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Finding Lurve on Fab?
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By *Mabzero OP Man
over a year ago
Mid-Ulster |
I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab can be whatever you want it to be. People here are very diverse in their needs and wants and interests. If two single people have that level of chemistry and connection then why not?
Is it the place to specifically look? For me probably not but that's my personal choice. For others its as good a place as any other and good luck to them |
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts? "
You can find love anywhere
Fab isn’t a ‘dating’ site per say but meeting someone , having great sex and enjoying each other’s company can lead to more
I did that myself 4 years ago and still together
After all relationships often fail because of the sexual mismatch’s so maybe building a relationship from the sex could be the great way to start one   |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
I met my husband on whisper. I'd given up but he found me. Love will find you when you stop looking and why does it matter if you find love on here? If you're both happy surely that's all that matters, especially if you both wish to continue being on here. Makes it far easier than the, "erm I like fucking other people" conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts? "
You are very naive to think that. Why can’t people find a life partner here. I only meet for dates in the same way I meet people on dating sites. I want to meet a sexually likeminded person and why can’t I meet them here? Many men treat this place as instashag but many also want much more than that. I avoid the fuck boys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not? At least you have been honest about sexual preferences up front. Beats hiding it and if you find a connection from there that’s great.....surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 16/07/19 23:44:59]"
Feck its past my bedtime, there were a lot of spelling errors in that.
Here's what I meant to say...
Ah but the crafty bugger sneaks up on you when you're not looking! Or blocks your way into a M&G 
Anything that brings people together can result in relationships forming.
Some people do use fab as a dating site & more power to them. There's more of a chance of meeting someone with the same mindset  |
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts?
You can find love anywhere
Fab isn’t a ‘dating’ site per say but meeting someone , having great sex and enjoying each other’s company can lead to more
I did that myself 4 years ago and still together
After all relationships often fail because of the sexual mismatch’s so maybe building a relationship from the sex could be the great way to start one "
Too serious, go back to your tennis anecdotes 
Ps not stalking you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts? "
Dating sites are treated as sex sites by most of the men on them. X |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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You can meet anyone anywhere and build up a connection regardless On here there are a lot of folk including me who get to know people really well without the sexi times , you know that time when the urge to jump thier bones day and night slowly drifts away and it becomes more than just sex. O what the hell do I know. I’m just a big softy who’s weak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually think fab is a good place to find a partner. I think people seem more honest on here when it comes to sex. If you're into swinging and want a relationship that involves playing it's very easy to bring it up in conversation and find similar people. I have seen quite a few couples around and I don't doubt their love at all just because they met on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts? "
F that shit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts? "
How should close intimate meaningful contact not have the potential to turn into love, that's what it's all about, that's how it happens  |
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As a ‘hopeful romantic ‘ I’d like to think it’s possible on here, just like other dating sites.
Mind you, I’ve a chequered history there also. Perhaps we all want too much ? Can older people fall in love? So many state “looking for the spark”, surely that’s only for the young where hormones kick in and takeover.
I’ve met and dated some lovely women in recent years, we get on well and the sex is great, but I wouldn’t want to live with them 24/7, it then comes to an end as I won’t commit. Having a shared interest in great sex is as good a starting point as any, better than most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told a single friend of mine to try this site a couple of years ago. She was only on the site a short while and she met someone. As far as I’m aware they have both taken their profiles off the site (she definitely has anyway). But 2 years later they seem very much in love. |
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts? "
Personally I think when two people are in the same head space emotionally and are attracted to each other then yeah - they can fall in love anywhere - even here!
I met a guy a few weeks ago (far too early to know whether it’s ‘true love’ or not!). Apparently he messaged me 3 years ago but I didn’t respond. Frankly I’m glad I didn’t. At that time neither of us was ready for any kind of relationship so it would just’ve been a shag!
Now? It might just turn out to be a little bit special! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts?
Personally I think when two people are in the same head space emotionally and are attracted to each other then yeah - they can fall in love anywhere - even here!
I met a guy a few weeks ago (far too early to know whether it’s ‘true love’ or not!). Apparently he messaged me 3 years ago but I didn’t respond. Frankly I’m glad I didn’t. At that time neither of us was ready for any kind of relationship so it would just’ve been a shag!
Now? It might just turn out to be a little bit special! "
awwww and I thought you wanted me....... Gutted |
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We weren't looking but it found us. It can and does happen! What started as a meet has turned into a permanent live together one!
It also has several advantages, not least that you know you're sexually compatible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wasn't looking for it here either. Just had a great connection and loads of similar interests that it lead to us eventually just seeing another and then it developing into an actual relationship  |
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"I see someone indicating they've found "the one" on here, on Fab. After a very short time on the site, too.
I'm a little cynical, think it's naïve to treat Fab as a dating site.
What are your thoughts? "
Some may treat Fab as a dating site. Most don't
To assume things about people you know nothing about is more naive.
But as for finding love on here.
Of course it can happen here.
Love isn't something you can plan, pick & choose.
People meet, a connection is formed, love blossoms.
Love can happen in the most unlikely places, at the most unlikely times.
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There are no "shoulds" in life or on fab. Fab is a for people who want to develop a swinging relationship,.. Sometimes love happens in this relationships. Never turn your back on love. It's in short supply sometimes. |
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