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So we’ve all done it
Checked out a profile , amazing body pics , the excitement is building etc and then you get sent the face pic and it’s not at all what you are expecting
What do you do then ?
A face I’m attracted to is my weakness - after all I’m intending to do some serious snogging !! lol
What’s a girl supposed to do ??
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"I panic, especially if I've already done a lot of flirting. But avoid ghosting them. I generally lean towards, sorry but I don't think it's going to work. Can get very awkward  "
Yep that’s me too !! ... I could never be dismissive after saying their pics look nice before the face pic so then have to gently leave |
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By *isser36Man
over a year ago
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Truthfully.. Am always gutted but always say, thank you but your not my type, am more attracted to someone's face than body as I love kissing and its your face am going to be seeing most of. If that attraction isn't there it just won't work for me. |
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We generally find being polite and sending a respectful reply such as "Christ did you fall out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down" or "WOW, you guys abuse the right to be ugly" works best?? Just kidding we just say "sadly you're not what we are looking for, happy fabbing". Surely everyone on here realises we're not all to everyone's taste  |
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"We generally find being polite and sending a respectful reply such as "Christ did you fall out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down" or "WOW, you guys abuse the right to be ugly" works best?? Just kidding we just say "sadly you're not what we are looking for, happy fabbing". Surely everyone on here realises we're not all to everyone's taste "
Haha love this !!! Your actual reply is pretty spot on for me but I hate it cos you know that THEY know you are really saying ‘yep fancied your body but the face is a deal breaker’ |
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"We generally find being polite and sending a respectful reply such as "Christ did you fall out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down" or "WOW, you guys abuse the right to be ugly" works best?? Just kidding we just say "sadly you're not what we are looking for, happy fabbing". Surely everyone on here realises we're not all to everyone's taste
Haha love this !!! Your actual reply is pretty spot on for me but I hate it cos you know that THEY know you are really saying ‘yep fancied your body but the face is a deal breaker’ "
Hahaha well we don't think we're bad looking but we still get the "no thanks" replies but it's no skin off our noses, I think people take all this too seriously, we love the fun but we love having a laugh as well.  |
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"We generally find being polite and sending a respectful reply such as "Christ did you fall out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down" or "WOW, you guys abuse the right to be ugly" works best?? Just kidding we just say "sadly you're not what we are looking for, happy fabbing". Surely everyone on here realises we're not all to everyone's taste
Haha love this !!! Your actual reply is pretty spot on for me but I hate it cos you know that THEY know you are really saying ‘yep fancied your body but the face is a deal breaker’
Hahaha well we don't think we're bad looking but we still get the "no thanks" replies but it's no skin off our noses, I think people take all this too seriously, we love the fun but we love having a laugh as well. "
Exactly the right attitude .: I’m well aware that my look will not appeal to all but it doesn’t bother me  |
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"We generally find being polite and sending a respectful reply such as "Christ did you fall out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down" or "WOW, you guys abuse the right to be ugly" works best?? Just kidding we just say "sadly you're not what we are looking for, happy fabbing". Surely everyone on here realises we're not all to everyone's taste
Haha love this !!! Your actual reply is pretty spot on for me but I hate it cos you know that THEY know you are really saying ‘yep fancied your body but the face is a deal breaker’
Hahaha well we don't think we're bad looking but we still get the "no thanks" replies but it's no skin off our noses, I think people take all this too seriously, we love the fun but we love having a laugh as well.
Exactly the right attitude .: I’m well aware that my look will not appeal to all but it doesn’t bother me "
That's how everyone should be...totally the right attitude. Ps you're hot  |
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over a year ago
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"So we’ve all done it
Checked out a profile , amazing body pics , the excitement is building etc and then you get sent the face pic and it’s not at all what you are expecting
What do you do then ?
A face I’m attracted to is my weakness - after all I’m intending to do some serious snogging !! lol
What’s a girl supposed to do ??
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Happens with men also.
I get pics from women after talking to them to find this.
I just steer the conversation in a different direction and don't act intrested. |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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"We generally find being polite and sending a respectful reply such as "Christ did you fall out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down" or "WOW, you guys abuse the right to be ugly" works best?? Just kidding we just say "sadly you're not what we are looking for, happy fabbing". Surely everyone on here realises we're not all to everyone's taste
Haha love this !!! Your actual reply is pretty spot on for me but I hate it cos you know that THEY know you are really saying ‘yep fancied your body but the face is a deal breaker’ "
Ahh best one I've heard was
"geez son, you didn't just fall out of the ugly tree, you were gang fucked by the entire forest" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want people to just post a body pic and a face pic (less important)
Definitely a bakini photo with the head missing atleast.
Obviously it's wierd not posting a face pic. It's like catfishing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics  starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something  not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
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Shut it your gorgeous iv seen your head. |
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"So we’ve all done it
Checked out a profile , amazing body pics , the excitement is building etc and then you get sent the face pic and it’s not at all what you are expecting
What do you do then ?
A face I’m attracted to is my weakness - after all I’m intending to do some serious snogging !! lol
What’s a girl supposed to do ??
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Double bagger or doggy is the answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
Shut it your gorgeous iv seen your head."
you're just toooooo kind! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
Shut it your gorgeous iv seen your head.
you're just toooooo kind!"
Handsome Face xx very |
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"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
Shut it your gorgeous iv seen your head.
you're just toooooo kind!"
Now I wanna see the head lol |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
Shut it your gorgeous iv seen your head.
you're just toooooo kind!
Now I wanna see the head lol "
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"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
Shut it your gorgeous iv seen your head.
you're just toooooo kind!
Now I wanna see the head lol lol"
Just to confirm yes face is good as the body |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
Shut it your gorgeous iv seen your head.
you're just toooooo kind!
Now I wanna see the head lol lol
Just to confirm yes face is good as the body "
He's gorgeous. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
Shut it your gorgeous iv seen your head.
you're just toooooo kind!
Now I wanna see the head lol lol
Just to confirm yes face is good as the body "
Must be a 9/10 looking at that fine specimen!! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm ALWAYS getting chinned off when I send face pics starting to think I must look like Susan Boyle's cousin or something not impressed.
I swear I'm a solid 4 out of 10.
Must try harder.
Must be because I'm from Glasgow, or maybe that I'm a squaddie that usually means I've never showered and must be riddled with diseases. I'm not. Pinky promise.
Even have all my own teeth. Wtf.
I survive though
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Must be the squaddy thing then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks are always subjective. Not everyone is universally handsome/pretty.
I know some good looking people(that I would consider as close to universally good looking as you could get),that are not even acknowledged as such by others(a few couples I know)!
Crazy world.
There again,I am a sucker for a pretty face...more so than body! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldnt give a shit ! Surely its all about the person isnt it ? Shallow thread i think,( runs for cover as the pack of wolves think about their retorts !! ) |
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"We generally find being polite and sending a respectful reply such as "Christ did you fall out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down" or "WOW, you guys abuse the right to be ugly" works best?? Just kidding we just say "sadly you're not what we are looking for, happy fabbing". Surely everyone on here realises we're not all to everyone's taste "
Damn!
Knew I shouldn't have climbed that tree when I was younger!
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"Couldnt give a shit ! Surely its all about the person isnt it ? Shallow thread i think,( runs for cover as the pack of wolves think about their retorts !! )"
So you don’t want to meet with people that you are attracted to physically then ? |
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"So we’ve all done it
Checked out a profile , amazing body pics , the excitement is building etc and then you get sent the face pic and it’s not at all what you are expecting
What do you do then ?
Sit on it
A face I’m attracted to is my weakness - after all I’m intending to do some serious snogging !! lol
What’s a girl supposed to do ??
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By *axo25Man
over a year ago
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Everyone is different. I’ve always found strong features or little quirks very sexy. Perfectly symmetrical faces (which are usually deemed to be the most attractive) never really do it for me.
So I say be honest, just because they’re not your cup of tea it doesn’t mean he won’t be the next ones ideal match.
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"I panic, especially if I've already done a lot of flirting. But avoid ghosting them. I generally lean towards, sorry but I don't think it's going to work. Can get very awkward "
Yep. That’s why I’d rather share face pics early. It’s happened too much. You see a face and think oh!!! Then it becomes really awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couldnt give a shit ! Surely its all about the person isnt it ? Shallow thread i think,( runs for cover as the pack of wolves think about their retorts !! )"
I don’t think that’s shallow. For me it’s not all about the personality. It’s about the whole package. If I’m not physically attracted to someone it’s not going to happen no matter how nice a personality they have. I also need to like their face. If that’s shallow then I guess I’ll shallow. |
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"Couldnt give a shit ! Surely its all about the person isnt it ? Shallow thread i think,( runs for cover as the pack of wolves think about their retorts !! )
I don’t think that’s shallow. For me it’s not all about the personality. It’s about the whole package. If I’m not physically attracted to someone it’s not going to happen no matter how nice a personality they have. I also need to like their face. If that’s shallow then I guess I’ll shallow. "
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Some faces on here have surprised me. Perhaps there was a higher expectation, given how great their body pics are. They don't always correlate and it has made for awkward conversations in the past. Especially if I've engaged first for a bit and not requested to see one.
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"Couldnt give a shit ! Surely its all about the person isnt it ? Shallow thread i think,( runs for cover as the pack of wolves think about their retorts !! )
I don’t think that’s shallow. For me it’s not all about the personality. It’s about the whole package. If I’m not physically attracted to someone it’s not going to happen no matter how nice a personality they have. I also need to like their face. If that’s shallow then I guess I’ll shallow. "
That’s right ... it’s not being shallow. The face is important to me for attractiveness
I would say shallow is more about being with someone you don’t find attractive for maybe material reasons - money etc not because you don’t fancy them |
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"Some faces on here have surprised me. Perhaps there was a higher expectation, given how great their body pics are. They don't always correlate and it has made for awkward conversations in the past. Especially if I've engaged first for a bit and not requested to see one.
Holly"
Perfectly put
That’s prob why I’ve always put up face pics. Would rather that person messaging me finds all of me attractive than the awkwardness that they don’t like my face ... same as showing my ink - not everyone likes tattoos on women so if I didn’t shoe it st the start it could be a deal breaker |
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You have to fancy someone.. In the vanilla world, first thing anyone looks at is the face... Plus kissing is important... I'm no oil painting.. Lack of meets confirms that...  |
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"So we’ve all done it
Checked out a profile , amazing body pics , the excitement is building etc and then you get sent the face pic and it’s not at all what you are expecting
What do you do then ?
A face I’m attracted to is my weakness - after all I’m intending to do some serious snogging !! lol
What’s a girl supposed to do ??
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This is why, on the very rare occasions I send an intro message, I always include a face pic and a screen insurance claim form.
We can't all be for everyone, I'm ok with a read+delete or a no thanks.
What's the point of getting upset about it?
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's all about the face for me. Doesn't even have to be classically beautiful. A face with character can bowl me over.
I especially like dimples there is something about a face with dimples.
Body type doesn't generally phase me.
My face is more likely to be on baywatch over my body, unless there is a episode with a beached whale  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't message unless I see a face pic on their profile
I don't message back unless there's one with a message (unless it's from a forumite I recognise)
Saves the hassle when the bag comes off
Face over body every day of the week |
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"I don't message unless I see a face pic on their profile
I don't message back unless there's one with a message (unless it's from a forumite I recognise)
Saves the hassle when the bag comes off
Face over body every day of the week"
Same. I haven't got time to waste chatting to people I'm not attracted to. |
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"Good subject this....So what if .......you don’t have a bay watch body .......but the face is kinda alright, where does that put you?
Face is def THE most important for me "
*contemplates a face pic.....  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Good subject this....So what if .......you don’t have a bay watch body .......but the face is kinda alright, where does that put you? "
Not everyone prefers a Baywatch body! I'd much rather be with a guy who has a nice face over a Adonis type body. |
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