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over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
You make it sound like we are incredibly needy....
What is normal sized anyway??
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5'9" or 5'10" is about average, not saying you're needy just that short chaps tend to put more effort in, I suspect because they don't get laid as often.
Fab seems to have far greater percentage of men 5'7" and shorter than the country as a whole. |
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"As long as he meets my other preferences and is still noticeably taller than I am. your 4ft9 I am taller than you a bit lol"
Everyone is taller than I. A few centimeters smaller is maximum height for a little person, but I have seen little people taller than I. |
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I openly admit I can be a bit heightist  no shade on the man, it's just I don't feel womanly if they're not tall or taller or even more built than me 
But then again if they're personality is banging and other physical features are spot on then I wouldn't turn them down even if they are 5'8! |
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We are both short, we don’t give a crap about height, not sure why anyone does, it’s just sexy fun, nothing more. Think singles are more bothered about height than couples |
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For me it’s not only about height it’s also about build. As A taller larger lady I’m less attracted to men who are shorter and slight whereas I am occasionally attracted to shorter but muscular build.
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"For me it’s not only about height it’s also about build. As A taller larger lady I’m less attracted to men who are shorter and slight whereas I am occasionally attracted to shorter but muscular build.
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And by shorter I mean at least 3-4” shorter. But for me personally anything more than that isn’t in my preference
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"This makes short men seem like a fetish or something  . I always find it funny when we read a profile who say they want a tall man etc.
Don’t worry just get it in your head that it’s normally either very butch women or women other issues that can only meet tall men, you are not missing out, you’ll no longer worry  "
Neither butch nor have issues, we're allowed preferences  |
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"We love short guys I'm 5'2 hubby is 5 foot we would love to find a couple same hight as us not in to tall men x"
Why can’t more people like you too be closer.
It’s not us that’s short it everyone else that’s to tall |
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"This makes short men seem like a fetish or something . I always find it funny when we read a profile who say they want a tall man etc.
Don’t worry just get it in your head that it’s normally either very butch women or women other issues that can only meet tall men, you are not missing out, you’ll no longer worry
Neither butch nor have issues, we're allowed preferences "
Sorry, think you missed the point, just enabling guys to give themselves invalid reasons as to why someone won’t meet them   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just for reference, the average height for a guy in the UK is 5'9.
Every family photo taken since I was 16 looks like I'm on the set of Lord of the rings. |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
You make it sound like we are incredibly needy....
What is normal sized anyway??
5'9" or 5'10" is about average, not saying you're needy just that short chaps tend to put more effort in, I suspect because they don't get laid as often.
Fab seems to have far greater percentage of men 5'7" and shorter than the country as a whole."
Don’t get laid as often? As far as stupid answers go that is right up there with them  must be the thinner air up there in the clouds 
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"Great, another "Height" thread where us short guys can all feel really bad about ourselves "
Just focus on those who don’t have an issue with it; like most physical attributes - there’s nothing you can do about it to change it, so no point wasting time or energy worrying about it.
My wife is taller than me and normally wears at least a 4” heel, and normally she wouldn’t give anyone under 6’ a second look, but she’s still with me 20 years on.
And remember some of the most successful men in history have been short-arses |
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?"
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud. |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud."
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then |
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
You make it sound like we are incredibly needy....
What is normal sized anyway??
5'9" or 5'10" is about average, not saying you're needy just that short chaps tend to put more effort in, I suspect because they don't get laid as often.
Fab seems to have far greater percentage of men 5'7" and shorter than the country as a whole.
Don’t get laid as often? As far as stupid answers go that is right up there with them must be the thinner air up there in the clouds
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It's a psychological thing, studies show that women are more attracted to, and far more satisfied when they are with, men who are much taller than them. |
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud.
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then "
Potentially but then in general women find taller men more attractive and the more attractive you find someone the easier it is to orgasm when with them.
So it could be that taller men don't have to try as hard to achieve the same results. |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
You make it sound like we are incredibly needy....
What is normal sized anyway??
5'9" or 5'10" is about average, not saying you're needy just that short chaps tend to put more effort in, I suspect because they don't get laid as often.
Fab seems to have far greater percentage of men 5'7" and shorter than the country as a whole.
Don’t get laid as often? As far as stupid answers go that is right up there with them must be the thinner air up there in the clouds
It's a psychological thing, studies show that women are more attracted to, and far more satisfied when they are with, men who are much taller than them."
Hang on while I slip on my platforms and get on my step-ladder...
Ever heard of confirmation bias?
I’m sure I can find a study that says the opposite.
Remember studies get paid for by vested interests.
Hell studies have even shown that the earth is flat! |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud.
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then
Potentially but then in general women find taller men more attractive and the more attractive you find someone the easier it is to orgasm when with them.
So it could be that taller men don't have to try as hard to achieve the same results."
By in general what you really mean to say is you find taller men more attractive - and there is absolutely no problem with that, everyone is entitled to preferences But to say short men don’t get laid as often and feel that they need to compensate is just nonsense. You know most of the A list male hollywood stars are under your quoted average height and I’m sure they don’t have problems getting laid; oh and google Bernie Ecclestone and his wife - his height has really not done him any favours... |
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
You make it sound like we are incredibly needy....
What is normal sized anyway??
5'9" or 5'10" is about average, not saying you're needy just that short chaps tend to put more effort in, I suspect because they don't get laid as often.
Fab seems to have far greater percentage of men 5'7" and shorter than the country as a whole.
Don’t get laid as often? As far as stupid answers go that is right up there with them must be the thinner air up there in the clouds
It's a psychological thing, studies show that women are more attracted to, and far more satisfied when they are with, men who are much taller than them.
Hang on while I slip on my platforms and get on my step-ladder...
Ever heard of confirmation bias?
I’m sure I can find a study that says the opposite.
Remember studies get paid for by vested interests.
Hell studies have even shown that the earth is flat!"
Maybe you can and you are free to do so but then 3% of studies say climate change is a myth. I suppose the league of tall men could've paid for a study to say that women find tall men more attractive but it's unlikely isn't it.
Confirmation bias is fascinating but it is generally taken into account by psychologists, and of course it works both ways. I'm not for one second saying that all women find taller men attractive just that the studies show that a significant majority do. This can be due to a number of factors, evolutionary and social but it is definitely a thing. |
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud.
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then
Potentially but then in general women find taller men more attractive and the more attractive you find someone the easier it is to orgasm when with them.
So it could be that taller men don't have to try as hard to achieve the same results.
By in general what you really mean to say is you find taller men more attractive - and there is absolutely no problem with that, everyone is entitled to preferences But to say short men don’t get laid as often and feel that they need to compensate is just nonsense. You know most of the A list male hollywood stars are under your quoted average height and I’m sure they don’t have problems getting laid; oh and google Bernie Ecclestone and his wife - his height has really not done him any favours... "
By in general I mean what I know from girl friends and the studies written on the subject. Good looking men will always be able to get laid but statistically a good looking big man will be more attractive to women than a good looking little man, it's not fair but it it's one of those things.
As for Bernie Ecclestone, do you think he would have the same wife were he not fabulously rich and powerful? Power is another aphrodisiac after all. |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
You make it sound like we are incredibly needy....
What is normal sized anyway??
5'9" or 5'10" is about average, not saying you're needy just that short chaps tend to put more effort in, I suspect because they don't get laid as often.
Fab seems to have far greater percentage of men 5'7" and shorter than the country as a whole.
Don’t get laid as often? As far as stupid answers go that is right up there with them must be the thinner air up there in the clouds
It's a psychological thing, studies show that women are more attracted to, and far more satisfied when they are with, men who are much taller than them.
Hang on while I slip on my platforms and get on my step-ladder...
Ever heard of confirmation bias?
I’m sure I can find a study that says the opposite.
Remember studies get paid for by vested interests.
Hell studies have even shown that the earth is flat!
Maybe you can and you are free to do so but then 3% of studies say climate change is a myth. I suppose the league of tall men could've paid for a study to say that women find tall men more attractive but it's unlikely isn't it.
Confirmation bias is fascinating but it is generally taken into account by psychologists, and of course it works both ways. I'm not for one second saying that all women find taller men attractive just that the studies show that a significant majority do. This can be due to a number of factors, evolutionary and social but it is definitely a thing."
It would be interesting to see the height of the women asked to take part in these studies, and if you have links to any I’d love to read some - genuine request not looking to be a smart (short ) arse
And totally agree with you on confirmation bias, and actually used climate change as an example in another thread |
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
You make it sound like we are incredibly needy....
What is normal sized anyway??
5'9" or 5'10" is about average, not saying you're needy just that short chaps tend to put more effort in, I suspect because they don't get laid as often.
Fab seems to have far greater percentage of men 5'7" and shorter than the country as a whole.
Don’t get laid as often? As far as stupid answers go that is right up there with them must be the thinner air up there in the clouds
It's a psychological thing, studies show that women are more attracted to, and far more satisfied when they are with, men who are much taller than them.
Hang on while I slip on my platforms and get on my step-ladder...
Ever heard of confirmation bias?
I’m sure I can find a study that says the opposite.
Remember studies get paid for by vested interests.
Hell studies have even shown that the earth is flat!
Maybe you can and you are free to do so but then 3% of studies say climate change is a myth. I suppose the league of tall men could've paid for a study to say that women find tall men more attractive but it's unlikely isn't it.
Confirmation bias is fascinating but it is generally taken into account by psychologists, and of course it works both ways. I'm not for one second saying that all women find taller men attractive just that the studies show that a significant majority do. This can be due to a number of factors, evolutionary and social but it is definitely a thing.
It would be interesting to see the height of the women asked to take part in these studies, and if you have links to any I’d love to read some - genuine request not looking to be a smart (short ) arse
And totally agree with you on confirmation bias, and actually used climate change as an example in another thread "
If you google Stulp, Buunk, Pollet 2013 you'll find an excellent study. |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud.
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then
Potentially but then in general women find taller men more attractive and the more attractive you find someone the easier it is to orgasm when with them.
So it could be that taller men don't have to try as hard to achieve the same results.
By in general what you really mean to say is you find taller men more attractive - and there is absolutely no problem with that, everyone is entitled to preferences But to say short men don’t get laid as often and feel that they need to compensate is just nonsense. You know most of the A list male hollywood stars are under your quoted average height and I’m sure they don’t have problems getting laid; oh and google Bernie Ecclestone and his wife - his height has really not done him any favours...
By in general I mean what I know from girl friends and the studies written on the subject. Good looking men will always be able to get laid but statistically a good looking big man will be more attractive to women than a good looking little man, it's not fair but it it's one of those things.
As for Bernie Ecclestone, do you think he would have the same wife were he not fabulously rich and powerful? Power is another aphrodisiac after all."
I used Bernie as (perfect) example that countered your statement, and as you rightly pointed out, he’s got wealth and power in his arsenal, both powerful attraction attributes, and you kind of contradicted your own point about short arsed getting laid less - rich powerful shorties are always going to getting laid easier and more often than the 6 foot plus, loser, still living in his mums spare room - taking a physical attribute in isolation is a pointless especially when you try and apply it to a very broad generalisation. Now if height is someone fetish/kink then fine I’d get your point of view - again this brings us back to the studies, if you selected the panel from a group of women who already had a preference for tall men, your going to get a result that backs up the statement that women prefer taller men. (Maybe sponsored by Jacamo? )
I’m surprised I have had the ‘short man syndrome’ thrown at me yet Genuinely not looking to have a row, just find human behaviour to quite fascinating - especially reading some of the stuff that gets posted |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
You make it sound like we are incredibly needy....
What is normal sized anyway??
5'9" or 5'10" is about average, not saying you're needy just that short chaps tend to put more effort in, I suspect because they don't get laid as often.
Fab seems to have far greater percentage of men 5'7" and shorter than the country as a whole.
Don’t get laid as often? As far as stupid answers go that is right up there with them must be the thinner air up there in the clouds
It's a psychological thing, studies show that women are more attracted to, and far more satisfied when they are with, men who are much taller than them.
Hang on while I slip on my platforms and get on my step-ladder...
Ever heard of confirmation bias?
I’m sure I can find a study that says the opposite.
Remember studies get paid for by vested interests.
Hell studies have even shown that the earth is flat!
Maybe you can and you are free to do so but then 3% of studies say climate change is a myth. I suppose the league of tall men could've paid for a study to say that women find tall men more attractive but it's unlikely isn't it.
Confirmation bias is fascinating but it is generally taken into account by psychologists, and of course it works both ways. I'm not for one second saying that all women find taller men attractive just that the studies show that a significant majority do. This can be due to a number of factors, evolutionary and social but it is definitely a thing.
It would be interesting to see the height of the women asked to take part in these studies, and if you have links to any I’d love to read some - genuine request not looking to be a smart (short ) arse
And totally agree with you on confirmation bias, and actually used climate change as an example in another thread
If you google Stulp, Buunk, Pollet 2013 you'll find an excellent study."
Thank you - I shall have a read
It’s not top shelf material is it, it so embarrassing having to ask somebody to pass something down to you |
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud.
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then
Potentially but then in general women find taller men more attractive and the more attractive you find someone the easier it is to orgasm when with them.
So it could be that taller men don't have to try as hard to achieve the same results.
By in general what you really mean to say is you find taller men more attractive - and there is absolutely no problem with that, everyone is entitled to preferences But to say short men don’t get laid as often and feel that they need to compensate is just nonsense. You know most of the A list male hollywood stars are under your quoted average height and I’m sure they don’t have problems getting laid; oh and google Bernie Ecclestone and his wife - his height has really not done him any favours...
By in general I mean what I know from girl friends and the studies written on the subject. Good looking men will always be able to get laid but statistically a good looking big man will be more attractive to women than a good looking little man, it's not fair but it it's one of those things.
As for Bernie Ecclestone, do you think he would have the same wife were he not fabulously rich and powerful? Power is another aphrodisiac after all.
I used Bernie as (perfect) example that countered your statement, and as you rightly pointed out, he’s got wealth and power in his arsenal, both powerful attraction attributes, and you kind of contradicted your own point about short arsed getting laid less - rich powerful shorties are always going to getting laid easier and more often than the 6 foot plus, loser, still living in his mums spare room - taking a physical attribute in isolation is a pointless especially when you try and apply it to a very broad generalisation. Now if height is someone fetish/kink then fine I’d get your point of view - again this brings us back to the studies, if you selected the panel from a group of women who already had a preference for tall men, your going to get a result that backs up the statement that women prefer taller men. (Maybe sponsored by Jacamo? )
I’m surprised I have had the ‘short man syndrome’ thrown at me yet Genuinely not looking to have a row, just find human behaviour to quite fascinating - especially reading some of the stuff that gets posted "
The thing is you are using a specific to counter what is a general point. Bernie Ecclestone gets laid because he is rich and powerful, were he 6’2” the research says he’d likely get laid even more.
A good looking guy who is 6’2” and broad shouldered will generally be considered more attractive by women than if he were 8-10 inches shorter. It’s not fair but it is the case. There will always be exceptions and anecdotes that contradict this but anecdotes are not evidence. |
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud.
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then
Potentially but then in general women find taller men more attractive and the more attractive you find someone the easier it is to orgasm when with them.
So it could be that taller men don't have to try as hard to achieve the same results.
By in general what you really mean to say is you find taller men more attractive - and there is absolutely no problem with that, everyone is entitled to preferences But to say short men don’t get laid as often and feel that they need to compensate is just nonsense. You know most of the A list male hollywood stars are under your quoted average height and I’m sure they don’t have problems getting laid; oh and google Bernie Ecclestone and his wife - his height has really not done him any favours...
By in general I mean what I know from girl friends and the studies written on the subject. Good looking men will always be able to get laid but statistically a good looking big man will be more attractive to women than a good looking little man, it's not fair but it it's one of those things.
As for Bernie Ecclestone, do you think he would have the same wife were he not fabulously rich and powerful? Power is another aphrodisiac after all.
I used Bernie as (perfect) example that countered your statement, and as you rightly pointed out, he’s got wealth and power in his arsenal, both powerful attraction attributes, and you kind of contradicted your own point about short arsed getting laid less - rich powerful shorties are always going to getting laid easier and more often than the 6 foot plus, loser, still living in his mums spare room - taking a physical attribute in isolation is a pointless especially when you try and apply it to a very broad generalisation. Now if height is someone fetish/kink then fine I’d get your point of view - again this brings us back to the studies, if you selected the panel from a group of women who already had a preference for tall men, your going to get a result that backs up the statement that women prefer taller men. (Maybe sponsored by Jacamo? )
I’m surprised I have had the ‘short man syndrome’ thrown at me yet Genuinely not looking to have a row, just find human behaviour to quite fascinating - especially reading some of the stuff that gets posted
The thing is you are using a specific to counter what is a general point. Bernie Ecclestone gets laid because he is rich and powerful, were he 6’2” the research says he’d likely get laid even more.
A good looking guy who is 6’2” and broad shouldered will generally be considered more attractive by women than if he were 8-10 inches shorter. It’s not fair but it is the case. There will always be exceptions and anecdotes that contradict this but anecdotes are not evidence."
A good point, a rich, powerful man will invariably pick a slim, tall lady as a mate whatever there own height very rarely will they pick a heavy set women, so given the choice the majority of men would pick a slim tall women but that argument would never wash here in fab, just as this argument over height won’t wash... |
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the whole tall, short, big cock, little cock, black, white, Asian, Bi, gay, straight and so so many others is such a mute debate -
You are what you are and you like what you like.
Personally being short has never impacted my life (ok top shelf in a supermarket is a pain) and it’s definitely had no detrimental effect on my sex life thus far -
Do i try harder, nope -
I’m me and you can take me or leave me either way that’s the great thing with freedom of choice |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud.
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then
Potentially but then in general women find taller men more attractive and the more attractive you find someone the easier it is to orgasm when with them.
So it could be that taller men don't have to try as hard to achieve the same results.
By in general what you really mean to say is you find taller men more attractive - and there is absolutely no problem with that, everyone is entitled to preferences But to say short men don’t get laid as often and feel that they need to compensate is just nonsense. You know most of the A list male hollywood stars are under your quoted average height and I’m sure they don’t have problems getting laid; oh and google Bernie Ecclestone and his wife - his height has really not done him any favours...
By in general I mean what I know from girl friends and the studies written on the subject. Good looking men will always be able to get laid but statistically a good looking big man will be more attractive to women than a good looking little man, it's not fair but it it's one of those things.
As for Bernie Ecclestone, do you think he would have the same wife were he not fabulously rich and powerful? Power is another aphrodisiac after all.
I used Bernie as (perfect) example that countered your statement, and as you rightly pointed out, he’s got wealth and power in his arsenal, both powerful attraction attributes, and you kind of contradicted your own point about short arsed getting laid less - rich powerful shorties are always going to getting laid easier and more often than the 6 foot plus, loser, still living in his mums spare room - taking a physical attribute in isolation is a pointless especially when you try and apply it to a very broad generalisation. Now if height is someone fetish/kink then fine I’d get your point of view - again this brings us back to the studies, if you selected the panel from a group of women who already had a preference for tall men, your going to get a result that backs up the statement that women prefer taller men. (Maybe sponsored by Jacamo? )
I’m surprised I have had the ‘short man syndrome’ thrown at me yet Genuinely not looking to have a row, just find human behaviour to quite fascinating - especially reading some of the stuff that gets posted
The thing is you are using a specific to counter what is a general point. Bernie Ecclestone gets laid because he is rich and powerful, were he 6’2” the research says he’d likely get laid even more.
A good looking guy who is 6’2” and broad shouldered will generally be considered more attractive by women than if he were 8-10 inches shorter. It’s not fair but it is the case. There will always be exceptions and anecdotes that contradict this but anecdotes are not evidence."
Why do you keep saying it’s not fair, not fair to who? Do you think short people need pity for not being tall? You even called shorter men not normal! It’s not a disability!
I’ve never felt I’ve missed out on anything (pro basketball excepted ) because of my height, and the simple answer to most things is too simply not worry about the things that I can’t change, and I seem to have muddled through and done ok for myself - even my tall mates think I punch above my weight (or should that be height?) with my wife, but hey I can’t be getting laid because, we’ll because short blokes don’t - can you not see how ridiculous that sounds? What next blue eyed women get more dick than brown eyed ones? I’m sure there’s a study that would agree with that somewhere.
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"I like to feel protected and have a big, tall man drape his arms around me. I don’t like short men, it’s a bit of a turn off. I wouldn’t date anyone shorter than 5’7” really. "
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"I'm not into them per se but they do try much harder than a normal sized man and are far more grateful.
Try harder lol. How So?
Put more effort in to make up for their perceived inadequacy. It's the silver lining to the short man syndrome cloud.
By the same reasoning all tall men must be shit and lazy shags then
Potentially but then in general women find taller men more attractive and the more attractive you find someone the easier it is to orgasm when with them.
So it could be that taller men don't have to try as hard to achieve the same results.
By in general what you really mean to say is you find taller men more attractive - and there is absolutely no problem with that, everyone is entitled to preferences But to say short men don’t get laid as often and feel that they need to compensate is just nonsense. You know most of the A list male hollywood stars are under your quoted average height and I’m sure they don’t have problems getting laid; oh and google Bernie Ecclestone and his wife - his height has really not done him any favours...
By in general I mean what I know from girl friends and the studies written on the subject. Good looking men will always be able to get laid but statistically a good looking big man will be more attractive to women than a good looking little man, it's not fair but it it's one of those things.
As for Bernie Ecclestone, do you think he would have the same wife were he not fabulously rich and powerful? Power is another aphrodisiac after all.
I used Bernie as (perfect) example that countered your statement, and as you rightly pointed out, he’s got wealth and power in his arsenal, both powerful attraction attributes, and you kind of contradicted your own point about short arsed getting laid less - rich powerful shorties are always going to getting laid easier and more often than the 6 foot plus, loser, still living in his mums spare room - taking a physical attribute in isolation is a pointless especially when you try and apply it to a very broad generalisation. Now if height is someone fetish/kink then fine I’d get your point of view - again this brings us back to the studies, if you selected the panel from a group of women who already had a preference for tall men, your going to get a result that backs up the statement that women prefer taller men. (Maybe sponsored by Jacamo? )
I’m surprised I have had the ‘short man syndrome’ thrown at me yet Genuinely not looking to have a row, just find human behaviour to quite fascinating - especially reading some of the stuff that gets posted
The thing is you are using a specific to counter what is a general point. Bernie Ecclestone gets laid because he is rich and powerful, were he 6’2” the research says he’d likely get laid even more.
A good looking guy who is 6’2” and broad shouldered will generally be considered more attractive by women than if he were 8-10 inches shorter. It’s not fair but it is the case. There will always be exceptions and anecdotes that contradict this but anecdotes are not evidence.
Why do you keep saying it’s not fair, not fair to who? Do you think short people need pity for not being tall? You even called shorter men not normal! It’s not a disability!
I’ve never felt I’ve missed out on anything (pro basketball excepted ) because of my height, and the simple answer to most things is too simply not worry about the things that I can’t change, and I seem to have muddled through and done ok for myself - even my tall mates think I punch above my weight (or should that be height?) with my wife, but hey I can’t be getting laid because, we’ll because short blokes don’t - can you not see how ridiculous that sounds? What next blue eyed women get more dick than brown eyed ones? I’m sure there’s a study that would agree with that somewhere.
I’ll get down off my soapbox now (I don’t like heights )"
You really need to stop creating straw men, not once did I say short men don't get laid, merely that taller men get laid more easily because in general women find them more attractive. |
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