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By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago
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Does any one else have this. I met a single male a long time ago and he has not left me alone i have blocked him and he created another profile and had my phone number. He is now asking me to arrange meets for him with people me and Sir have met as a couple as he isnt having any luck on here himself and just keeps saying but im a nice guy and as a friend maybe you would help me out. I have blocked him again now as its getting silly but has anyone else had this problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had this a couple of times.
Doesn't offend me that they asked but I would never play the middle man, cos if they end up thinking he's a douche then it falls back on us for setting them up.
Tell him nice guys don't message people after they have been blocked by them, so be nice and bott off!
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"We've had this a couple of times.
Doesn't offend me that they asked but I would never play the middle man, cos if they end up thinking he's a douche then it falls back on us for setting them up.
Tell him nice guys don't message people after they have been blocked by them, so be nice and bott off!
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I agree with this. It's out of order for him to be doing this, so don't feel guilty about not going along with his requests. You may have to be quite blunt! |
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Very bad form, after getting blocked by you, they shouldn't even be messaging etc. I'd report the profile to admin, to let them know about potential multiples, as well as such behaviour. It's then their call, as at least they know, and can assimilate all information, potentially from other people too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah we had someone trying to get us to arrange meets with someone else and going down our veris and approaching the someone elses without our backing. We're not keen on stepping-stoning and we just don't have anything to do with them anymore, and we took the veri list off to make sure it doesn't happen again. Who we meet is our business alone now.
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does any one else have this. I met a single male a long time ago and he has not left me alone i have blocked him and he created another profile and had my phone number. He is now asking me to arrange meets for him with people me and Sir have met as a couple as he isnt having any luck on here himself and just keeps saying but im a nice guy and as a friend maybe you would help me out. I have blocked him again now as its getting silly but has anyone else had this problem"
no never had that
but i can see why hes not having any luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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quite sad trying piggy back off someones profile to get a meet for yourself.If you cant get a meet just accept it that is the swinging world sometimes you win some and lose some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had similar issues - people messaging friends saying I'd told them to, people contacting those on my veri's saying they know me etc. I'll never play middle man - although if asked for an opinion by someone I've met I'll give an honest one - emphasising if course that its just my opinion. At the end of the day just cos I get on with someone doesn't mean anyone else will.
And if anyone's cheeky enough to use me as a reference without asking first - whether I think they're great or a twat - I'll deny ever having laid eyes on them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no,
but i have had people i have met trying to fix me up with people they have previously met "
Had something similar - the female of a couple I'd been chatting to, who split before we actually met, gave my details to a single male on here and told him personal info such as what I do for a living. It was meant in a contact her you'll get on well way but I didn't appreciate it. |
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By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago
oldbury |
Thanks everyone I had someone using my friends list and verifies in the past but this guy is going further I have told him its not on and if he was a nice guy he wouldn't be bugging me when I have politly declined him he even messaged my joint profile asking why we don't look to him when looking for meets does he not get the hint grrrrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone I had someone using my friends list and verifies in the past but this guy is going further I have told him its not on and if he was a nice guy he wouldn't be bugging me when I have politly declined him he even messaged my joint profile asking why we don't look to him when looking for meets does he not get the hint grrrrr"
We had one like this, we tried to be as nice as possible that we weren't interested in a repeat but he kept trying to change our mind, first saying that he would take us away for a weekend, then offering lifts to and from clubs, then saying he would buy us things. I politely declined each offer but they kept coming, when he offered us cash I had to be extra blunt and told him even a million quid wouldn't have us go there again and blocked him.
It's awful when people do this, you want to be polite because you've met them and obviously liked them enough to go there, no-one wants to bruise anyones ego but they leave you with no choice sometimes. |
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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago
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"Yeah we had someone trying to get us to arrange meets with someone else and going down our veris and approaching the someone elses without our backing. We're not keen on stepping-stoning and we just don't have anything to do with them anymore, and we took the veri list off to make sure it doesn't happen again. Who we meet is our business alone now.
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive suggested my friends have a look at other friends Ive met, who I know are up for meets..
I like people to meet people i know and trust
when i know its appropriate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general no I wouldnt like that but if it hadnt been for a very nice cpl who had already met Jet and said to me how nice he was and that I should message him we wouldnt have met  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In general no I wouldnt like that but if it hadnt been for a very nice cpl who had already met Jet and said to me how nice he was and that I should message him we wouldnt have met "
thats nice, u any hot pals anyway?? gives some numbers... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In general no I wouldnt like that but if it hadnt been for a very nice cpl who had already met Jet and said to me how nice he was and that I should message him we wouldnt have met
thats nice, u any hot pals anyway?? gives some numbers..."
 hang on will pm you .......not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In general no I wouldnt like that but if it hadnt been for a very nice cpl who had already met Jet and said to me how nice he was and that I should message him we wouldnt have met
thats nice, u any hot pals anyway?? gives some numbers...
hang on will pm you .......not "
their loss! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does any one else have this. I met a single male a long time ago and he has not left me alone i have blocked him and he created another profile and had my phone number. He is now asking me to arrange meets for him with people me and Sir have met as a couple as he isnt having any luck on here himself and just keeps saying but im a nice guy and as a friend maybe you would help me out. I have blocked him again now as its getting silly but has anyone else had this problem"
We haven't had this and would be a little annoyed if we were being asked to do this. A firm no and let him know he is more likely to alienate himself with people by being pushy. |
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