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By *impsons3 OP Man
over a year ago
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So you have gone through life always considering yourself straight, now into your 50’s and all of a sudden your mind starts to explore other scenario’s. Has anyone had experience of exploring that bi-curious side of themselves and any advice on how best to go about it |
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over a year ago
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I had my first proper bi experience just over a year ago. I kept thinking about it until in the end I,just had to do it. Gave a guy a bj and then let him fuck me. I dont find guys attractive but I do enjoy the sex.
I joined the other fab site and have had a few hook ups since. |
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My first time I was real nervous.I would meet older guys hoping they would understand my lack of experience.
The guy I first went with couldn't have been better.Very understanding and took things real slow. I loved it. I'm sure you will to. |
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recently found my bi side.had a few brief encounters a few years ago at clubs but nothing heavy.a cple of weks ago we met an experienced bi guy who we clicked with.i got my first full on guy/guy whils mrs sat back and watched it unfold.got to say i enjoyed it very much
.done strap on fun before but the feeling of a guy inside me was totally different.she enjoyed watching and then joining in which for me just made it all the better .i would advise a bi club night to start with .oh and plenty of lube |
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Yep got to 54 and had to try my bi side I don't find men attractive but when they dress as women boy it turns me on so met s TV have a great blow job put his cock in my mouth a first for me mmm could not take it any more bent her over and rimmed that hole good and proper then fucked that tight hole cumming in it boy it was good now I'm bi want to do it more and more would love a regular meet with one |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
Bristol East |
"So you have gone through life always considering yourself straight, now into your 50’s and all of a sudden your mind starts to explore other scenario’s. Has anyone had experience of exploring that bi-curious side of themselves and any advice on how best to go about it"
I was into my 30s before I seriously got the idea of being with a man.
I hummed and hawed with myself for ages, wondering.
Then decided nothing ventured, nothing gained.
I have not been with a woman since.
My advice is try anything once.
If you like it, do it again. If you don't, don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am coming from the other way, been gay nearly whole life (never had hang ups about it, fully accepted) but last 6 months suddenly became bicurious for women to my surprise.
I have not acted on it yet but had few offers on here. Think a good way is to do bi MMF, to have the gender you normally like to get you going then when horned up to experiment with the gender you dont usually do.
I think one-on-one may be a but full on for newly bicurious people, bi MMF seems a good start to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if your ever my way , bi mmf sounds awesome;)
"I am coming from the other way, been gay nearly whole life (never had hang ups about it, fully accepted) but last 6 months suddenly became bicurious for women to my surprise.
I have not acted on it yet but had few offers on here. Think a good way is to do bi MMF, to have the gender you normally like to get you going then when horned up to experiment with the gender you dont usually do.
I think one-on-one may be a but full on for newly bicurious people, bi MMF seems a good start to me "
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
There’s something or somebody out there for everyone. I’ve developed a liking for bi guys - some I meet don’t want to call themselves bi or even bi curious but I’ve enjoyed meeting them whatever they call themselves. Many bi guys seem to like the attention that guys give them and obviously there are differences in the way a guy sucks, wanks and touches another guy. It’s not better or worse necessarily - just different. If any guy wants to try stuff out then just do it - find an understanding and sympathetic guy, set limits and just do it! You may like it and want to do it again or it may not be for you - you don’t know until you give it a go! And remember you only live once! |
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By *hill44Man
over a year ago
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"So you have gone through life always considering yourself straight, now into your 50’s and all of a sudden your mind starts to explore other scenario’s. Has anyone had experience of exploring that bi-curious side of themselves and any advice on how best to go about it"
If it makes you happy go for it enjoy it life's to short have fun while you can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on Fabguys and explore privately?
Go to a gay sex club. Mooch about.. you dont have to partake.
Attempt to find a relaxed bi couple who arent overly demanding and have set expectations to meet (good luck with that one).
Start sending messages to those who interest you.
It's really very simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never considered it till about year 18 months ago and became curious. Eventually went on Fabguys and met someone on there who was very understanding of me being new and eventually met up. Tried mutual wanking and oral and now realise I like it.
Fabguys is your best bet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am coming from the other way, been gay nearly whole life (never had hang ups about it, fully accepted) but last 6 months suddenly became bicurious for women to my surprise.
I have not acted on it yet but had few offers on here. Think a good way is to do bi MMF, to have the gender you normally like to get you going then when horned up to experiment with the gender you dont usually do.
I think one-on-one may be a but full on for newly bicurious people, bi MMF seems a good start to me "
Totally agree x |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"I'd never considered it till about year 18 months ago and became curious. Eventually went on Fabguys and met someone on there who was very understanding of me being new and eventually met up. Tried mutual wanking and oral and now realise I like it.
Fabguys is your best bet."
As long as you meet an understanding, patient and sympathetic guy. It doesn’t matter if it’s M, MF or whatever combination, if they’re not patient and understanding you can be put off |
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as a gay male all my life
iv always has a thing for straight guys
and iv met so many so-called
very horny when they do meet easy to get on with and most say they just need to try it some of my best meets and friends made open to more |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"I am coming from the other way, been gay nearly whole life (never had hang ups about it, fully accepted) but last 6 months suddenly became bicurious for women to my surprise.
I have not acted on it yet but had few offers on here. Think a good way is to do bi MMF, to have the gender you normally like to get you going then when horned up to experiment with the gender you dont usually do.
I think one-on-one may be a but full on for newly bicurious people, bi MMF seems a good start to me
Totally agree x"
It doesn’t matter who it is - if they haven’t got the patience and understanding it won’t work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd never considered it till about year 18 months ago and became curious. Eventually went on Fabguys and met someone on there who was very understanding of me being new and eventually met up. Tried mutual wanking and oral and now realise I like it.
Fabguys is your best bet.
As long as you meet an understanding, patient and sympathetic guy. It doesn’t matter if it’s M, MF or whatever combination, if they’re not patient and understanding you can be put off "
I agree with you, just found trying to meet a couple with bi male on here without any verifications regards bi experience is very difficult. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"If you contact someone who is kind and sympathetic go for it - good verifications are important too
Spot on "
I’ve had experiences with people who are tough as old boots and couldn’t care less about you as an individual and only about what you do to satisfy their cravings - totally self obsessed and self centred - needless to say you should avoid them at all costs |
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"I had my first proper bi experience just over a year ago. I kept thinking about it until in the end I,just had to do it. Gave a guy a bj and then let him fuck me. I dont find guys attractive but I do enjoy the sex.
I joined the other fab site and have had a few hook ups since. "
Completely agree with this.
I don’t find guys attractive but really, and I mean really enjoy the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thought I was bi for a couple of years and finally took the plunge a couple of months ago. I had a couple of meets and found I really loved wanking a guy and sucking him off, apparently I’m a natural lol.
I recently got rimmed and fucked for the first time and although getting him in was a bit painful once he was I loved the feel of him pounding away.
I was spoken to a lot of bi curious guys on here around my age and most of us are married and exploring secretly so fun times ahead  |
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"So you have gone through life always considering yourself straight, now into your 50’s and all of a sudden your mind starts to explore other scenario’s. Has anyone had experience of exploring that bi-curious side of themselves and any advice on how best to go about it"
This is the 21st century, a little bit of same gender hanky panky is perfectly ok, go for it, if you like if all well and good, if you don't then fine, no shame either way. Personally I was never curious, always knew where I stood. |
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Attempt to find a relaxed bi couple who arent overly demanding and have set expectations to meet (good luck with that one)."
There are some of us out here  . Although I think we were guilty of setting out conditions when we started, we’ve come realise that chemistry, connection etc are so much more important than specific acts - if you know what I mean. We absolutely adore bi play where all are equally important. Hope you find the right couple to start your journey. Jessy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Himself started to show interest a few years ago. Post 50.
We have had a few experiences as a mmff or mmf etc.
He has arranged a meet with a patient bi guy but family and work caused both to be cancelled.
But. Fingers crossed he will meet this great guy soon. After that. I’m joining them on another session and the guys beautiful partner.
I find it exciting to say the least. |
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I always considered myself straight , until in a mmff the guy wanked and sucked me as the ladies played , so horny never looked back , love a bi mmf noe and a nice hard cock to indulge with go for it , bi club nights are a great day to start exploring |
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