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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know dude ! But if you listen to them it is their preferences, no harm meant by that.... Unless that you as a human being you have feelings and I understand why it is painful to see that people do not even want to talk to you because of your skin colours.
Wait for the comment that will say move on |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I know dude ! But if you listen to them it is their preferences, no harm meant by that.... Unless that you as a human being you have feelings and I understand why it is painful to see that people do not even want to talk to you because of your skin colours.
Wait for the comment that will say move on "
Hey, I said move on 
But I do agree with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first real Swinging experience was with an Asian, and it was one of the most Unforgettable experience nces I've ever had. I adore Asians and have always been treated well by them. Arabic men totally do it for me but I have to say, I took it rough anally by a few Kurdish men xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every other is probably an exaggeration, everyone is entitled to put whatever preferences they want on their profile although statements like no Asians/beards/fattys will obviously offend! Maybe it would be politer to say I want Asians/bearded men/fattys rather than focusing on what we don’t want!! But that would mean people would actually have to read and take note on profile wants, this is never going to happen hence the I don’t want statements even if it doesn’t come across very nice  |
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It is an unfortunate side effect on putting ourselves on here that we are exposed to just not “floating someone’s boat”, whether we are fat or thin, tall or short, black or white.
As a single guy who already has vast amounts of competition to deal with it can be disheartening to find that some people’s preferences exclude you.
But OP there is no value in beating yourself up or letting this impact you in a negative way. In a strange way it’s a positive thing, in that people are confident in saying what they like and dislike in this liberated place, and you are part of this liberated place.
My advice, focus on the You, write the best profile you can, be honest, share pics that show you in your best light, engage respectfully and patiently. You won’t turn people from their choices, but you will impress others with your decorum, manners and behaviour and hopefully that will bear the fruit you desire. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
Well if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
Well if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
Well if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really |
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lolWell if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really "
Such a profound statement you had to make it twice.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lolWell if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really
Such a profound statement you had to make it twice...."
3 times |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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I think "every other profile" is exaggerating somewhat. And yes, this has already been mentioned on many previous threads before. Like people have already advised, concentrate on the profiles that do want to meet Asian guys rather than getting hung up about the ones that don't want to meet you. Your fab experience will be a much better one. Good luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My first real Swinging experience was with an Asian, and it was one of the most Unforgettable experience nces I've ever had. I adore Asians and have always been treated well by them. Arabic men totally do it for me but I have to say, I took it rough anally by a few Kurdish men xxx"
You are definitely My type of woman x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lolWell if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really
Such a profound statement you had to make it twice...."
yes don't know why that happens a lot on the train must be a signal thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh so lets see, I shall go have sex with every person I do not want to have sex with just to not cause any offence.
If someone doesn't want to have sex with Asian men then that is 100% their choice and they should never be embarrassed or feel bad about stating so. |
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
Just looked at your profile:
I’m outraged that you don’t want to have sex with other men or cd/tv...
How dare you exclude over 60% of the population on Fabs based purely on your own choice
Same shoe, different foot
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh so lets see, I shall go have sex with every person I do not want to have sex with just to not cause any offence.
If someone doesn't want to have sex with Asian men then that is 100% their choice and they should never be embarrassed or feel bad about stating so."
If someone is hurt by someone stating that due to their skin colour they won't have sex with them....they shouldn't feel bad about stating so |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Called focus of attention. If something is important to you your conscious awareness will focus on it.
A friend who had cancer once said, ‘it is everywhere, magazines, television, radio’. Actually it’s not, it wouldn’t sell the media.
People who object are usually to highly focused and not referencing reality.
That or playing a poor me race card, well from my perspective. |
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One of the things I do before replying to a thread is to green arrow the OP. If nothing else it helps me to see whether they are a new poster or not and then tailor my message.
OP welcome to the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh so lets see, I shall go have sex with every person I do not want to have sex with just to not cause any offence.
If someone doesn't want to have sex with Asian men then that is 100% their choice and they should never be embarrassed or feel bad about stating so."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
This is being replayed again??
Mentioned just a few times???.... |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol
Mine doesn't. 
Us too, however we are Spartacus!
You can be Spartacus.
I'm Batman. "
Damn, I’ve morphed into iron man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the 2019 FAB swingers most flogged to death subject award goes to........ "
The award goes to this old chestnut again!
Nothing to do with the very poor effort put into profiles.... |
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol
Mine doesn't.
Us too, however we are Spartacus!
You can be Spartacus.
I'm Batman.
Damn, I’ve morphed into iron man."
Is that a euphemism? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your hot, your in a club and you catch my eye.. I might and I have
All depends on your approach and personality.
I have my preferences just like anyone else on here. Have been quite vocal about them in the past. Not worth the hassle tbh.
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"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
I can honestly say that I've only seen four or five profiles saying No Asians.
I'd say just block people who are not interested in you and concentrate on people who might be.
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The idea of labeling a vast and varied group of people by using the term no asians is a broad as saying I won't meet any white europeans because I don't like Italians (just an example).
We have numerous winks/msgs off people who state no Asians but still contact us.
It just seems a bizzare situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no asians" can refer to half the world. Tej prefers white guys or cut greeks/turks but on the whole white guys we are "asian" its a preference
We alsoprefer, well i do the cock to be as large and hard as possible it turns me on Tej is to shy to admit it but i can tell she gets on better with a bigger cock
we prefer polite, clean, nice guys with a clean home
so it is preference
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The idea of labeling a vast and varied group of people by using the term no asians is a broad as saying I won't meet any white europeans because I don't like Italians (just an example).
We have numerous winks/msgs off people who state no Asians but still contact us.
It just seems a bizzare situation."
Exactly my point .
It's such a broad term used by some people here blatantly, giving it a nice term called "preferences"
We just block them and move on . Simple
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The idea of labeling a vast and varied group of people by using the term no asians is a broad as saying I won't meet any white europeans because I don't like Italians (just an example).
We have numerous winks/msgs off people who state no Asians but still contact us.
It just seems a bizzare situation.
Exactly my point .
It's such a broad term used by some people here blatantly, giving it a nice term called "preferences"
We just block them and move on . Simple
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Their loss |
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