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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious as to people's thoughts on here about people who may be inexperienced sexually or virgins would you meet them still or would it be a hard no? |
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In a club I may play with a guy with no experience with a Tgirl, as it probably wouldn't last long and it wouldn't ruin my night, that would include a virgin.
However no chance for a one to one meet its why I prefer Bi Guys as they know what they're doing and how they'll feel afterwards. As you can see from the first two replies this site not the place for a virgin unfortunately  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious as to people's thoughts on here about people who may be inexperienced sexually or virgins would you meet them still or would it be a hard no? "
if they are virgins then they cant possibly be swingers so it's a no from us.
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I'm sure that there will be a minority happy to meet a virgin or someone with very little experience.
However, most are looking for those with more experience as would be concerned that they may be expected to be a teacher.
I wouldn't meet a virgin man but would meet a virgin lady or one with little or no experience with other ladies.
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This is our point of view. We wouldn’t be too fussed about somebody being inexperienced but we don’t think it’s the best way to lose your virginity and wouldn’t want that person to regret anything later on in life x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define experienced"
Good question 
I would meet a virgin, if she was my type. I'm not going to lie, I don't think of myself as a very experienced man at sex.. However it isn't rocket science lol.
If two people get on well, then it's going to be fun regardless of how many sexual Partners they have had in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious as to people's thoughts on here about people who may be inexperienced sexually or virgins would you meet them still or would it be a hard no? "
I can relate to this from both side to a degree. Guys love that I’m experienced, I know what I want, what I like and how to do it.
Women are put off by me having no experience and there is always a worry I won’t satisfy them.
Personally the best advice I can give is don’t focus on the sex, focus on the connection between two people, but up some flirtation and chemistry. A connection always leads to better bedroom ballet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. And what they expect from using this side, evades me. If they have spare time they should try to meet people the usual way. Here, it will be harder and not easier. "
Agree totally.
In all honesty, what do they have to offer? |
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I can imagine a woman/gay chap meeting a Male virgin would potentially be less than ideal (I remember my first clumsy attempts well, from a swinging point of view I can't imagine that being particularly satisfying unless it's your kink)
Back when I was young, handsome, and vaguely attractive to the opposite sex however, I slept with two or three young ladies who were virgins. (Not all at the same time, I hasten to add) To be honest, any 'inexperience' was more than made up for with enthusiasm. That sheer excitement, thrill, the FRENZY of doing it for the first time and being really really into it... you just can't recreate that. They may not know any 'tricks' just yet, but the sheer electricity of the situation is unbeatable.
The ethical question of your first time being a meet on Fab is a much more complex question, but if you're asking if I'd be put off simply by inexperience, than the answer is a decided no. Definitely not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A no from me. I prefer a man who knows how to handle a woman! Also my time is limited so I wouldn't want to risk meeting someone with no experience. "
Agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious as to people's thoughts on here about people who may be inexperienced sexually or virgins would you meet them still or would it be a hard no? "
It would be a no from me. My time is limited so I'd rather spend time with those who know what they're doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious as to people's thoughts on here about people who may be inexperienced sexually or virgins would you meet them still or would it be a hard no? "
you can't win whatever you are here but would imagine in forums they will all want experience because we are all experienced and a phrase that gets banded a lot ' quality over quantity ' comes to mind they've had quantity now they want quality and not Street although some want that as well, hope this helps, good luck  |
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I am relatively inexperienced when it comes to swinging/sex and therefore I would prefer an experienced and dominant man who will lead the way and do what he want.
I have met, few years ago, an equally inexperienced man (he said so) and we ended up kissing and kissing and kept asking each other, what to do next. Awkward.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How much experience do you women need?
We guess a decent amount would be good. Don't you??
Yes define a decent amount then? "
We guess a lot more than a virgin has! ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have no qualms with virgins of any gender in the wild but on fab it's the opposite of what I'm after. Without wanting to gatekeep, I'd also suggest to any virgins seeking excitement that fab isn't the place to do it, unless you're prepared to head to clubs or socials. |
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By *hezuMan
over a year ago
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"I am married but don’t have much experience due to the size of my penis"
Grats on the marriage did she know the size beforehand and if she did why don't you get more experience with her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How much experience do you women need?
We guess a decent amount would be good. Don't you??
Yes define a decent amount then? "
It's not only about the performance. It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body language. I find this is lacking the most in less experienced folk. It can feel like being with a bull in a china shop where they think the hard bang is all that's needed and will do the job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The bigger concern with a virgin on here has not been mentioned, at least not directly, by I would be concerned that if I were their "first" they would think there was some kind of bond and could read far more into it than just sex. |
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"I am married but don’t have much experience due to the size of my penis
Grats on the marriage did she know the size beforehand and if she did why don't you get more experience with her"
How about her needs too? Had she experienced a big cock? It would be hot if you two were in it together knowing you both are sexually happy. I’ve been in a similar situation and the sex me and my partner had after a naughty night was amazing.   |
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Back on subject though...
In my opinion, what a sad way to loose your virginity. I couldn’t do it to a lad.
In experience can sometimes be a good thing as I can be in control, to make it better and maybe he would learn something new that could work for another woman. I’ve taught a few men how to make me squirt. They have kept in touch and are grateful I did.
However going the other way I’m not a fan of someone who has the provardo that they have slept with tons of women, thinks they know what they are doing, and in reality they really don’t.
So for me, it’s somewhere in between somewhat experienced (where they have slept with a handful of women in the ‘Vanilla’ world and a experienced swinger (who isn’t full of himself).
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"I am married but don’t have much experience due to the size of my penis
Well, someone has married you and you are repaying her by cheating?"
I agree. She’s married a guy with a tiny dick and you’re going to cheat on her!! If I was her, I’d go out and find myself a monster dick to enjoy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am married but don’t have much experience due to the size of my penis
Well, someone has married you and you are repaying her by cheating?
I agree. She’s married a guy with a tiny dick and you’re going to cheat on her!! If I was her, I’d go out and find myself a monster dick to enjoy. "
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"Just curious as to people's thoughts on here about people who may be inexperienced sexually or virgins would you meet them still or would it be a hard no?
I can relate to this from both side to a degree. Guys love that I’m experienced, I know what I want, what I like and how to do it.
Women are put off by me having no experience and there is always a worry I won’t satisfy them.
Personally the best advice I can give is don’t focus on the sex, focus on the connection between two people, but up some flirtation and chemistry. A connection always leads to better bedroom ballet. "
Or they could be nervous it's new for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How much experience do you women need?
We guess a decent amount would be good. Don't you??
Yes define a decent amount then?
We guess a lot more than a virgin has! !"
Well that could be anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am married but don’t have much experience due to the size of my penis
Well, someone has married you and you are repaying her by cheating?
I agree. She’s married a guy with a tiny dick and you’re going to cheat on her!! If I was her, I’d go out and find myself a monster dick to enjoy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A solid no from me.
I’m old fashioned and believe your first time should be meaningful, rather than just doing it for the sake of doing it.
And for the inexperience, I’m not here to teach anyone. And I’m pretty inexperienced myself. So I’d go for experience every time  |
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