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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do women start their profile by saying things like no face no chat and have a profile photo of boobs? Not that boobs are off putting but it would be nice to see more people’s faces here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established..."
In my case it would be Harrods food halls
Cos I is klassy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established...
In my case it would be Harrods food halls
Cos I is klassy"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established...
In my case it would be Harrods food halls
Cos I is klassy"
Shurely you'd get a member of the Household to do your shopping for you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established...
In my case it would be Harrods food halls
Cos I is klassy
Shurely you'd get a member of the Household to do your shopping for you?
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Household cavalry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established...
In my case it would be Harrods food halls
Cos I is klassy
Shurely you'd get a member of the Household to do your shopping for you?
Household cavalry "
With their horses and thigh high shiny boots? |
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"Why are you bothered? Just avoid those profiles if you dont wish to inseract with them. 
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That's an easy position to take, when you are inundated with messages, as I am sure you are.
I trifle more difficult if, like me, you get one a month!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are you bothered? Just avoid those profiles if you dont wish to inseract with them. "
If that’s the case then I wouldn’t interact with any ladies as none within 50 miles of where I live show faces in their profiles. |
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"Why do women start their profile by saying things like no face no chat and have a profile photo of boobs? Not that boobs are off putting but it would be nice to see more people’s faces here "
Why do you think they don't have them in their private gallery? |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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I think it is the double standard which is being questioned rather than the right of individuals not to show their face.
The answer is always the same - women do these things because they can |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also I don't think those profiles mean you have to have public face pics. Just ones you can send in a message. "
It isn’t a case of public pics but more of a point I have to send mine for the woman to block me maybe if they showed a face I wouldn’t message in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women start their profile by saying things like no face no chat and have a profile photo of boobs? Not that boobs are off putting but it would be nice to see more people’s faces here "
discretion is why. I dont want possible family/friends knowing I'm on here. Yeah it means they are too but I'm more discreet  |
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"Also I don't think those profiles mean you have to have public face pics. Just ones you can send in a message.
It isn’t a case of public pics but more of a point I have to send mine for the woman to block me maybe if they showed a face I wouldn’t message in the first place. "
What a catch 22 huh |
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"Also I don't think those profiles mean you have to have public face pics. Just ones you can send in a message.
It isn’t a case of public pics but more of a point I have to send mine for the woman to block me maybe if they showed a face I wouldn’t message in the first place.
What a catch 22 huh"
Someone's got to send them first. Unfortunately for others, women are in a position where they can make demands. (I don't do it myself) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also I don't think those profiles mean you have to have public face pics. Just ones you can send in a message.
It isn’t a case of public pics but more of a point I have to send mine for the woman to block me maybe if they showed a face I wouldn’t message in the first place. "
If I showed my face, my inbox would be drier than my fanny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also I don't think those profiles mean you have to have public face pics. Just ones you can send in a message.
It isn’t a case of public pics but more of a point I have to send mine for the woman to block me maybe if they showed a face I wouldn’t message in the first place.
If I showed my face, my inbox would be drier than my fanny."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established..."
Totally agree. I sent our face pics to accounts that turned to be fake in our early days.... We've both learnt now and not repeating that stupid mistake.
But honestly, we would never send face pics now until we are A. certain that its a real person - with plenty of social veris and B.Also getting a face pic back.
Quite happy to be cruel to be kind and say not for us, but will never message people that say they want a face pic on first message.
Each to their own though...
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Lots of people don't prefer a level playing field per se and have terms favoured in their direction. I think we'd all love to see face pics of others without the risk of surrendering our face. Men are as much entitaled to request the same. You don't need message someone playing to those terms if you don't like it. However due to dynamic on FAB women are in a far stronger position to set terms in their favour without it being too detrimental to getting offers. That is just how things are and most people if they could would set such terms. Just some are in a far better position to do it than others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong "
you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women start their profile by saying things like no face no chat and have a profile photo of boobs? Not that boobs are off putting but it would be nice to see more people’s faces here "
really some people are butt gorgeous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait. "
and I get looked at plenty |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it is the double standard which is being questioned rather than the right of individuals not to show their face.
The answer is always the same - women do these things because they can "
So do men and couples with blank avatar profiles. It's not gender specific. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Here's a typical situation. Input a new public face pic on the other day, wasn't long before the creepy "I saw you..." messages started. Put it to private, no more creepy messages. Does that answer your question OP? I'm happy to send one if the chats going well and it's leading to a social meet. I wouldn't expect men or couples to have face pics visible either. You can do lots of nice pics without showing you face, so no excuse for a blank avatar ever. |
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong "
I enjoy not being hassled in the real world. I have a life and other things to do. I'm not crying into my cornflakes because I'm not being harassed while looking for something unpleasant/embarrassing in Boots.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also I don't think those profiles mean you have to have public face pics. Just ones you can send in a message.
It isn’t a case of public pics but more of a point I have to send mine for the woman to block me maybe if they showed a face I wouldn’t message in the first place.
If I showed my face, my inbox would be drier than my fanny."
You never did take the hint on the "who's face do you want to see" thread...
It wasn't even subtle!  |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong "
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet! |
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong "
Says the guy with no pictures up, those ladies who are ‘punching above their weight ‘ at least are out and proud. Happy in their own skin and desires and don’t spend their days moaning and complaining. Keep hiding nobody wants to find you |
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Says the guy with no pictures up, those ladies who are ‘punching above their weight ‘ at least are out and proud. Happy in their own skin and desires and don’t spend their days moaning and complaining. Keep hiding nobody wants to find you "
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong "
Nope, I get plenty of attention in real life thanks.
You’re wrong, as is your spelling and grammar.
I see there’s no public picture on your profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait. "
BOOM...Mic dropped  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait.
BOOM...Mic dropped "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait. "
Also...it's "I'm" and "wouldn't" ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait.
BOOM...Mic dropped I should have also said it's their not there. "
Sorry, gonna have to pick that mic up and try again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait.
BOOM...Mic dropped I should have also said it's their not there.
Sorry, gonna have to pick that mic up and try again "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women start their profile by saying things like no face no chat and have a profile photo of boobs? Not that boobs are off putting but it would be nice to see more people’s faces here "
Women rule, remember that and your time here may be ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also I don't think those profiles mean you have to have public face pics. Just ones you can send in a message.
It isn’t a case of public pics but more of a point I have to send mine for the woman to block me maybe if they showed a face I wouldn’t message in the first place. "
ahhhh now see that's a good point but use my theory ' women rule here ' then try and make that point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lolHaha hes putting women down so why shouldn't we put him down. Dont give it if you can't take it "
fair point but i cant really see where he is struggling to take it as he has only posted one message giving his opinion |
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"Because you get creepy guys saying "I saw you in Waitrose in town yesterday, you looked hot"...
Pics can be shared when a degree of interest and trust is established...
In my case it would be Harrods food halls
Cos I is klassy"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lolHaha hes putting women down so why shouldn't we put him down. Dont give it if you can't take it
fair point but i cant really see where he is struggling to take it as he has only posted one message giving his opinion"
I'm sure he will pipe up again soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet! "
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait. "
Brilliant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong you are wrong. Its weight. Not wait. "
And “their”, not “there”.
One indicates possession, the other, placement...
Punctuation is rubbish, too....poor effort.
See me after class...and not in a good way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong "
I would also be punching above my WAIT if I received the amount of messages women do. No need to get all bitter balls about it bro. If men are willing to lower their standards to get sex then I don't think the women are to blame |
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet!
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy....."
Women are not pieces of meat. Your friend sounds like a top class bell end. |
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol"
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet!
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy.....
Women are not pieces of meat. Your friend sounds like a top class bell end."
Technically we're all pieces of meat. And he's actually a really nice guy... Just has commitment issues after a few beers |
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet!
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy.....
Women are not pieces of meat. Your friend sounds like a top class bell end.
Technically we're all pieces of meat. And he's actually a really nice guy... Just has commitment issues after a few beers"
Yes, but talking about us in those kinds of terms is pretty offensive. We're people the same as you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat."
or simply talking down your nose at somebody at something petty like grammar makes you look a bully.as long as others understand what is being written then what does it matter?its not an exam piece that is going to be marked.next time you go too insult somebody because of their grammar then just stop and have a think as they could be dyslexic,not had the best of educations,not been encouraged with their education by parents or simply might just find things a little more difficult to do then others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet!
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy.....
Women are not pieces of meat. Your friend sounds like a top class bell end.
Technically we're all pieces of meat. And he's actually a really nice guy... Just has commitment issues after a few beers
Yes, but talking about us in those kinds of terms is pretty offensive. We're people the same as you. "
Don't worry I'm a piece of meat too! Plus it was a reply to a comment made about women being like meat, made by a woman. No need to get offended, it's an analogy |
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat.
or simply talking down your nose at somebody at something petty like grammar makes you look a bully.as long as others understand what is being written then what does it matter?its not an exam piece that is going to be marked.next time you go too insult somebody because of their grammar then just stop and have a think as they could be dyslexic,not had the best of educations,not been encouraged with their education by parents or simply might just find things a little more difficult to do then others."
You’ve missed the point entirely.
As my mum always said “if you can’t take it, don’t dish it out”
In my mind, anyone who talks shit about others is fair game for criticism. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat.
or simply talking down your nose at somebody at something petty like grammar makes you look a bully.as long as others understand what is being written then what does it matter?its not an exam piece that is going to be marked.next time you go too insult somebody because of their grammar then just stop and have a think as they could be dyslexic,not had the best of educations,not been encouraged with their education by parents or simply might just find things a little more difficult to do then others."
So much you could insult about the statement and sentiment rather than the grammar. Poor show guys and girls... Poor show |
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet!
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy.....
Women are not pieces of meat. Your friend sounds like a top class bell end.
Technically we're all pieces of meat. And he's actually a really nice guy... Just has commitment issues after a few beers
Yes, but talking about us in those kinds of terms is pretty offensive. We're people the same as you.
Don't worry I'm a piece of meat too! Plus it was a reply to a comment made about women being like meat, made by a woman. No need to get offended, it's an analogy"
Yes, but in general terms where women are often weighed up like this (men less so outside contexts like this), it's problematic. I'm not offended given the nature of the conversation, just observing that it's gross. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op can you join the lookalike thread so I can say the chicken man off toy story 2
Hahaha yes!!
I was thinking mad Andy from Peep show but you’re right! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat.
or simply talking down your nose at somebody at something petty like grammar makes you look a bully.as long as others understand what is being written then what does it matter?its not an exam piece that is going to be marked.next time you go too insult somebody because of their grammar then just stop and have a think as they could be dyslexic,not had the best of educations,not been encouraged with their education by parents or simply might just find things a little more difficult to do then others.
So much you could insult about the statement and sentiment rather than the grammar. Poor show guys and girls... Poor show"
im just sticking up for those that often get spoken down at for petty reasons like grammer.why should i give my opinion on the statement made?all because you say so?if you go back over the posts then you will see that im not the one that first mentioned grammar.poor show |
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By *aFee RougeWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it is the double standard which is being questioned rather than the right of individuals not to show their face.
The answer is always the same - women do these things because they can "
Not double standard. If I message somebody first I send my face pic and I'd expect when others contact me to do the same.
The repetition and insisting point abput no face no chat is because we get inundated by messages from faceless and cock-full profiles which give us no idea who we care dealing with.
I see no double standard . . . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet!
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy.....
Women are not pieces of meat. Your friend sounds like a top class bell end.
Technically we're all pieces of meat. And he's actually a really nice guy... Just has commitment issues after a few beers
Yes, but talking about us in those kinds of terms is pretty offensive. We're people the same as you.
Don't worry I'm a piece of meat too! Plus it was a reply to a comment made about women being like meat, made by a woman. No need to get offended, it's an analogy
Yes, but in general terms where women are often weighed up like this (men less so outside contexts like this), it's problematic. I'm not offended given the nature of the conversation, just observing that it's gross. "
But if it's in a different context then your point has no relevance to this conversation. If you are going to go back to how men refer to women as meat in other contexts historically, then that is a different conversation entirely. No one is literally referring to women as meat. We refer to each other as things like this on a daily basis. Rise like a salmon, fast like a wippet, ass like a peach etc.... Humour is a beautiful thing that can always be viewed as gross if you get offended. Be objective |
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat.
or simply talking down your nose at somebody at something petty like grammar makes you look a bully.as long as others understand what is being written then what does it matter?its not an exam piece that is going to be marked.next time you go too insult somebody because of their grammar then just stop and have a think as they could be dyslexic,not had the best of educations,not been encouraged with their education by parents or simply might just find things a little more difficult to do then others.
So much you could insult about the statement and sentiment rather than the grammar. Poor show guys and girls... Poor show
im just sticking up for those that often get spoken down at for petty reasons like grammer.why should i give my opinion on the statement made?all because you say so?if you go back over the posts then you will see that im not the one that first mentioned grammar.poor show"
Ahh man you're not doing yourself any favours on the intelligence front here man! If you read back what I said I was saying poor show to all those who have attacked his grammar rather than targeting the horrible things he is saying. They go for grammar because it's an easier way to try and belittle him and make him look stupid |
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet!
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy.....
Women are not pieces of meat. Your friend sounds like a top class bell end.
Technically we're all pieces of meat. And he's actually a really nice guy... Just has commitment issues after a few beers
Yes, but talking about us in those kinds of terms is pretty offensive. We're people the same as you.
Don't worry I'm a piece of meat too! Plus it was a reply to a comment made about women being like meat, made by a woman. No need to get offended, it's an analogy
Yes, but in general terms where women are often weighed up like this (men less so outside contexts like this), it's problematic. I'm not offended given the nature of the conversation, just observing that it's gross.
But if it's in a different context then your point has no relevance to this conversation. If you are going to go back to how men refer to women as meat in other contexts historically, then that is a different conversation entirely. No one is literally referring to women as meat. We refer to each other as things like this on a daily basis. Rise like a salmon, fast like a wippet, ass like a peach etc.... Humour is a beautiful thing that can always be viewed as gross if you get offended. Be objective "
No, but woman as hamburger implies she's worth less than other women, in an historical context used to devalue women. And even here in a context which implies or outright states that women here are wrong for their standards.
If we strip all context then conversation becomes meaningless. |
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"Most women are punching above there wait ,and im sorry but wouldnt get looked at twice in the real world , harsh but true ,say what you like im not wrong
Who are you to judge and if they are they should be congratulated for doing so, why settle for a bit of Brisket if you're offered Fillet!
Because all you can afford is brisket. I remember asking my friend why he cheats on his girlfriend who is beautiful with not so beautiful women. I used the saying why have hamburgers when you have steak at home? He answered because hamburgers are cheap and easy.....
Women are not pieces of meat. Your friend sounds like a top class bell end.
Technically we're all pieces of meat. And he's actually a really nice guy... Just has commitment issues after a few beers
Yes, but talking about us in those kinds of terms is pretty offensive. We're people the same as you.
Don't worry I'm a piece of meat too! Plus it was a reply to a comment made about women being like meat, made by a woman. No need to get offended, it's an analogy
Yes, but in general terms where women are often weighed up like this (men less so outside contexts like this), it's problematic. I'm not offended given the nature of the conversation, just observing that it's gross.
But if it's in a different context then your point has no relevance to this conversation. If you are going to go back to how men refer to women as meat in other contexts historically, then that is a different conversation entirely. No one is literally referring to women as meat. We refer to each other as things like this on a daily basis. Rise like a salmon, fast like a wippet, ass like a peach etc.... Humour is a beautiful thing that can always be viewed as gross if you get offended. Be objective
No, but woman as hamburger implies she's worth less than other women, in an historical context used to devalue women. And even here in a context which implies or outright states that women here are wrong for their standards.
If we strip all context then conversation becomes meaningless. "
Exactly so put it into context. A women uses an analogy about meat so I reply with another analogy about meat. She probably has a sense of humour more in tune with mine where we can joke about things without having to think about whether women have been oppressed and devalued by men. I know nothing of these women that he was cheating with... They might be the steak. So in your eyes I am putting value on the other woman by calling her steak right?
No one has said to take away context, more that you are using it as a means to make me sound like a misogynist |
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat.
or simply talking down your nose at somebody at something petty like grammar makes you look a bully.as long as others understand what is being written then what does it matter?its not an exam piece that is going to be marked.next time you go too insult somebody because of their grammar then just stop and have a think as they could be dyslexic,not had the best of educations,not been encouraged with their education by parents or simply might just find things a little more difficult to do then others.
So much you could insult about the statement and sentiment rather than the grammar. Poor show guys and girls... Poor show
im just sticking up for those that often get spoken down at for petty reasons like grammer.why should i give my opinion on the statement made?all because you say so?if you go back over the posts then you will see that im not the one that first mentioned grammar.poor show"
my sister is dyslexic. I dont like pulling people on their spelling or grammar but he annoyed me with his comment so I lashed out at his spelling. Childish I know |
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat.
or simply talking down your nose at somebody at something petty like grammar makes you look a bully.as long as others understand what is being written then what does it matter?its not an exam piece that is going to be marked.next time you go too insult somebody because of their grammar then just stop and have a think as they could be dyslexic,not had the best of educations,not been encouraged with their education by parents or simply might just find things a little more difficult to do then others.
So much you could insult about the statement and sentiment rather than the grammar. Poor show guys and girls... Poor show
im just sticking up for those that often get spoken down at for petty reasons like grammer.why should i give my opinion on the statement made?all because you say so?if you go back over the posts then you will see that im not the one that first mentioned grammar.poor show my sister is dyslexic. I dont like pulling people on their spelling or grammar but he annoyed me with his comment so I lashed out at his spelling. Childish I know "
He deserved it, his comment was utter nonsense. |
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"lots of grammar trolls here.lol
Lots of bad grammar here “lol”
If you’re going to rip into people, don’t leave your statement open to criticism.
Or even better, don’t belittle people. It makes you look like a twat.
or simply talking down your nose at somebody at something petty like grammar makes you look a bully.as long as others understand what is being written then what does it matter?its not an exam piece that is going to be marked.next time you go too insult somebody because of their grammar then just stop and have a think as they could be dyslexic,not had the best of educations,not been encouraged with their education by parents or simply might just find things a little more difficult to do then others.
So much you could insult about the statement and sentiment rather than the grammar. Poor show guys and girls... Poor show
im just sticking up for those that often get spoken down at for petty reasons like grammer.why should i give my opinion on the statement made?all because you say so?if you go back over the posts then you will see that im not the one that first mentioned grammar.poor show my sister is dyslexic. I dont like pulling people on their spelling or grammar but he annoyed me with his comment so I lashed out at his spelling. Childish I know
He deserved it, his comment was utter nonsense. "
it really was x |
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"Why do women start their profile by saying things like no face no chat and have a profile photo of boobs? Not that boobs are off putting but it would be nice to see more people’s faces here "
So they can see if they fancy who is messaging... If you message women when you can only see their boobs then that is your decision... Only talking to someone they are attracted to is theirs. |
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Op, understand where you're coming from, it can seem unfair sometimes, but you must remember that the first rule of Fab forums is never, ever, criticise women. When you do, some women will gang up on you and try to take you down (eg, question your intelligence because the grammar's not up to their standards), and some men will come in to defend the women's honour (aka, attempting to look like a nice guy in order to get a meet).
If you want a really successful thread, start one about men who don't read profiles |
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By *jangoMan
over a year ago
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I seen a woman yesterday from this site. I wouldn'd go up to her and say (hey how you doing) with a wink and a cheesy grin on my face.
Animinity is really important, i messaged this woman, about a week ago, and had no reply. I'm still not going to be rude. I have a face pic in my friends only, and have sent a face pic, to a couple of people on here, because I've liked there profile, and thought why not...  |
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"Op, understand where you're coming from, it can seem unfair sometimes, but you must remember that the first rule of Fab forums is never, ever, criticise women. When you do, some women will gang up on you and try to take you down (eg, question your intelligence because the grammar's not up to their standards), and some men will come in to defend the women's honour (aka, attempting to look like a nice guy in order to get a meet).
If you want a really successful thread, start one about men who don't read profiles "
spot on.
(and im not just saying this to try and get a meet.lol) |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Also I don't think those profiles mean you have to have public face pics. Just ones you can send in a message.
It isn’t a case of public pics but more of a point I have to send mine for the woman to block me maybe if they showed a face I wouldn’t message in the first place. "
Don't send yours then. They aren't saying you have to message them, you're choosing to do it.
And for the record, there are loads of men who do this too. |
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"Op, understand where you're coming from, it can seem unfair sometimes, but you must remember that the first rule of Fab forums is never, ever, criticise women. When you do, some women will gang up on you and try to take you down (eg, question your intelligence because the grammar's not up to their standards), and some men will come in to defend the women's honour (aka, attempting to look like a nice guy in order to get a meet).
If you want a really successful thread, start one about men who don't read profiles "
If I cared about my spelling and grammar I would have joined Mensa instead of FAB. I have thick skin and take criticism well. The question was answered as far as I am concerned in the first few messages. I can honestly say I haven’t read the middle part.
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"Op, understand where you're coming from, it can seem unfair sometimes, but you must remember that the first rule of Fab forums is never, ever, criticise women. When you do, some women will gang up on you and try to take you down (eg, question your intelligence because the grammar's not up to their standards), and some men will come in to defend the women's honour (aka, attempting to look like a nice guy in order to get a meet).
If you want a really successful thread, start one about men who don't read profiles "
I have started another thread asking that question. |
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"Op, understand where you're coming from, it can seem unfair sometimes, but you must remember that the first rule of Fab forums is never, ever, criticise women. When you do, some women will gang up on you and try to take you down (eg, question your intelligence because the grammar's not up to their standards), and some men will come in to defend the women's honour (aka, attempting to look like a nice guy in order to get a meet).
If you want a really successful thread, start one about men who don't read profiles
I have started another thread asking that question. "
Men who don't read profiles are the worst though.
Closely followed by men who message us assuming it's the female who is online and not the couple.
It's so frustrating saying over and over and over again that both are online not just the female. |
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"Why are you bothered? Just avoid those profiles if you dont wish to inseract with them.
If that’s the case then I wouldn’t interact with any ladies as none within 50 miles of where I live show faces in their profiles. "
I think thats their business and choice. |
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