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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just a question about sent messages i understand that a deleted message is a very clear "not interested" but is there anything in a message that has been read and not deleted or am i just reading between the lines too much! Is it as simple as people will reply if interested? just getting used to how things run on here
any input would be appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just a question about sent messages i understand that a deleted message is a very clear "not interested" but is there anything in a message that has been read and not deleted or am i just reading between the lines too much! Is it as simple as people will reply if interested? just getting used to how things run on here
any input would be appreciated"
It's best to not look at the status of sent messages, you'll send yourself doo-lally lol!
The inbox is your best bet 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just a question about sent messages i understand that a deleted message is a very clear "not interested" but is there anything in a message that has been read and not deleted or am i just reading between the lines too much! Is it as simple as people will reply if interested? just getting used to how things run on here
any input would be appreciated"
If I don't delete I may get back to someone. If I get the you didn't delete pester message then it puts me off.
Mail then leave a few weeks minimum I would advise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I've not deleted I've either not had chance to reply or I'm on the fence and want to take some time to decide. Sending me another message just makes me delete both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I've not deleted I've either not had chance to reply or I'm on the fence and want to take some time to decide. Sending me another message just makes me delete both. "
same |
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"just a question about sent messages i understand that a deleted message is a very clear "not interested" but is there anything in a message that has been read and not deleted or am i just reading between the lines too much! Is it as simple as people will reply if interested? just getting used to how things run on here
any input would be appreciated"
I'd send you some advice in private but you have blocked single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...no-thanks thats easy enough to work out, if its a deleted mail....try again in a good amount of time(of course they might have a meettoday thing on...chance ur arm), a read mail.....is not different to a deleted mail.
And when i get mail that sounds promising particularly from a couple..I wait till Ive acknowledged its not just the male half thinking this will be great,getting my wife/gf/fb fucked.Often wonder if this is the case for many no-shows from cpls!- I'd like the female half to know if she thinks shes gonna like me, before Ive set foot anywhere near them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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any messages to my couple profile will be read by either me or the oh first, but may take a day or so for both of us to get around to reading it, discussing and replying.
Its possible that the other half of the couple is away and so no answer will be given until they are home??
*and yes ive just assumed ur talking about messaging couples*  |
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Hmmmmm, see now I delete anything that's either outside my age criteria or hasn't sent a pic immediately.
The ones that are withon my criteria and have sent a pic, just not for me, I save with every intention of replying but.....the best intentions and all that. Sometimes I then just mass delete after a few weeks.
It's harsh, but I would say, deleted or not, usually if you've sparked interest, you'll get a reply pretty much immediately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't read much into it. That being said, I sent a message the other day that wasn't deleted, but later realised they blocked me! Don't think I said anything offensive...don't have it in me!
Anyway, no offense taken (in case they read this ) |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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I reply to mail fairly quickly. Opened mail just sits there until I get round to doing a big delete.
But sometimes I leave it there on purpose to wind someone up, and then I see how many times in an hour they check my profile    |
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