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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Every single one of us will encounter rejection at some point or another....
After all, not a single one of us meets everyones preferences.
But does it "hurt" to different degree's for different people? I guess it relates to everyones level of confidence???
How do you feel after being rejected? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was only thinking about this earlier. In real life I have suffered the worst kinds of rejection there is and its massively effected the way I handle rejection on here, which is not well. It's the ghosting that gets me...fucking brutal.
(I have had a lot of vodka) |
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My wife rejects me sexually because im a Tranny
But i have no problem with this still in love
But sexually she wants a mans man and i totally get that .
Just wish we could find a regular guy for her fun who doesnt mind a tranny in the background . |
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Happened to me today, friends for ages, lots of chat on here and via text....an hour before meeting.......blocked on here and on phone !! No reason, no sorry changed my mind, I wouldn’t mind but we got on brilliantly.....now that hurts  |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"Every single one of us will encounter rejection at some point or another....
After all, not a single one of us meets everyones preferences.
But does it "hurt" to different degree's for different people? I guess it relates to everyones level of confidence???
How do you feel after being rejected? "
It depends really.....sometimes rejection comes slowly and gradually, as in, somebody no longer replies to your texts, or doesn’t send a text to say ‘hello’ on their own volition....it is disappointing and if you want to establish some sort of platonic friendship as well as the sex, it can be even sad. But you learn to move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every single one of us will encounter rejection at some point or another....
After all, not a single one of us meets everyones preferences.
But does it "hurt" to different degree's for different people? I guess it relates to everyones level of confidence???
How do you feel after being rejected? "
Bothers me 5% maximum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's a rejection from someone I care about, that hurts. Anyone else and it can get shrugged off very easily 
Holly
That’s my hurt !! "
I just saw your earlier comment. I'm sorry lovely. That is very callous of them. It's not much, but sending virtual hugs. I've been there and it can be extremely hurtful and confusing
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"If it's a rejection from someone I care about, that hurts. Anyone else and it can get shrugged off very easily
Holly
That’s my hurt !!
I just saw your earlier comment. I'm sorry lovely. That is very callous of them. It's not much, but sending virtual hugs. I've been there and it can be extremely hurtful and confusing
Thank
Holly"
Thank you holly, I’ve been here long enough to realise I’ve been taken for an idiot xx
(((((Hugs))))) |
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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago
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I used to get hurt by it but getting used to the fickle nature of some fabbers and just let it go over me now.
The annoying part is when they pop up a month later like nothing’s happened and wonder why you blank them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every single one of us will encounter rejection at some point or another....
After all, not a single one of us meets everyones preferences.
But does it "hurt" to different degree's for different people? I guess it relates to everyones level of confidence???
How do you feel after being rejected? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re all individuals so it will affect us all differently. If it’s someone I’m interested in on Fab then no it doesn’t bother me. If it’s a friend then yes it would. "
don't reject me then hold me close to you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares tbh, you’re not going to be everyone’s cup of tea, so take it on the chin, brush it off, onwards and upwards or whatever other corny phrase you wanna use |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every single one of us will encounter rejection at some point or another....
After all, not a single one of us meets everyones preferences.
But does it "hurt" to different degree's for different people? I guess it relates to everyones level of confidence???
How do you feel after being rejected? "
With people doesn’t bother me, in life events depends what it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know I'm not everyone's type. But I don't send out messages first so I don't experience rejection on here. If I did and was rejected, I would just move on. No need to concentrate on it. |
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As a couple we arent usually rejected but it does happen once every blue moon.
Our worst rejection was by the male half of a couple in their home. He was weird and lost all interest whereas the ladies fell in love very quickly and were all over each other in a flash. It was amazing to watch. He immediately put a stop to it, led his partner into another room and made her cry !?!?. Needless to say my partner was quite upset too. Some weird folk on here... |
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It used to yes, yes ago....im now older and wiser and I look at it this way.. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but I'm me, I don't put on a front for anyone, if someone doesn't like me for who I am then that's not my problem, it's theirs...im happy with who I am and the people who know me know I'm a good,kind caring person... Each to their own.xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get rejected and I reject, could be a whole load of reasons. I am not arrogant enough to think I can get everyone I want as we all have different tastes and goals. It can of course be disappointing if they are your type but just dust it off and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My life is rejection. ...not only on here but in normal life...
I've tried to form relationships with ladies of 10 occasions this year. .nothing works....it's all rejection, failure and disappointment. Obviously it's all my fault. I'm very giving,generous, attentive and accommodating. All they do is take,take,take.....just really pisses me off.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just got to be respectful and honest. If you do both of those you would hope people are adults and don’t get offended, everyone has a type. "
This. A straight ‘Not my type thanks’ is so much better than a long drawn out ‘soft let down’ which implies you can’t handle them saying no. It’s an implied lack of respect for my emotional maturity which is insulting. |
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We had a social meet this week - great night but they said we weren't for them.
We'd done the exact same to a couple a week before
No problems - as my husband says - Live by the sword die by the sword. Doesn't really bother us - we'd rather people be honest and we have to much respect for ourselves and others to be anything else. That's why we insist on social meets first |
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"I get rejected and I reject, could be a whole load of reasons. I am not arrogant enough to think I can get everyone I want as we all have different tastes and goals. It can of course be disappointing if they are your type but just dust it off and move on "
Agree totally with this, luckily I'm at an age where it doesn't hurt as much, when I've been rejected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every single one of us will encounter rejection at some point or another....
After all, not a single one of us meets everyones preferences.
But does it "hurt" to different degree's for different people? I guess it relates to everyones level of confidence???
How do you feel after being rejected? "
i dont recall being rejected but if it were someone i hadnt met it would have no affect at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No such thing as rejection in life it just wasn't meant to be for what ever reason, if you start thinking your being rejected you will fall in to negativity and that's deffiently not an atractive trait, better off staying positive and some one will want you for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every single one of us will encounter rejection at some point or another....
After all, not a single one of us meets everyones preferences.
But does it "hurt" to different degree's for different people? I guess it relates to everyones level of confidence???
How do you feel after being rejected? "
I think it only really hurts when the person (or people) seem like a really good match and you start to picture all the fun you could have, only to be told 'no thank you'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think about it to be honest. If someone says "thanks but no thanks" I know I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea which is fine x"
i dont drink tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rejection is a part of life. I think the problem comes from (men in particular) people thinking swinging is about have sex with loads of people. Some people do have little morals and will sleep with almost anyone. But the vast majority want a form of connection at least before play. Even the prettiest suffer some rejection on here. We recently had a gorgeous lady approach us but we turned her away as she was a smoker. It’s a case of suck it up. |
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
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Some couples only what me (Mrs) to play with them, even though they first ask if we both will play.
We promptly send face pictures and most come back stating my husband is not their ‘cup of tea’ after nearly 4 years of rejection, I know it hurts him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's preferences, you get rejected one day and you reject someone the next, so it's a mutually agreed play, we have to go by the preferences..
Not much whine about. Just move on |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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I think it depends. If it's just being rejected on here after a first message/social or whatever it doesn't bother me. But if we've been seeing someone regularly for a long time, and we all feel like friends and we just get ghosted it stings a bit. More the fact we thought we were friends and they couldn't just tell us they didn't want to continue with what we were doing, rather than that they rejected us.
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