re-read it ...
Yep, i miss read it before.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To answer the original question, it does nothing for me, and does turn me off a little.
yes i know what you mean it really puts me off when a man ejaculates to!
Can anyone see the stupidity here, what if all these women said sorry it puts me off when you cum so yet can't do it. It's not urine it's female ejaculation, you know guys like yours! Why don't you Google it and read medical reports on it?
Stupidity? I'm asked my opinion, I give it, I'm stupid? Just because my tastes are different to yours.. i'm stupid?
Did I say I thought it was urine? no
I'm sure there are women who don't like cum ... I'm not going to start crying about it if they tell me so ..
I don't like the look of it .. i'm sure others don't as well, deal with it
ooh so miss read my comment! Reread it and you will see i was referring to the stupidity in my statement and the fact that some think it is urine."
Unless you are a qualified Urologist you cannot say for certain what the fluid consists of.
I am not either but I have authority to say this. I've tasted a woman who squirted, it tasted acidic, not very pleasant and nothing at all like female lubrication.
I have also sat in a puddle in a group room where a lady had squirted. The next day my corset smelt of urine. Now I didn't dipstick the fluid so I can't say for sure what it consisted of, but I can tell you it tasted acidic and smelt - I could only liken it to urine.
I have on many occasions had ejaculate in my bed, it has not made my mattress smell or stained it, only the sheets. If someone does not want their mattress wet and stained and possibly smelling, regardless of what the liquid is, then they are entitled to say so. It is not stupid. I would not allow it in my bed. The OP should have told the lady this or not met her again, but he is entitled to have his belongings kept clean, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies should at least mention that they sometimes gush, squirt, pee, ejaculate or just let loose with a large amount of fluids when enjoying sex.
As the OP mentions, it's not nice if your on the bed and she looses control.
Maybe it should ask admin if it can be something added so we know, lol
Love to all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some people like gushers some people do not
I wouldnt be impressed if someone gushed over my bed but if i was playing with them and they gushed then id have noone else to blame but myself for making them do it
What i dont get is if people dot like gushers dont make them gush, its not hard to avoid, we all know whats needed to do to make a woman gush, rapid finger movement inside the vigina, if you dont like gushers keep your fingers out, it really is that simple, or if you must insert fingers read the womans body and as soon as she looks like its going to happen stop
I really cant see what all the fuss is about, it really is that simple, if you dont like gushers dont make them gush
It really does not bother me if i gush or not, its no big deal its just something that happens and gives me no great wonderful feeling that i long for, id sooner a guy stop being lazy and get his head down there rather than just using his hands if in going to be honest, there for is a guy made me gush then had a go at me for it id be telling his where to get off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To answer the original question, it does nothing for me, and does turn me off a little.
yes i know what you mean it really puts me off when a man ejaculates to!
Can anyone see the stupidity here, what if all these women said sorry it puts me off when you cum so yet can't do it. It's not urine it's female ejaculation, you know guys like yours! Why don't you Google it and read medical reports on it?
Stupidity? I'm asked my opinion, I give it, I'm stupid? Just because my tastes are different to yours.. i'm stupid?
Did I say I thought it was urine? no
I'm sure there are women who don't like cum ... I'm not going to start crying about it if they tell me so ..
I don't like the look of it .. i'm sure others don't as well, deal with it
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everyone likes different some men like gushers, some women like to be covered in cum, personally im not a great fan of cum and id sooner the owner of the cum not use my body as a cum dump and keep it in a condom, there for i can understand why some men dont want female body fluids, but it all about comunication, you have to tell people what you like, if a guy told me he didnt like gushers i would make sure he didnt do anything that made me gush by telling him to stop if i felt i was going to, same as i tell guys i dont like really like being cum over, but if a ever did play with a guy and he cum over my tits i wouldnt get huffy and start a thread about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To answer the original question, it does nothing for me, and does turn me off a little.
yes i know what you mean it really puts me off when a man ejaculates to!
Can anyone see the stupidity here, what if all these women said sorry it puts me off when you cum so yet can't do it. It's not urine it's female ejaculation, you know guys like yours! Why don't you Google it and read medical reports on it?"
I think there are many who have poor bladder control who let go when they cum and prefer to think of it as ejaculate rather than urine. Obviously they are not going to admit but it does explain why people have different opinions on the subject.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met two squirting women, both at clubs. It's a fun novelty when it's not your bed but I'd hate to be the person to use it next or if it was my own bed. I'm no expert so I couldn't tell they were going to squirt, neither warned me so I just thought it was going to be a "normal" orgasm.
I get what people say about blow jobs and guys cum. If I have a bj to completion then it feels amazing, makes me cum hard and explosively and in huge amounts. Obviously this isn't for everyone so if the woman doesn't like cum in her mouth then I'd rather make it a quick bj and move on to something else. A bj where I don't get to cum is hell for me and pearl necklaces just don't tip me over the edge in the same way as a woman swallowing it down.
So if you don't like squirters then skip the fingering or whatever it is that sets them off. |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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I gush and squirt and am not posting to get into a "it's urine/it's not" debate. It's a subject everyone has their own generally unchangeable opinion on. But in response to the OP I would have to agree. It is rude to soak someones bed, carpet, sofa etc even if the person is turned on by squirting.
Mr New and I have a "playtime" bag which we take with us on meets, one of the things it contains in a rubberbacked cotton sheet which is a metre square designed for toddler beds and potty training kids. If play heads in the direction where I may squirt we make sure it is this that gets wet and not our hosts soft furnishing. It just goes in the washing machine when we get home.
Easy...and problem solved.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even some clubs have taken a dim _iew of gushers /squirters, some people i have known have received bans from such clubs for making a mess"
i must admit i would never gush in a open room at a club, ive had it before where ive got ready to go to clubs and when in a room some womans gushed and its gone all over me so ive had to stop my play and go get showered and changed
Theres a time and a place, and if im somewhere public and i felt i was going to gush i would make them stop |
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whatever floats their boats but me I would just die if I did that. 