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Is it possible to take a shy woman and encourage her to see others?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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im Looking to encourage a woman I know to cuck her man...he’s interested but has confessed he has know idea where to start. He’s the one who approached me for advice..?
I have no experience in this so came to ask here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im Looking to encourage a woman I know to cuck her man...he’s interested but has confessed he has know idea where to start. He’s the one who approached me for advice..?
I have no experience in this so came to ask here? "
Find out if she's interested in such a change - you're dealing with another persons life, lifestyle and major consent issues. The word 'encourage' seems a bit seedy and controlling in the context you've used it, especially as you're in cahoots with her husband.
Consent, consent, consent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think putting on some porn... If they do that together, that shows that scenario might be a good place to start.
But he shouldn't jump right in and suggest it after watching it once, gauge her reactions after a few viewings... But then she may not even want to watch porn, I don't know their relationship, its just one idea |
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He, and only he, should talk to her. Does she want to? What are her feelings on the matter? What might her limits or ground rules be, and can they be reconciled with what he wants? How would she feel comfortable?
Too often people seem to think women are shy rather than not being interested. |
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"im Looking to encourage a woman I know to cuck her man...he’s interested but has confessed he has know idea where to start. He’s the one who approached me for advice..?
I have no experience in this so came to ask here?
Find out if she's interested in such a change - you're dealing with another persons life, lifestyle and major consent issues. The word 'encourage' seems a bit seedy and controlling in the context you've used it, especially as you're in cahoots with her husband.
Consent, consent, consent."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m ending this here.. I was never going to be involved.
As stated my choice of words were incorrect and clearly have people thinking I’m sort of twat.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m ending this here.. I was never going to be involved.
As stated my choice of words were incorrect and clearly have people thinking I’m sort of twat.
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Has her partner ever spoken to her about it? Are you also her friend or just his?
If you can give more info that might help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm really shy, it took me a year to start getting my head around it. It started with a couple of d*unken threesomes with friends. It took a lot of conversations to even get to that point. We had a year break after the threesomes and now we've found this site and we've started exploring a bit more. It can be really overwhelming at times. I've been on here for about a month and have had to hide my account as I need a break from it all. It just takes patience, understanding and you have to be respectful of any boundaries. Don't be too pushy and take your time with it. But really it's him that should be talking to her about this. If a mutual friend of ours approached me with something like that there would be no chance of it happening! Sorry for the Long message, hope it makes sense  |
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