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Has it happened to anyone else?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was swapping emails with a lady a couple of weeks and she was keen for a meet. I'd sent my face pics and all was good. I asked for hers and didnt hear anything for a day or two so I clicked on her profile and I was blocked. I hadnt been rude or pushy in my messages. Exactly the same has happened with two couples in the last week. I'm baffled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was swapping emails with a lady a couple of weeks and she was keen for a meet. I'd sent my face pics and all was good. I asked for hers and didnt hear anything for a day or two so I clicked on her profile and I was blocked. I hadnt been rude or pushy in my messages. Exactly the same has happened with two couples in the last week. I'm baffled."
Yes, this had happened to us. We sent face pics, they obviously thought "not for us" and decided not to continue communicating ....we have since 'got over it' 
Seriously OP, don't give it a second thought. It happens, brush yourself down and carry on looking for the positives  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I have noticed manners are at a premium with some people on here. However, others are perfectly nice and let you down gently.
Just the same as real life really. Ho hum. Not been blocked yet though. Just a sudden break in communications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You were probably talking to another single male. 
Thats a disturbing thought , not funny 
yes.... but very possible!"
Which is why I like to swap numbers for a phone chat quite early to eliminate that doubt .
You can be seen as being pushy with this method , catch 22 situation ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies. Each time i'd sent my face and after each we still exchanged 5 or 6 more messages. The couple yesterday were even going to send there address and phone number for a meet on wednesday night. They kept saying they couldnt work out how to post pictures. Its when i said i really wanted to see pics to see who i'd be meeting they blocked me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the replies. Each time i'd sent my face and after each we still exchanged 5 or 6 more messages. The couple yesterday were even going to send there address and phone number for a meet on wednesday night. They kept saying they couldnt work out how to post pictures. Its when i said i really wanted to see pics to see who i'd be meeting they blocked me. "
It's soooooo easy to upload or send pics on here that I don't buy that. I suspect they were fake. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I was swapping emails with a lady a couple of weeks and she was keen for a meet. I'd sent my face pics and all was good. I asked for hers and didnt hear anything for a day or two so I clicked on her profile and I was blocked. I hadnt been rude or pushy in my messages. Exactly the same has happened with two couples in the last week. I'm baffled.
Yes, this had happened to us. We sent face pics, they obviously thought "not for us" and decided not to continue communicating ....we have since 'got over it'
Seriously OP, don't give it a second thought. It happens, brush yourself down and carry on looking for the positives "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the replies. Each time i'd sent my face and after each we still exchanged 5 or 6 more messages. The couple yesterday were even going to send there address and phone number for a meet on wednesday night. They kept saying they couldnt work out how to post pictures. Its when i said i really wanted to see pics to see who i'd be meeting they blocked me. "
how early did you ask for a meet, the same day? within how many messages in were you bringing up the subject, you might be being too pushy, talking back dont always mean your in there, and sometimes people wanna chat for a few days or so and get a feel of the person and see how they are before even approaching the subject
think about how many people are leading in asking for a meet within the first half dozen messages,
they might see your pics think well that nice, enjoy a message or two and think ok so he seems like he different,
then your thinking ok these are game they still talking to me and push for a meet before they are ready to even talk about that then they think ah guess he wasnt different than the rest after all and they move on to someone new! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the time .... my face isn't my strongest point!
Maybe if you took the sunglasses off so we could see your purdy eyes.... "
You're assuming that I have eyes under them!
Seriously though, what op said has happened to me quite a few times, and I can only assume its because of one thing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Stockton. It was actually them who asked me when I could meet them and they gave me some days. It was agreed which day but when i said it would be nice to see pics before i went over thats when i was blocked. Anyway, just gotta live with it. Chatting to some people who do seem genuine. |
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"Thanks for the replies. Each time i'd sent my face and after each we still exchanged 5 or 6 more messages. The couple yesterday were even going to send there address and phone number for a meet on wednesday night. They kept saying they couldnt work out how to post pictures. Its when i said i really wanted to see pics to see who i'd be meeting they blocked me. "
ah the old 'dont know how to / cant upload due to new pc / phone etc etc etc'
thats screams sad loser tbh, be they male, fem or cpl.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You were probably talking to another single male.
Thats a disturbing thought , not funny
yes.... but very possible!
Which is why I like to swap numbers for a phone chat quite early to eliminate that doubt .
You can be seen as being pushy with this method , catch 22 situation ? "
well dont ask for a number until you have a meet agreed then you wont seem pushy! if they wont give one after the meet is arranged then yeh thats a warning bell |
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"Thanks for the replies. Each time i'd sent my face and after each we still exchanged 5 or 6 more messages. The couple yesterday were even going to send there address and phone number for a meet on wednesday night. They kept saying they couldnt work out how to post pictures. Its when i said i really wanted to see pics to see who i'd be meeting they blocked me.
ah the old 'dont know how to / cant upload due to new pc / phone etc etc etc'
thats screams sad loser tbh, be they male, fem or cpl.."
Actually Ive met a very nice couple who had been on here a year no veris, no pics and they made first contact. Yes I wondered if they would turn up for the social meet we had arranged - but they did and genuinely didn't know how to load pics - so I showed them, Just goes to show we should never make assumptions about people |
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