Has anyone else lost their mojo and really struggled to get it back?? It has been years now, feel like a born again virgin! I keep thinking it has come back, get chatting, arrange to meet but then I bottle it. Fgs what wrong with me? How do I get it back? |
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over a year ago
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My mojo has completely vanished and I'm looking to kick-start it back into action. I'm normally very horny and sexual but lately my libido is more like a libidon't! All and any help desperately appreciated  |
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"Dose not sound like mojo more like a confidence issue don't put pressure on yourself only have social meets until it feels right"
You could be right. It probably is confidence now and the longer it goes on the less confidence I have |
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My mojo went for a walk a couple of months ago, think it took a wrong turn & got lost.
I just have no enthusiasm right now.
Don't know if it's Fab overload, but I look at new messages, profiles which normally I know would interest me, and I'm like "whatever" & hitting the delete button.
At a recent camping weekend, I was quite happy just walking round, people watching with absolutely no interest in anything being offered.
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Thanks for this thread OP!!! I started a similar thread like this a few weeks back.
Its defo a mojo free zone right now. Im just not arsed.
A small part of me knows i should try and make more effort. The whole smile and you’ll feel happier theory but nope. Im happier with biscuits and Netflix.
Do you just wait till you feel ready? Is it to do with being with the right person? |
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It is a mix of both for me lack of confidence and the lack of getting a meet has knock my MOJO massively. The shame is none of us should feel this way as we are all great and there is someone for everyone. |
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"Thanks for this thread OP!!! I started a similar thread like this a few weeks back.
Its defo a mojo free zone right now. Im just not arsed.
A small part of me knows i should try and make more effort. The whole smile and you’ll feel happier theory but nope. Im happier with biscuits and Netflix.
Do you just wait till you feel ready? Is it to do with being with the right person? "
Biscuits and Netflix.....yes!! I think I’ve maybe slipped into a rut where I’d rather get my comfies on, make a cuppa and watch tv after work than pamper, preen and get dolled up  |
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"Go for a social only at first. That's how i got back into sex meets, less pressure on yourself that way."
Oh I would, if I could.
And I think that's one of my problems.
The last 5 guys I've chatted with, in one way or another have all turned out to be timewasters.
Chatting away, all going well, plannibg a social & suddenly ghosted.
Social planned cancelled on day with dodgy excuse, or another, who told me on day, won't meet unless guaranteed we'll have sex
Sort of made me question myself, what I'm doing wrong. |
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over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Mine comes and goes at will it seems, 90% of the time it's AWOL but resurfaces now and then just to remind me it is there, and usually when I least expect it. It can also be coaxed out of its shell on occasion in the right circumstances, so haven't totally given up hope. |
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"Go for a social only at first. That's how i got back into sex meets, less pressure on yourself that way.
Oh I would, if I could.
And I think that's one of my problems.
The last 5 guys I've chatted with, in one way or another have all turned out to be timewasters.
Chatting away, all going well, plannibg a social & suddenly ghosted.
Social planned cancelled on day with dodgy excuse, or another, who told me on day, won't meet unless guaranteed we'll have sex
Sort of made me question myself, what I'm doing wrong. "
Nah they are just dreamers |
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"Go for a social only at first. That's how i got back into sex meets, less pressure on yourself that way.
Oh I would, if I could.
And I think that's one of my problems.
The last 5 guys I've chatted with, in one way or another have all turned out to be timewasters.
Chatting away, all going well, plannibg a social & suddenly ghosted.
Social planned cancelled on day with dodgy excuse, or another, who told me on day, won't meet unless guaranteed we'll have sex
Sort of made me question myself, what I'm doing wrong. "
Won't be you. A lot of guys know if they pretend to want what you want then you'll bother with them, i think they hope to convince you to have sex with them without the social somehow.
I've only had that once, where a guy agreed to a social then changed it to 'so when are we having sex'. I just told him we weren't and never met him. Been lucky that most guys are alright with going with what i want and all my veris are from social meets. |
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"Go for a social only at first. That's how i got back into sex meets, less pressure on yourself that way.
Oh I would, if I could.
And I think that's one of my problems.
The last 5 guys I've chatted with, in one way or another have all turned out to be timewasters.
Chatting away, all going well, plannibg a social & suddenly ghosted.
Social planned cancelled on day with dodgy excuse, or another, who told me on day, won't meet unless guaranteed we'll have sex
Sort of made me question myself, what I'm doing wrong.
Won't be you. A lot of guys know if they pretend to want what you want then you'll bother with them, i think they hope to convince you to have sex with them without the social somehow.
I've only had that once, where a guy agreed to a social then changed it to 'so when are we having sex'. I just told him we weren't and never met him. Been lucky that most guys are alright with going with what i want and all my veris are from social meets."
I always make it clear from the start, social no expectations. I don't do sex chat, not with someone I've not met.
Turned out this guy, when chatting with a group of friends, had done the same to 2 others, and had just started chatting to a 3rd friend & was using almost identical lines that our chat had started out as!
Just a game player
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