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I see a few profiles of younger girls looking for daddies. I’m trying to understand the kink. Is it a kink? Or are they just wanted someone who’s going to lavish them with gifts and money and give nothing back?
Or am I looking at all this wrong?  |
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If you have to "understand" then step away from the Daddy!
It's not younger girls. Its not insest, it can be age play, but 99% not. Its not sugar Daddy. It is kink, it's a sub catogory of a Dom.
This thread will be closed quicker than you can say little girl. |
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"If you have to "understand" then step away from the Daddy!
It's not younger girls. Its not insest, it can be age play, but 99% not. Its not sugar Daddy. It is kink, it's a sub catogory of a Dom.
This thread will be closed quicker than you can say little girl. "
I was messaged asking if I’d like to be someone’s daddy and wasn’t sure what it meant. And still trying to figure out what the attraction is. That’s all |
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"Sometimes it's age play, sometimes it's a money thing. most the time it's money  "
Where you you get your from? I think you mean a sugar Daddy, yes thats money. But a Daddy Dom, is NOTHING to do with money. |
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"Sometimes it's age play, sometimes it's a money thing. most the time it's money
Where you you get your from? I think you mean a sugar Daddy, yes thats money. But a Daddy Dom, is NOTHING to do with money. "
I know age play/ daddy dom isn't about money. But some people asking for money will say daddy too.
I'm not saying they're interchangeable. |
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I was messaged asking if I’d like to be someone’s daddy and wasn’t sure what it meant. And still trying to figure out what the attraction is. That’s all"
I'd say unless you state an interest in this role play fantasy on your profile anyone contacting you asking for it is probably expecting a financial transaction to take place! |
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"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"
 I think you've misunderstood what I've said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You would have to ask the person. A daddy for me would be a daddy dom which I see as a dominant who takes on a caring role. A sugar daddy holds no appeal to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"
Is Ddsm something you indulge in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"
I like it when someone throws in some educating information. You clearly no what you are talking about so thank you for explaining the difference. It’s good to learn |
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"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"
You need to relax! The man only asked a question! Phew angry much!
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"If you have to "understand" then step away from the Daddy!
It's not younger girls. Its not insest, it can be age play, but 99% not. Its not sugar Daddy. It is kink, it's a sub catogory of a Dom.
This thread will be closed quicker than you can say little girl. "
Why the attitude, he asked a question.
Nobody is born with knowledge of all kinks, everyone has to learn. |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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If they are looking for a Dd/lg dynamic then it's a bdsm based relationship with a loving an nurturing role.
Sometimes it can incorporate some degree of age play where the "little" behaves in an age range, again this can be sexual or not... Some littles like to watch Disney films and cuddle or do colouring.
It's based on a more emotional connection rather than a typical Dom/sub relationship. Where even though there still is that connection it has another aspect to it |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
bristol |
"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"
Up to a point I would agree, however Dd/lg can incorporate into swinging too, like most aspects of bdsm it is all interchangeable depending on the couple and the relationship itself.
In the past I have had a slave who was a little, based on various aspects between us we also were swingers. |
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"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see You need to relax!
The man only asked a question! Phew angry much! "
There's no such thing as a daft question if you don't know the answer.
Aggressive responses only make people shy away from asking questions. How else do people learn and understand other than asking questions?
Way too much anger and aggression in some of their replies, well said.
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"I see a few profiles of younger girls looking for daddies. I’m trying to understand the kink. Is it a kink? Or are they just wanted someone who’s going to lavish them with gifts and money and give nothing back?
Or am I looking at all this wrong? "
You have to ask them individually is my guess as there's more than one answer.
Gut feeling and experience is that a larger percentage are money and gift related rather than age play or something they're into for pleasure alone.
Shame as it spoils it when you're contacted and think omg a woman much younger than me likes older guys.
I know there are some who do you just have to go into it with open eyes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Hev) get messages from younger men (and occasionally older than me) asking me to be their "mum" or "mommy"
Is this a fetish thing also. I always have visions of being fetched round black bags of dirty laundry xx |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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"I (Hev) get messages from younger men (and occasionally older than me) asking me to be their "mum" or "mommy"
Is this a fetish thing also. I always have visions of being fetched round black bags of dirty laundry xx"
Daddy dom/Mummy domme are both in the same category as mentioned in my earlier response  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"
Educate? Most of us are here for fun, not to be "educated". I'm afraid you come across as rather aggressive and arrogant. The OP only asked a question to which there are almost as many answers as there are people who indulge in that particular kink. Personally we find this and any other kind of role play a turn off, but thank goodness we're all different. |
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By *rotica xCouple
over a year ago
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We met on a sugardaddie site but completely clicked because he’s a Dom Daddy and I’m his baby girl. Completely to do with sub categories- a woman can be older and a man younger but still be called Daddy. We get off on it - much like people call each other baby, or women call their hubbys in America “Daddy, Papi...” etc it is what the two people make of it
Hope this sort of helps |
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Thank you to everyone that replied. I’ve learnt a lot, and especially from the PMs that I got.
But from what I can see, it’s basically how I’ve always treated my women when I’m in a relationship. Care for them, look after them, treat them, etc.
Let’s not get started on the money side though lol |
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"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see
Educate? Most of us are here for fun, not to be "educated". I'm afraid you come across as rather aggressive and arrogant. The OP only asked a question to which there are almost as many answers as there are people who indulge in that particular kink. Personally we find this and any other kind of role play a turn off, but thank goodness we're all different."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive encounted this a few times, I was speaking to a girl once, she wanted to wear a nappy, use a bottle,dummy, call me daddy?? Im open minded but I have to admit it put me off, am I in the wrong place?  |
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